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ENNEAGRAM COUPLES
ENTHUSIAST & ACHIEVER
Vaveen : Enthusiast (7) - Gluttony, lust, trouble committing, perma-smile
Tiana : Achiever (3)
-Success is key, love is earned through status
Conflict: 7 disgusts 3 with her laziness and ego
Harmony: 7 allows 3 to relax, 3 teaches 7 to do work
PEACEMAKER & INDIVIDUALIST
Marshall: Peacemaker (9)
Lily : Individualist (4)
- pushover at job, sell on his dreams due to what people say, indecisive
- Creative talent, hogs conversation time
Conflict: Trouble when they don’t agree, 4 being distracted from the relationship by other opportunities
Harmony: 9 allows 4 to pursue her options, 4 plans out romantic dates
PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST
Ray : Peacemaker(9) - I don’t know what I said to make you mad
Debra : Perfectionist (1) - What the bleep did you do wrong this time
9 delegates into laziness & insensitivity while 1 chases perfectionism in her partner
Mutual criticisms, challenge each other’s viewpoints
INDIVIDUALIST & ENTHUSIAST
Rapunzel: individual (4) - Creative talents, leader of the dance
Flynn: Enthusiast (7)- Smiley, ego, looking for the rich lifestyle
7 takes 4 on his adventure; 4 impresses 7 through her talents, gives 7 hope
Use each other for alternate material motives at 1st
INDIVIDUALIST & HELPER
Miss Piggy: Individualist (4)Wants to be the star, always
Kermit the Frog: Helper (2)Has to cater to the needs of a lot of weird friends
4 is overbearing and 2 feels the strain
2’s acceptance & love of 4’s eccentricities4’s loyalty
PERFECTIONIST &LOYALIST
Hermione: Perfectionist (1)It’s LeviOsa, not LevioSAAAA
Ron: Loyalist (6)Worried, Jealous, Prone to fight with friends
Inability to confess feeling, 6’s jealousy which 1 cannot easily assuage
Loyalty, ability to work as a team for common goal
ACHIEVER & HELPER
Rhett: Helper (2) Sticks loyally to Scarlett, cares for his love rival
Scarlett: Achiever (3)Determination, see Searle
Conflict: 3 does not give to 2 emotionally, 2 chases 3 as a fantasy
Harmony: 2 is loyal to 3 for as long as 2 can be, 3 finds the good in 2
ACHIEVER & HELPER
Jack Twist: Helper (2)Almost maternal to the sheep, flirty
Ennis del Mar: Achiever (3)Marries and has children for the status of it, does not want to look socially different
HarmonyLoyalty, teamwork ability
2 rushes into the relationship, 3 cannot bring it where it hurts 3’s reputation
Conflict
INDIVIDUALIST & HELPER
Tony: Helper (2)His priorities lie with other people, his friends, his lover, his gang
Maria: Individualist (4)Flamboyant, wants to be noticed and prove her maturity
Conflict: obsession with one another, which interferes with daily life
Harmony:2’s willingness to sacrifice for 4, 4’s ability to sympathize with 2
PERFECTIONIST & ENTHUSIAST
Jasmine: Perfectionist (1)Finds the holes in the system, does what she wants
Aladdin: Enthusiast (7)Optimistic, chasing royal life, doesn’t mourn being an orphan
Conflict: 7 lies to 1 in an attempt to seem grander than 7 is, 1 catches 7’s scheme easily
Harmony: 7 doesn’t expect 1 to conform, 1 judges 7 by her heart.
CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR
Shrek: Investigator (5)Doesn’t do feelings, natural resources, poetic Fiona: Challenger
(8)Hot-tempered, motivates to action
Harmony: 5 can calm 8’s negative feelings about being different, 8 is impressed by 5’s resourcefulness
Conflict: When he becomes reclusive, 8 is angered
CHALLENGER & INVESTIGATOR
Belle Beast Investigator (5) Challenger (8)
Prefers books to company
Great presence, lots of anger
Conflict8’s anger scares 5 away, 5 finds places of solitude to avoid 8
Harmony8 strongly defends 5, 5 shares knowledge with 8.
PEACEMAKER & PERFECTIONIST
Simba and Nala
Simba: Peacemaker (9) Nala: Perfectionist (1)“I’ll run away and sing
Hakuna Matata all day long before I take the
throne.”
“I win, you lose, stop moping and
go do what’s right.”
Conflict
1 is frustrated when 1 cannot spur 9 into action, 9 wants 1 to stop bothering 9.
Harmony
1 supports 9, 9 plays friendly games with 1 and takes 1 places to make 1happy.
PEACEMAKER & ENTHUSIAST
Odysseus: Enthusiast (7) & Penelope: Peacemaker (9)Seeking new adventure and pleasure
Waits patiently, doesn’t stand up for herself.
Conflict:7 leaves 9 lonely, 9 cannot assert for herself without 7Harmony:9 never loses faith in 7, 7 sees 9 as a safehouse to return to when adventure loses flavor.
REFLECTION QUESTION
• Answer 3 out of 6 questions in the next slide to earn an optional Bronze credit for ILCP
The reflection should be sent to [email protected]
1) How do you see the Enneagram types affecting your personal relationships? (It does not have to be a romantic relationship; you can describe how the type affects a friendship or family bond.)
2) How do you feel your personal Enneagram type affects your viewing of literature and pop culture?
3) Do you identify with the characters of your type, or do you have a distaste for them? Is this related to similarities or differences they have to your personality?
4) How does the knowledge of the Enneagram field of study in general affect the way you view literature and pop culture? Do you analyze fictional characters by type? How does this change the way you see them?
5) What other works can you think of where a character's motivations make sense once you figure out that character's type? Think back not only to recreational readings and viewings, but also of materials you read and viewed for class.
6) Do you see any other personality traits in these characters that differ from those identified?