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Elder Mediation - A Rising Tide Judy McCann-Beranger M.A., CCFE, Cert.CFM, Cert.EM NL Network for the Prevention of Elder Abuse St. John's January 28, 2014

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Elder Mediation - A Rising Tide

Judy McCann-BerangerM.A., CCFE, Cert.CFM, Cert.EM

NL Network for the Prevention of Elder AbuseSt. John's January 28, 2014

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Session Overview• History of elder mediation• Principles & philosophy • Atlantic Canada research• Ageism• Unique characteristics• Specialized training

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Elder Mediation Defined

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Exploring the Role of Elder Mediation

in the Prevention of Elder Abuse

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/cj-jp/fv-vf/mp-pm/index.html

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Statistics Speak to Us…

A Portrait of Seniors in Canada– Statistics Canada (2006)

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Statistics Canada

% of Canadian population comprised of persons aged 65+

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Statistics Canada

% of Canadian population aged 65+ by province

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Statistical TrendsWomen live longer than menHealth care improvements have led to increased life expectancy and longer survivalMiddle aged couples with 2 or more living parents has increased from 10% to 50%.

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Our familial relationships are longer than ever before.

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• Everyone has strengths, gifts, and contributions to offer.

• Every person has hopes, dreams and desires.

• Each person, and those who love the person, are the primary authorities on his or her life.

• Every person has the ability to express preferences and to make choices.

• A person’s choices and preferences shall always be considered.

Person Centered

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1. Dignity2. Independence3. Participation4. Fairness5. Security

Core Values

“Canada – A Society for All Ages”

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• Natural supports can help improve the person’s quality of life by:– Maximizing independence– Creating community connections– Working toward achieving the person’s

dreams & goals

• Person-centered care is:– Listening– Trying things– Seeing how they work– Changing things as needed

Person Centered

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Mediation & Older Adults• Housing• Safety• Environment• Managing care• Care for the caregiver• Intergenerational

conflict• New relationships• Loss of dignity/voice

• Holiday schedules• Abuse & neglect• Religious issues• Family business• Financial issues• End of life decisions• Estate planning• Guardianship• Others…

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Responding to Client Grief

• Recognize the loss & continued losses• Legitimize the feelings• Normalize the experience• Empower – focus on joint

decision making• Consider counselling referral

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Initial Sessions…

A PLAN!

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Who is included

in the decision-making process?

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Pat Mutch “A Courageous Story”

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Anticipatory Planning

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Unique Characteristics• Viable option yet rarely considered• Especially effective – “wow” factor• Openness to follow through on referrals• Tendency towards larger # of participants• Opportunities for all family members to

participate (family of origin issues)• Other

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Specialized Training• Dynamics of normal aging &

family relationships• AD & other progressive dementias• Elder abuse• Community support services• Living arrangements• Legal issues• Culture & aging• Grief Issues• Guardianship• Others…

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Use of Language

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Pat Mutch “A Courageous Story”

“It is tragic that so many of us go for so long without hearing about this

wonderful service of mediation. Why is that?”