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European Imperialism in China: Forgetting History and Recalibrating the World
Erik Ringmar
It is easy for a European visitor to the “Old Summer Palace,” just north-west of
Beijing, to feel shame.1 Before 1860 an enormous palace and garden complex was
located here — the famous Yuanmingyuan, the main residence of the emperor of
China. The imperial compound was filled with villas, pavilions, pagodas, temples,
libraries, audience halls and tea-houses, and there were lakes, small mountains,
grottoes, meandering waterways, places to admire the distant mountains or the
autumn moon. In addition there were precious objects and works of art, the most
costly items in the imperial collections, including a copy of all Chinese works on
literature, arts, science and history. Then, in 1860, the Europeans destroyed it all.
On October 7, 8 and 9, a French army thoroughly looted the compound and on
October 18 and 19, a British army burned all the buildings to the ground.
Hence the shame. A famous early statement was provided by in a letter by the
French author Victor Hugo. The palace, he said, was “the thousand and one
dreams of the thousand and one nights”; “ a “tremendous unknown masterpiece,
glimpsed from the distance in a kind of twilight, like a silhouette of the civilization
of Asia on the horizon of the civilization of Europe.” And then the Europeans
entered, the French plundered, the British burned.
1 I am grateful to Frauke Austermann, Peter Baehr, Deng Zhenglai, Enrico Fardella, Viktor Friedmann, Gao Rui, Jin Guangyao, Li Tiangang, Vera Schwarcz, Greg Thomas, Filip Viskupic, Wong Yiu-chung, Zena Wu and audiences at Fudan University, Shanghai, Lingnan University, Hong Kong, and ThinkInChina, Beijing, for comments on an earlier version of this article.
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One of the two victors filled his pockets; when the other saw this he filled his coffers. And back they came to Europe, arm in arm, laughing away. ... We Europeans are the civilized ones, and for us the Chinese are the barbarians. This is what civilization has done to barbarism.
For Hugo the superiority of European civilization is never in doubt, yet this is surely
no way for civilized people to act. A twenty-first-century European visitor to Old
Summer Palace is likely to echo Hugo's sentiments and, without questioning the
universal applicability of European models and values, feel ashamed of what the
Europeans once did in this place.
Yet Chinese visitors are likely to feel shame too. They are ashamed that they
were not strong and well organized enough to save their national heritage and their
country. Or this, at least, is what the Chinese government encourages its citizens
to feel and the emotional reaction that is officially sanctioned. China was weak,
despised by the leading powers of the day, and inferior to them in next to all
respects. To escape their humiliation, and their inferiority, China's citizens are
called upon to make their country strong again — that is, in practice, to rally behind
the government and to loyally support its reforms.
In this way Yuanmingyuan elicits a shared emotional reaction coming from two
different sources: the Europeans feel ashamed at what they did; the Chinese feel
ashamed at what they did not do. There are, however, good reasons to be
skeptical of these reactions. Indeed, as we will argue, both Europeans and Chinese
are mistaken. In both cases their reactions have been manipulated, and in both
cases the manipulation should be resisted. The feelings of shame, and the
positions of European superiority and Chinese inferiority which they have sustained,
have done tremendous damage not only to Europe, to China, but also to the
relations between the two. It is only by forgetting history that we finally can
recalibrate relations between Europe and China and make it possible for the two
parts of the world to encounter each other as equals.
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China’s humiliation at Yuanmingyuan
The humiliation which first comes to mind is the humiliation of China and the
Chinese. In China, the history of the country is often told as a story of
bainianguochi, the “hundred years of humiliations.” This story started with the two
Opium Wars and the unequal treaties which concluded them, the defeat against
Japan in 1895, the Boxer Rebellion in 1900, the degrading treatment at Versailles in
1919, the war against Japan between 1937 and 1945, and the one hundred years
concluded only once the Communists restored peace and unity to the country. The
Chinese people, Chairman Mao famously declared in September 1949, has “stood
up!” The destruction of Yuanmingyuan is the pivotal event in this story. Before
Yuanmingyuan was destroyed, the emperor and the court still had their self-
confidence and their pretensions; they were at the center of a world organized
according to their own specifications. After the destruction of Yuanmingyuan, this
fiction could no longer be maintained. China, it turned out, was far behind the
European powers in a number of crucial respects.
