How To Develop A Prosperity(Wealthy) Mindset.

Dr Kingsley Mayowa Okonoda. CEO, Netwealth Consult

Introduction.‘It is not what we don’t know that prevent us

from succeeding, it’s what we know that just isn't so that is our greatest obstacle’.

This seminar is not only about ‘learning’, it’s also about ‘unlearning’.

You could have two people sitting side by side in exactly the same room, learning exactly the same strategies and tools. one person would take these tools and sky-rocket to success, while the next person would remain the same!

You could have the best tools(strategies and systems)in the world, but if you’ve got a tiny leak in your toolbox(your mind) you’ve got a problem.

There is an inner game of money and success and when we combine the inner game(the toolbox) with the outer game( the tools), the results will sky rocket.

This seminar will teach you how to blend the inner game with the outer game to achieve total success.

It is important to realize that your old ways of thinking and being have gotten you exactly where you are right now.

If you are really rich and happy, fine. But if you’re not, this seminar will challenge you to consider some possibilities that may not fit into what you ‘think’ is right.

The story of the man at the edge of a cliff.

Man falling from a cliff

Balloons of different sizes

Your Wealth Can Only Grow To The Extent That You Do.

Your Wealth Can Only Grow To The Extent That You Do.Have you being failing in your business

endeavors, career or finances?Are you looking for a new ‘right’ opportunity

or business? You have been searching outside yourself for

the answer. Have you ever considered that maybe ‘you’ are part of the problem?

If you keep putting more ‘money’ into a small person, they will quickly burst!

Have you heard of people who have ‘blown up’ financially? Who have had big money and lost it? Or have had sweet opportunities go sour on them?

Now you know the real cause. On the outside it may look like bad luck, a downturn in economy, a lousy partner ,whatever………

On the inside, if you do come into some big money (increase in salary, lottery etc) when you are not ready on the inside, your wealth will be short-lived. Chances are good you will lose it.

To change your results( fruits ), you may have to change your thoughts(root).

Process of manifestation= TFARThoughts>>Feelings>>Actions>>Results.

Not having enough money is never much of a problem.

If the problem exists, it’s in your thinking and how that thinking manifests through feelings and actions to produce your results.

It is a result of conditioned and largely automatic thinking.

Your money and success ‘blueprint’Each of us have a personal money and

success blueprint already ingrained in our subconscious mind and this blueprint will determine your financial destiny.

This blueprint is a preset plan/programme or way of being in relation to money; just like the blueprint of a house is a preset plan or design for that particular house.

Your blueprint manifests your financial reality through the TFAR formular.

How your money blueprint is formed.

Your financial blueprint consists primarily of the ‘programming’ you received in your past, especially as a child.

The primary sources of this conditioning are parents, siblings, friends, authority figures, teachers, religious leaders, media and your culture.

Take culture. Isn’t it true that certain cultures have certain ways of thinking and

Take culture. Isn’t it true that certain cultures have certain ways of thinking and dealing with money, while in some cultures it is completely different?

Do you think a child comes out of the womb with those ways of being?

The child is ‘taught’ how to think about and act in relations to money.

The same holds true for you! You may not realize it at the time.

You then run with this conditioning for life!

3 Primary Methods of Conditioning.

Verbal Programming; what you heard when you were young.Modeling; what you saw when you were young.Specific Incidents; what you ‘experienced’ when you were

young.

Verbal Programming.What did you hear about money, wealth and

rich people when you were growing up?Did you hear phrases like;

Money is the root of all evil.Save your money for the raining day.Rich people are greedy.You have to work hard to make moneyMoney doesn’t grow on trees

You can’t be rich and spiritual.What am I made of……money?Money doesn’t buy happiness.Money talks.Money is not everythingThe rich gets richer and the poor get

poorer.That’s not for people like us.And the infamous…..we can’t afford

it.

Most statements like these that you heard when you were young are still with you in your subconscious mind and are running your financial life.

The story of Stephen>>Never had a problem ‘earning’ money, his challenge was keeping it.

ModelingWhat were your parents or guardians like in

the arena of money when you were growing up?

Did one or both of them manage money well or did they mismanage it?

Were they spenders or savers?Were they investors or non-investorsDid money come easily in your family or was

it a struggle?

Cooked Ham

The story of the woman whose mother cut two ends of the ham

Specific Incidents What did you

experience when you were young around money, wealth and rich people?

These experiences are extremely important because they shape the beliefs or illusions you now live by.

Story of operating room nurse whose father died of heart attack during an argument about money.

What is your money blueprint set for?This is the million dollar question.What is your current money and success

blueprint subconsciously set for?Are you set for success, mediocrity or for

financial failure?Are you programmed for struggle or ease

around money?Are you set for working hard for your money

or being in balance?

