How Men Commit

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How CommitmentWorks For A Man and

How To Make Him

Commit To You

By: Mark Scott

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In this report, I will debunk many myths women have about men

and commitment. Most women dont know how, why and when

men commit. Many dont understand how to get a man to drop his

guard, and be open to the idea of commitment.

his makes it very important for you, to learn the e!act dynamics

behind how men view commitment, what makes them commit and

what makes them run away. In many ways, women take the wrong

approach when trying to get commitment from a man, and often

assume that most men are commitment phobic.

In reality" Men do want to commit, but they want to commit to theright woman, if this makes sense to you. hey dont want to be

stuck with the so called #$%&'( $&M)'*, for the rest of their

life. If you are currently stuck with a man, who wont commit and

you dont know what to do, then this report will show you e!actly

what you can do, to inspire genuine commitment from his end and

make him seal the deal.

+ere is my big promise to you If you pay full attention to all the

concepts discussed in this report and take immediate action on it,then I can almost guarantee that, you will be able to make him

commit to you without any hassles.

)lright, are you ready- ets get to it/

o begin with, Id like to tell you the big principle or foundation

behind how men view commitment. his is the most important

reason why, men dont commit or delay commitment. Men value

freedom more than anything else and in order to protect thisfreedom, theyre reluctant to commit. ) lot of research has been

done on this sub0ect, and its a proven fact that when a man is

given a choice between love and freedom, he would most likely

choose freedom 1 times out of 23.

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4ont let this fact disappoint you yet. 5ust because a man values

freedom more than anything, doesnt mean he wont commit at

all. et me tell you what makes a man commit in a single sentence

Men commit when they internally believe, that being with you

is more pleasurable than protecting their reedom!

In order to get any man to commit, you have to take certain

actions which will convince him, that being with you is the best

possible choice he can make. +e needs to know, that being with

you is going to be far more pleasurable, than protecting his

freedom of single6hood.

here are two basic drivers behind whatever we do in life. $e call

them pleasure and pain. $e are naturally inclined to do more of

the things, which give us pleasure and less of the things which give

us pain. 7very effort we take in life is directed towards, ma!imum

possible pleasure and minimum possible pain. herefore, when a

man has unconsciously come to a conclusion, that being with you

means massive pleasure and little pain, hed easily commit. here

basically 8 stages a man goes through, when it comes to the9uestion of commitment.

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o e!plain it further:

"tage # $ He %oesn&t Want Commitment'

+e has made it clear that he wont commit.

ou stick around hoping, that hell change his mind some day.

"tage ( $ He )s *nsure'

Some days he acts as if you two are a couple, and on other days

he acts like he was still single.

+e treats you like a wife;girlfriend on certain occasions, and

acts completely indifferent on others.

"tage + $ He )s eady For Commitment'

his is the stage you want your man to get to.

So my main goal, with this report is to help you transition your

relationship from stage 2 or stage


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$hen a man feels internally convinced, that he is making the right

choice, he goes straight to stage 8 and openly commits, and yes

this also applies to even the most stubborn guys who claim, that

theyll never commit. So, do you see how this works-

'ow, lets get to the meaty stuff. et me show you e!actly what

you can do, to inspire him to commit without any hard work. &ur

goal is to first, show him that you arent on the lookout to trap

him into a relationship and second, is to convince him that, being

with you is the best possible decision he can ever make. So lets

get to the main, step by step se9uence:

"tep # $ %emonstrate That You Won&t Cage Him -r .ock Him

%own'

In order to achieve this, you have to keep things casual. In other

words, dont rush things or suggest he needs to commit to you.

4ont suggest how wonderful things would be, if he turned into

your husband and had babies with you. Such things dont make a

man feel good, rather it burdens him.

Instead of thinking, how wonderful things will be he would in fact,

start picturing all the things he would miss out on if he was

married to you. +e would vividly picture how he will not have time

to go out with his friends on the weekends, how hed miss out on

other fun things, which a man can only en0oy when he is single.

