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Family Communication
What is a Family?
"There is no right way to be a family.”
•Kathleen Galvin
The Family is a System!
• Virginia Satir
Communication is Transactional
•A continuous, ever-changing process•We do not relate to each other We relate to a mental
picture we create in our heads of each otherThese pictures are negotiated over time.
Families Develop Over Time
Couple
Family with Young Children
Family with School Age Children
Family with Teenagers
Family Launching
Empty Nest
A Family has Two Primary Communication Functions
Cohesion–How tightly or loosely knit
Adaptability
–How to handle change? How to assign roles?
Disengaged
Enmeshed
Chaotic
Rigid
Empty Nest
Family with Young Children
Family with School Aged Children
Family with Teenagers
Family Launching
Couple
Couple
Cohesion
Adaptability
Family with Young ChildrenFamily with School Aged ChildrenEmpty NestFamily with TeenagersFamily Launching
Family ImagesVisual metaphors that describe
familiesRock Band Jet Fighters
Corporation Classroom
Zoo Nest
Circus Others?
Disengaged
Enmeshed
Chaotic
Rigid
Nest
Jet Fighters
Corporation
Circus
Classroom
Rock Band
Rock BandJet FightersCorporationNestCircusClassroom
Family Themes:
• Mottos that define who we are– "Smiths don't quit!"– "Jones stick together." – "Franklins always come out on top."
Biosocial Issues
• What does it mean to be male or female in this family?
• How are sex roles defined?• How are gender and power
linked?
Rules and Patterns
• Who talks to whom about what, when and how?
• What does NOT get talked about• How do you talk (i.e. euphemisms,
whispers)• Meta-rules
– Rules about rules– How do we address or change the
rules?
Boundaries
• Rigid?• Permeable• None• Immigrant family• Highly religious family