Europeans never doubted that China was inferior to themselves. Late
nineteenth-century treaties defined the country as “barbarian,” or possibly as
“semi-barbarian,” and thus not as a subject of international law nor as an automatic
participant in international conferences. The reformers among Chinese officials
acknowledged this inferiority and embarked on a process of self-reform which one
day, it was hoped, would force the Europeans to recognize them as an equal. The
reformers set up a foreign ministry in 1862, trained diplomats, translated treaties
on international law and, starting in 1868, began sending missions abroad. More
generally, the reformers sought to “catch up” by “modernizing” everything from
China's political institutions and legal system to its social customs and the way
people talked and dressed. The Xinhai Revolution of 1911, the May 4th Movement
of 1919, and the Communist revolution in 1949, were all undertaken not only with
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institutional reform in mind but also in order to change people's way of thinking.
“Ours,” as Mao insisted in 1949, “will no longer be a nation subject to insult and
humiliation.”
The theme concerning national humiliation — and the associated agenda of
reform — forms an important part of the national curriculum of contemporary
Chinese schools. Indeed the topic has been heavily promoted by the government
since the early 1990s. According to the “Outline on Implementing Patriotic
Education,” 1994:
The objectives of conducting patriotic education campaign are to boost the nation’s spirit, enhance cohesion, foster national self esteem and pride, consolidate and develop a patriotic united front to the broadest extent possible, and direct and rally the masses’ patriotic passions to the great cause of building socialism with Chinese characteristics.
The humiliation discourse thus becomes a way for the Communist Party to gain
legitimacy. One-party rule by the CCP is legitimate since, as the catalog of the
Museum of Chinese Revolutionary History in Beijing reminds its visitors: “the CCP
lead the whole country and the masses of all the nationalities from the ruins of war
to stand up.”
Yet the task of avenging the injustices of the past was not completed in 1949.
China may have stood up, but it was still not universally respected. The reforms, as a
result, had to continue. Although it is difficult to imagine today, in the 1950s central
planning could still be considered as a more rational way to organize the economy
than the market, and hence as a quicker path to development. It was as such that it
was embraced by the Chinese leaders, and it was with the same rationale that Maoist
China embarked on campaigns like the “Great Leap Forward” and the “Great Cultural
Revolution.” Yet central planning and the campaigns failed, above all, in the eyes of
the leaders, since they failed to restore China's pride. It was only in the early 1980s,
once the Party embraced capitalism, that the country made real progress. The
irony of a Communist regime policing its cheap and non-unionized work-force on
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behalf of international capitalism was completely lost on the Chinese leaders.
Communism and capitalism are perfectly compatible as long as they are
subordinate to the real goal which is to modernize China and to bring the country
respect.
Europe’s humiliation at Yuanmingyuan
But there is another history of humiliation associated with Yuanmingyuan, which
helps explain its destruction. Yuanmingyuan, we said, constituted the de facto
center of the Sino-centric world. Most Qing dynasty emperors spent most of their
time here and the audience hall in the imperial compound was where foreign
delegations were received. It was here that they presented their tributes and
where they koutou-ed before the imperial throne. To Europeans the koutou was a
profoundly humiliating ritual. Full head-long prostration signified complete
subjugation and a total renunciation of all claims to status and standing. In
Europe, calisthenics of this kind was what a slave performed before a master, or a
worshiper before a god. Most European visitors — the Dutch, Portuguese, the
Jesuits, some Russians — did it anyway, considering it to be the price they had to
pay for the emperor’s benevolence. Only British diplomats persistently refused,
arguing that the koutou degraded both themselves and their country.
During the military campaign of 1860, this history of humiliation made
Yuanmingyuan vulnerable. On September 18, the Chinese seized some 39
Europeans, soldiers as well as civilians, while they carried out peaceful duties away
from their camp. Several of the prisoners, the British claimed, had been taken to
Yuanmingyuan where they had been tortured and repeatedly forced to koutou
before Chinese officials. These were arguments used when Yuanmingyuan was
destroyed. To the British, the palace compound symbolized the extraordinary
pretensions of the Chinese emperor and the repeated humiliation of the Europeans.
