HIS_BRAIN_RevRD.ppt

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HIS BRAIN/ HER BRAIN

Why It Took Moses Forty Years

To Find His Way Out Of The

Desert


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THE BRAIN

Reptilian

Mammalian

Homo Sapien

Corpus Collosum

Wired For Survival

Unchanged 50,000 Yrs


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DEVELOPMENT

Basic Template Female

Affected By Chromosomes

XX Girl XY Boy Hormonal Wash 6-8 Week Brain

Genitals

Brain Orientation


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HIS

Hunter

Long Range Directional Skills

Spatial Sense Single Task (Charles Emerson Winchester)

Procreation

Things Pain And Empathy


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HERS

Nest Protector

Communal

More Finely Tuned Sensory Skills Multi-Tasker

Non-Verbal Communicator

People Can Process Input Faster, Integrate


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BRAIN 2

MEN Resting Brain 30%

Active

Logic

Left Brain Dominant

(Except Spatial Area)

When Speak, OnlyOne Site Active

WOMEN Resting 90%

Active

Emotive

Multi-Hemisphere,

Corpus Collossum

Speech AndHearing Centers

Active


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SPEECH

MEN Left Brain Frontal

8000 Signals

Direct, Literal

More Stutterers

Use To Compete

Emotionless Listening

Dont Feel Need To ExpressPleasure In Words

WOMEN Multiple Sites, Bilat

20,000 Signals

Indirect Language,Negotiating, Emotive

More Facile, Integrated

Use As Reward, As Bond

6 Listening Postures

Talks And Talks


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SPEECH 2

60-80% Non-Verbal Signals

20-30% Voice Sounds

7-10% Words Men Only Hear The Words

Women Hear And Use 6 Tones

Men Hear And Use 4 Tones Silence Is Not Punishment


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LYING

Women Lie To Make Others Feel Better

Men Lie To Make Selves Look Good

Men Dont Lie More, They Just KeepGetting Caught

Most Common Lie Self-Deception

The Closer A Person Is In Relationship,Harder To Lie


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SOCIAL

MEN Goal Oriented

Lone Hunter

Problem Solver

Talks Achievement

Defines Self By

Achievements

WOMEN Community Builder

Communal

Problem Sharer

Talks Relationships

Defines Self By

Relationships


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PROBLEM SOLVING

MEN Linear

Compartmentalize

Emotion Divorced

Solitary

Gives Space

Wants Answers Help Means He

Failed

WOMEN Cluster

Churns Til Solved

Emotion Involved

Communal

Wants A Hug

Wants Support Wants To Help


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SIGHT

MEN Tunnel Vision,

Great Distances

Can See ZebrasOn The Horizon

Better SpatialVision

Color Cones X-attached (WhatThe Hell IsMauve?)

WOMEN Greater Peripheral-

up To 180

Can Find The ButterIn The Fridge

Better Night Vision

Rarely Get CaughtOgling Men


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OTHER SENSES SMELL

Women Can Smell Whether A Man Has HealthyImmune System Within 3 Sec.

Most Sensitive At Ovulation

HEARING

Womens Hearing On At All Times Men Find Sound Direction Better

TOUCH Women 10X As Sensitive

Touch Releases Oxytocin Cuddle Hormone

Men Grope, Women Caress


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ATTRACTION

MAN Athletic Body

Sensitive Mouth

Full Breast

70% Waist-Hip Ratio

Round Butt

Attractive Eyes

Flat Belly Blonde

12-14 Yr Old

Meat On The Bone

WOMEN Athletic Shape Broad Shoulders, Chest

Full Hair

Sensual Mouth Kind Eyes

Strong Nose And Chin

Narrow Hips

Credit Cards


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SEX

MEN Larger Hypothalamus

Orgasm 2 Minutes

Need To Spread Seed

Relieve Tension

Really Can MeanNothing

Visual Stimulation

(Lights On)(PlayboyHandy)

Talk Dirty Before Sex

WOMEN Larger Amygdala

Orgasm 13-30 Minutes

Need Monogamy

Build Tension

Needs Emotional

Bond

Touch, Sound, (LightsOff)

Talk, Listen, Smell,

Touch


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LOVE and SCIENCE

Each Stage Has Chemical Release,

Specific Brain Activity

LUST - Physical, Non-Verbal Attraction

INFATUATION - Attempt To Form Bond WithPotential Partner: Associated With Elation

ATTACHMENT -Build Cooperative Bond ToRaise Child


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REFERENCE

WHY MEN DONT LISTEN AND WOMENCANT READ MAPS

Barbara and Allan Pease

ISBN# 0-7679-0763-9

WHY MEN DONT HAVE A CLUE AND

WOMEN ALWAYS NEED MORE SHOES Barbara and Allan Pease

#ISBN 0-7679-1610-7


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QUESTIONS?

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