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finding l♥ve ❘ a special advertising report THE SUNDAY TELEGRAPH, FEBRUARY 6, 2011
Farmer meetscity soul mate
Distance no barrier:Maree Hamilton andPeter Stone
P ETER Stone had met mosteligible bachelorettes in hissmall town and had given up
on finding love – until he met a citywoman looking for a country guy.
‘‘I’d had a couple ofrelationships,’’ says Peter, 57, fromWingham, 12km northwest of Taree.‘‘I’ve met ladies at the pub — it’sgood entertainment and fun, but Ifelt I needed to look further afield.I’m a hard man to please.’’
Spotting a potential match,introduction agency Vital Partnersplayed cupid.
‘‘Distance wasn’t an issue forme,’’ says Peter, who signed up withthe agency in February, 2007. ‘‘Iknew there was no point saying Iwant someone from my area. Iwanted more options,’’ .
Maree Hamilton, 48, alsocontacted Vital Partners around thesame time and wasn’t deterred bytheir 350km distance either.
‘‘A lot of people ask why I don’tgo out with someone locally,’’ saysMaree, from Parramatta. ‘‘I had theopportunity, but I’m not interested. Ilike the lifestyle and Peter’s attitudeto life.’’
Now Maree is preparing to give upher city life to move in with Peter inApril. It’s a big move for both ofthem, as Peter has lived alone sinceseparating from his wife of 23 yearsmore than a decade ago.
‘‘Some ladies wouldn’t be happymoving from the city,’’ he says.‘‘Maree’s much better than Ithought she’d be at coping with farmlife. She’s got good common sense.
There are tough situations whendealing with cattle – sometimesthere’s blood and manure,’’ jokesPeter, a cattle farmer.
Choking back tears, he adds:‘‘She’s my best friend, which isunreal. I’d forgotten what being inlove properly was. Only in the last sixmonths I have resisted. I alwaysthought I could live on my own. Icoped OK, but there was always thatlittle part missing. It’s great Mareehas stuck by me.’’
Peter was the first person Mareemet through the agency. Beforecontacting Vital Partners, she wassingle for around two years, but‘‘focused on doing things aroundhome’’ and buying her own property.
‘‘When I got his photo I knew Iliked him, I got a feeling,’’ saysMaree.
‘‘I wanted to find someone whowas honest, good and fun to be with,had a good sense of humour andtreated me nicely.
‘‘Peter has a delightful sense ofhumour, he’s not really serious aboutlife and takes things as they come –as farmers do,’’ she adds.
Dates for the long-distance couplehave included trips to the horseraces, taking in the Sydney sights,drives to the Blue Mountains, timeon Peter’s farms and getting to knowhis two grown-up sons.
Both share a love of the greatoutdoors. ‘‘She likes the open spaces,which I do too,’’ says Peter.
Maree agrees: ‘‘I like driving andit’s been an opportunity to go awayfor the weekend.’’
Big risk - and nowone happy family
Clickedinstantly:Melanie andRod and babyShaylee.Below, ontheir weddingday
F OUR years after they metthrough an introductionagency, Melanie and Rod
Cage were married with adaughter; now they are expectingtheir second child.
‘‘Every day, I am thankful. Ican’t believe how lucky I was,’’says Melanie, 33.
‘‘I went into it hoping to meetsomebody I’d be able to spend therest of my life with, hoping thatthere was someone for me, but Iwasn’t going to settle for anyone. Ican look after myself,’’ she adds.
‘‘Now I look at Rod and can’tbelieve either of us did it. Neitherof us is that sort of person. Takingrisks like that is a big thing,’’ shesays of her bold move to contactVital Partners after moving toSydney from Wagga Wagga in2005.
‘‘I didn’t have any friends inSydney to go to clubs with anddidn’t really want to meet peoplethere. I’m not sure about internetdating and that sort of thingeither.’’
After meeting six or sevensuitors through the dating agency,Melanie, a police officer, wasintroduced to Rod, 42, and bothquickly decided they didn’t wantto see other people. A few monthslater, they moved in together.
‘‘I really liked him,’’ saysMelanie. ‘‘We could have a real
conversation and seemed to havesimilar interests and likes.’’
The following year, on their firstromantic holiday, Melanie wassecretly hoping Rod would pop thequestion: ‘‘I was expecting him topropose in the Hunter Valley, butit didn’t happen.’
Melanie didn’t have to waitlong, though, as a few days laterRod asked her in Melbourne. ‘‘We
were having dinner at a nicerestaurant on Collins Street,’’ shesays. ‘‘He waited for therestaurant to be empty, I went tothe bathroom and came back tofind he had the ring on his pinkiefinger.’’
Reflecting on the proposal, Rodjokes: ‘‘I was waiting for the placeto clear out a little in case I had todo it in front of 20,000 people.
‘‘It was a huge moment. Iactually had the ring for quite afew months before that,’’ he adds.
In April, 2008, the couple weremarried in an intimate ceremonywith 55 of their closest friends andfamily.
The couple now live in the BlueMountains and have a daughter,Shaylee, who is almost two, andare looking forward to their nextaddition.
‘‘It’s been fantastic; she’s agreat little kid,’’ says Rod.
‘‘She’s tall. I think she’ll takeafter her mother’s brothers. I cansee both of us in her, she has mywife’s eyes – steely blue.Sometimes I look at her and seethe darker features which belongto me.’’
As their family grows, Melaniesays the romance in theirrelationship does too: ‘‘He’sromantic, but does it in his ownway – it’s not just the specialoccasions, but every day.’’
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