It was at Yuanmingyuan, Lord Elgin explained, that emperor “brought our hapless
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countrymen in order that they might undergo their severest tortures within its
precincts.” To destroy the palace was consequently the best way to bring the
emperor down and to wipe out the shame. “[T]he army would go there,” said
Elgin, “not to pillage, but to mark by a solemn act of retribution the horror and
indignation with which we were inspired by the perpetration of a great crime." “The
destruction of the emperor's palace was the strongest proof of our superior
strength,” as Garnet Wolseley, a leading British officers, put it, “it served to
undeceive all Chinamen in their absurd conviction of their monarch's universal
sovereignty.”
creative destruction
The relative rise of Europe and relative decline of China is a complex and drawn out
process, but this is the symbolic turning-point. It was here — at Yuanmingyuan in
1860 — that the world finally became European. Before the destruction of the
imperial palace, China had rejected European claims to supremacy and insisted on
their own, radically different, interpretation of the world. Before 1860, China still
constituted a self-confident, if arguably deluded, alternative to Europe. After 1860
there were no such alternatives. The Europeans had wiped out their own
humiliation, as it were, and passed it on to the Chinese, and before long the
Europeans were joined in their claim to world hegemony by their cousins in the
former European colonies in North America. The subsequent history of the world,
the past 150 years, has been profoundly shaped by these two identities — by the
claim of Europe and North America to superiority and by China's acceptance of its
inferiority. The establishment and perpetuation of these two identities have had
far-reaching and devastating consequences.
Take the case of European imperialism which reached its self-confident apogee
only in the decades after 1860. As self-designated custodians of the world, the
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Europeans took direct control over vast territories in Africa and Asia and indirect
control over vast territories elsewhere. Market principles were introduced and local
markets were hooked up to the global market; natural resources were extracted,
labor employed and exploited. The Europeans exported their political and social
institutions too, their religion, values and ideas — and everywhere they went
“things,” in Chinua Achebe's phrase, begun to “fall apart.” And when they met
resistance the Europeans often acted aggressively, occasionally in a genocidal
fashion, or they carried out spectacular acts of barbarism of which the destruction
of Yuanmingyuan provides an example. The story, arguably, is ongoing. For some
150 years now people around the world have been “civilized” and “modernized” and
“saved for democracy” and the consequences have often been devastating.
But perhaps this is unfair. Not everything the Europeans did had destructive
consequences. They also improved the lives of the people they colonized and
controlled — raising living standards, improving health care and educational levels,
extending life-spans. Instead of having purely negative consequences, European,
post-1860, world-domination is best characterized as a process of “creative
destruction” — the destruction, that is, was a way of clearing a space for the
construction of the new. Indeed creative destruction is often said to be the essence
of capitalism, and it was in these terms that Marx and Engels celebrated its
progress across the world. Writing in the wake of the First Opium War, they
welcomed the way “[a]ll fixed, fast-frozen relations, with their train of ancient and
venerable prejudices and opinions are swept away,” and how “[a]ll that is solid
melts into air.”
Consider the implications for China and the Chinese. By the Europeans, we
said, China was regarded as a marginal, barbarian, and slightly ridiculous country.
The Chinese resented these descriptions and from the 1860s onwards they
expended great efforts in trying to convince the Europeans that they were wrong
about them. This is how the Chinese came to continue the same process of
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creative destruction which the Europeans had initiated. Since 1860, China has
been a country at war with itself; a war undertaken in the name of “modernization”
and in order to “catch up.” All aspects of Chinese society have come under scrutiny
and most features have been found wanting; in the eyes of its domestic reformers
China was never good enough and its people always “reactionary” and “feudal.” In
one wave of revolutionary frenzy after another traditional political, social and
cultural institutions have been destroyed, and long-accepted gods, philosophers and
authorities have been pulled down from their pedestals. The Cultural Revolution,
1966-76, was from this perspective nothing but a consequence of the May 4th
Movement of 1919, and so was the creative destruction unleashed on the country
by the Deng-era market reforms.
How we assess the relative consequences of the forces of creation and
destruction will vary, and so will the verdict on whether European overlordship
ultimately was worth it. Some will conclude that the destruction was too high a
price to pay; others will join Marx and Engels in celebrating the progress of history.
