friendship : a never ending relationship.one of the beautiful adventure of lifeA friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. (Proverbs 17:17) You can always tell a real friend: when youve made a fool of yourself, he doesnt feel youve done a permanent job. (Laurence J. Peter) Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends can cheer us when were sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends can motivate us when were ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. They are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share lifes pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily. True friendship is a life time achievement, and a friend is the path through whom huge sentimental, spiritual and even material blessings gush. Interacting warmly with family and friends is a super pressure reducer. Instead of our minds working ultimately on troublesome harms, it is occupied with thoughts of other things and other people. Warm friendship is like fine fitness; value it while you have it. A person like you is the opening point and it should be rather easy to do. People have a fundamental need to be liked themselves, and by showing your admiration of them, they will return your feelings. Admire given out honestly is a immense act of friendship. Be kind, soft, calm, and a good listener. Attempt to seek the positive elements not the terrible qualities in people. It is sad that so many either reject God's friendship or take it for granted. That may be one clarification as to why we do not know how to be friends to each other. Our friends fill our lives with joy. When our friends hurt, we're there to soothe. We desire to know the lot about our friends and find out in life that we really need them. Friends are people we commit to; without true friendship life feels very lonely and incomplete. so here is a short poem about best buddies :To my bachelor of the year What would I do without your ears? You listen, you care, give advice and share. When I need to breathe, you become air, To my little cutie pie,

You are like a ray of shine, There to brighten everyones day, especially mine. Im really glad I met you, Even though at first I didnt get you, We became friends and I came to understand Why you are so grand, took my hand and helped me stand. I love the way you make me smile It gives me courage to walk thousands of miles, You have your own unique style, And you make everything seem worthwhile. Spending time with you is incredible experience, It makes me miss every moment in your absence. I consider myself extremely fortunate Because you give me reason to remember dates. Because of you, I am complete Our friendship makes everyday sweet. So my very own bachelor of the year, Thank you for everything, especially you. Cause you have me smiling from ear to ear. Like no one else could.

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"May there always be work for your hands to do, may your purse always hold a coin or two. May the sun always shine on your windowpane, may a rainbow be certain to follow each rain. May the hand of a friend always be near you, may God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you."

"tere jaisa yaar kahan kahan aisa yaarana yaad karegi duniya tere mera aafsana" remember this lines of a hindi song "yarrana"... true friends,... alwayzz follow this lines. but like most other relationships there are rules of friendship...Being friends through thick and thin is no small feat. Make your friendships deeper and

stronger with this list of friendship tips for teens -- or "friendship rules" -- from Teen Advice. 1. Be Yourself It may seem like a no-brainer, but a lot of teens struggle not to lose their identity once they become part of a group of friends. Though who you are is always changing, especially during your teenage years, some aspects of your personality will stay pretty much the same. Figure out what those things are and think hard about who you want to be, then present yourself honestly and genuinely to the people you hang around with. Sometimes you're going to disagree or not be the most popular member of the group. However, you will always feel you've been true to yourself -- and that you haven't become somebody else's clone. 2. Avoid Gossip Friends don't spread rumors about other friends -- even within their own group. If you've heard something shocking about someone you're friends with, find a considerate way of asking them about it personally. If you're not sure how to talk to them about it, seek the advice of one other trusted friend, but don't let the discussion turn into a free-for-all about everything you don't like about the person. You certainly wouldn't be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others -- and for yourself. 3. Defend Your Friends At some point, somebody you're not tight with is going to question the integrity of one of your friends. It's important to find out both sides of the story in a situation like this, but it's also a good chance to show your friend that you have faith in them by standing up for their reputation. Whenever you can, be respectful of the other person's question or criticism but emphasize that your friend is a good person who deserves the respect of others, even when they make mistakes. 4. Protect Your Friends When a friend of yours is making not-so-great decisions -- whether it's about drugs, alcohol, studying or dating -- do your best to look out for them. This doesn't mean telling them what to do constantly, but you can offer gentle advice and guidance from time to time.