Are you conditioned for having a consistent or inconsistent income?

It may appear as though the reasons for these drastic fluctuations come from the outside world ;’I got a good job and the company folded up, then I started my own business and things were booming but the market dried up, my next business was doing well but my partner left’ etc.

Regardless of how things appear on the outside, everything that happens in your physical reality comes from the ‘inside’.

One of the simplest ways to tell what your personal money and success blueprint is set for is to look at your results. Look at the ‘fruits’ that will tell you what ‘roots’ have been planted.Look at your bank account.Look at your income.Look at your net worth.

Look at your consistency.Look at whether you are a spender or a

saver.Look at your success with investments.Look at your business success.Look at your relationships that involve

money.Is money a struggle?Do you work hard for your money?Do you own a business or do you have a job?Do you stick with one thing for a long time or

do you jump around a lot?

Fortunately or unfortunately, your personal money and success blueprint will tend to stay with you for the rest of your life unless you identify it and change it.

We provide workshops and one on one training/consultation on reconditioning yourself for success.

The importance of ‘Rich Thinking’Your present financial conditions are the

perfect barometer for determining your present conditioning. You’re programmed to automatically achieve exactly what you’ve got now.

If you want to become successful, you must change your present programming which may not be set for success and replace it with programming that is.

Awareness and consciousness: We often think we live our lives based on ‘choices’. This is not always the case. Most ot the time we are like robots running on automatics, ruled by our past conditioning and old habits.

Consciousness is observing yourself and your thought processes so you can live from true choice in the present rather than programming form the past.

Observe your thoughts, your beliefs, your fears, your habits, your actions, your inactions.

Note that believes are not true or false, right or wrong. They are merely opinions that have been passes down from generation to generation to you.

Knowing this, you can choose to release any thought, belief or way of life that is not supportive to your wealth and replace it with one that is.

Discover the importance of Rich Thinking.Rich people have a way of thinking that is

different from poor and middle class people.They think differently about money, wealth,

themselves, other people, and life.We're going to examine some of the

differences between how rich people think and how poor or middle class people think.

By doing so, you will have some alternative beliefs in the files of your mind from which to choose.

In this way, you can catch yourself thinking as poor people do and quickly switch over to how rich people think.

PRACTICE THINKING RICHHere's an opportunity to Think Rich right

now. Say the following Declaration out loud to yourself (into a mirror is ideal):

"TO CHANGE MY OUTER WORLD, I MUST FIRST CHANGE MY INNER WORLD.“

Did you say the declaration out?Or did you ignore the practice as being ‘not

for me’?

Naturally, saying declarations alone is not sufficient to totally replace your current programming, but it's a valuable step.

More importantly, your willingness to embrace this time tested and proven process is the key to your general willingness to embrace any changes that will help you achieve what you truly deserve--unlimited abundance!

How the rich and the poor think.RICH PEOPLE BELIEVE "I CREATE MY

LIFE.“(financially).Poor people believe "Life happens to me.“If you want to create wealth, it is imperative

that you believe that you are at the steering wheel of your life;

Instead of taking responsibility for what's going on in their lives, poor people choose to play the role of victim.

Of course, any "victim's" predominant thought process is "poor me.“

Through the law of intention that's literally what they get; "poor," as in money, me.

How can you tell if someone is playing the victim? They leave three obvious clues.

Clue #1: BlameThey blame the economy, they blame their type of business, they blame the government,.

they blame the stock market, they blame their employer, they blame their employees, or they blame their up-line or their down-

line.It's always something else or someone else.The problem is always anything or anyone

else, but them.

Clue #2: Justifythey justify their situation by saying

something like, "Money's not really important."

If you said your husband or your wife or your boyfriend or girlfriend or your partner or any friend whatsoever, wasn't all that important, would they be around for very long? Doubtful!

Clue #3: ComplainingComplaining is the absolute worst possible

thing you could do for your health or your wealth. Why?

Because there is a universal law that says, "what you focus on expands." When you are complaining what are you focusing on?

You are obviously focusing on what's wrong with it and, you'll keep getting more of what's wrong

Seven day challenge: For the next seven days, I challenge you not to complain at all. Not just out loud, but in your head too.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A RICH VICTIM!

Yet being a victim definitely has its rewards. Attention. Is attention important? Absolutely,

for many people it's what they live for.

DECLARATION #1I CREATE THE EXACT AMOUNT OF MY

WEALTH!RICH PEOPLE PLAY THE MONEY GAME TO

WIN.Poor people play the money game not to lose.Poor people play the money game on defense

rather than offense.

Their primary concern is survival and security, not wealth and abundance.

Rich people's big goal is to have massive wealth and abundance.

