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- 1. Derived from the wordhayatwhich meanslife.
2. shyness, self-respect,bashfulness,shame, honor,humility, etc. 3. Asking favours Telling truth When we need break from something Following Allahs command in society3/13/13 4 4. Following cults and peer pressure Watching vulgarity Back biting and other haram 5. O children of Adam, We have bestowed upon you clothing to conceal your private parts and as adornment. But the clothing of righteousness - that is best. That is from the signs of Allah that perhaps they will remember. 6. Bad and uneasy feeling accompanied by embarrassment, causedby ones fear of being exposed or censured for some unworthyor indecent conduct. 7. Modesty Modestyby byNatureReligion 8. The natural instincts of shyness and shame i.e. the natural feeling a person has to cover his private parts. 9. Once, Prophet Muhammad(saw)was sitting with some of his Companions and the shin of leg was not covered. In the meantime,somebody informed him aboutExample of Hazrat Usman (ra) the arrival of Hazrat Usman (ra).ProphetMuhammad(saw)immediatelycovered it and remarked, "Even the angels have regard for themodesty of Usman." 10. In the times when I am alone and even in the times of need I do no see my private parts because of Allahs Haya. Allah has told us to cover our private parts, so even in the times of need I do not see them because I feel shame from my own body. (sermon of Abu Bakr ra) 11. If a person loses modesty(Haya) then he loses Allahs fear too. And when he loses Allahs fear then his heart is dead. A person who is modest (baa haya) will try to cover himself, he will not show off his body, he will not do bad things. And the person who will cover himself will become pious, and the one who becomes pious will be saved. 12. Based on faith. A sense ofhayashould affectMajor aspect of Modesty.a Muslims conduct before Allah, before others and even when one is alone. 13. http://www.therebelution.com/modestysurvey/overview 14. Objective: What the average man thinks about modesty? By Christian guys and girls who care about modesty. Over 200 Christian girls submitted their questions. In less than twenty days Over 1,600 Christian guys (12 and up) responded Close to 200,000 separate pieces of data were collected, including 25,000 text responses. The survey was presented in a traditional five-point Agree/Disagree format. Each participant was presented with 148 positive/negative statements and was given the options to Agree, Strongly Agree, Disagree, Strongly Disagree, or remain Neutral. Each statement was accompanied by an optional text box for additional explanation. 15. A person not hurtinganother with his words,tone, or body language.Not talking rudely,unpleasantly, or notshowing bad or uncivilizedbehavior. 16. Having a critical eye on us, the way we talk, walk, behave andthink and our thoughts when we are alone. Prophet Muhammad (saw) once said that self judgment and selfrealization is haya. 17. Covering our bodyaccording to therules mentioned inShariah. 18. A person says somethingControllingintolerable to us.our immediate A person demands something wrong and negative A person talksreaction whenindecently. 19. Meeting someone in a presentable way,not being a cause ofdispleasure becauseof the way we havedressed up or the way we smell. 20. To treat children with kindnessNarrated by Hazrat Anas (R.A) Swear upon Allah I served Prophet Muhammad(saw) for 9 years. I do not remember him sayingme why you did not do this, or why you did this,if I did not do something properly, or did not dosomething I was told to do. 21. Lack of believePressures ofDesires of nafsin the existenceenvironment of Allah 22. The first condition ofacceptance of Tauba is shame, guilt, and a strong feeling thatwe have done wrong.And all these feelings comefrom Haya. 23. Sign a lifeSign of faithSign of recognition(Marfat) of AllahSense of responsibilityFeeling of being answerable for own deeds 24. Two Hilm: Not takingqualitiesimmediate and negative which reaction. Allah Haya: Not being a source of displeasure for others. Loves 25. There are different levels of Haya in everyperson, and these levels depend upon The level of The feelingThe feeling of The fear ofrecognition of that Allah isAllahs AllahAllahvery near omnipresence 26. starts to see Allahs blessing and His greatness in everything, starts to ponder upon the miracles of Allah. this creates Haya in him. (Junaid Bhaghdadi)Haya then becomes a shield between that person and bad.He stops himself from things, which are allowed in Shariah, but he feels they are not right for him. 27. Feeling shame over our mistakes.To accept that we areweak but notaccepting be hayai. 28. Deep love of Allah, thatmakes a persons tongue toseize with haya.He does not blame others forhis misdeeds 29. Feeling shame from ourselves This helps to move towards solutions Modest in his relationship with Allah.Refrain from doing bad even when alone 30. Visualizeevery situation as a test 31. You have four cameras pointing at youRecording from all directionsAnd all this will be played back in front of Allah, and all of creation! 32. You had a busy day,slept late at night, could not wake upfor fajar namaz, howwould you feel when you get up late and realize that youmissed namaz? 33. Oh! Missed again! DOES NOT MATTERNo problem it was MUCHjust one namaz 34. Feeling shame,guilt, feeling howgreat Allah is and how unthankfulwe am, and thinkof how we can avoid this infuture. 35. You come home fromwork/university,tired, exhausted, yourmother start scolding you on something that was not even your fault. 36. Shoutback at her.? 37. Understand that she ishuman too, she may beupset because of something else. So we should control ourimmediate and negativereaction and think of other persons state of mind. 38. You have a habit of talking rudely with people. 39. Dont forget thecameras !Talk to people politely, and humbly. 40. Makes us piousRealize that only Allah is great (Allah-o-Akbar)The bad inside starts to vanishCreates the attitude of gentleness in a believer