FIVE TYPES OF MEN THATWILL BREAK YOUR

HEART.

Omowonuola Omoghene

Helloooooooooo. I am very happy that you're here reading this guide because it tellsme you're willing to acquire the knowledge you need to build aloving, beautiful and God glorifying courtship with a man you will beproud to call husband and father to your children. If you tired of going from one relationship to another, andyou are tired of enduring heartbreak after heartbreak, wouldn’t it benice to be able to know if a guy will end up breaking your heartbefore you go into a relationship with him? If your answer is yes, then this free guide is for you.In it you will learn five different types of men you shouldn’t botherdating because they will end up breaking your heart. If your guy fits into any of these categories, there is a 99.9%chance that he’s not your “Mr. Right”, pls move on! Are you ready? Let’s do this!

You probably know this fine, young, dashing guy. Yes, Mr.string you along is fine, no doubt about it. And peradventurehe’s not that fine, he has a very sweet mouth, that is quick togive you a broad smile or fill your ears with nice comments. Hesays all the right things, everything to keep you interested inhim, but nothing to show that he’s committed or willing to makea commitment to you. When you think of him, you’re always wondering, “when is hegoing to ask me out?” “when will he make it official?” “when willhe let all the important people in his life know that we’re in arelationship?” etc. He keeps you wondering, giving one excuse after another tojustify his unwillingness to be fully committed to you, but he hasno problem taking whatever benefits you’re offering or whateveradvantage comes along with hanging around you. He is stringing you along until he finds the one, he will committo. The best way to deal with Mr. string you along, is to cut thestrings. Free yourself from this situationship/friends with benefitsituation and wait for the man that will recognize you as his wifeand waste no time to proclaim you wife.

Mr “String you along”

A man typically knows what he wants with you after a fewinteractions with you, whether you’d be a good acquaintance, agreat friend or if he would want you to be his wife. When Mr.Right is sure of his intentions towards you, he will let you know.He won’t keep you guessing because he doesn’t want to losehis chance with you. He cannot risk losing you. If this man can afford to keep biding time, stringing you along,making empty promises, not making any commitments, it’sbecause he can afford to lose you and if he can afford to loseyou, then he doesn’t deserve to have you. So, once a again,cut the strings babygirl. And even if by any chance, he is unsure, that is, he likes you,but he doesn’t know for sure yet that you’re the one (probablybecause he has other options), the best way to deal with thesituation is to remove yourself from his list of options (CUTTHE STRINGS). If the possibility of losing you does not wake him up/open hiseyes, I don’t know what else will. So, let him go. If he is yours,he will come back with a ring, no strings attached (punintended, lol).

Mr “String you along”  

This young dude comes in different shapes and sizes (as doall the others, lol). It is interesting how he is typically kind andcaring on first contact. He is the one that will seem to be able tobe able to give anything to you and for you, because he’s all intoyou. Then you begin to notice it little by little that he’s always askingwhere you are, what you’re doing etc. At first you convinceyourself that it’s normal. He only cares about you, that’s all. Itdoesn’t take too long however, before you realize that if there’sany change of plans about the location or activity you hadmentioned to him, he goes a little overboard with his display of“concern”. You begin to wonder, “I mean plans change now, that doesn’tmake me a liar, besides we are not married, I’m not under anyobligation to inform you of my every move and activity especiallywhen it has absolutely nothing to do with you”. But you can only think that within yourself, you can’t say it to himbecause you know that will only aggravate his displeasure&anger. Just as you’re uncovering all this behavior and you’rebeginning to wonder if you aren’t about to make a mistake bychoosing him, gbam, a gift arrives, usually an expensive one or avery thoughtful one, one that you can’t say no to.