So, the big idea is to make him feel that, being you with doesnt

mean he will be locked down and you can do this by keeping things

casual. 4ont e!pect commitment from him because when youdont e!pect it, thats when youre the most likely to get it. his

will become clear soon, move on to step < for now.

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"tep ( $ Make Him .ove The )dea - /eing Around You'

+ave you ever come across a person who 0ust made you feel great-

7very time they were around, you felt this sense of ease >

pleasure which you couldnt possibly e!plain- $hat happens when

we are around such a person- $hats our natural inclination- $enaturally want to spend more time with this person and want to be

around this person more often.

Similarly, this is the big idea you must follow, in order to get

commitment from a man. $hen a man gets butterflies in his

stomach at the very thought of being around you, hed want to

make it more permanent. +e must associate being with you, as an

act of massive pleasure. ou have to position yourself in his mind

in a way whereby, whenever he thinks of you he gets positive

feelings.

So how can you do this- It can be done by doing fun things

whenever you get together. Make it your goal to turn each meeting

with him, into a fruitful > fun e!perience for the both of you.

7ventually, he will start to think Wow! She is such a great girl to

be around. I have so much fun around her. She makes me feel sogood.?onse9uently, the very idea of you will bring about positive

feelings in his mind and he will naturally, want to make things

more permanent with you. +ed think This is the exact type of a

woman, I want to be around.+ed naturally want to have more of

what you have to offer. 5ust by following this one step, you

position yourself as that one6in6a6million woman who isnt easy to

find.

"tep + $ )ndirectly "uggest That You %on&t Want To ush Things'

'ormally, its the woman who is trying to convince a man to

commit but with this step our goal is to reverse that pattern.

Instead of giving him all the power, you tell him early on, that you

arent sure about anything yet and want to keep things casual.

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In other words: ou are letting him know that, you arent e!actly

sure about him and dont know, if youd like to have a future with

him or not. Some reverse psychology comes into play here and he

will start to think

m I not good enough for you

re you telling me you"re not sure about me

re you keeping your options open

'ow he isnt fearful of being trapped, rather he fears that you

might leave him for someone else. his also triggers his pursuit

gene. )s you already know, men are naturally wired to pursue

women, provided you know how to trigger the right buttons. his

will very well, trigger his pursuit gene and he will sub6consciously

want to keep you in his life.

If youre wondering how to use this step, when he has already

refused to commit, here is what you must do ou should let him

know that before, you were sure but now, youre not so sure about

a future with him. )nd to follow it up, show it with your actions.

ake a few steps back and let him come to you, instead of tryingto convince him to commit. his sudden change in attitude will

trigger his pursuit gene and dont be surprised, if he shows more

interest in you now than ever before.

"tep 0 $ 1ive Him .imited /eneits /ut 2ever Full Access'

his step is e!tremely important for many reasons. $omen usually

give everything they have to offer, even when a guy hasnt

promised any sort of commitment. If he can get full benefits

without having to pay the price, why do you think hed value you

or your time-

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Some women give a guy easy se!, do nice things for him, and go

out of their way to please him only hanging on the false hope, that

someday he will commit. But that day will never come because,

you are already giving him all the benefits a great wife;girlfriend

will offer, without any obligations.

So here is what you should do If you havent had se! with him

yet, do not let him sleep with you at any possible cost. (ently

push him away, whenever he makes an attempt to get physical.

et him know that you are only open to it when things get more

serious and the time is right.

his is good for < reasons 'umber one, if he only wanted you for

se! and nothing else, youd know it right off the bat and will save

yourself a lot of time and effort. Second, now he will look beyond

the se!ual aspect of things. Since he knows, that he isnt going to

get any action from you, he will come to you for more genuine

reasons. +e would come to you, because he genuinely wants to

spend time with you and get to know you, on a deeper level. In a

way, you also help him know you beyond the physical aspect of

things.

