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Reformulating Sexuality
and the renunciation of Gender
Göteborgs Universitet
Instutitionen för kulturvetenskaper
Genusvetenskap
Uppsats, 15 hp, fördjupningskurs
HT 2016
Författare: Claudia Kent
Handledare: Elin Lundsten
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ABSTRACT
My main focus in this essay is to pinpoint current discourses within a section of the
queer community regarding the use of language and terminology when describing
gender, identity, sexuality and desire. In particular I have chosen to focus on inclusion
and exclusion when the labeling of sexuality is based on a binary notion of gender.
The most commonly used words for sexuality today are hetero-, homo- and bisexual
which all derive from a binary understanding of gender and a rather inflexible view on
sexual orientation. Within the queer community where gender is often transgressed,
deconstructed, politicized and frequently renounced through trans, non-binary and
gender non conforming persons it becomes futile and in many cases irrelevant or
restrictive to use cis- and heteronormative words in order to describe one’s sexual
identity in these terms.
I have chosen to use discourse analysis to study a specific discussion in an online
dating forum. The group moderator urged the other members to refrain from using
gender specific language in their personal ads as this has an essentialist tone that may
explicitly or implicitly exclude trans and gender non-conforming persons.
Key words: sexuality, language, gender, queer, identity, transgender, online dating.
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TABLE OF CONTENTSABSTRACT.......................................................................................................................... 2
BACKGROUND.................................................................................................................. 4
PURPOSE............................................................................................................................. 5
QUESTIONS AT ISSUE.................................................................................................... 6
LIMITATIONS................................................................................................................... 6
RESEARCH OVERVIEW................................................................................................ 7
THEORETICAL PERSPECTIVES.............................................................................12
MATERIAL....................................................................................................................... 13
METHOD........................................................................................................................... 15
REFLEXIVITY AND SOURCE CRITICISM...........................................................17
ANALYSIS......................................................................................................................... 19GENDER AND SEXUALITY...........................................................................................................19IDENTITY AND PRESENTATION...............................................................................................21GENDER SPECTRUMS......................................................................................................................23LANGUAGE............................................................................................................................................ 24QUEER.......................................................................................................................................................26LABELS.....................................................................................................................................................27EXCLUSION............................................................................................................................................30POLITICAL SEXUALITY..................................................................................................................32FETISCHISM...........................................................................................................................................34
CONCLUSION AND DISCUSSION............................................................................34
REFERENCE LIST......................................................................................................... 39
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BACKGROUND
Today a large part of our lives, identities and communication is played out through
various online forums. This has amongst other things enabled a strengthening of
minority groups where support, knowledge and information are accessible and
quickly shared through global networks. One such forum that has caught my interest
is a particular online dating page on Facebook for queer identified persons. I am
interested in what personal information is disclosed and what aspects of identities are
of importance in this context of finding sexual, and occasionally non-sexual partners.
In a society where cis-gender, hetero- and monosexuality is the ruling norm (along
with other desirability norms relating to race, class, body type and ability) how does
this play into a queer space where these norms are in certain aspects contested but in
other ways perhaps still being perpetuated? I would like to examine present
contention within a specific group regarding the linguistic expression of desire as
sexual identity.
Self proclaimed queer spaces and identities are, in my experience, often closely
connected to activism and politics. The second wave feminist slogan from the 70’s
“the private is political” is still today highly relevant. Queer spaces often question its
own inclusivity and call for a continuous reevaluation of who is welcomed and
recognized in these settings. Queer activists and academics have developed language,
knowledge and ways of combatting problematic, exclusionary or discriminatory acts
against people based on their gender and sexuality. There are internal battles and
struggles around the language and knowledge produced and the discourse is
constantly being renegotiated.
The material I have chosen to study is a specific post that was published on an
American queer dating Facebook group by one of the founders of the group. The post
sparked a lengthy discussion regarding whether or not people should be
gender/genital specific in their ads when seeking partners. One influential reason for
studying this specific topic has been my own encounters with the problem of defining
my sexuality with the few limiting choices available to me such as commonly
acknowledged identities like lesbian, bisexual or queer. Lesbian often times connotes
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a gender essentialism that has historically excluded trans persons and while queer has
been useful in making the point of being not normatively heterosexual and actively
eluding definition it can sometimes be rather vague. I therefore seek new ways in
communicating sexuality that neither simplifies nor derogates my entire personhood
to a singular sexual identity nor impedes on my possibility of sexual self-realization
and exploration.
PURPOSE
Through this research I wish to bring into light discourses on sexuality and how the
use of language affects, limits or expands the possibility for expressing and even
living out sexual desires. Our understanding and knowledge around sex is constantly
growing and changing and we need to keep reworking our language to keep up with
the changes in society as well as consciously reforming our language in order to
achieve political change and progress. People and groups that are breaking down
norms are crucial to restructuring society on several levels, for example in institutions
of education, health, law etc.
Through an investigation of the linguistic tendencies in queer language use we may
predict or even propose a restructuring of the ways we perceive sexuality. Movements
have worked hard to reclaim identities and words such as gay and queer but I wonder,
are we not approaching a time when these categories have achieved an academic level
of social respectability that the next move would be to renounce them? The queer
movement in particular is founded upon destabilizing what is thought of as
indisputable knowledge and perceived as a universal truth. What are the benefits of
being incorporated or even assimilated within the acceptable? Anthropologist Gayle
Rubins ‘Charmed circle’ describes the sexual hierarchy and what it means to be
included in the inner circle or in the outer circle.1 Being included in the inner circle
means that one is granted privileges of normativity such as legal protection, being
seen as a good, normal and healthy citizen. Examples of this would be
heterosexuality, monogamy and sex in a relationship. If one on the other hand inhabits
1 G. Rubin, “Thinking Sex, Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality” in Carole S. Vance Pleasure and Danger: Exploring Female Sexuality, Routledge & Kegan, Paul, 1984 p. 153
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an identity that positions you in the outer circle you may be subjected to
criminalization, state or street violence, pathologization, shame and discrimination.
The outer circle contains homosexuality, sex for money and BDSM to name a few.
This shows the great importance that sexual identity has on our lives.
The progress achieved has historically been made possible by all the people that have
contested the status quo of being deemed a second-class citizen. It has been through
unification, community and solidarity that the rights of LGBTQ people are becoming
more recognized in certain parts of the world but it is still a shockingly slow process
in comparison with the tremendous advances made in for example science and
technology. The purpose of this essay is to draw attention to what can be done and
changed in order to create a greater understanding and acceptance of sexuality as
fluid, expansive and changeable and hopefully move away from attaching identity to
sexuality.
QUESTIONS AT ISSUE
How is language used and does it challenge normative notions of sexuality based on a
gender binary?
How is this forum negotiated and what is the consensus around expressions of desire
and sexuality?
LIMITATIONS
The question of desire and sexuality is an immense subject to embrace and therefore I
have primarily chosen to narrow it down and look at the effects that language has on
our ability to express ourselves and our identities, and how this language may restrict
or open up for greater opportunities of self-actualization.
In my research it has of course been very tempting to ask ‘what is desire?’ which one
might think would lead us to the bottom of all issues surrounding sex. This is a
question that neither natural nor social scientists have been able to answer. What
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constitutes and creates our sexual desires is in psychoanalysis a subconscious
occurrence that is made visible through language. This language becomes in relations
with others a discourse that in turn lets us establish our identities. I have tried to limit
the research to mainly incorporating language regarding gender and sexuality but
acknowledge that there is a growing discourse with an intersectional view on
sexuality encompassing race, body type, ability and class.
I will concentrate on the expressions of people based on their understanding of desire
as sexuality, and what implications this has for our understanding of desire itself. I
believe that looking at how desire is expressed and spoken about in terms of identity
and sexuality that we can perhaps come a little closer to understanding the workings
of sex within our society. This might lead to a more positive stance towards people,
identities and desires that today are shamed, shunned or even criminalized.