If you give advice in a caring way that shows you value your friend and respect their feelings and wishes, they're much more likely to pay attention. Chances are, what you think means a lot to them, and you can be a good influence. 5. Return the Favor There are times when a friend will lend you a jacket, a textbook or a shoulder to cry on. A good friend will pick you up when you're stuck in a rainstorm and listen patiently when you share a problem with them. Be sure that you're equally as generous with your time, your emotions and your possessions. People will take notice, and it's something to feel good about. so these were the rules.. frienndss... now the most important friendship means no thanksss no sorry.. now let me tell u the signs of toxic friendship Toxic friendships are negative friendships that make you feel unhappy, unhealthy and unequal. We complain to ourselves, other friends, relatives and whomever else will listen to us gripe about how our toxic friends do this and that to us. But we never do anything about it. This lack of decision becomes a bigger problem than the toxic friend. We don't tell our friend that their behaviour causes us to feel a certain way. We wait until our negative feelings and emotions build up and before long we find ourselves exhibiting the traits of a toxic friend. We become the best actor in the world and act as if nothing is wrong; hoping our friend will change or grow up. They don't know how to or in most cases, they just don't want to. After all, if being toxic works for them and gets them what they want out of life, why should they change? so guys... tell out your friends that you dont like that attitude of his/hers... you will feel better and this will reduce the unlikeliness between 2 good friendss

soo this was all the rules and unlikeliness. no let us talk about the funny ever lasting friendshipsA Funny Friendship StoryA long time ago, there was a group of goats who were friends with each other. They

lived high up on the hills and were satisfied with whatever food that they could get. They shared their foods and lived happily in the company of each other. One day, as they looked up from above they saw some farm goats grazing below in the fields below. They came down to meet the farm goats and be friends with them. When the farmer who owned the farm goats saw this, he was very pleased. He invited the wild goats warmly to his home. "Come to my home," he said to the wild goats, "I have prepared a really nice meal for you all." The friends talked with each other. They discussed about the farmer's invitation among themselves. They decided that they should go to the farmer's home, even if it was only for once. That night the farmer entertained the wild goats to a grand feast. The goats were very happy. But as they were enjoying their meal, they found that the farmer had only given scraps to his own goats. "Now we know why the farmer has treated us to this feast," they said to each other. "He is hoping that we would join his herd and make it bigger." And that is what the farmer had really thought. When he finally proposed to the goats that they could join his herd, they declined it instantly. "Why?" cried the farmer, "did I treat you badly? Did you not enjoy the meal? Did I insult you in any way?" "No, you did not. We enjoyed your feast. But we saw what your own goats had," the wild goats answered. "If we stay with you, we will soon starve like your own goats." The advice of friends This funny friendship story gives an important message in a light-hearted way. If you are alone, you can be deceived easily. But when you are with friends, you can consult them and decide your future actions. It is only your friends whom you can discuss your problems and actions with. At every difficult point of life, it is only a friend that you can turn to for help. The advice of friends is what helps a person get over many problems in life. So you should always remain connected with friends. You can consult with your friends if you cannot decide important things for yourself.

Motivational story on friendshipOne day, a man came to Socrates. He told him that he had something to tell him about one of Socrates' friends. But Socrates was a wise man. He could understand from the expressions of the man that he had nothing nice to tell about his friend. So he asked the man to take the "Triple Filter Test". "What is a Triple Filter Test?" asked the curious man. Socrates replied that the Triple Filter Test was a test of truth. He told that to pass this test, the man had to answer only three questions. "And what are they?" asked the man. "Firstly, you should tell me that the information you have about my friend is the absolute truth." said Socrates. The man answered that he was not sure if it was the absolute truth. He had just happened to hear it on the way.

