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END OF LIFE PLANNING SEMINAR
Ellen Rose, Pastor - Apex United Methodist Church
Jim Ahler, CAE - Apex UMC Memorial Garden Committee
Rev. Brenda Walton - Palliative Care Chaplain Duke Regional Hospital
Britt Paynter - Wake Funeral and Cremation Services
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PURPOSE
Identify steps necessary to be well planned for the end of life
Discuss the AUMC Memorial Garden, Prayer Labyrinth, Memorial Wall, and Columbarium
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AGENDA
Financial Decisions and Digital Footprint
Physical Decisions
Funeral Decisions
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FINANCIAL DECISIONS
•Wills • Legacy giving and Endowments
• Trusts • CRAT, CRUT, Special Needs, Guardianships
• Financial Power of Attorney
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INFORMATION ARCHIVE FOR
YOUR FAMILY
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BEQUESTS
Another amazing gift to your family
Take the time to make a list of all your items you want to pass on to someone
Describe the item (Aunt Minnie’s silver service) Include a photo would be helpful Be very specific about who get it A nice touch – include a story about how you got it and why you want it to go to that specific person
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DIGITAL FOOTPRINT
• Social Media • Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Snapchat, etc
• Digital accounts • Banking • Investment • Insurance • Retirement • Amazon, Kindle, Nook • Businesses – utilities, credit cards, subscriptions, etc.
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PHYSICAL DECISIONS
Rev. Brenda Walton
Palliative Care Chaplain Duke Regional Hospital
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PHYSICAL DECISIONS• Our Christian understanding of death
• “I never dreamed this could happen.”
• Advanced healthcare directives
• Let your values be your guide
• Organ Donation
• The Rest of the Story
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FUNERAL DECISIONS
"Planning Your Final Rites“
Britt Paynter Funeral Director
Wake Funeral & Cremation Services
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FUNERAL DECISIONS
“Planning Your Funeral Service”
Pastor Ellen Rose Apex United Methodist Church
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FUNERAL DECISIONS
“Planning Your Final Resting Place”
Apex UMC Memorial Garden
Glenn Mason Memorial Prayer Labyrinth Memorial Wall Columbarium
Jim Ahler and Pastor Ellen Rose
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Proposed location of the project – the Crossroads “courtyard”
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3D CAD Model of proposed design; the labyrinth pattern & size in model is conceptual
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View (from the sanctuary courtyard-side exit) of the labyrinth, Memorial monument, and “Phase 2” Columbarium wall. Phase 1 wall is to the right.
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THANK YOU