Another difficulty in studying language is trying to find the silence, the missing
words, the empty space, the unintelligible, that which can be found at, or outside the
margins of our understanding. My hope is that this analysis may help in opening up
possibilities, that might not be immediately visible, by finding words and indicators
that challenge normative assumptions of sexuality and gender.
I view my material as a place where these empty spaces and the lack of words are
consciously being contested by formulating new words, identities and ways of
expressing sexuality that could better suit the needs of the people engaged in this
particular group. It might even eventually prove to be applicable and beneficial within
a larger heteronormative setting.
RESEARCH OVERVIEW
There has been extensive research done on the topic of language, gender and
sexuality. I have directed my focus on philosophers, linguists and researchers that
have contributed to feminist thinking, queer theory and gender studies. What most of
the previous research explores is the importance that language plays in the formation
of knowledge. Some of the texts question the existing use of language and other texts
aim at solidifying the meaning of words.
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I have found great inspiration in the writings of Don Kulick and Deborah Cameron’s
book Language and Sexuality that explores the semantic values connected to words,
how we talk about sex and why we talk about it the way we do.2 It encompasses a
broad spectrum of sexuality and includes issues surrounding sexual orientation and
identity, questions about the discursive construction of sexuality and verbal
expressions of erotic desire. The authors look at historical and current affairs while
drawing on linguistics, anthropology, psychology and psychoanalytics and make
reference to both Butler and Foucault who I have chosen as the main theorists for this
essay.
The article written by Galupo, Ramirez and Pulice-Farrow in Journal of Bisexuality
‘Regardless of Their Gender’ provides a recent study of the conceptualization of
sexual identity among bisexual, pansexual and queer identified individuals and their
differences and/or similarities.3 The authors found four relevant themes through the
analyzed data: labeling sexual identity, distinctions of attraction, explicit use of
binary/nonbinary language, and identity transcendence. In the text the word
plurisexual is used to refer to anyone who is attracted to more than one gender, such
as bisexuals, pansexuals and many queer identified persons. Heterosexuals and
homosexuals are named monosexuals since they are, in theory, only attracted to one
of the binary genders.
In their research Galupo et al. found that many of the participants used multiple labels
to describe their sexual identity. It was particularly common for queer and many
pansexuals to express a transgender identity or history, which shows that it is more
common for transexual, and I add probably gender-queer individuals to endorse a
plurisexual label. When compared to monosexuals, according to this study,
plurisexuals were less likely to feel that their sexual identity label fully captured their
sexuality.4 The purpose of this study was to illustrate when and whether grouping
bisexual, pansexual and queer identities may be useful and when it might distort an
2 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, Language and Sexuality, Cambridge University Press, 2003
3 P. Galupo, J. L. Ramirez and L. Pulice-Farrow, “Regardless of Their Gender: Descriptions of Sexual Identity among Bisexual, Pansexual and Queer Identified Individuals”, Journal of Bisexuality, nr 9, 2016, p. 1-174 P. Galupo, J. L. Ramirez and L. Pulice-Farrow, ‘Regardless of Their Gender’: Descriptions of Sexual Identity among Bisexual, Pansexual and Queer Identified Individuals, Journal of Bisexuality, nr 9, 2016, p.11.
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understanding of the diversity in plurisexual experience. This is of interest to my
study since I will through my analysis problematize the notion of basing sexuality on
gender.
Diane Richardsons Patterned Fluidities: (Re)Imagining the Relationship between
Gender and Sexuality examines the ways in which gender and sexuality have been
theorized and what can be changed in future research.5 She suggests a metaphor for
the relationship between gender and sexuality to be viewed as a shoreline, a boundary
in motion between land and sea affected by interconnecting discourses about
sexuality, gender, age, class, race and ethnicity that might be informed by wider
discourses of place, culture, religion and governmentality. The idea of both gender
and sexuality as fluid and unstable is one of the main themes for my study. Both
Foucault and Butler argue for the unstableness and changeability of sexuality and
gender.
This leads me to the authors James Horley and Jan Clarke who in their article
Constructing Sexuality: A Theory of Stability and Fluidity wrote that there are a
number of difficulties found within the contemporary study of sexuality.6 They
experience a lack of conceptual clarity and consistency due to the institutional,
community and personal politics being major obstacles. They also perceive an
absence of a broad and useful unified theory that could move research forward.
Sexuality is, in part, a linguistic construct open to interpretation, questioning and
change, which has made it hard for researchers to define these fluid and flexible
categories.
Randall. L. Sell’s article “Defining and Measuring Sexual Orientation: A Review” in
Archives of Sexual Behaviour discusses the need for a standardization of the
definitions and measures of sexual orientation if advances are to be made.7 He argues
for researchers to be critical of how they classify subjects based upon sexual
5 D. Richardson, “Patterned Fluidities: (Re)Imagining the Relationship between Gender and Sexuality”, Sociology, vol 41, no 3, 2007, p.457-74
6 J. Horley and J. Clarke, ”Constructing Sexuality: A Theory of Stability and Fluidity”, Sexuality & Culture, no 20, 2016, p. 918.
7 R. Sell, “Defining and Measuring Sexual Orientation: A Review”, Archives of Sexual Behaviour, vol. 26, no. 6, 1997, pp. 643-658
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orientation. Sell’s and Horley and Clarks articles differ from several of the others by
not seeking to deconstruct but rather attempting to find a consensus around the
meaning of sexuality. This is similar to what I believe is happening within the
Facebook group I have studied, as a negotiation aiming to unify our understanding of
sexuality and identity.
There are voices seeking clarification when studying sexuality while others are very
cautious with providing a universal solidifying meaning of it since, as I argue in this
essay, and several others including Richardson, Cameron and Kulick, that sexuality is
an ever changing and highly fluid construct.
Two authors have, for the reason of combatting discrimination, created a survey guide
that leaves little to no space for questioning and doesn’t permit a fluid or complex
experience of sexuality. Lucy Haseldon and Theodore Jolozas made a handbook for
the Office for National Statistics in the UK 2009 called Measuring Sexual Identity- a
guide for researchers.8 It provides guidelines on how to include sexual identity in
surveys with the purpose of estimating how many people in the population are
lesbian, gay or bisexual. This can then be used to help monitor equality of opportunity
in areas such as employment education and the provision of services. This has been
introduced in the UK since the Government introduced the Equality Act Regulations
in 2007 to tackle discrimination in the provision of goods, facilities and services on
the grounds of sexual orientation as well as race, gender, disability, religion and
belief, and age. I found it to be useful as a comparison between a governmental script
defining homo- and bisexuality and with that of the personal experiences of sexual
identity found in the material used for this essay. In the guidebook Haseldon and
Joloza chose to only look at discrimination based on lesbian, gay and bisexuality,
leaving out the T in LGBT, which is to me remarkable since often times, gender and
sexuality are intrinsically conjoined. These questions are seemingly based on a binary
assumption of the two genders and exclude non-binary experiences, gender non
conforming persons and certain trans people who might self-identify as heterosexual
but don’t “pass” as such in mainstream society. They write that some non-
heterosexual participants chose the ‘other’ category because “they were either anti-
categorization or because they rejected the ‘simplistic’ male/female ‘gender binary’
8 L. Haseldon and T. Joloza, Measuring Sexual Identity- A guide for researchers, Household, LabourMarket and Social Wellbeing Division, Office for National Statistics, 2009
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which, as they noted in their text, was particularly mentioned by some transgender
participants. It should be recognized that those who used this category were thus
excluded from the analysis. So basically the study will only be useful for studying
discrimination against persons that fit neatly into the normative categorizations of
sexual identity. Although I do see the importance of acknowledging the fact that LGB
persons are treated differently in society and that quantitative research can aid in
providing support of these claims, I do find it troubling that believing that an L, G or
B is a way of fully expressing an individual’s identity since as we can see from the
material I am analyzing, sexual identity is so much more complex than a simple letter,
especially for the remaining sexual deviants, gender-queer and plurisexuals.
