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FIRO –BFundamental Interpersonal Relationship Orientation- Behavior
Introduction
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FIRO-BFIRO-B
Fundamental Interpersonal Relationship Orientation – Behavior. FIRO-B can be defined as the way in which an individual characteristically relates to other people.
Objectives Of FIRO-BObjectives Of FIRO-B
To construct a measure of how an individual acts in interpersonal situations and
To construct a measure that will lead to the prediction of interaction between people.
FIRO-B is designed to measureFIRO-B is designed to measure
The individual’s behaviour towards othersThe behaviour he wants from othersIn the three areas of interpersonal
interaction i.e -Inclusion (I) -Control (C) -Affection (A)
Inclusion (I)Inclusion (I)
Behaviour directed towards the satisfaction of the interpersonal need of inclusion, the need to maintain and establish a satisfactory relation with people with regards to association.
Inclusion connotes interaction with people, attention, acknowledgement being known, prominence, recognition, prestige, individuality, understanding, interest, commitment and participation.
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Unlike affection it does not cannotes strong emotional attachment to people.
Unlike control the preoccupation is with prominence not dominance.
Control (C)Control (C)
Behaviour directed to satisfy the interpersonal need for control, the need to maintain a satisfactory relation with people with respect to power and authority (control).
It relates to making decisions, discipline, goal settings, dominance, guidance, giving directions, influencing, ruling, leading, antonyms to control would be rebellion, resistance, following, anarchy and submission.
Affection (A)Affection (A)
Behaviour directed toward the satisfaction of interpersonal need for affection and love. It centers around feelings of warmth, love and emotional acceptance, friendship.
Lack of affection would mean cool emotionally distant, dislike and hate.
Affection involves sharing one’s inner anxieties, wishes and feelings.
Inclusion is concerned with – IN or OUT
Control is concerned with – TOP or BOTTOM
Affection is concerned with – CLOSE or FAR
Interpersonal NeedInterpersonal Need
A requirement for a person to establish a satisfactory relation between himself and other people.
‘Relations’ refers to the amount of interchange between himself and others and the degree to which he originates, receives behaviour.
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Expressed Behaviour (E) (Actions taken by a person towards
others)
Wanted Behaviour (W) (Behaviours from other people that a
person feels will satisfy an interpersonal need.
Dimension Expressed Wanted Dimension Expressed Wanted Behavior Behavior Behavior Behavior
Inclusion - I initiate interaction I want to be included
Control - I control People I want to be controlled
Affection - I act close and I want people to be
personal close and personal to me
Summary of parent child Summary of parent child RelationsRelations
Too Much - Inclusion is called enmeshing and leads
to person Over social - Control is called Dominate and leads to
person autocratic - Affection is called smother and leads to
person Over personal
Too littleToo little
Inclusion is called abandon and leads the person under social
Control is called undirect and leads the person abdicating
Affection is called unlove and leads the person underpersonal
IdealIdeal
Inclusion is called acceptance and leads the person social
Control is called respect and leads the person democratic
affection is called love and leads the person intimate
Inclusion (I) Social behaviourInclusion (I) Social behaviour
It is the behavior directed to satisfy the interpersonal need for the interaction or association or belonging.
It ConnotesInteraction with peopleCommunicationBelongingAppreciationRecognition
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PrestigeUnderstandingInterestInvitationParticipationAttentionCommitmentInvolvement
Affection (A) Emotional OpennessAffection (A) Emotional Openness
It connotes the behavior directed to satisfy the interpersonal need for affection and love
Affection connotesEmotional warmth and acceptanceFriendshipIntimacySharing deepest feelings, aspirations,
worries etc.
Control © Leadership Behaviour Control © Leadership Behaviour
It is the behaviour directed to satisfy the interpersonal need for control.
Control ConnotesTaking Initiatives & making decisionsMaking DecisionsTaking ResponsibilityGiving DirectionEnforcing disciplineGoal setting and accountability
Abdicator Too little Control Abdicator Too little Control IndicatorIndicator
Avoids responsibilityToo people centeredAmbiguousEscapes/ComplainingIdealistAvoid decisions
Autocrat IndicatorAutocrat Indicator
Monopolize decision makingSuppresses InitiativesCentralize powerDepower peopleNo delegation or delegation without authorityExaggerate others’ weaknessesCreate fear psychosisKills creativity and innovations
Democrat indicatorDemocrat indicator
Takes initiativesDecisiveDelegatesProblem solver and result orientedTeam builderTrustsFirmEmpower people insightfullyInduce commitment
Subconscious Childhood Decisions Subconscious Childhood Decisions leading to Dysfunctional Behavior in leading to Dysfunctional Behavior in AdulthoodAdulthood
Inclusions (Social behaviour)
Dysfunction FunctionalI am not wanted I am wantedI am not O.K I am O.KI don’t belong I do belong
I am not Important I am Important
Control (Leader ship behavior)Control (Leader ship behavior)
Dysfunction FunctionalI can never do it right I get things rightI cannot decide I can decideI cannot think I can think
I am not competent I am competent
Psychological Script inducing Psychological Script inducing messagesmessages
Dysfunction FunctionalNo matter what I I impact life’s challengesDo, it changes with confidence andNothing; life get energyWorse
What I Feel think do, What I feel, think andDoes not matter, what do, is important and can I do alone Valuable
Affection (Emotional Openness)Affection (Emotional Openness)
Dysfunction Functional
I am not likable I am likableLife is a disaster life is fun
I am not lovable I am lovable
Existential AnxietiesExistential Anxieties
I may not be important !
I may not be competent !
I may not be likable !
The Solution (Elevation)The Solution (Elevation)
Auto suggestionsI am importantI am competentI am likableAuto suggestions help release out
subconscious energies leading to success.
Some good feelingsSome good feelings
Be realistic in your expectation of others and your self
Give adult (objective, rational, relevant) facts or ask questions
Be aware of the way you structure your time and energy
Determine if organization structure provides you with the support you need to accomplish the necessary task of your job.
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Speak to clarity and to create a successul working environment.
Be a problem solver, realistic limit setter and authentic helper.
Be aware of the way you give or receive positive and negative feedback.
INGREDIENTS OF DELEGATINGINGREDIENTS OF DELEGATING
Assigning role and responsibility.Agreeing on time frame.Agreeing on resourcesAgreeing on personnel.Stating / agreeing on standard of
completion.
HOW TO DELEGATE GUIDELINESHOW TO DELEGATE GUIDELINES
Assign responsibility with enough authority to handle task.
Provide a frame work so that is understood and so that task becomes meaningful.
Assign credit for completion of task.Be accountable for failure.
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