Mr “low self esteem”

Then you begin to tell yourself “but he truly loves me, if hedoesn’t, why would he go to such length, stretching himself to getme this or do this for me”. What you fail to realize is that Mr. low self esteem buys people’slove and affection as opposed to earning it. To buy someone’saffection is much cheaper than earning it, no matter howexpensive the gift is. Because to win someone’s heart, we mustfirst work on our character and behave consistently in a mannerthat is worthy of such person. This is hard work forMr. low self esteem, because how can he who isn’t confident inhis own worth and value behave consistently in a manner worthyof you? He knows his own failings, but he’s hoping you’d continuallyoverlook them as you keep receiving his expensive andthoughtful gifts. The question is will you? But before you answer,I should let you know categorically that Mr. low self-esteem’sdisplay of anger/displeasure will cost you more than his gifts costhim, because it’s only a matter of time before his raised voiceraging with insults will become a raised fist, and he will batteryour self-esteem, sense of worth, freedom and rights, not tomention your pretty face. So, I ask you again, will you allow your heart to be bought withgifts or earned with good character? Because the only way todeal with Mr. low self-esteem is with a big fat “NO, I deservemore than this, go get the help you need”.

Mr “low self esteem” 

What this guy wants from you is clear to you, you know it’s allabout your appearance, your “sexiness”, his desire for you, hisinability to control himself because he claims, “you’re tooattractive”. Mr. test drive doesn’t always come across as bad, no, not atall. Perhaps he praises you for your good character too. Perhapshe often talks about how intelligent/smart you are and how you’dmake a good wife. Perhaps he claims to truly love you (and itseems he does). Perhaps he invests in your dreams and goals,sacrifices for you, and listens to you.But if he wants to sleep with you before getting married toyou, he is still Mr. test drive. He wants to take your body on aspin to determine if he should pay for it. Are you a car? If the touching, smooching, kissing etc. are all fine by you, thenyou do not know your own worth, so you’re settling for less thanyou deserve. Let me tell you what you’re worth. You’re worth a man thatwill give it all without knowing if you’d give yourself to him. Howdo I know this? Because a man already did that, His name isJesus. He laid it all down without knowing if you’d lay yourselfdown at His feet. So, it is plain foolishness to turn your back onJesus because of Mr. Test-drive.

Mr “Test drive”

Succumbing to the desires of Mr. Test drive isn’t just about younot knowing what you’re worth, it’s more about you choosing todisobey God. It is you laying a sinful foundation for what you’rehoping will be a godly courtship, is that even possible? It’s as simple as this, you’re either saying No to Mr. test drive oryou’re saying No to God, which will it be? He cannot befornicating with you and at the same time drawing you closer toGod. He cannot be messing you up with sinful desires and at thesame time washing you with the water of the word. It’s notpossible. So, Mr. test drive is a “No, not today, not ever” for any girl who isserious about her relationship with God and serious aboutbuilding a godly courtship and marriage. Yes, I know that even godly men may have an occasionalmoment of weakness/lapse in judgement, but if he’s busydefending/making excuses for that weakness rather than activelydoing away with it, he’s not your Mr. right.

Mr “Test drive ” 

If you haven’t fallen victim to this guy before, you’re probablywondering why any girl in her right sense would be with someonewho clearly doesn’t love her. I’d tell you why, it’s because hedoesn’t appear to be that way in the beginning, and by the timehe shows who he really is to her, she feels she’s in too deep andwill just keep managing whatever crumbs of his affection she canget. Or perhaps he has led her to believe that all she’s gettingfrom him is all she deserves and will ever get from anyone else. So, here’s how it starts out, he pursues you just like every otherregular guy would, but he has a hidden agenda, he wantssomething from you and that’s why he pursues you. He is slightlydifferent from Mr. test drive, because while all Mr. test drivewants is sex, he wants other things as well. Could be yourmoney, or the social status he gains by being with you if you'reinfluential or famous or excellent in your endeavours. If you only consider his pursuit (calling, texting, asking you outetc.) as an evidence of love, you may not quickly recognize hisselfish motive. Pursuit is only one of the evidences of love, thereare others and none of them are negotiable. (The evidences oftrue love is taught in detail as a module in IMR which is myproven step by step formula for identifying your Mr. right.)