A book that brings up the people that would not be visible in Haseldon and Jolozas
guidebook is Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality by
Carol Queen and Lawrence Schimel (1997), which is an anthology of stories by
people who defy current presumptions about gender and sexuality.9 Despite being 20
years old it surprises me that the ideas raised in this book, the concept of
pomosexuality, have not been more widely spread. In a similar way that
postmodernism critiqued modernism, pomosexuality wanted to examine and
challenge the notion of homosexuality. I found this book to be the first that provided
material with similar questionings as the ones I posed for this essay. What happens to
the people who do not conform to certain identities and sexualities? How can we
actively transform the language to incorporate the diversity and fluidity that exists but
hasn’t yet been given a space in our understanding? Queen and Schimel have
collected 15 voices of people who have struggled, and subsequently failed, to fit into
the categories currently available to them. What they all call for is a much broader
concept of sexuality, one that permits more freedom in exploring the possibilities of
one’s desires. This book makes use of practical examples rather than theoretical or
academic propositions and provides a clear approach to what can be done to achieve a
positive change for the future. Kulick and Cameron also critique theorists and
theoretical literature for engaging in the discourse of desire but rarely refer to
empirical research that examines how desire is actually conveyed through language
9 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997.
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and social life.10 This research overview shows the difficulty as well as the need for
defining sexuality while continuously questioning the definitions created.
THEORETICAL PERSPECTIVES
I have chosen two primary theoreticians to analyze the material in this paper, French
philosopher Michel Foucault and US philosopher and gender theorist Judith Butler. In
Foucaults book The History of Sexuality: An Introduction the reader is introduced to
the discourses on sex since the 18th century.11 Foucault studied power relations and
how current institutions such as the field of medicine, psychology and academic
theories have dominated the discourses surrounding sexuality. Foucault did not set out
to understand the workings of our desires but rather the constant need to control what
is said and what can be said about sex. His interest lies in the workings of knowledge
and power and the various currents that strive to gain control of the discourse on
sexuality by methods of normalization, pathologization or criminalization. Discourse
plays a vital role in the production of power and knowledge through language.
Whoever does the speaking also determines what can be talked about as well as what
can be known. This in turn influences how we think and inevitably who we are. In
Thinking with Theory the authors Jackson and Mazzei see Foucault as inverting the
traditional questions such as ‘what is power?’ and ‘where does power come from?’
and instead of searching for the essence and origin he investigates ‘the productive
effects as it circulates through the practices of people in their daily lives’.12 I will
implement this in my analysis of the material I have by not asking what it is the
individuals desire and why but what are the effects of the language they use.
Judith Butler was a pioneer in queer theory and deconstructing the notion of
normative gender by proposing that gender is a social construct that is performatively
created and continuously susceptible to being altered or opposed. The repetition isn’t
10 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Introduction: Language and desire in theory and practice”, Language & Communication, vol. 23, 2003, p. 93.
11 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990 (originally published 1976)
12 A. Y. Jackson, and L. A. Mazzei, Thinking with theory in qualitative research: Viewing data across multiple perspectives, Abingdon, Routledge, 2012, p. 64
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a performance consciously acted out by a subject but a performativity that constitutes
a subject through cultural recognition.13 Bucholz and Hall interpret Butler’s
understanding of gender performativity as brought into being through linguistic and
other semiotic practices.14
As an academic and an activist Butler advocates for the rights of sexual minorities and
identities that are excluded from being part of a normative society and thus by the
nature of their gender or sexuality not being able to enjoy a fully livable life. By
studying transgendered and intersex lives Butler questions heteronormativity and the
essentialist ideas of the gender binary. Although these theories mainly discuss gender
norms, these are often tied to sexual norms and thus have great consequences for
sexuality as well. Butler’s queer theory helps our way of thinking and understanding
gender so that ideally more people living on the margins of intelligibility will be
recognized as ‘human’ and reap the benefits of being part of the norm. Butler links
desire with recognition and writes that it is through the experience of recognition that
we become constituted as socially viable beings, which makes us dependent on others
for the validation of our social existence.15 Horley and Clarke also concede that
gaining self-knowledge or self-validation is inherently satisfying even if others
interpret the validation as negative, unpleasant, criminal or threatening.16 Butler insists
that a livable life requires a degree of stability so a life for which no categories of
recognition exist is not a livable life, and a life for which these categories constitute
unlivable constraints is not an acceptable option.17
MATERIAL
13 A. Y. Jackson, and L. A. Mazzei, Thinking with theory in qualitative research: Viewing data across multiple perspectives, Abingdon, Routledge, 2012, p. 23.
14 Bucholz, Mary and Kira Hall, “Theorizing Identity in Language and Sexuality Research”, Language in Society, Vol. 33, No. 4, Cambridge University Press, 2014, p. 491.
15 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 2-3.
16 J. Horley and J. Clarke, ”Constructing Sexuality: A Theory of Stability and Fluidity”, Sexuality & Culture, no 20, 2016, p. 917.
17 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 8.
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I have chosen to study a specific online discussion that happened during the summer
of 2016 on a Facebook dating page for circa 3 000 queer identified persons. In order
to respect and protect the privacy of the people engaged in this group I will not
disclose the exact name. The Facebook group is primarily used to post personal ads
seeking sex (dates, cuddles, play partners for BDSM etc.) but also caters for persons
looking for friendships, companions or other forms of temporary or lasting intimate,
sexual or platonic relationships. The group is location specific to a larger city in the
United States. It is designated for people that might find alternative online dating
meaningless due to the often times cis-exclusiveness of mainstream dating sites and
apps. For example the popular dating app Tinder provides only two gender options
and the sexuality option for one or both genders, which makes it hard for queer, non-
binary and trans people to fit themselves into these categories.
The group is closed, meaning individuals can only see the content if their request to
join has been approved by one of the administrators/moderators (often in text referred
to as admin or mod) of the page. As far as I am aware there is no system of screening
or validifying process of people wanting to join but it is taken for granted that the
individuals in the group identify with queer sexuality and it is strongly advised in the
description for cis-gendered straight people and heterosexual couples as well as queer
curious persons to refrain from joining the group.
During the time that I was actively engaged in the group there were several instances
of heated political discussions regarding what people posted and how they express
themselves. Often times these discussions concerned racism, misogyny and
transphobia. I chose one particular discussion that arose after one of the founders and
moderators of the page made a public announcement. The post requested that
members refrain from posting gender-specific ads. This sparked a discussion within
the group about how and whether one should be ‘allowed’ to state one’s gender
specific preferences, how this should be done and in what cases this can be useful or
simply exclusionary and in particular transmisogynistic or transphobic. Some of the
comments also referred to power structures in society and how this plays out within
‘queer’ spaces. Arguments for minorities to be allowed to seek out other minorities,
such as trans and people of colour were also advocated for. Some maintained that
sexuality is per definition exclusionary while others argued for a decolonization of our
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own desires, since we are never completely freed from the socialization of a
patriarchal, racist, classist and ableist society.
The Facebook post containing around 50 comments is a limited material to do a
discourse analysis on and may be questioned whether this has any greater relevance to
a larger discourse on gender and sexuality. There are several reasons why this has
caught my interest and why I believe that this particular discussion will have ripple
effects on the queer community and eventually spread well beyond the confined
spaces of sexual minority groups.
This group is created by and for people whose needs are not met by mainstream
dating options. Thus they together set the rules for how the group shall be used and
through ‘community policing’ boundaries are created. Despite the mods having the
power to remove content and members it is still a democratic process where each
member has the possibility to express their views and influence what will ultimately
be seen as ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ within this group. For many this is not only a dating
group but offers a sense of community and the standards that are set in this self
proclaimed queer group will spread through the 3 000 members into the physical
world. Thus I argue that the discussion happening between the 20 commentators is
possibly seen by 3 000 people who themselves might not engage in the post but are
forced to take a stand, or at least consider what their views are on the ‘correct’ use of
language.
METHOD
I chose to use discourse analysis and focus on the meaning and power of written and
spoken language. I found the discussion in the Facebook group to be particularly
important since it shows the issues around sexuality and gender that are still highly
contested and cause both controversy and conflict. The discussion relates to who is
included or excluded and how in our language and how we talk about sexual identity.
