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Art of CommunicationArt of Communication
In the Light of Self In the Light of Self DevelopmentDevelopment
Victor KannanVictor Kannan
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Paradigm ChangesParadigm Changes Changing TimesChanging Times Changing MindsetChanging Mindset Changing sensitivity to words and its Changing sensitivity to words and its
meaningmeaning
Continuous evolution of Continuous evolution of consciousnessconsciousness
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One has to learn constantlyOne has to learn constantly&&
PRACTICE TOOPRACTICE TOO
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Importance of LanguageImportance of Language Communication requires conversion of Communication requires conversion of
thoughts to a languagethoughts to a language
Master the languageMaster the language• Learn wordsLearn words
Localize Localize
Body LanguageBody Language
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AVOIDAVOIDDISCONNECTING LANGUAGEDISCONNECTING LANGUAGE
MORALISTIC JUDGMENTMORALISTIC JUDGMENT- good, bad, right, - good, bad, right, wrongwrong
LABELSLABELS BLAMEBLAME - implying fault - implying fault NO CHOICENO CHOICE - - ‘‘cancan’’tt ’’ ‘‘mustmust’’ ‘‘have tohave to’’ DEMAND DEMAND - open or hidden threat- open or hidden threat IMPOSING MY JUDGMENTIMPOSING MY JUDGMENT - - ‘‘shouldshould’’ ‘‘oughtought’’
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Improving Speaking EnglishImproving Speaking English Reading newspapers Reading newspapers Watching English moviesWatching English movies Writing down new words and Writing down new words and
understanding its usageunderstanding its usage Paying attention to sentence constructionPaying attention to sentence construction
Learning 5 new words and its usage a day Learning 5 new words and its usage a day will drastically improve one's languagewill drastically improve one's language
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Non Verbal CommunicationNon Verbal Communication Dress neatly Dress neatly Smell rightSmell right Be PunctualBe Punctual
• Shows you careShows you care Prepare for the audiencePrepare for the audience Have a good knowledge of the Have a good knowledge of the
subjectsubject
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Dark ShadowMy mother, a meticulous housekeeper, often lectured my father about tracking dirt into the house. One day he came in to find her furiously scrubbing away at a spot on the floor and launching into a lecture. "I don’t know what you’ve brought in," she said, "but I can’t seem to get this out."
He studied the situation for a moment and, without a word, moved a figurine on the window-sill where the sun was streaming in. The spot immediately disappeared.
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Farm and Family
A man and his wife were taking an afternoon drive through the countryside. They had just had a big argument and were not talking to one another. Finally the husband decided to break the silence and say something sarcastic to his wife: “Look at all the cows and pigs in the pasture. Don’t they remind you of your relatives?”
The wife replied, “Yes, they do. They remind me of my in-laws.”
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Five Simple LessonsFive Simple LessonsTo Improve your communication skillsTo Improve your communication skills
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Lesson 1 - Be Positive & Lesson 1 - Be Positive & Precise Precise
Tell people what you want done and Tell people what you want done and NOT what you don't want done, what NOT what you don't want done, what you like NOT what you don't like. you like NOT what you don't like.
To draw attention, you must be brief, To draw attention, you must be brief, precise and may confirm once. precise and may confirm once.
Identify monotony, monologue and over Identify monotony, monologue and over communication. communication. • Avoid them as it will lead to blunting Avoid them as it will lead to blunting
the listener's attention.the listener's attention.
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Lesson 2 – ObserveLesson 2 – Observe Ask a friend to record your Ask a friend to record your
conversation with people and listen to conversation with people and listen to its playback and improve.its playback and improve.
Observe your reaction to your parents, Observe your reaction to your parents, children, siblings and spouses and see children, siblings and spouses and see if you behave the exactly same manner if you behave the exactly same manner as your dislike of those dear ones. as your dislike of those dear ones.
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Lesson 3 – Teach yourselfLesson 3 – Teach yourself
Listen to great speeches and learn what Listen to great speeches and learn what and how the speaker speaks and holds and how the speaker speaks and holds the attention of the audience. the attention of the audience.
You will normally find them in short You will normally find them in short speeches like Ted, Presidential speeches speeches like Ted, Presidential speeches and commemoration addresses.and commemoration addresses.
Join Toast Masters International. Join Toast Masters International.
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Lesson 4 – Listen WellLesson 4 – Listen Well Intonation, pauses, acknowledgements Intonation, pauses, acknowledgements
are all part of listening.are all part of listening. A great listener alone can be a great A great listener alone can be a great
communicator. communicator.
Create opportunity to interact with Create opportunity to interact with open ended questionsopen ended questions
Avoid antagonism & argumentationAvoid antagonism & argumentation
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Lesson 5 - PrepareLesson 5 - Prepare Mind body languageMind body language
• Smile, Eye contactSmile, Eye contact
Be organized! Tell jokes and storiesBe organized! Tell jokes and stories
Have pictures, quotes and charts Have pictures, quotes and charts
Be Precise with time and the message. Be Precise with time and the message.
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Lesson 6 – Finally Use your Lesson 6 – Finally Use your heartheart
Using the heart does not mean Using the heart does not mean emotionalemotional
Be Caring and Concerned Be Caring and Concerned
Be Sincere and HumbleBe Sincere and Humble
Leave the audience with a nice feeling Leave the audience with a nice feeling
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VideosVideos
http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?vwww.youtube.com/watch?v=4kyvjEpXuPg=4kyvjEpXuPg 3 Min – (Speaking 3 Min – (Speaking Effectively – Videojug) Effectively – Videojug)
http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?vwww.youtube.com/watch?v=c8_BIamLESg=c8_BIamLESg - 6 min (Improve your - 6 min (Improve your speaking – Conor Neill)speaking – Conor Neill)
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Thank youThank you