Poor people's big goal is to have "enough to pay the bills...”

When your objective is to have enough to pay the bills, that's exactly how much you'll get; just enough to pay the bills and usually not a kobo more.

Middle class people go a step further ... a tiny step.

Their big goal in life is to be "comfortable."Well, you should know that there's

comfortable and then there's rich and they are not the same.

If you go for comfortable, chances are you won't get rich. But if you go for rich, chances are you'll be very comfortable.

DECLARATION #2MY GOAL IS TO CREATE EXTREME

WEALTH AND ABUNDANCERICH PEOPLE ARE COMMITTED TO BEING

RICHPoor people are uncommitted to being rich.Are there reasons why it might not be so

great to be rich or go through the process of trying to get rich?

. Let's see….

What if I make it and lose it? Then I'm really a failure.

I'll never know if people like me for myself or my money.

It's too much work.The more I earn the higher tax rate I'll pay.Everyone's going to want a handout.I might lose my health trying.My loved ones or I could be kidnapped.

Each of us has a file on wealth in our mind.This file contains our personal beliefs that

include why being wealthy would be great.But for many people, their file also

includes information as to why being rich might not be so great!

These mixed messages are one of the biggest reasons that most people never become rich.

In fact, the #1 reason most people don't get what they want is they don't know what they want.

Rich people are totally clear they want wealth. They are unwavering in their desire. They are

fully committed to creating wealth. They will do "whatever it takes" to have wealth

as long as it's moral, legal and ethical.

Getting rich is not a "stroll in the park.“It takes focus, expertise, 100% effort, and

"never say die" perseverance.You have to really commit to it, both

consciously and subconsciously.You have to believe in your heart you can do

it and you deserve it. If you are not fully committed to creating

wealth, chances are you won't.

DECLARATION #3:

I COMMIT TO BEING RICH!WHERE ATTENTION GOES ENERGY FLOWS

AND RESULTS SHOW

DECLARATION #4:I THINK BIG! I CHOOSE TO SERVE A

MASSIVE NUMBER OF PEOPLE!RICH PEOPLE THINK BIGPoor people think small.RICH PEOPLE ARE BIGGER THAN THEIR

PROBLEMSPoor people are smaller than their problems.

The "Law of Income“ states that "you will be paid in direct proportion to the value you deliver according to the market place.“

In other words: How many people do you actually serve or affect?

Who are you? How do you want to live your life? How do you want to play the game?

The truth is most people choose to play small. Why?

First, fear. They're scared to death of either failure or success.

Second is unworthiness. They feel small. They don't feel they're good enough or important enough to make a big

difference.

It's not about you!It's about living your mission. It's about living true to your purpose. It's about adding your piece of the puzzle to

the world. It's about serving others.Most of us are so stuck in our egos that

everything revolves around "me, me and more me.“ It's about adding value to other people's lives.

Getting rich is not a stroll in the park. It's a journey that is full of obstacles, twists, and detours.

That's why most people don't take it. They don't want the hassles, the headaches

and the responsibilities. In short, they don't want the problems.Therein lies one of the biggest differences

between rich people and poor people.

Poor people will do almost anything to avoid anything that looks like it could be a problem or challenge.

The irony is that in their quest to make sure they don't have problems, they have the biggest problem of all... they're broke and miserable.

The secret to success is not to try to avoid or shrink your problems; it's to grow yourself so you're bigger than any problem.

DECLARATIONS #5:I AM BIGGER THAN ANY PROBLEMRICH PEOPLE FOCUS ON OPPORTUNITIESPoor people focus on problems.Rich people see potential growth. Poor people see potential loss.Rich people focus on the rewards. Poor people focus on the risks.

Is the glass half empty or half full? We're not merely talking about "positive

thinking" here, we're talking about a habitual way of seeing the world.

Poor people come from fear. Their minds are constantly scanning for

what's wrong or what could go wrong in any situation.

Their primary mindset is "What if it doesn't work?" or, more bluntly, "It won't work."

Rich people take responsibility for creating their life and come from the mindset, "It will work because I'll make it work."

In the financial world, risk is directly proportionate to reward; generally, the higher the reward, the higher the risk.

People with rich mentalities are willing to take that risk.

Rich people expect to succeed.poor people expect to fail.

DECLARATIONS #6:I SEE THE OPPORTUNITIES IN

EVERYTHINGThere is a universal law which states,

"whatever you focus on expands".Focus on problems and that's all you'll get.Focus on opportunities and you will soon

discover them everywhere you look!

Conclusion.Remember, your wealth can only grow to the

extent that you do!It's time to stop hiding out and start stepping

out. It's time to stop needing and start leading.Nothing will come your way unless you take

some form of ACTION.Remember the TFAR formular!

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