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1 Enlightened Parenthood A 21st Century Learning Readiness Check Why putting your kids in a good school is not good enough

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Why putting your kids in a good school is not good enough - A 21st Century Learning Readiness Check

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Enlightened Parenthood

A 21st Century Learning Readiness Check

Why putting your kids in a

good school is not good enough

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In the age of the industrial revolution people needed to learn the 3Rs and acquire some

basic cognitive skills and they were set for life...

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Education was mostly based on Behaviourist Learning Theory

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In the 20th century people needed a stockpile of knowledge and basic cognitive skills and that

ensured lifelong employment...

Education in the 20th century emphasized ’Learn to Earn’

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Education was influenced by Cognitivist Learning Theory

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21st century offers the opportunity to discover your interests, learn more

about them and pursue your calling in life...

One can ’yearn to learn... and earn’

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Current Influences- Constructivist Learning Theory

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Current Influences- Humanist Learning Theory

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Current Influences- Social Learning Theory

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The challenge is to keep pace with change,

exploding knowledge and complexity

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Interdependence with fellow humans, other species and environment adds to the complexity

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Most important, for true happiness, one needs to have a life pursuit that goes beyond own

self-interest and adds meaning to life

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In the 21st century you can...

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Empower and enable your children to formulate their own meaningful life philosophy

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learn the abilities to pursue it with conviction and compassion

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For this, as a parent, you need to make the most of the

Second Strand of Education

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What is the Second Strand of Education?

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The first strand is formal education which usually focuses on imparting a stockpile of knowledge

and basic cognitive skills

Formal Education(Stockpile of Knowledge and basic Cognitive skills)

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Connection-centric Online Learning- Learners- Mentors- Content- Conversation

Second Strand of Education constitutesHigher Cognitive skills, Self-Learning skills and

Pursuit of Passion with Compassion... supplemented online

Formal Education

Higher Cognitive skills, Self-Learning, Pursuit of Passion

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What is the importance of Second Strand of Education?

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The 21st Century Context…

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To survive and thrive in the 21st century…

Knowledge explosion

…learn to self-learn and keep reinventing yourself

Learn to Self-Learn

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21st Century

What you know

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21st Century

What you need to know

What you know

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GAP!

21st Century

What you need to know

What you know

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Fill the ‘gap’ by using knowledge of your network /connections

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21st Century

What you need to know

What you know

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Fill the ‘gap’ by using knowledge of your network /connections

What you need to know

What you know

Second Strand of Education

Learning facilitated by Online Networks

Need for different Cognitive skills, Self-Learning,

Pursuit of Passion with Compassion

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Traits that become critical intoday’s context include...

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- Character

- Pursuit of passion, with compassion

- Pursuit of wisdom and tranquility of spirit

- Fostering lifelong yearning for learning

- Epistemological Modesty (awareness of own ignorance)

- Dialectical Bootstrapping (internal conversation between reason and emotion)

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As a parent, the Learner Dispositions you need to foster in your children include...

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- Curiosity, inquisitiveness, a yearning to learn

- Imagination, creativity, deep & independent thinking

- Self-aware, self-disciplined, determined, persevering

- Loves to play and tinker, with ideas and things

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- Emotionally mature (understands emotions) - can dialogue between reason and emotion

- Risk taker, Problem Solver, Decision Maker

- Empathetic collaborator, multi-sensory communicator

- Meta-cognition (thinks about own thinking, biases)

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Dispositions you need to have as a parent...

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- Facilitate your children construct meaning, through hypothesis, discovery, experimentation and conversation

- Encourage discovery of passion and purpose

- Curator and filter good learning material

- Co-creators and collaborators

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- Coach, guide, mentor (a friend, philosopher and guide)

- Deeply caring

- Infectiously enthusiastic

- Good role-model (vis-a-vis desired student dispositions)

o able to demonstrate that there is fun in deep learning and hard work

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One Caution!

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From 99ºc to 1ºc we cannot anticipate what will happen at 0ºc

From 1ºc to 99ºc we cannot anticipate what will happen at 100ºc

While in the midst of a Phase Change it is very difficult to predict what the future will hold...

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We are NOW in the midst of a Phase Change... we do not know what the future will hold...

Current Phase Change

The amount of knowledge in the world has doubled in the past 10 years and is doubling every 18 months

- ASTD

Language

Writing

Printing Press

Internet

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Wearecurrentlypreparingstudentsforjobsthatdon’tyetexist...usingtechnologiesthathaven’tyetbeeninvented...inordertosolveproblemswedon’tevenknowareproblemsyet.

RichardRiley,SecretaryofEducaKonunderPresidentClinton

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Thus, these ideas about enlightened parenting will need to evolve

as the context changes

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Also, bigger issues are afoot...

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We have the ability to Create a Better World or breed...

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We can bridge or further widen the divides and inequalities...

Have Not

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We can make life simple or add to complexity...

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Utopia ADividedWorld

We are ’Homo Sapiens Sapiens’...the species that knows, they know

The choice will be ours!

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- “The Social Animal: The Hidden Sources of Love, Character and Achievement“ - David Brooks

- “A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers will Rule the Future“ - Daniel H. Pink

- “The Life-Smart Kid“ - Lawerence J Greene

Good Reads

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