But, what if youve already slept with him- 'o worries" ou can

still apply a slight variation of this concept. ou have to slowly

stop having se! with him, and start distancing yourself a little. Its

important to take away this lu!ury, when you arent getting

anything in return for it. In both scenarios, our goal is to take

away full rights and only give him limited access, which is easily

achieved as long as you stick to the plan.

ets 9uickly review on what weve learned so far 6 ou understandthat in order to make him commit, you need to demonstrate that

you arent going to lock him down, make him love the idea of

being around you, suggest that you arent looking to rush things

and finally give him limited access, but not full benefits.

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et me now show you, how you can get this formula to work

properly, and attain the best possible results in the shortest

amount of time. In order to get the best possible results, you have

to follow certain actions on a day to day basis. et me e!plain it inmore detail:

Action # $ 3ractice /eing %etached From The -utcome, And

Work -n Making Your .ie /etter'

$hat do I mean, when I say practice being detached from the

outcome- $hat I mean is this $hen you work hard on getting a

man to commit, your first goal becomes doing anything and

everything to nudge him towards commitment. &ften times, you

end up doing, needy or desperate things which further push a man

away.

In order to get the best out of the steps mentioned above, you

need to start by detaching yourself from the outcome. ou arent

going to focus too hard on getting him to commit anymore. %ather,

you will work hard on making your own life better.

$hat happens when you do this- $hen you arent focused on

locking him down, but on making yourself more attractive, you

naturally position yourself as a woman, who has a fun life and is

fun to be around. +ed naturally want to spend more time with

you, because you arent focused on getting commitment from him.

)lways remember $hen being with him is an absolute necessity

for you, hed always run away. But when being with him is only an

option, and you dont act like you absolutely need to have him inyour life, hed naturally feel attracted to you and would want to

commit.

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oud find yourself in the middle of a dirty game, where he would

try to win by avoiding you, 0ust to satisfy his ego while you will

regret everything you said.

Mistake + $ %on&t Hint That )ts About Time Things 1ot "erious'

$omen, who have been with a man for some time, usually make

this mistake. ou cant convince him into commitment, in fact,

the more you try to convince, the more he will resist. $hen you

have to convince someone, it means you want them to do

something they dont wish to do. So, its never a good idea to hint,

that he needs to commit because its been too long.

Mistake 0 $ %on&t 3unish Him ight Away ) He eusesCommitment'

4ont react negatively, get angry or completely disappear if your

man refuses to commit. In fact" %emain as calm as possible, and

slowly take away all the benefits he was getting. In other words,

stop giving him easy se!, stop answering his calls all the time, stop

doing special things for him, but do it slowly.

ou have to communicate, that you arent okay with the current

situation and arent going to let him have his way, unless he

promises something in return. oud have to show him, that if hes

not interested in being e!clusive, then youll have to either keep

your options open or seek other options. ou arent going to sit

around, and wait for him to change his mind. But again, the key is

to do it slowly instead of reacting right away.

his will also trigger the fear of losing you. Sometimes, people

dont know how valuable something is, until they are about to loseit. herefore, when you take away his special benefits and

demonstrate, that you are planning on keeping your options open,

he will slowly become more open to the idea of commitment.

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)lright, now you understand all the dynamics of what makes a man

commit, and know everything you need to do, in order to get

commitment. he big key now, is to put all this knowledge into

action as fast as possible. ou wont see any results, unless you

take whatever you learned in this report, and act on it.

his is what I want you to do ne!t 6 I want you to take out a piece

of paper, and write down what stage your relationship is at right

now. hen, I want you to write the biggest take away, you got

from this report and a plan of action on how you will use these

steps, in your own personal life and relationship.

I have shown this e!act same formula, to hundreds of women in

the past, and they have all reported back with great results, in

their relationship. I hope you do the same, and take action right

away. I wish you all the best.

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