Out of the circa 50 comments I chose to focus on the ones that caused the most
dispute and the arguments that were used to defend a certain standpoint. I searched for
the propositions that were offered on what words should be used and how we should
ideally express our sexual desires without harming people through exclusion. My
focus lay on the themes that caused dissonance amongst the group and how attempts
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were made at coming to a consensus regarding the continued use of language in this
setting.
Discourse analysis is closely tied to power structures since language creates
boundaries, limitations and regulations for our way of thinking and acting. In
Thinking with Theory the authors describe discourse as the social structure and
processes that shape our subjectivities. These are situated within discursive fields,
where language, social institutions, subjectivity and power exist, intersect, and
produce competing ways of giving meaning to and constructing subjectivity.18
Mazzei and Jackson write about subjectivity as inherently unstable, constructed in the
relationships with others and in everyday practices. A persons subjectivity is neither
stabilized nor essentialized by identity categories such as race, class and gender
because ways of existing can depend on social relations, historical experiences,
material conditions and geographic location. The way we take on certain subjective
positions is an ongoing process of becoming through discourse, rather than a static
way of being.19
Kulick and Cameron use an example in their book Language and Sexuality that shows
the implications that a discourse around sex may have on us as individuals. Firstly it
shapes our understanding of sex and how it should be, secondly it informs our
understanding of ourselves as sexual beings, and thirdly it affects our interpretation of
sexual experiences.20 They continue in the spirit of Foucault that the ‘reality’ of sex
does not pre-exist language in which it is expressed but rather, language produces the
categories through which we organize our sexual desires, identities and practices.21
These ideas will be further explored through the analysis of my material. In this essay
18 A. Y. Jackson, and L. A. Mazzei, Thinking with theory in qualitative research: Viewing data across multiple perspectives, Abingdon, Routledge, 2012, p. 65.
19 A. Y. Jackson, and L. A. Mazzei, Thinking with theory in qualitative research: Viewing data across multiple perspectives, Abingdon, Routledge, 2012, p. 65.20
D. Kulick and D. Cameron, Language and Sexuality, Cambridge University Press, 2003, p. 18.
21 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, Language and Sexuality, Cambridge University Press, 2003, p. 19.
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I will attempt at a netnographic study of language socialization within a particular
group, investigating the interwoven process of linguistic and cultural development.
Language is not a representation of reality but rather a means of creating it.22 It
constitutes situations, objects and knowledge, and the social identities between
people. It both sustains and reproduces the social status quo at the same time as it has
the ability of transforming it. Discourse implies that certain acts are permitted and
forms what is intelligible, thinkable.
The question of power lies in the claiming of certain interpretations of reality as
knowledge that then becomes a truth. Bergström and Boréus are inspired by Foucault
and describe disciplinary power as the means that on a micro level use ‘positive’
means to form, create and train the individual.23 They acknowledge that power can
also be described with ‘negative’ functions when we refer to punitive measures and
restrictions. Through my material I will look at the micro level of power negotiations
within a subculture currently negotiating the ‘correct’ use of language and certain
words.
REFLEXIVITY AND SOURCE CRITICISM
The material I have chosen to analyze may not reflect the majority of people that self
identify as queer or even outside the setting of an American dating page on Facebook.
Queer as a concept can be understood and interpreted in various different ways, it can
be a chosen identity by people who defy and subvert norms regarding gender and
sexuality, or an analytic theory that questions what is often seen as ‘natural’ for
example heteronormativity. Buchholz and Hall write that what “queers” the subject of
queer linguistics and queer theory is not sexual orientation but sexual
marginalization.24
22 G. Bergström and K. Boréus, Textens Mening och Makt, metodok i samhällsvetenskaplig text och diskursanalys, Lund, Studentlitteratur, 2012, p. 365.
23 G. Bergström and K. Boréus, Textens Mening och Makt, metodok i samhällsvetenskaplig text och diskursanalys, Lund, Studentlitteratur, 2012, p. 383.
24 Bucholz, Mary and Kira Hall, “Theorizing Identity in Language and Sexuality Research”, Language in Society, Vol. 33, No. 4, Cambridge University Press, 2014, p. 491
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The Facebook group is location specific to a larger US city but the demographics of
its members exceeding 3 000 people is hard to define. The commentators and their
identities and backgrounds are not specified and it is therefore hard to say who is
taking a leading role in the discussion, e.g. what is their level of education, class, race,
gender and identity and does this affect who has power in this specific discourse? Can
this limited number of voices represent a larger discourse within the community or are
these just a select few that have the confidence of making themselves heard and seen
in an online discussion? On the other hand it is the voices that make themselves seen
and heard that set the parameters for the politics and opinions within a group. I have
chosen to only analyze one specific online discussion but I do believe that this can
represent a broader discussion emerging within the field of sexuality and queer
politics.
One difficulty of studying anything queer is that it per definition eludes any forms of
definition. People who identify as queer may do this in a myriad of ways. It may be
their politics, relationships, sexuality, gender identity/expression or sexual practice.
Despite the intention of queer as defying norms and evading categories it is still
constantly forced into these categories and within the queer community norms are still
being produced and reproduced. There is a lot of internal contestation about who and
what is validified as queer enough. In the comments on this post there is no way of
telling the persons gender, sexuality or race unless they claim or disclose an identity
in their comments. In discussions about gender and race in particular, there is often a
relevance of who has the preferential right of interpretation and that this should in
particular go to voices within groups of minorities or otherwise marginalized
identities.
Another concern has been the ethics of using this material without requesting personal
consent from the people engaging in the post through their comments. An issue today
with the use of Internet and digital communication is the grey zone of public/private
that these spaces administer. The field of netnography is new and the rules of ethics
and jurisdiction around it are still vague and seem to always be lagging one step
behind the development of technology. This is also a question of global politics since
internet is available in nearly all parts of the world so one country’s laws and
legislations would not necessarily apply to another country with the same access to
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this media. For this thesis I made the decision to contact the original poster/moderator
and ask for their permission to use their quote in my thesis, which they granted.
In the article Ethical dilemmas in researching sensitive issues online: lessons form the
study of British disability dissent networks by Reilly and Trevisan they discussed how
the blurring of boundaries occur between personal and political content on social
media which creates ethical dilemmas for researchers in relation to their responsibility
to protect the privacy of the participants.25 Reilly and Trevisan advocate for an
approach that allows for the use of direct quotes when it is unlikely to prove harmful
to the user but also sets out to provide as much anonymity as possible for those who
disclose sensitive information in these semi-public spaces. Trevisan and Reilly
conclude that qualitative research is fundamental to understanding the impact of
social media on society but assert that creative solutions are necessary to ensure that
we can meet the challenges of the digital era.26
ANALYSIS
In this section I will introduce and analyze a few quotes from the Facebook post that I
found to be valuable for understanding the internal problematics of language and
sexuality as seen in a part of a queer community. The original post generated 77 likes
and 50 comments. The analysis has been divided into themes that were relevant in the
material and I have picked out a few quotes that point at the linguistic disunity within
the community. Through the method of discourse analysis I will attempt at providing
a broader understanding of the negotiation of words and concepts being developed
and contested.
GENDER AND SEXUALITY
The main theme of this analysis and material is the relationship between gender and
sexuality and how we are to understand their dependence or perhaps independence 25 F. Trevisan and P. Reilly, “Ethical dilemmas in researching sensitive issues online: Lessons from the study of British disability dissent networks”, Information, Communication & Society, vol. 17, no. 9, 2014, p. 1131.
26 F. Trevisan and P. Reilly, “Ethical dilemmas in researching sensitive issues online: Lessons from the study of British disability dissent networks”, Information, Communication & Society, vol. 17, no. 9, 2014, p. 1142.
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from one another. I will begin by introducing the two quotes from the moderator's
post (referred to as OP meaning original poster) that prompted the debate:
All these posts being gender specific is harmful to the people u are blatantly excluding – not to
mention no one can assume anyone’s gender – so change the language, or take ur gender
specific posts down.