Mr "clearly doesn't love you"

You will be easily susceptible to Mr. clearly doesn’t love you ifyou are a loner, or you have low self-esteem or you’redesperately seeking for a relationship. I know this because itdoesn’t take too long before he reveals his apathy towards you. He knows you’re hungry for love and has swallowed that littlepursuit/display of affection hook, line and sinker, and want moreof it. So, his display of love towards you becomes a bait “if youwant my love, you have to give me this or do that”. He doesn’tsay that directly, but it shows in his attitude and that becomes thetone of your relationship. While he’s still getting what he wants from you, he maintains aleash on you, sometimes pulling you close, just enough to get hisneeds met, then pulling away right after, because he reallydoesn’t want to be with you. You can bet that as soon as he’sdone/satisfied/has attained his desires or goals, he will dump youwithout any regard for consequences. The easiest way to identify Mr. clearly doesn’t love you isto check for the other evidences of true love. If they are missingyou can bet that in the shortest possible time, he will change hisattitude towards you. You can’t wait for that to happen, say no tohim and choose to wait for a man that has no selfish motivestowards you.

Mr "clearly doesn't love you"

Lol, yeah I coined his name from the lyrics of that song, becausetrue to his name, this guy will only pretend to love God/want toserve God like you, because he wants to be with you. If you’renot sensitive or observant, it will be so easy to fall prey to him. On one end of the spectrum, this guy may be plain deceptive,pretending to be spiritual only to win your heart. After he “gets”you, he has every plan of luring you into his original sinful way oflife. On the other end of the spectrum, he may not beintentionally deceiving, he may simply lack the personal drive toseek God for himself. Through his friendship with you, he mayfollow you to church/ to serve God. However, if you fall/faintspiritually, he doesn’t have the capacity to pick you up. Hecannot strengthen you and he cannot lead you. He cannot eveninspire growth in you. This evangelationship may seem noble to you, but it’s only amatter of time before you realize it’s not working. He’s eithercausing you to fall into sin (because that’s way easier than youcompelling him to grow spiritually) or he’s not providing anyspiritual support for you. You will find that you cannot evendiscuss matters with him on a spiritual level and this causes youto be heartbroken and hungry for more.

Mr "for your sake I will go to church"

Like I have said before “iron sharpens iron, not wood”. For you tohave a successful courtship with a man, as an intentionallygrowing Christian that you are, he must also be intentional abouthis spiritual growth. He must be someone who chooses to seekGod with or without you in his life. If he doesn’t fit this criteria I.e. you can’t see any signs that he’scommitted to his own spiritual growth, encourage him, motivatehim as a friend, but do not, I repeat, do not even think of goinginto courtship with him. Talk yourself out of/pray against anyfeeling you may have for him. If he is not committed to God, hecannot know how to truly love and be committed to you.

Mr "for your sake I will go to church"

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My name is Omowonuola Omoghene. In 2012, I broke up with a man I thought was the one. I was thenconfronted with loving/being in love with guys who were somewhat, butnot really interested in me. I didn't know exactly what to look out for in apotential spouse or what really mattered in making this most crucialchoice with its lifetime consequences. After a couple of breakups and many tears shed, through deep researchin books, seeking counsel from worthy mentors, I developed a step bystep method to get clarity on the crucial non negotiable things to look outfor in a potential spouse, and armed with this truth, I made my choice. Today, we have been happily married for 3 years. Life as a couple hascome with its challenges, but one thing I'm sure of is that I am with theright person for me and I made the right choice. I am with a man thatactually loves me, supports me, encourages and inspires me. My goal is to help young ladies who are experiencing one failedrelationship after another, confused and fearful about their marital futureto find real love and commitment through my proven signature method ofchoosing the right spouse - Identify Mr. Right.JOIN THE WAITING LIST BELOW!

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