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Facilitator: Prof Basil C Leonard
The Impact of the Emotional Intelligence
of Lecturers and Management
Others may press your buttons, but it is up to you
what comes up on the screen. Richard Wilkins.
Every human has four endowments - self awareness,
conscience, independent will and creative imagination.
These give us the ultimate human freedom. The power
to choose, to respond, to change. Stephen Covey
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It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly
sick society. Krishnamurti
Assessing Our Current Situation
We create an environment where it is alright to hate, to steal,
to cheat, and to lie if we dress it up with symbols of respectability,
dignity and love. Whitney Moore, Jr.
When people go to work, they shouldn't have to leave their
hearts at home. Betty Bender
The things that are wrong with the country today are the sum total of all
the things that are wrong with us as individuals. Charles W. Tobey
Assessing your situation
Emotional intelligence is not about being nice all the time.
It is about being honest.
What Emotional Intelligence Is Not
Emotional intelligence is not about being “touchy-feely”
It is about being aware of your feelings,
and those of others.
Emotional intelligence is not about being emotional.
It is about being smart with your emotions.
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) refers to the ability to understand and manage your own emotions effectively and using it in
everyday interaction with colleagues, students, friends and family.
Towards Understanding EQ
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) refers to
1. the ability
2. to understand and
3. manage your own emotions
4. effectively and
5. using it in everyday interaction
6. with colleagues, students, friends and family 15 EQ Competencies
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Bar-On Model Identifies 15 EQ Competencies
Intrapersonal EQ Interpersonal EQ
Adaptability EQ General Mood EQ Stress Management EQ
• Self regard
• Emotional self awareness
• Assertiveness
• Independence
• Self Actualization
• Empathy
• Social responsibility
• Interpersonal Relationships
• Stress tolerance
• Impulse control
• Reality testing
• Flexibility
• Problem solving
• Optimism
• Happiness
Towards Understanding EQ
When you say nothing
Questions
Comments
Suggestions
Reflections
Basil C Leonard – 083 4545 621