And further down the comments the moderator replies:
Be open to what comes ur way. Having gender preferences is not queer. We are trying to
deconstruct that idea all together.
The moderator's motivation for this was due to a series of personal ads seeking people
with certain assigned sexes at birth (abbreviated ASAB, AFAB for female or AMAB
for male). This post exclaims that part of queer politics is to completely dissolve and
transcend gender through embracing a form of pansexuality. It also proposes a non-
gender based sexuality by pointing out that specific genitals should not act as a valid
requirement for queer conscious dating.
Diane Richardson writes in her essay Patterned Fluidities that during the 19th century
it was mainly the theories of biologists, medical researchers, psychologists and
sexologists that dominated the understanding of gender and sexuality. A key
characteristic of these assumptions where that gender and sexuality are natural
phenomena and the relationship between them is universal and fixed. There was
believed to be a natural order of the dualism, binaries and the complementary polarity
of male/female, heterosexual/homosexual, and masculine/feminine.27 Foucault seems
bemused and confounded by the disjointment in the development of knowledge
between the biology of reproduction, which developed continuously according to a
general scientific normativity and a medicine of sex conforming to quite different
rules of formation. The second, which would find traditional fears to be recast in a
scientific-sounding vocabulary. Foucault exclaims that it is as if a fundamental
27 Diane Richardson, ‘Patterned Fluidities: (Re)Imagining the Relationship between Gender and Sexuality’, Sociology, vol. 41 no. 3, 2007, p. 459.
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resistance blocked the development of a rationally formed discourse concerning
human sex, its correlations, and its effects.28
Richardson expands the analysis of gender and sexuality by theorizing the links
between them and opening up to allowing a more complex and diverse understanding.
She gives the example of the possibility of thinking about sexualities without genders,
where sexual desires, practices and identities do not depend on a person’s gender for
their meaning.29 Is sexuality inherently gendered, is it intelligible outside a gendered
discourse? Can we see gender as merely one of many aspects of sexuality? Butler
states that transgendered lives are the evidence of the breakdown of any lines of
causal determinism between sexuality and gender.30 Richardson’s theories regarding
the relationship between gender and sexuality acknowledges the fluidity, instability
and fragmentation of identities and a plurality of subject positions. She views gender
and sexuality as sharing an intra-connectedness that is not determinate or
unidirectional. Instead of viewing it as completely random, unstructured and chaotic
she proposes a kind of patterned fluidity to the relationship between gender and
sexuality.
IDENTITY AND PRESENTATION
One recent trend I have observed that avoids essentialist gender language is by using
gender expression or aesthetic when talking about ones interest in a certain type of
person. It is common to see in ads that people specify their gender identity (cis, trans
or non-binary) as well as their gender expression such as feminine (femme) or
masculine (masc). Here are two comments on differentiating between gender identity
and gender expression:
28 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990, p. 54.
29 Diane Richardson, “Patterned Fluidities: (Re)Imagining the Relationship between Gender and Sexuality”, Sociology, vol. 41 no. 3, 2007, p. 463.
30 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 54.
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But what about things I see that are femme for femme? Masc for masc? Should folks really be
policed on who they desire to be with? Once it does not reach the realm of racism, colorism,
fetishization, transphobia, cis-sexism, ableism and fatphobia?
I think it’s a bit oppressive to say folks can’t have a preference. But I also think there are ways
to not be shitty and gross about preferences.
And an answer to the previous comment:
Except masc and femme aren’t independent genders and they’re expressions or presentations
of ones gender identity so this logic doesn’t even hold up because f4f and m4m aren’t gender
specific. The issue is the blatant transmisogyny.
This person seems to point out that we may be attracted to certain expressions of
gender, but need to consciously include gender variations such as people that identify
as non-binary or trans. Identities as feminine and masculine are more inclusive and
don’t denote a certain gender.
I would like to raise the question of differentiating between sexuality and sexual
identity. Cameron and Kulick write that sexual identity is merely one aspect of
sexuality and that the study of language and sexuality needs to move beyond the
exclusive focus on identity in order to explain the many ways in which sexuality is
materialized and conveyed through language.31 They see sexuality as a social and
psychological phenomenon that both exceeds and sometimes contradicts the sexual
identities that people consciously claim or disclaim.32
Sexuality relates to sexual practice, desires, who, how, when, with what and where,
for what reason one wants to express or perform sex and intimacy. Sexuality can, but
does not directly, determine a persons sexual identity. Ideally sexual identity is self-
claimed, but as mentioned previously in this essay, this is not always the case. If a
person of a certain gender expresses desire towards a person of a certain gender others
often identify them as this or that. One example of a positive shift in the field of
medicine is that men who have sex with men are not referred to as gay or homosexual
but the group is talked about as MSM (abbreviation of men who have sex with men),
which is a sexual act that they perform and not what they identify as.
31 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Identity Crisis?”, Language & Communication, 2005, p. 109.
32 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Identity Crisis?”, Language & Communication, 2005, p. 113.
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There are as I see it several ways of identifying and expressing gender. Firstly there is
the assigned gender at birth, designated to an infant by a medical professional based
on the child's genitals, then there is gender identity and gender presentation.
For example one comment says:
A lot of time people use masc and femme as categories for presentation.
For instance, I am femme ID. But because of the clothes I wear people think I’m masc. I don't
comment on many posts because I think they are looking for someone who reflects classic
femininity, which is fine but makes me wonder where I fit. Because I don't consider myself
masc of center.
It seems to me that this commentator is suggesting that femme and masc are not
necessarily connected to an exterior or aesthetic but as a personality identity that is
not connected to one’s gender identity. The comments in the discussion seem fairly
unanimous about gender identity being fundamentally different from ASAB (assigned
sex at birth). If gender expression and identity are seen as legitimate focuses for our
desires, what then happens when the gender dichotomy is blurred? What if there was
no aesthetic differentiation between the two genders? This is in my experience what
many queer, non-binary and trans people are doing by not adhering in their identities
or exteriors to the dichotomy of female/male.
I wonder if OP has a very radical but legitimate point. Is it conceivable that we cease
in founding our sexualities on gender? Butler believes that sexuality does not follow
from gender in the sense that what gender you “are” determines what kind of
sexuality you will “have”. Butler proceeds with the question “Am I a gender after all?
And do I “have” a sexuality?”.33
GENDER SPECTRUMS
The following comment discusses the importance of differentiating between gender
identity and gender essentialism:
I seriously don’t see how ‘I am looking to hook up with girls [with no specifications as to
ASAB]’ is a problem on that level? Like, I see nothing exclusionary about someone
advertising that they are interested in dating people with a specific gender- and I don’t
33 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 16.
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altogether buy that ‘femme’ or ‘masc’ is different; you could argue that ‘girl’ or ‘boy’ also
covers a range of different genders, just along a different spectrum.
(...)
To be totally clear: The post that (I think? The one where someone was specifying AFAB ppl
as her target audience, right?) prompted this one was seriously disgusting. I just think ‘gender
specific posts’ are a separate issue from gross gender essentialism, and also kind of a weird
thing to focus on if what you’re actually aiming to do is set community standards that reduce
the amount of overt transmisogyny/transphobia in posts.
This commentator brings up a theory of a plurality of gender spectrums. As
previously mentioned there might be a gender identity as well as a gender expression
or presentation that may or may not be the same as your ASAB. The use of ‘boi’ and
‘gurl’ for example are colloquial terms often used in the LGBTQ community. A boi
could be a young butch, a lesbian tomboy or a trans guy in early transitioning. A gurl
is commonly used by drag queens and gay men (in particular amongst people of
colour in America) but was also popularized by the political feminist punk movement
riot grrrls. We have learned to play with gender both in language and presentation.
One might present as high femme but prefer a gender-neutral pronoun or one could
have a masectomy and still go by she.
There are so many different ways for people to interpret and express gender and the
development has happened very rapidly during the past few years especially due to
the trans movement and a growing intersex movement.