There should be less discussion, however, regarding the role which the discourse of
humiliation has played in providing legitimacy for the Chinese government. During
the past 150 years the race to catch up and to modernize has served to justify
some very harsh measures carried out by the state — including the forced
appropriation of property, denial of civil and human rights, starvation, murder and
dictatorship. Here too the story is ongoing: the CCP is still not elected and they still
deny the Chinese people basic civil rights. These policies, and their associated
abuses, were all necessary, the argument has been, since only a strong
government which brooks no dissent and is supported by the whole people, can
make China strong. Since 1949 the CCP has constituted such a government, and to
question the party's role is for that reason not an expression of political
disagreement as much as an act of treason.
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relieving the Europeans of their superiority
Lets briefly summarize. Before 1860, we said, Europe and China occupied different
worlds and within those worlds they both maintained their respective claims to
supremacy. After 1860 there was only one world, the Euro-centric world, and here
Europe — together with its cousins in North America — established itself as superior
while China became inferior. Europe's hegemonic pretensions initiated a process of
creative destruction which the Chinese in their quest for respect, recognition and
revenge, soon mimicked. Whether what was created was worth the price of the
destruction can be debated, but it is surely worth considering whether there are
ways for both Europeans and Chinese to escape their entrenched positions. The
Europeans need to be relieved of their superiority, and the Chinese of their
inferiority, before they can encounter each other as equals.
The Europeans may indeed be the more difficult case. It is difficult to convince
those who consider themselves superior that they are mistaken about themselves.
The problem is compounded by the way a sense of superiority sometimes hides
behind professions of admiration for foreign cultures. A prime example is provided
by the contrition expressed by Victor Hugo in the wake of the destruction of
Yuanmingyuan. His description of the imperial palace was next to pure fantasy, an
Oriental dream, which fit perfectly with similar dreams indulged in by a large
number of his contemporaries. The East, in this popular rendition, is endlessly
seductive — filled with alluring women, mystical religions and opium fumes — and
Hugo and his fellow Orientalists were all ready to be seduced. Or at least they
pretended to. In the end, however, this was always a game, a fantasy of
submission, which titillated them but which never was intended to be realized. This
is why Hugo's shame is a bad starting-point for a reconsideration of Europe's
relationship to China. Orientalism of this kind is necessarily condescending.
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Regretting the destruction of Yuanmingyuan on Hugo's terms, the Europeans will
never be able to meet the Chinese as equals.
A better starting-point is provided by critics of European imperialism. There
were always such critics; indeed the history of anti-imperialism is coterminous with
imperialism itself. An early group of dissenters were conservative thinkers who,
while they looked down on their own lower classes, often had considerable respect
for foreign cultures and their elites. In the eighteenth-century Edmund Burke —
the famous critic of the French Revolution — provided an example of such a
conservative in his long fight to have Warren Hastings impeached for atrocities
committed in India. When the Second Opium War broke out, Lord Derby, a
conservative former Prime Minister, voiced a similar critique of money-grubbing
British merchants and their aggressive supporters both in government and in the
East. Another group of critics consisted of liberals who, while generally supportive
of Europe's universalizing ambitions, were scathing regarding the aggressive ways
in which these projects were advanced. In 1860, one such liberal was Richard
Cobden who was active in the peace movement and a supporter of disarmament
and negotiated settlements of international conflicts. Cobden insisted that liberal
values could not be spread by force and he too spoke out strongly against
aggressive action in China.
Inspired by these nineteenth-century voices, we can formulate a critique of
European pretensions. Behind Lord Derby's position we find a deep skepticism
regarding the very idea of “civilization.” To the members of the British
government, and its officials in China, “civilized” was what Europeans were and
everyone else was by definition either a “savage” or a “barbarian.” Yet to
conservatives these distinctions were both facile and illegitimate. To Derby it was
obvious that Britain possessed a venerable set of traditions and an admirable way
of life, but this was a matter of culture not of civilization, and British culture could
not be imposed on others. After all, China too had its own culture and traditions
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which it was the duty of the British to respect. With Derby we would consequently
refuse to draw a distinction between civilization and its others, and instead insist
that there are many alternative ways to live and to organize a society. Each way of
life has its own standard of excellence and while lives can be better or worse when
judged by their own standards, there is no universal standard by which all ways of
life can be assessed.