"Tell me then..." said Socrates, "is it something good that you have to say about my friend?" The man said it was actually the opposite. "Is it useful to me in any way? Do you think it is going to help me in any manner?" asked Socrates again. The man replied in the negative. Then Socrates declared that the man was not able to pass his "Triple Filter Test". "If the information regarding my friend is not true, good or useful, then why it should be conveyed at all?" he said. And then he left the place. Avoid talking behind your friends' back This highly inspirational friendship story tells how a friend should behave. It teaches the true worth of friendship and inspires you to become as good a friend as Socrates. In life, you may often come across information regarding your friends. But there is none better than you to tell how good or bad your friend is. This motivational story about friendship goes on to show how much you should avoid talking behind your friends' back. Such information often belongs to loose gossip. They are neither true nor helpful to you in any way. These bad rumors only strain your relation with your friend and ruin your friendship. Friendship is one of the most beautiful relations of all. Without any fuss, confusion, tangles and commitment life becomes a cake-walk if you have a hand of a friend to hold on. It is a divine blessing of God. Don't you agree? If not, then tell me, how is it possible that in population of more than a million you somehow stuck with someone who is just like you? We also say at times, This world is so mean, then how come there are few people who are ready to take all your sorrows and are always there for you when you need them. I can say this because I have been gifted with such a beautiful gift called F.R.I.E.N.D.S in my life. Sometimes I wonder God has given us so many relations to cherish where each one of it having its own importance in our life. Friendship is the only relation out of all which is apart from caste, class, blood or status. It just needs to check the love in the heart of the other person to be friends with. So why do we need friends? What is the importance of friendship in our life? After wondering a lot, I got my answer. Whenever I am upset, they are the first one who notices that sadness in my eyes, no

matter how hard I try to hide it behind my smile. Whenever I am stuck in a problem and have no solution, no matter how serious the issue may be, they are the one who provides me the best possible way out of it. Whenever I need a company they are the one who come to me and make me laugh leaving behind other things. Even if it is about convincing parents for a night out or going to a friends birthday party at discotheque, friends are best in their job. They are the people with whom everything can be discussed without a pre-thought that it is personal. Whenever you look back in your life, youll realize they are the one with whom you have shared the best and the worst. With so much dire need of friends in our life how can we think of existing without them? Though we have many people around us, but there are only close friends who make all the difference. If they are present nothing else matter. Friendship is that innocent feeling as of a small child whose love is unconditional, uncommitted and yet so pure. Friends are a family outside home where the responsibility of each person is shared equally by everyone else. Like a family, they guide you to a right path and never let you divert from your target. They are good to be relied on and there is a sense of security whenever you are with them. Friendship is like an investment, the more you invest the more you reap. An investment is in terms of trust and faith which is the root of any strong relation. No matter how much you spend together on your vodkas or how many night outs you have enjoyed together, if there is no seed of trust and faith in the soil the tree of friendship cannot stand long. Agree, one also has the support of parents, lover, kids and siblings but having a friend is like a shot in the arm. A knight in the shining armor, your mate offers you wonderful health benefits. Friends are known to improve your immunity system. Apart from acting as a wonderful support system, friends can keep you motivated and can also comfort you. Relationships provide us stability. They are an amazing source of relaxation.In this world where you will find cut-throat competition at every place, having a good friend is a great source of relief. Its all give and take in a relationship. People should be motivated and inspired enough to make new friends and cherish older ones. "A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself". This quote aptly describes the role that a friend plays in your life. Friends are the ones who are always there for you, whether the times are good or bad. They never leave your side, even in the worst of circumstance. When you are sitting with a friend, you dont feel the need to say words. He/she understands even you silence. Still, many people fail to recognize the importance of friends in their life. In the following lines, we have explained why friends are important and what role do they play in our life.