LANGUAGE
Through a discourse analysis on this material I look at what words are used and how
people in this group are active agents in creating meaning. A process of knowledge
solidification and equalization is apparent in the comments. Anyone who reads the OP
is prompted to consider their own way of vocalizing their desires and identities and
the inherent political implication of such actions.
Kulick and Cameron quote Immanuel Kant who argued that language both gives us
our world of experience, and also keeps us from perceiving the world in an
unmediated form.34 This serves as a reminder that words are simply an attempt at 34 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Introduction: Language and desire in theory and practice”, Language & Communication, vol. 23, 2003, p. 96.
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trying to understand our surroundings and ourselves but can never fully encompass
any form of universal truth. Words are merely representations, highly sensitive to
individual interpretation. This needs to be kept in mind when discussing identity and
sexuality that have come to mean very different things to different people. One also
needs to consider the fact that groups, institutions and politicians are through various
means trying to influence, control, negotiate and solidify the definition of these
extensive concepts. Horley and Clark discuss personal construct theory in their essay
Constructing Sexuality: A theory of stability and fluidity and believe that events are
completely void of meaning until we take or make meaning from our encounters with
the physical or social world.35 Our interpretation is the very essence of experience.
These constructs and interpretations are in turn mediated through the language
available to us.
Cameron and Kulick pose a highly relevant question when they ask, “How can an
analyst of language study the unconscious processes of prohibition, repression and
fantasy? How can they begin to get at what is not said or what cannot be said in the
sample of discourse they are analyzing?”.36 I agree that it is equally important, when
studying a particular discourse, to look at what is said as well as what is omitted in
speech. What is yet unspeakable and unknowable? What I find interesting is the
language in the twilight zone, new words forming in the foggy distance. In the current
discourse on sexuality, where do we find the words and tendencies that might be part
in changing or forming the future of sexuality, gender and identity? Queen and
Schimel suggested two decades ago that we introduce the concept of pomosexuality.37
This idea wasn't picked up at the time and instead the word queer was largely
incorporated into daily speech within the LGBT community and academics and has
largely shaped the way sexuality is understood today. Butler says in Gender Trouble
that it would be a mistake to think that received grammar is the best vehicle for
radical views; given the constraints that grammar imposes on thought and even upon
35 J. Horley and J. Clarke, ”Constructing Sexuality: A Theory of Stability and Fluidity”, Sexuality & Culture, no 20, 2016, p. 912.
36 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Introduction: Language and desire in theory and practice”, Language & Communication, vol. 23, 2003, p. 98.
37 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997.
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the thinkable itself.38 This is why the need for minorities to create our own words,
language and meaning is so important. Kulick and Cameron write that even in the
queer community, founded on the idea of openness to a multiplicity of desires, it
seems language sets limits on what desires can be made intelligible.39 Within the
community there are strong voices advocating for whom, how and what gets to be
included under the rainbow umbrella.
QUEER
D. Travers Scott gives us a poignant visual in Pomosexuals explaining the
hopelessness in basing your identity on sexuality. He poses the question “if gender is
fluid, how can sexual ‘orientation’ not be as well? How can you be rigidly ‘oriented’
towards something that is amorphous, shifting, fluid, tricky, and elusive? Basing your
identity on sexuality is like building a house on pudding.”.40
Scott is critical of the policing of identity boundaries and writes that he is personally
more inclined towards the bi, transgender, S/M and kink movements where sexuality
is often less of an issue, compared to certain groups like the gay and lesbian
communities that are often accused of separatism. Scott sees this strict policing of
identities and use of symbols and signifiers as a right-wing project resembling both
fascism and conservatism seeing sexuality-based identities as unrealistic due to the
unstable notion of sex and gender.41 One reason why the kinksters and people
involved in BDSM might have been less protective of their identity boundaries and
spaces is likely because they have not been persecuted and deemed as a type in the
way that homosexuals have endured and experienced violence and exclusion.
Separatism and a strong sense of identity has been a way of survival through
38 J. Butler, Gender Trouble- Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, Routledge, 1999
39 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, “Introduction: Language and desire in theory and practice”, Language & Communication, vol. 23, 2003, p. 102.
40 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997, p. 66.
41 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997, p. 67.
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community and the protection, safety and recognition that this offers as well as
political strength in the unity of a larger group of people.
One of the commentators in the FB group would probably agree with Scott in the
desire to escape the idea that we can be determined as people based on our sexual
desires.
It isn't wrong having preferences. And one person can’t determine what it means to be queer.
THAT mindset, that someone else can define how we identify, is what we’re trying to
deconstruct, not having preferences (even gender specific).
While this person disagrees with other people setting the parameters of what is and is
not the right way to ‘be queer’ they also reiterate that as queers we should be actively
deconstructing identities and sexualities that others have given us. But how do we go
about this deconstruction? Would pansexuality not be exactly that, by not specifying
any gender identity, ASAB or gender expression as part of your sexual identity? Or
should we perhaps start to sever our sexualities from our identities? Would this be
possible in a society that still strongly associates us as a ‘type’ because of our
romantic, erotic and sexual connections- thus by default identifying us.
The very act of acquiring an identity means in a way accepting an accompanying set
of pre-existing expectations and assumptions. Butler writes that one only determines
“one’s own” sense of gender to the extent that social norms exist that support and
enable that act of claiming gender for oneself. One is thus dependent on this “outside”
to express what is ones notion of self.42
LABELS
The labels for sexuality available today were not created by ‘us’ or for ‘us’, speaking
as part of the queer community, but by medical and legal institutions to control,
pathologize and normalize us. So we need to question whether the
reclamation/incorporation/internalization/identification of and with these words work
in our favour or ultimately to our disadvantage. Words contain power and this
malleable power can be renegotiated and repossessed through actions and relations 42 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 7.
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between individuals on a local level as well as on a global level. Foucault recounts
how the various institutions began producing discourses on sex by attempts at
controlling and prohibiting it. In medicine there were in the 18th and 19th century
“nervous disorders”, in psychiatry they discovered mental illnesses focusing on
onanism, frustration and perversion and criminal justice was highly concerned with
sexualities referred to as “crimes against nature”.43
Foucault mentioned that for a very long time hermaphrodites (today called intersex
persons) were criminals since their anatomical disposition confounded the law that
distinguished the sexes and prescribed their union.44 Up until this very day it is
common praxis that babies born with genital ambiguity, while their bodies may be
fully functional and not cause the person any physical harm or discomfort, undergo
surgical modification so that they will fit into the norms of what a male or female
body should look like. This proves how strongly society values a clear distinction
between the two genders and is unwilling to create space for intersex, trans and
gender non-conforming people.
Foucault writes about the persecution of peripheral sexualities that entailed a new
specification of individuals. He famously writes that the 19th century homosexual
became a personage, a past, a case history, and a childhood. Nothing that went into
the persons total composition was unaffected by his sexuality. Sodomy was no longer
a temporary aberration of a sinful act but was becoming an identity.45
Foucault reminisces a few definitions of sexual and gender deviants given by
psychiatrists in an attempt at categorizing and understanding in order to ultimately
curing/eliminating these individuals. There were names such as auto-monosexualists,
mixoscophiles, gynecomasts, presbyophiles, sexoesthetic inverts and dyspareunist
women.46 Today a similar trend is occurring within the queer community where new
43 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990, p. 30.
44 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990, p. 38.45 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990, p. 42.
46 Michel Foucault, The history of sexuality. Volume I. An introduction.Penguin Books, London, 1990, p. 43.
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words are created to define a multitude of sexualities, genders and identities with the
purpose of acceptance rather than penance. A few examples might be gender
expressions such as femme, tomboy, masculine of center or gender identities for
example gender non-conforming, fluid, non-binary, transfeminine/masculine or it
might be gender expression mixed with sexuality like butch, twink, lipstick lesbian,
bear or sexualities like pansexual, sapiosexual, ace or demisexual to name a few
recently occurring words relating to gender and sexuality.
