feng shui and romance · 2013. 3. 11. · Feng Shui tips to enhance bonds between us and our loved...
Transcript of feng shui and romance · 2013. 3. 11. · Feng Shui tips to enhance bonds between us and our loved...
SEPT 2011 S P E C I A L E D I T I O N F E N G S H U I A R T I C L E
Romance matters are undoubtedly
popular reasons for any Feng Shui
consultations. We are currently on
the eighth month of Chinese lunar
calendar, where the mid autumn
festival is celebrated. For Chinese
beliefs, this festival celebrates love
and bonds in families, where
everyone gathers for a meal and
servings of delicious mooncakes.
Not only that; it is believed that
the energy of love is the highest
for this month as the full moon is
approaching on the 14th day of the
lunar month. Whether you are
attached or currently looking for
someone, here are some practical
Feng Shui tips to enhance bonds
between us and our loved ones in
this special month.
Love is in the air, it is the 8th lunar month!SPICE UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH FENG SHUI!
FENG SHUI & ROMANCE
The first thing you need to check is of course, the place where you
recuperate and bond with your loved ones. There should be minimal
disturbances there, especially in the area of potential bad energies such
as 2 and 5 areas of flying stars. Apart from that, have you got any dark
and dimmed corners in your house that need more attention ? Before
you activate anything else, your house must not be ‘sickly’; it is ideally in
a good Feng Shui condition and smooth energy flow. Otherwise, your
‘romance cure’ may not be effective at all.
1. check your house feng shui
2. auspicious bedroom is the keyFor those who have partners or married, bedroom is like the
sanctuary of your relationship. To enhance romance, ensure your bed
is facing towards a good position (for example, Yan Nian sector in 8
mansions theory). A bedroom should produce a quiet and soothing
atmosphere. Avoid having moving water or mirrors that are facing
your bed, as they bring restlesness energy into the room.
3. activate your romance sectorThose who are actively searching for partners will need to activate
their ‘peach blossom’ sector with a vase of fresh flowers or other
items (described further at the next page). You will need your Four
Pillars of Destiny to determine this sector, and appropriate timing of
activation will also maximise the result.
SYMBOLS MAY WORK ON A SUBCONSCIOUS LEVEL. WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANCE, ANYTHING THAT WILL EVOKE GOOD FEELINGS FOR YOUR HEART WILL WORK THE SAME WAY.
4. bask under themoonlight energyFor couples who want to spice up
romance, you can make use of this
month’s strongest ‘peach blossom’
energy, which is believed to occur on
the eve of the mooncake festival night
(12th September). You can stroll
down for walk under the moonlight,
or by doing other outdoor activities
on the eve of the full moon.
5. at workplaceFor some industries, activating peach
blossom area is critical. Example of
these are hospitality, entertainment
and other industries that focus on
people and services. Business with
sales and marketing department can
enhance peach blossom in that
par t i cu l a r sec tor for be t ter
performance. We can do this by
introducing colours and room
layouts that are conducive for
people’s interaction, as well as
p l a c e m e n t o f fl owe r s w h e n
appropriate. A more detailed Feng
Shui audit will need to be done on
this to ensure maximum result.
On the final note, success in
relationship ultimately lies within our
heart’s pure intention through the
small things we do everyday. If you
are looking for partners, take
proactive actions: do not just lit
candles and wait around at home!
Let us be sincere and radiate love to
those we care all year round, and
love Qi will definitely knock back on
our door.
Happy ‘Chinese Valentine’s Day’,
everyone!
OTHER SYMBOLIC ITEMS
WHEN PEOPLE ASKED ME: ‘DO MANDARIN DUCKS WORK?’ I WOULD SAY IT DEPENDS; WHETHER YOU LIKE THE DUCKS TO BEGIN WITH, AND WHETHER YOU UNDERSTAND THE MEANING BEHIND IT.
THINGS THAT ARE MEANINGFUL FOR YOU SUCH AS THINGS FROM YOUR FIRST DATES OR HONEYMOON WILL ALSO BE A POWERFUL SYMBOL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU CAN PUT THIS ON YOUR ROMANCE SECTOR, SO THAT IT WILL BRING YOU SMILE AND WARM FEELING EVERYTIME YOU COME ACROSS IT.
FLOWERS OR PLANTSFLOWERS AND PLANTS ADD LIVELY AND BEAUTIFUL ENERGY IN THE SECTOR. NOT ONLY THAT, IT WILL ALSO BRING OUT THE NURTURING SIDE OF A PERSON, AS YOU NEED TO WATER IT EVERY NOW AND THEN. TAKING CARE OF PLANTS MAY NOT BE EASY FOR SOME PEOPLE BUT AS FAR AS RELATIONSHIP GOES, IT TAKES EFFORT TO NURTURE IT IN YOUR HEART AS WELL!
PICTURES OF YOUR LOVED ONESPORTRAITS CAN BE POWERFUL TO EVOKE GOOD MEMORIES. CHOOSE YOUR ROMANCE SECTOR TO HAVE A DISPLAY OF FAMILY PORTRAITS IF YOU HAVE ANY. LOOKING AT THOSE WILL REMIND YOU OF THE BONDS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR LOVED ONES.
DO NOT PUT ANY DEPRESSING, DARK OR GLOOMY PAINTINGS OR IMAGES AT YOUR ROMANCE SECTOR, ESPECIALLY IF YOU WANT TO ENHANCE YOUR ROMANCE LIFE OR LOOKING FOR A PARTNER
what to put at your romance sectorAFTER DETERMINING THE LOCATION OF YOUR ROMANCE OR PEACH BLOSSOM SECTOR FROM YOUR BIRTH DATA, HERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT YOU CAN PUT THERE TO ACTIVATE THE SECTOR:
Written by: Anita Zou, B.ArchArchitect, interior designer , www.natura-home.com Edited by: GM Vincent Koh, Singapore Feng Shui Centre