" In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed. "

Friends are always there for us, to laugh with us in the happy times and to provide us with a shoulder, when we feel like crying. They serve as one of the biggest supports in our life. Friends are amongst those few people who accept us, rather like us, as we are. They never come into our life, expecting us to change for them. However, they do correct us when we are at fault. It is said that whether you need to hear the bitter truth about yourself, go to your best friend. He/she will never lie to you, just to please you and win your favors. What he/she says is the truth about you. You can always count on your friends, whether you need any advice or any help. They will shy away from none. The best part is that a friends advice will always be for your betterment, whether it hurts you or pleases you. After family, friends are the one who care for you. They bring a smile on your face when you are sad and they go out of the way to make things alright for you. Friends are the ones with whom we can share our darkest secrets, without being worried of them being leaked. They acknowledge our worst ideas and try to fulfill our silliest of wishes. Friends feel happy at your success and sad at your failure. They share all your feelings and make you feel that there is somebody who still cares for you. When you have friends, you never ever feel lonely.

Friends love you and care for you. They always make you feel special and never expect anything in return, other than your love and friendship. They stay true to you throughout their lives. When people bond with one another they eventually produce a relationship that grows into an unbreakable friendship. Friends are like guardian angels sent from heaven willing to help, guide and protect others. In every situation friends are there to lend a helping hand, dry your tears, or pick you up when you fall down. However, friendships do not only work one way but two ways. A poem entitled "If One Day",i hope you enjoy it :If one day you feel like crying, call me. I don't promise that I will make you laugh, but I can cry with you. If one day you want to run away, don't be afraid to call me. I don't promise to ask you to stop but I can run with you. If one day you don't want to listen anymore, call me. I promise to be there for you. And I promise to be very quiet. But if one day you call, and there is no answer, come fast to see me. Perhaps I need you. This poem describes the commitment, loyalty, love and trust that can be shared between individuals. Having a guardian angel or friend is a gift, but having a circle of friends is a blessing. When you have a group of people who are willing to be there for you in any situation, it is easier to face the many winding roads life may bring you on. True friendship isn't seen with the eyes, it is felt with the heart. When there is trust, understanding, loyalty, and sharing. True friendship is a rare feeling, but when it is found It has profound impact on our well-being, strength, and character. True friendship does not need elaborate gifts Or spectacular events in order to be valuable or valued. To ensure long-lasting quality and satisfaction, True friendship only needs a few key ingredients: Undying loyalty, unmatched understanding, unsurpassed trust, Deep and soulful secrets, and endless sharing. These ingredients, mixed with personality and a sense of humor, Can make a friendship last a lifetime! This is just a thank you, my friend, for all the wonderful and colorful Special ingredients You've brought to my life!

Pass this on to such a friend!

so friends now here are some of my own writings for all my friends :-.. and for those who love there friends so here u goo...old friends are gold new friends may be diamond . if you get diamond dont ever forget gold because to hold a diamond you need a gold base... :) tease a true friend as much as you want they wont stop loving you but if you cheat a true friend it wont hurt or hate you but it wont dare to love you again... Dosti dil hai dimag nahi dost sonch hai awaz nahi koi aankhon se nahi dekh sakta saachi dosti ka jazba kyunki dosti ehsaan hai aandaz nahi

Atlast guys the most beautiful quote on friends that i have ever made:- hope u like itAaj hum hain kal hamari yadein hongi jab hum na honge tab hamari batein hongi kabhi palthoge zindagi ke yeh panne to shayad aapke aankhon se bhi aanson ki barsatein hogi

TO ALL MY TRUE , EVERLASTING FRIENDS

"Yaara teri yaari ko maine tu khuda manna Yaad karegi duniya tera mera afsaana"Life with friends becomes an easy going journey that you would never like to get over with. Each day spent with them is to be cherished in a different way even if some days bring lot of misunderstandings or fights. But whatever it is, friendship is an old book, while turning its pages you go through a lot of mixed feelings realizing that even after sharing the best and the worst you are still together. i luv my friends forever and ever... and a short suggestion to all ...dearies... we have got a very small life... that is only one... people say that there are 7 births.. but i dunno why i dont believe. i think we have got only one life which we should live to its full .." so eat it up drink it down avoid the bullshit and most important enjoy with your friends to the full ... give the same impotrance to all friends... kyunki "HAR EK FRIEND ZAROORI HAI YAAR"....