We need to continuously ask ourselves if these constructed identities create
opportunities for self-realization. Who reaps these benefits and who is still excluded
from the privileges of becoming a subject of these identities? Who is excluded or
forced to compromise themselves in order to fit into these categories?
COMMUNITY
Kate Bornstein writes in the introduction to Pomosexuals questioning whether words
themselves are in fact a danger in the defining of community. Can allowing anyone at
all to define the identities being politicized solve the problem of suffocating identity
politics? Or would a better solution be the abandonment of politicized identities in
favour of the politics of values?47 She writes shortly of her own identity journey that
she starting out as a heterosexual man who transitioned into becoming a lesbian girl
but when her partner transitioned into a man, retaining a lesbian identity became too
complicated. The following comment offers similar thoughts to Bornsteins of how
words and identities have acted as means for gaining power and recognition but
simultaneously this has resulted in negative implications for the ones that get rejected.
This omission of certain identities is experienced by some as an act of queer policing,
meaning the micro control mechanisms within the community.
This post/thread is everything that is wrong with queer policing of queer people. And part of
the reason being queer is still not being taken seriously in some spaces.. Why are we policing
ourselves when we already get enough of that from cis exclusively hetero people and society?
47 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997, p. 16.
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A reason why this happens in ‘the queer community’ may be that it has been built on
an idea that queer identity implies shared experiences, politics and ideals. It is clear
that queerness is highly contested as to what exactly it is and this study only further
proves the elusiveness of both gender and sexuality. Intersectional feminism has
helped point out that we all have subjective experiences and that
privilege/disadvantage can be multiple and contextual. As Bornstein said, it may be
time to create a community based on values and affinity and not a community of
identities in order to achieve political change.
EXCLUSION
In the next comment the person defends another commentator who here is referred to
as XXX that feels excluded from the community for dating a cis male and being
perceived as living in a heterosexual relationship.
XXX is bringing up the very real issue of BI, PAN, and QUEER erasure within the ‘queer
community’ which totally fits within the OPs blanket statement about gender based exclusion.
Her feelings of exclusion from this group are a real problem, and to take her post a step farther
the fact that there are a lot of queer cis men (read: not exclusively or at all gay identified) that
will not post in this group because they are ‘blatantly excluded’ by most of the posts actively
rejecting them is a problem that is within the parameters of the OPs request to be addressed.
Our goal as a community should not be to simply flip an oppressive system on its head and
put every identity that has been marginalized at the top and allow us to make those identities
currently in power (keeping in mind that this system of ‘oppression olympics’ing is in fact
impossible because we all hold a variety of privileged and marginalized identities...) feel
worthless, but instead to be inclusive and kind and keep space open for people in the
community.
This comment criticizes the we/them dichotomy that is created when anything
remotely heteronormative is rejected, which might specifically affect bi- and
pansexuals or other fluid sexualities that are not as visibly “queer”. The person uses
the phrase ‘oppression olympics’ criticizing how people seem to compete based on
their level of intersecting minority identities. Transwomen of colour are subjected to
high levels of discrimination and violence while the white cis male is on the top of the
hierarchy that creates a hostile environment within the community towards white cis-
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passing males regardless of their personal queer identities. The commentator wants to
point out that even in the queer community that strives to be inclusive and give space
to minorities does in fact create a closed group where many people based on their
identities will feel left out.
Butler ends the preface to Gender Trouble expressing hopes for a coalition of sexual
minorities that will transcend categories of identity and be based on an irreducible
complexity of sexuality and its implication in discursive and institutional power.48
Another discussion in the comments that also vocalizes a hostility towards
straightness is when one of the commentators who identifies as a transman expressed
his desires for feminine women. Here is one of the reactions to his statement:
(...) I don't think trans ppl embodying cisheteropatriarchy in their desires is anything but 1:1
straight. It’s not actually subversive to be a dominant sleazy masculine partner if yr a man
who seeks out women.
This commentator is averse to queerness impersonating heteronormativity. When a
trans person identifies as heterosexual does this mean they can easily assimilate into
heteronormativity? Or is a cis-gendered body a prerequisite for recognized
heterosexuality? The comment below offers another response to the discussion of
straightness versus queerness by stating that there are people of genders and
sexualities that may be defying certain sexual norms but don't identify themselves as
queer:
Is this group queer, or should the name be changed to “QT”? Not all trans people are queer, as
was mentioned on that status. And a lot of you trans mens seem really binary and only wanna
date women or femme folk. That’s fine. Live your best and authentic life. But that sounds
pretty straight? Therefore this being a “QT” group would make more sense, just logically.
(Authors note, QT stands for queer and trans)
This demonstrates how differently people perceive their sexuality, queerness and
politicalness. Cameron and Kulick believe that we can claim or disclaim identities
however I propose that identity can only come into being as an interpersonal construct
in a negotiated process. It demands affirmation and acknowledgement of others,
48 J. Butler, Gender Trouble- Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, Routledge, 1999.
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which as I have previously stated, is discursively constituted through our use of
language.
POLITICAL SEXUALITY
This next comment talks about the political meaning of being queer and how it should
be practiced:
If queer is deconstructing, is it consistent with that ideology to ask others to not say they have
specific interests? Problematic language/exclusionary practice should be called out. But at
some point, the queerest thing we can do is allow people to openly express desire.
It is of course of utmost importance that all desires are permitted as long as they do
not non-consensually hurt or impose themselves upon others. But as some of the
commentators have pointed out, desires are not innate states of being, encrypted in
our DNA (well, it is yet to be convincingly proven by science). Desires, just like
many of our other interests in life are affected by our culture and surroundings.
Some argue that sexuality and desire is genetically determined, one that can not be
controlled while others claim that biology only plays a part of it and that we do have
the ability to choose our own sexuality.
This brings me to the discussion of political sexuality. In the 70’s certain radical
feminists as a way of using separatism to fight sexism practiced political lesbianism.
Camilla Kolm studied a small group of political lesbians who disagreed with the idea
that sexuality is something that comes from the inside and they instead presented a
radical constructivism, in which identity and sexuality are constantly, consciously
reshaped.49 Rather than being controlled by their desires they choose when, were and
how and with who they create sexual relationships. Some people in the Facebook
discussion have expressed similar views such as arguing for T4T (meaning trans
person seeking trans person) or people of colour choosing to only date/befriend other
people of colour. This points at the fact that power structures in society can affect how
we chose to form intimate bonds and make decisions to include or exclude certain
identities from our relationships.
Here are two examples of this:
49 C. Kolm, “Politisk lesbisk i senmodern tid”, Sexualitetens omvandlingar. Politisk lesbiskhet, unga kristna och machokulturer, Johansson, T and Lalander, P. 2003.
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Can we post t4t ads to not deal with certain things? Cause lately I’ve ben feeling like I should
only seek out trans people because they tend to understand trans stuff better.
Here follows a response:
Wouldnt that create a cis4cis implication tho? I mean, one can self-select to only reply to trans
identified ppl w/o “t4t”.
The second comment proposes that if one group can do it then the other may as well.
This is where current power dynamics make it more complicated to create ‘same rules
apply to all’. Trans people have lived in fear of disclosure and being outed with risk
of violence or rejection, so being t4t could be a means of survival, to create safe and
understanding relationships with people that share similar experiences. It may be seen
as less of a preference and more as a political decision. The comment below reiterates
this by permitting minority groups to cruise for one another in a similar Facebook
dating group:
I took and modified the description from this group to start XXX Queer Cruising and it
definitely didn’t include anything about ‘don’t include any gender preferences.’ The rules I
enforce over there are basically: no genital preferences, no ASAB preferences (unless you’re
t4t), and generally minoritized groups can cruise explicitly for each other (being a trans dyke
of colour, I can say I’m looking for other twoc).” (Authors note, the name of the city has been
replaced with XXX).
