How To Overcome The Fear In Job Search

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How to Overcome the fear in Job Search You MUST Breakthrough It! You MUST Breakthrough It!

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This was a presentation about changing your beliefs and attitudes to regulate the fear that most people have during a job search.

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How to Overcome the fear in Job Search

You MUST Breakthrough It!You MUST Breakthrough It!

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It all comes down to yourATTITUDES and BELIEFS

Dreams

Purpose

Passion

Courage

Goals

Simplify

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It all comes down to ATTITUDES and BELIEFS

Dreams

Purpose

Passion

Courage

Goals

Simplify

Laughter

Expect the best

Be Kind

Rejoice and Sing

Love

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What Type of People Are What Type of People Are Here?Here?

An informal Survey

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My Goals for YouMy Goals for You

Create value

Give a Gift

Impart Knowledge

Deliver Motivation

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Harvard StudyHarvard Study

Listening

Actively participate

Have fun

10%- 20 %

20%-80%

100%

“Learning is remembering”

-Socrates-

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Commitments for Commitments for TodayToday Have fun

Stretch yourself

Respect each other

Play team

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How’s Your Energy Level?How’s Your Energy Level?

-Exercise-

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You must BREAKTHROUGH You must BREAKTHROUGH It!It!

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You must You must BREAKTHROUGH your BREAKTHROUGH your comfort zonecomfort zone

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Comfort Zone Comfort Zone StrategiesStrategies

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Pick A partnerPick A partner

Belief that your parents gave you!

What do you want to breakthrough in

2009?

What are some things that are

stopping you?

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FOCUS FOCUS

I X F = PR

This is what stops most of us!

What you choose to Focus on, will

Determine how you Feel in that

MomentFEAR FEAR

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Human BehaviorHuman Behavior

Behavior/ Victim?/Hero?

Event/input/Job Loss

Focus (why me)

State

Physiology

What’s your Mental State???

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What is your attitude about What is your attitude about successful people?successful people?

How do we learn?

Success leaves clues.

Find someone that has gotten the

result you want.

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What is a Belief?What is a Belief?

A feeling of Certainty

Roger Bannister

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What to model

BS

Strategy

Physiology

Energy

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What’s Your What’s Your Strategy?Strategy?

Motivation only takes you so far

It is a recipe for success

Top Executives share one formula (ErL)

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Interview strategiesInterview strategies

Energy (Whoa Clap) Turn FIP

Matching and Mirroring

Define what you want before you sit

down

Why-Values/Motivators

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The 4 M’s of LifeThe 4 M’s of Life

Metaphor

Modeling

Moments

Meaning

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What is YOUR Belief

What is stopping you?

What is your 4 minute mile?

How will you Breakthrough in 2009?

Expose recurrent patterns?

How will you get out of your own way?

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Let’s take a moment for clarity

-Exercise-

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What is YOUR Belief….about this? Can you Breakthrough?

Is it easy?/Will it HURT?

What if I break my hand?

Have people done it in the past?

What are your references?

Can they be Shaken up? (Release)

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Let’s Demonstrate! Who Thinks they can do this?

Who believes that they CANNOT?

Who is in the Middle?

Who believes that with the right

strategy YOU CAN DO IT?

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The 4 M’s of Board The 4 M’s of Board BreakingBreaking

Metaphor

Modeling

Moments

Meaning

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5 Keys to efficiency5 Keys to efficiency Stance

Speed

Snap

Breathe

Whole Body/ Whole EarthModeling a strategy

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What’s Your Strategy?Next 24 Hours Are Crucial.

What Action Will You Take on your Top

4 Goals?

What Strategies will you use to

reinforce them?

What’s your motivation?

Who will you get to help you?

Whose recipe for success will you use?

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Things to RememberThings to Remember

The Journey and Your Happiness

5, 10, 20 years

Take Action

Be a lifelong learner

Give more than you receive

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You Should Still Dream

Have Purpose

Live with Passion

Have Courage

Create Goals

Simplify your life

Laugh often

Expect the best

Be Kind

Rejoice and Sing

Love

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Shifting results.

Because even Tiger Woods gets distinctions from his coach