David Steele Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D. “Conscious Dating provides a...

David Steele

Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D.

“Conscious Dating provides a new concept for dating and insightful advice,effective exercises and useful illustrations that will help anyone who uses them make their journey to love successful. We recommend this book to anyone looking for love.”

“Radical Marriage provides clear ideas, easy to follow strategies, and a ‘radical’ new paradigm for creating the relationship of your dreams.”

Dating has Changed

Dating has Changed Fewer marriages-

51% of U.S. adults


51% of U.S. adults 44% believe marriage

obsolete



obsolete Cohabitation rate

+1200% in last 30 years



obsolete Cohabitation rate

+1200% in last 30 years

Cohabitation increases risk of failed marriage

Relationship successstarts when you’resingle

Problem:

Finding soulmate

feels like locating

needle in a haystack

Solution:

Radical Dating is like using an electromagnet.

Solution:

Radical Dating is like

using an

electromagnet…

It can happen very

quickly when you’re

clear about what you

want and how to get it.My story- From single to soulmate in 5 months: www.darleneanddavid.com

5 Principles of Radical Dating


Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved


Principle #1: You deserve to love and be loved Sabotages us when we

don’t believe it.



don’t believe it.

We end up pleasing,

settling for less, or

giving up.



don’t believe it.

We end up pleasing,


giving up.

It’s self-fulfilling.



don’t believe it.

We end up pleasing,


giving up.

It’s self-fulfilling.

You must learn how to

love yourself.

5 Principles of Radical DatingPrinciple #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment


What might interfere with commitment?

Principle #2: Be Ready and Available for Commitment



If you’re not ready, the relationship is doomed.





Recreational vs. Committed Dating





Recreational vs. Committed Dating

Role of the Law of Attraction



Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements


Principle #3: Honor Your Deepest Needs and Requirements Requirements



Needs – physical, functional and emotional



Needs – physical, functional and emotional Boundaries and

Assertiveness




Assertiveness Wants




Assertiveness Wants Role of habits/patterns

o Your authentic self is your best attraction tool!


Principle #4: Be True to Yourself



Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values



Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself



Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance



Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance You can’t hide in a

relationship



Principle #4: Be True to Yourself Live your Values Love yourself Require 100% acceptance You can’t hide in a

relationship Your authentic self is your

best attraction tool


Principle #5: True Love

Requires Risk



Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck



Requires Risk Comfort Zone = Stuck If it’s scary, you’re doing it

right




right Yes, Yes, Hell No!




right Yes, Yes, Hell No! Real intimacy is scary and

exciting




right Yes, Yes, Hell No! Real intimacy is scary and

exciting Radical Dating

Radical Marriage

Strategies of Radical Dating


Getting into action:



Scouting



Scouting

Sorting



Scouting

Sorting

Screening



Scouting

Sorting

Screening

Testing



Scouting

Sorting

Screening

Testing

Screening In vs. Screening

Out



Scouting

Sorting

Screening

Testing

Screening In vs. Screening

Out

You can achieve anything with the right support

Radical Dating

What’s Next?

Get Conscious Dating book

Free consultation with Conscious Dating coach- www.ConsciousDatingCoach.com

What’s Next?

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Become a Radical Dating coach!

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