If we instead follow Cobden, we would go on believing in the idea of a
European civilization, and we would presume that it represents values and norms
which have a universal relevance, but we would refuse to defend any such
standards or distinctions by military means. We would insist that free trade cannot
be spread by force and that civilization cannot be advanced through acts of
barbarism. In contemporary terms, Cobden's position constitutes a critique of
liberal interventionism and of all attempts at a violent remaking of the world.
relieving the Chinese of their sense of inferiority
The next question is how to relieve the Chinese of their sense of inferiority. A first
thing to notice here is that the feeling of humiliation arises only to the extent that
the history of the past 150 years is claimed as “Chinese history,” the “history of the
Chinese nation,” etc. That is, to the extent that the Chinese nation is taken as the
subject of the story told about the past. To take the nation as the subject of
history is a relatively recent phenomenon. As we would expect, it goes with the
rise of the nation itself; that is, it happened only after the French Revolution, and it
was only in the course of the nineteenth-century that these “national histories”
became prominent. This is the kind of history that students were taught in the
newly created public schools. Indeed, the telling of the story of the nation was one
of the main ways in which the nation came into being.
The best way to avoid the humiliation and the shame would thus be to avoid
nationalizing Chinese history. And this should be easy to do. Qing-dynasty China
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was an empire ruled by a Manchu elite which was intensely proud of its Manchu
heritage, language and culture, and their country consisted of a multitude of
peoples speaking different languages and embracing different cultures. In fact, the
national history of China is a product only of the last decades of their rule, the
events leading up to the Xinhai Revolution of 1911. In 1860 there was no Chinese
nation. Rather, much like nationalists in Europe, the new generation of nationalist
Chinese leaders began by seizing power and only later did they create the nation in
whose name they had acted. There is a direct connection here to the events which
transpired at Yuanmingyuan. It was only once China was subjected to the superior
might of the Europeans that the nation came to exist as a political subject.
The history of the Chinese nation could thus have been told quite differently.
If the new nationalist leaders would have rejected the imperial heritage rather than
to claim it, the shame of Yuanmingyuan would not have been attached to them and
the imperial compound would have been forgotten. And this is in fact exactly what
happened. The new Communist leaders did reject the legacy of the empire and
Yuanmingyuan was forgotten. And this is not surprising. Marxism, after all, is an
explicitly anti-nationalist doctrine. Marx and Engels wrote the Communist
Manifesto in 1848, just as a wave of nationalist revolutions were sweeping
across Europe, and as they emphatically made clear, history is the story of
“class struggles,” not of the nation. Once in power, the CCP embraced this
historiography. The ones who had “stood up” were ordinary Chinese people, the
working classes, not capitalists, landowners or members of the KMT.
It is consequently not surprising that Yuanmingyuan initially played no role
whatsoever in the official propaganda. Instead the location north-west of Beijing
where the imperial compound had stood was entirely neglected. After 1860, what
little that remained of the original structures was carted off as building material by
local peasants, and in subsequent decades the compound was taken over by
squatters, farmers, doufu-makers and assorted cottage industries; pigs roamed the
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grounds and much of the land seems to have been used as a garbage heap. During
the hunger that followed the Great Leap Forward, locals planted rice and during the
Cultural Revolution university professors were sent here to level the hills and to fill
in the lakes with stones. In the 1980s, when private businesses once again were
permitted, an amusement park was constructed together with a paintball gallery, a
pigeon aviary, a go-cart track and a “Primitive Totem Exhibition.”
The 1980s was also when Yuanmingyuan eventually was rediscovered by the
political authorities. The site was gradually cleared and cleaned up, and it was first
opened as a public park in 1985. At this time, however, only the outlying areas
were accessible and only after excavations were undertaken in 2004 has it been
possible to visit the core of the original Yuanmingyuan. Still, much of the original
gardens remain inaccessible, largely it seems since they have been destroyed
beyond recognition; in fact much of the area immediately surrounding the
compound is still occupied by cottage industries, squatters, assorted animals and
garbage. Work to get the imperial compound into a presentable state —
construction work on the ruins — is ongoing. It would thus not be incorrect to say
that the “Old Summer Palace,” as we see it today, is a recent creation, barely 30
years old.
