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For Your Family’s Sake – Collaborateand the Role of the Collaborative Mediator
Brenda L. London, Esquire
www.AikinLaw.com
The Aikin Family Law Group
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Welcome and Overview
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“Family Court is a highly adversarial process that rewards combative thinking and behavior. That is why people with Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder are attracted to the court system.”
Bill Eddy
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What are the three ancient healing professions?
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“Effective Collaboration”
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The Collaborative Law Process
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The Collaborative Law Process
Roadmap to Resolution
7 Steps to Success
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 1
Understand and Agree to the Process
A. Sign the Participation Agreement
B. Agree to the Rules
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 2
Discuss Interests and Goals
Interest-Based Bargaining
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 3
Deal with any interim issues
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 4
Gather Information
A. What is needed?
B. Assign Tasks/homework
C. Review Information
D. Work through differences
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 5
Creatively problem-solve
A. Identify Issues
B. Brainstorm Options
C. Evaluate Outcomes
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The Collaborative Law ProcessStep 6
Negotiate Agreement
A. Compare outcomes with their goals
B. Eliminate options that don’t meet either party’s goals
C. Narrow options to those that most closely meet goals
D. Jointly determine which options come closest to meeting each of the couple’s goals
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The Collaborative Law Process
Step 7
Finalize Agreement - Signing
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Participation Agreement
Prior to termination of the collaborative law process, or to further facilitate the collaborative law process, we agree to participate in mediation in good faith with a mediator who has received training in the collaborative process.
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“Please Pass The Butter”
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The Collaborative Mediator
Collaboratively Trained
Honors the Team
Does the homework
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Mediation Techniques
Facilitative Mediation
Evaluative Mediation
Transformative Mediation
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Facilitative Mediation
Facilitative Mediation is designed to facilitate the conversation so that clients can come to an agreement.
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Evaluative Mediation
In Evaluative Mediation the role of the mediator is to evaluate the dispute through the lens of existing law.
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Transformative Mediation
In Transformative Mediation the mediator’s focus and role is to identify opportunities to assist the clients in gaining empowerment and recognition to effect deeper change and resolution.
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“There is one thing stronger than all the armies in the world, and that is an idea whose time has come.”
Victor Hugo
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Thank You!
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