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Transcript of “Defective Teens – NOT!!!” Based on: “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens" by Sean...
The 7 Habits of Highly Defective Teens:
• Habit 1: React.• Habit 2: Begin
with No End in Mind.
• Habit 3: Put First Things Last.
• Habit 4: Think Win-Lose.
• Habit 5: Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen.
• Habit 6: Don't Cooperate
• Habit 7: Wear Yourself Out.
• “As you can see, the habits listed above are recipes for
disaster. Yet many of us indulge in them...regularly (me included). And, given
this, it's no wonder that life in this world can really
stink at times.”--Sean Covey
Defective Teens
What are the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens?
• Habit 1: Be Proactive.
– Take responsibility for your life.
• Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind.
– Define your mission and goals in life.
• Habit 3: Put First Things First.
– Prioritize, and do the most important things
first.
• Habit 4: Think Win-Win.
– Have an everyone-can-win attitude.
• Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be
Understood.
– Listen to people sincerely.
• Habit 6: Synergize.
– Work together to achieve more.
• Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw.
– Renew yourself regularly.
Habit 1: Be Proactive
• Listen to your language
• Victimitis virus• Proactive pays• Circle of control • Setbacks to
triumphs
reactive
proactive
Habit 2: Begin With the End In Mind
• Crossroads• Who’s leading?
– Personal mission statement
• Your talents• Three watch outs
– Labels– All over syndrome– Wrong wall
Begin With the End In Mind
• Go for goal– Count the cost– Put it in pen– Just do it!– Use momentous
moments– Rope up
• Goals in action • Weakness to
strengths
Habit 3: Put First Things First
• Pack more into life– Procrastinator– Prioritizer– Yes-man– Slacker
• Use a planner (agenda!)– Rocks story
ProcrastinatorPrioritizer
Slacker Yes-Man
Put First Things First
• Courage zone– Vs. Comfort zone– Fear and decisions– Rising after falling– Hard moments– Peer pressure
• Ingredient of success
Relationship Bank Account
• Keeping promises• Small acts of
kindness• Be loyal• Listen• Say you are sorry• Set clear
expectations
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
• Win-lose, – totem pole
• Lose-win, – doormat
• Lose-lose,– downward spiral
• Win-win, – all you can eat buffet
Think Win-Win
• Private victory• Avoid tumor twins
– Competing– Comparing
• Fruits of win-win spirit
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand , Then to Be Understood • 5 poor listening
styles:– Space out– Pretender– Selective – Word– Self-centered
• Judge• probe
Habit 6: Synergize
• Synergy is everywhere
• Celebrate differences
• All a minority of one• Roadblocks• Stick up for diversity
Synergize
• Getting into synergy– Define problem
(or better – OPPORTUNITY!)
– Their way– My way– Brainstorm – High way
• Teamwork and synergy
Sharpen the Saw
• Care for your body– You are what you eat– Use it or lose it– All about how you
feel– Quit whenever you
want– The refusal skill
Sharpen the Saw
• Care for your brain– Sharpen your mind– Find your niche– School in way of
education– Post high school– Mental barriers– You gotta wanna
Sharpen the Saw
• Care for your soul– Back to nature– Teen’s best friend– Spiritual diet– Disturbing my sleep– Fried frogs– Get real
Hope
So be sure when you step
Step with care and great tact
And remember that life’s
A great Balancing Act.
And will you succeed?
(98 and ¾ percent guaranteed)
Kid, you’ll move mountains
~Dr. Seuss
The End
Bob Moawad,
“You can’t make footprints in the sands of time by sitting on your butt, And who wants to leave butt prints in the sands of time?”