The real story told by this place does not concern China's humiliation, or
even its past, as much as the attempts by the Chinese Communist Party to gain
legitimacy for itself. The Old Summer Palace tells the story of CCP, not of the
Chinese nation. All political regimes need legitimacy, and in the twenty-first-
century democratic elections provide the most common form of such legitimation —
a form of support unavailable to the Chinese leaders. Yet history too can operate
as a legitimating device. Once Marx had discovered the “scientific laws” which
govern all historical processes, the leaders who engaged in revolutionary struggles
were legitimate by definition. After the end of the Soviet Union, however, and after
what amounted to the intellectual demise of the few remaining Communist regimes,
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this rationale too became unavailable. And in China, after the events on Tiananmen
Square in June 1989, the crisis of legitimacy became acute.
It was only now that history became the story of the nation, not of class
struggle, and that the Chinese nation came to include all social classes, not just
workers and peasants. In this historiographical transformation Yuanmingyuan
played a crucial role. Once the legitimacy of the leaders in Beijing was threatened,
Yuanmingyuan was elevated to a position as a monument of national humiliation.
“We must never forget,” became the constantly repeated message; that is, in
practice, “we must never forget that the CCP are the only viable leaders of our
nation.” By remembering the humiliation that took place here, the Chinese people
are prepared for future sacrifices.
To say that the nation is a creation is not to say that it does not exist;
likewise, to say that feelings of humiliation are created is not to say that they are
not real. Yet the obviousness of the manipulation makes a difference. Humiliation
is clearly not something that Chinese people always have felt, but instead
something they have been made to feel. Surely, to be taken seriously, humiliation
should be defined by the humiliated themselves, not by someone else claiming to
represent them. Yet who represents whom is necessarily difficult to say in a
political system where there is not full freedom of speech. The insistence with
which Chinese students have to be told that they are humiliated gives the game
away — even in the many cases where the students' nationalistic fervor is sincere.
a post-modern history
In 1874, in a famous essay, Friedrich Nietzsche argued that history should not
dictate to us who we are and how we should live; that the dead should stop
interfering with the living. To Nietzsche, history — or better yet, History — was
another of those external authorities, like God or the State, to which only slaves
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submit themselves. In order to live free lives, and to claim our full status as human
beings, these authorities must be rejected. There can consequently be no History
understood as a grand narrative of the inevitable progress of mankind; the kind of
history that takes social classes or the nation as its subject. Instead there are only
histories, stories about different things that once upon a time happened. If
modernity is defined in terms of progress, and if progress is described through a
grand narrative, Nietzsche's view is profoundly post-modern. Given how little most
people in highly developed, highly commercialized, societies care about the past —
and given how bleak their views often are of the future — it would seem we all are
about to enter a post-modern age. What role a modernizing Communist Party can
play in a post-modern age is any one’s guess, and no one is more keen to find out
than the Chinese leaders.
Following Nietzsche's suggestion, it might now be a good time to let go of the
past. Not all of the past to be sure, but the past that is used to justify destruction
and dictatorship; the past that makes it impossible for Europe and China to meet as
equals. Rather than apologizing or seeking revenge, we should insist that the
people involved in the 1860 destruction have nothing to do with us. The Manchu
emperors who lived here were not Chinese, and the Anglo-French commanders are
not the kinds of people contemporary Europeans should identify with. Europeans
should refuse to take responsibility for what they did, and today's Chinese people
should refuse to take responsibility for what the Manchus did not do. It is only by
forgetting the past that we can become liberated from it; from the impulse to
impose our will on others and to seek revenge, from the desire to rectify imaginary
injustices. Orientalizing China is necessarily condescending; only once it stops
nurturing its inferiority can China truly take its place in the world.
We should “use the past to serve the present,” Chairman Mao is quoted as
saying, and “use foreigners to serve China.” To make someone serve you is to
subject someone to your will and to your designs, yet such an instrumental
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relationship necessarily places oneself in opposition both to time and space. This
stance comes naturally to people who are supremely confidence in themselves and
in their goals, but in today's world such confidence is rare. The time of great world-
transforming projects is surely over. Today the task before us is not to change the
world as much as to learn how to live in it — with dignity and with respect for
others. We need to accept our location in time and in space, but for this to happen
we must first make peace both with the past and with foreigners. That is, we can
no longer ask them to serve us, but we must learn how to let both be.
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