Henry M. Carter,MBA HOW TO DEVELOP A WELL MADE MAN.

Henry M. Carter,MBA

HOW TO DEVELOP A

WELL MADE MAN

WELL MADE MAN

Objectives

•Expose participants to the benefits of dressing for success

•Inform participants how public speaking can be a rewarding skill for anyone looking to improve their career situation.

•Stimulate the appreciation of reading books that will improve their professional and personal development.

•Promote the importance of traveling

•Provide keys to having a well-balanced life.

Statistics

• Only 41% of Black men graduate from high school in the United States.

Schott Foundation for Public Education

Statistics

• Just 22 % of Black males who began at a four-year college graduated within six years.

National Student Clearinghouse/Study by Consortium on Chicago School Research at U of Chicago

Statistics

• Of Black males born this year, 29% can expect to spend some time behind bars.

• One in 14 Black children has a parent in jail or prison.

• One in 20 Black men is incarcerated, compared with one in 155 White men.

Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, “Prison and Jail Inmates at Midyear 2010,” April 6, 2011

MANHOOD

A real man cannot be defined by money,Power and status. There are traits thatmen must posses in order to be a good

Provider and Protector

MANHOOD

WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER TO BE GOOD TRAITS OF

MANHOOD?

MANHOOD TRAITS

Courage (strengths that allow one to accomplish goals in the face of opposition)

•Bravery

•Persistence/tenacity

•Integrity/self-reliance

•Vitality

•Organization

•Prudence(cool calm & collected)

MANHOOD TRAITS

Humanity (strengths of tending and befriending others)•Love•Kindness•Social Intelligence•Humor

MANHOOD TRAITS

Justice (strengths that build healthy community)

•Responsibility/Loyalty/Teamwork

•Fairness

•Respect

•Leadership

MANHOOD TRAITS

Temperance (strengths that protect against excess i.e. moderation)

•Forgiveness and Mercy

•Humility and Modesty

•Truthfulness/Honor

•Sound Judgment)

•Self-control/Disciplining Your Disappointments

The Five Wells of a Well Made Man

Well Dressed

Well Read Well Spoken

Well Traveled

Well Balanced


Well Dressed

•Adj.1.well-dressed - Having tasteful clothing and being neat and well-groomed

•groomed - neat and smart in appearance; well cared for


Well Dressed

First Impression

“You attract what you are”


Well Dressed


Well Read Leaders are Readers and Readers are Leaders

•Words create thoughts and thoughts create beliefs and beliefs create actions and actions create RESULTS

•Thinking + Leadership = $


Well ReadWell-Read - highly educated; having extensive information or understanding; "knowing instructors"; "a knowledgeable critic"; "a knowledgeable audience"


Well Read


Well Spoken

•well-spoken adj (well spoken when postpositive)

1.(Linguistics) having a clear, articulate, and socially acceptable accent and way of speaking


Well SpokenPublic speaking skills

•Public speaking creates an aura of confidence

•The ability to speak in public can be a truly rewarding skill for anyone looking to improve his or her career situation

•Public speaking teaches one how to communicate ideas clearly

•Public speakers are uniquely situated and empowered to make a difference in their communities


Well Spoken


Well Traveled


Well Traveled It's a great, big world waiting to be explored, which should be reason enough for all men to travel. As men, we're thrilled by the unknown.

According to recent figures from the U.S. Department of State, only roughly 30% of

Americans have a PASSPORT.


Well TraveledMeet New People Eat New Foods Learn a New Language


Well Balanced


MAN RULES

•Man rule: You should never try to look better than your woman.

•Man rule: A man is judged by how well he takes care of his family

•Man rule: A man should only set the standards in the household when he is obedient to Creator


Man Rules •Man Rule: Always spend more time with your family than your friends

•Man Rule: A man should not squander family resources

•Man Rule: Always be a father first and a friend second to your children

•Man Rule : Leave a legacy for your children to pass on to their children


Man Rules•Man Rule: Maintain a position of strength because the family will feed off your disposition

•Man Rule: Constantly improve your intellectual prowess. It is difficult to lead with an empty mind

•Man Rule: Must teach family to be servant leaders. Let them see you helping others


I will see you at the top because the bottom is too crowded

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