Gender binary essentialism is often connected to the LGB letters and has been
problematized by the transgender and queer community for being cis-exclusive and
carries a separatist notion. The comment below is highly critical of this:
We all gotta unpack our desirability. I’ve met way too many (cis) “lesbians” that when they
say “lesbian” they mean have a rigid attraction for other cis women. That shit is up for a heavy
side eye cuz I’m just like “okay nigga”. Decolonize, decolonize, decolonize your cis-ness.
The queer movement along with third wave and intersectional feminisim has played a
big part in moving away from previously cis-separatist groups and spaces towards
more gender diverse and inclusive politics. Even though the spaces and politics have
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become more aware and inclusive it seems as though peoples desires and sexualities
have remained rigidly cis-normative.
FETISCHISM
The following commentator a draws upon the similarities between that of kinks and
fetishes to the attraction to a particular gender.
Honestly it’s just that these people have a fetish. It’ a vagina fetish. Like I’m not going to kink
shame them just call it what it is people.
This commentator has clearly reacted to the posts desiring only a certain ASAB, or as
they interpret it this must mean that people have a sexual interest in only a certain
type of genital. This poses the question, are we attracted to a body or a being? If we
can have an affinity towards feet or body hair, could we in a similar way be attracted
to a certain type of genital? Or is it as some of the commentators have stated, that we
are attracted to a Butlerian version of gender as the performance of either masculinity
or femininity? Could it be that our main sexuality is directed towards gender but that
within our sexualities lay sub-sexualities that are related to other categories?
Pat Califia points out in Pomosexuals that certain identities blur the boundaries that
have been set up to differentiate one from the other. Califia gives the example of
bisexuals that often end up in an undefined area between gays and straights.
Transgender people blur the lines between men and women and S/M people challenge
the whole idea that sexual orientation ought to be based on gender in the first place,
since many kinksters and fetischists care more about other aspects of their sexual
partners than what might be between their legs.50
CONCLUSION AND DISCUSSION
Perhaps one day in the future when we have completely dismantled gender
socialization, sexism and patriarchal values, then sexuality and sexual identity might
50 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997, p. 103.
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be relevant. Today our lives are still highly affected by our genders and sexualities,
especially if they fall outside of what is considered to be normal.
In a Butlerian spirit of performativity and Foucaultian theories on power I have
attempted to deconstruct the idea of sexuality being based on a gender binary.
Through Foucalts A History of Sexuality I have been able to see the material for this
study in relation to history and language development that proves to show how much
these concepts have changed over the past couple of centuries. Butler recently
introduced theories regarding the social construction of gender that challenges the
idea that gender is natural.
I set out on a mission to do a linguistic forecast into the topic of sexuality by looking
at contemporary queer activism as acted out in colloquial speech in an online dating
forum. Are there signs of any tectonic shifts in the arena of gender and sexuality? Are
we moving away from phrasing sexuality as a reference to an essentialist idea of
gender as a binary? What are the alternatives, how is language changing?
The material in this study illustrates the complexities and contention surrounding
sexuality. One reason why progress has been so slow on this front may have been due
to the difficulties in finding unanimity in the struggle towards equality. Perhaps this is
the lesson learned, that we need to continue listening to all the different voices and
multitude of experiences. We need to practice an openness to the fluidity of sexuality
and not strive towards narrowing and reducing it but rather opening up to the infinite
possibilities of each individual. Could we work towards creating a society that
encourages self-exploration? Could we permit each person to pursue intimate
relationships and desires without fear of shame, stigma or risk of being confined
within a category placed upon them inhibiting their freedom of expression?
Before deciding on my material and method for this essay I thought I wanted to study
queer feminist fantasy to find radical and utopian ideas of a possible future of gender
and sexuality. I realized that I didn’t necessarily need to look at science fiction to
discern visionary fantasies. They lay right before me, in our language, politics and
what we do with our bodies. In my analysis I tried to distinguish these fantasies that
people are striving to bring into reality. Butler writes beautifully of the importance of
fantasy as an articulation of the possible, the not yet actualized. She believes that
fantasy is what allows us to imagine others and ourselves otherwise; it points
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elsewhere, and when it is embodied it brings elsewhere home.51 Butler uses drag,
butch, femme and transgender persons as exemplifying this by making us question
what is real through challenging norms and introducing new modes of reality. The
material and the comments showed me a diverse collection of experiences seeking
validation and striving to create a common truth, knowledge and ultimately
recognition. I don’t see these internal battles as a failure or negative disagreement but
a valuable and needed platform where those who are the most affected are creating an
environment for themselves. If these discourses don’t happen within the queer
community then we will continue to be controlled by other discourses in power with
agendas that don’t always work in our favour.
I believe that the language we have today fails to acknowledge the complexities that
we experience as beings and especially with regards to sexuality. We need to continue
fracturing, bending and opening up knowledge that is recognized as truth with
alternative visions of new possibilities of being. We need to question, “Who does this
knowledge serve and who is still struggling to be seen, recognized and trying to lead a
livable life?”.
As this essay has illustrated, gender is a lot more complex than what is currently
recognized within institutions such as the law, physical and mental health care and
certain social media that are structured around a strict gender binary model and based
on a heteronormative way of living. Butler states that when we struggle for rights, we
are not simply struggling for rights that attach to my person, but we are struggling to
be conceived as persons.52
What can we do to include the people living at the margins or even outside our limits
of understanding? In fact, I should probably not speak of ‘the ones’ as a group of yet
to be discovered category but rather acknowledge that we could all reap the benefits
of a more inclusive language and attitude. One that would permit us to expand our
own sexualities in a more open and tolerant society where we are not branded with an
identity based on what gender we engage in sexually and erotically. Butler writes that
life histories are histories of becoming, and categories can sometimes act to freeze
that process of becoming.53
51 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 28.52
J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p. 32.
53 J. Butler, Undoing Gender, New York, Routledge, 2004, p.80.
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Queen and Schimel express their gratitude to anthropologists, sexologists and students
of sex in history for the documentation of how differently sexual behaviour and
sexual and gender identity can be coded in different places at different times. Thanks
to this transhistorical and crosscultural perspective we are able to see the diversity that
exists and has existed but more importantly the diversity that may exist due to the
relentless process of cultural change.54 They believe that pomosexuals, and I add
queers and others who don’t fit into current patterns of sexuality norms, might point
the way towards this new future. Butler writes in Gender Trouble that the aim of her
text is to open up the field of possibility for gender without dictating what those
possibilities ought to be. She argues that anyone who has understood what it is like to
live in the social world as impossible, unrealizable, unreal or illegitimate would not
question the need for opening up for possibilities.55
I believe that after reclaiming identities such as gay and queer the next step in the
development would be to continue decolonizing the words that were initially used to
harm us, by completely disclaiming them. Butler warns us that “the mobilization of
identity categories for the purpose of politicization always remain threatened by the
prospect of identity becoming an instrument of the power one opposes”.56 The
colonization is seen as done to us by a heteronormative society set out to control and
subordinate any deviant gender/sexuality. After having these identities forced upon us
by authorities in power trying to subjugate us we managed (and are still fighting) to
reclaim and regain our power of self-definition by taking the language and filling it
with new meaning, pride and confidence as well as creating a community. Once we
have succeeded in being accepted in, and as part of the norm we need to continue
standing up for the ones that are still at the margins. I am fully aware that the
propositions I am making are currently not relevant to the vast majority of people
within the queer and LGBT spectrum and there are still very few of us privileged
54 C. Queen and L. Schimel, Pomosexuals: Challenging Assumptions about Gender and Sexuality, Cleis Press, 1997, p. 161.
55 J. Butler, Gender Trouble- Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, Routledge, 1999
56 J. Butler, Gender Trouble- Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, Routledge, 1999
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enough to lead lives that are relatively non-affected by our sexualities and genders in
any negative sense. Kulick and Cameron approach the subject of activism saying that
few who advocate renaming do so because they believe that this change of label will
immediately eliminate material disadvantage. Rather the renaming could be seen as a
challenge to the ideological structures which make the subordinate status of a group
appear natural, acceptable and inevitable.57
57 D. Kulick and D. Cameron, Language and Sexuality, Cambridge University Press, 2003, p. 25.
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