Issue why this happens?

When to go opposite to this?

How can It be changed?

Which is better?

Who is right in his/her stance?

The issue more or less discusses the difference of opinions, values and thinking between modern generation and the parents. The independence of children from their parents is an attitude that does not develop overnight. Similarly, the tendency to stick to parents and be dependent upon them for longer period of life time is also a trait that children learn from the parents or society and environment around them.

I my opinion neither of them is better. Freedom of the children at an immature age can expose them to many vulnerabilities in the society around if they get involved in the bad company. Similarly, pressing them too hard and not teaching them to be independent and take responsibilities can leave them in an utmost fears and hesitations which ultimately they have to face one day when parents are no more around. Now we have analyzed the root cause of problem and it's get easier to tackle with it.

In my opinion young adults should be encouraged to b independent but at the same time they must also be taught how much independence is good for them. No matter how they think of their life the input of their parents do matter in deciding the way of their life and helps them to take a better and well informed decision. On the other hand, living with parents for longer period of one's life, unless there is genuine reason to do so, like parents health issues or need, makes oneself dependent on them. It can create problems for your future life because you are too much under the influence of their norms, values either consciously or unconsciously which might be no longer applicable to your time or the work environment.

For example, So in my view, neither of the two situations can be classified as hundred percent good and flawless.