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Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Presented by:
Marlene Shiple, Ph.D. The Life Coach Dr./Counselors Associated,
Inc. One E. Camelback Rd., Suite #550 Phoenix, AZ 85012 (602) 266 – 6662 [email protected] http://thelifecoachdr.com/coach/
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Important to health
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Important to health * Important to well-being
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Important to health * Important to well-being -- World Health
Organization, ‘74
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Does diabetes lead to
impotence?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Does diabetes lead to
impotence? * Does diabetes lead to sexual dissatisfaction?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Does diabetes lead to
impotence? * Does diabetes lead to sexual dissatisfaction?
What is your experience?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Human Sexuality * Does diabetes lead to
impotence? * Does diabetes lead to sexual dissatisfaction?
What is your experience? … It matters!
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ … ?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the Mind
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the MindA. What you expect … you get
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the MindA. What you expect … you get -- conscious mind
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the MindA. What you expect … you get -- conscious mind -- subconscious mind
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the MindA. What you expect … you get -- conscious mind -- subconscious mind -- workings of each
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
The largest sexual organ: the Brain -- this is closely connected to the MindA. What you expect … you get -- conscious mind -- subconscious mind -- workings of eachB. NOT expect/look for something bad
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido b. Less Sexual Desire
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido b. Less Sexual Desire c. Less
Satisfaction
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido b. Less Sexual Desire c. Less
Satisfaction d. Fewer Orgasms
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido b. Less Sexual Desire c. Less
Satisfaction d. Fewer Orgasms e. Less
Lubrication
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Physical Reactions: a. Problems with Libido b. Less Sexual Desire c. Less
Satisfaction d. Fewer Orgasms e. Less Lubrication => More Avoidance
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Emotional Reactions
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Emotional Reactions -- High Incidence of -- Anxiety
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Emotional Reactions -- High Incidence of -- Anxiety -- Depression
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Emotional Reactions -- High Incidence of -- Anxiety -- Depression -- Fears about having Diabetes
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Emotional Reactions -- High Incidence of -- Anxiety -- Depression -- Fears about having Diabetes -- Fears about developing Sexual
Problems
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions -- Stress about having Diabetes
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions -- Stress about having Diabetes -- Stress regarding beliefs about the
disease
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions -- Stress about having Diabetes -- Stress regarding beliefs about the
disease -- Other thoughts: Undesirable
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions -- Stress about having Diabetes -- Stress regarding beliefs about the
disease -- Other thoughts: Undesirable -- Not Sexy
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
Possible Mental Reactions -- Stress about having Diabetes -- Stress regarding beliefs about the
disease -- Other thoughts: Undesirable -- Not Sexy Unattractive
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Diabetes can cause complications -- can affect sexual health -- can affect sexual activity
In one study, 60% of women reported NO Sexual Dysfunction
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?3. Are there other ways to create #2?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?3. Are there other ways to create #2?
What?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?3. Are there other ways to create #2?
What?4. What do You need?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?3. Are there other ways to create #2?
What?4. What do You need?5. What does your Partner need?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Questions for Self-Awareness:1. What is the purpose of Relationships?2. What is the purpose of Sex?3. Are there other ways to create #2?
What?4. What do You need?5. What does your Partner need?6. What does your Relationship need?
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System -- for women: Most physical problems CAN be resolved!
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System -- for women: Most physical problems CAN be resolved! -- for men: Most physical problems CAN be resolved!
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System -- for women: Most physical problems CAN be resolved! -- for men: Most physical problems CAN be resolved!
To do so, must remove some Myths …
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System a) Myth #1: Men are responsible for successful outcome of lovemaking
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System a) Myth #1: Men are responsible for successful outcome of lovemaking b) Myth #2: Men must perform amazing sexual feats to please partner
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System a) Myth #1: Men are responsible for successful outcome of lovemaking b) Myth #2: Men must perform amazing sexual feats to please partner c) Myth #3: If this does not happen, both should feel bad about ‘selves
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System a) Myth #1: Men are responsible for successful outcome of lovemaking b) Myth #2: Men must perform amazing sexual feats to please partner c) Myth #3: If this does not happen, both should feel bad about ‘selves d) Corollary for woman: Mustn’t have male disappointed
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System: Change it!
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System: Change it!2. Talk to Medical Doctor
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System: Change it!2. Talk to Medical Doctor3. Talk to Partner
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System: Change it!2. Talk to Medical Doctor3. Talk to Partner4. Talk to Sexuality Therapist
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Multipart –1. Basic Belief System: Change it!2. Talk to Medical Doctor3. Talk to Partner4. Talk to Sexuality Therapist5. Practical Steps
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake3. Increase exercise
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake3. Increase exercise4. Examine medication side effects
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake3. Increase exercise4. Examine medication side effects5. Take more time
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake3. Increase exercise4. Examine medication side effects5. Take more time6. Use lubrication, estrogen suppositories
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food intake3. Increase exercise4. Examine medication side effects5. Take more time6. Use lubrication, estrogen suppositories7. Adjust positions
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food3. Increase exercise intake4. Examine medication side effects5. Take more time6. Use lubrication, estrogen suppositories7. Adjust positions8. Kegels
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Solutions: Practical Steps –1. Use Fantasizing2. Monitor food3. Increase exercise4. Examine medication side effects5. Take more time6. Use lubrication, estrogen suppositories7. Adjust positions8. Kegels 9. Prevent infections
Diabetes, Sexuality & Sexual Satisfaction
Presented by:
Marlene Shiple, Ph.D. The Life Coach Dr./Counselors
Associated, Inc. One E. Camelback Rd., Suite #550 Phoenix, AZ 85012 (602) 266 – 6662 [email protected] http://thelifecoachdr.com/coach/