Dating Tips From a Teenage Wetdream vol. 13

8/13/2019 Dating Tips From a Teenage Wetdream vol. 13

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Sdtjrdbe Kftdrvkdw wktm Ahvdy Nrkstb

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbt jhds kt edbf th yhu th `d b ehjda'

(h" eu)m mbvd yhu sb)rk*k)dj kf hrjdr *hr yhu th `d hfd h* tmd sd+kdst ckras

bakvd'

(h" jhds kt *dda th mbvd adbcuds h* edf pbsskhfbtd b`hut yhu ak,d yhu brd

pbsskhfbtd b`hut `d)hekfc b stbr'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 -hjdakfc ks vdrytmkfc th ed/


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* yhu hfay mbj hfd "mk)m "huaj yhu )mhhsd bfj "my'

Zdaa ed b`hut yhur ahvd b**bkr "ktm (daah Nktty.

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 "mkt)m hfd ks ehrd kephrtbft hec kj, bmbmb k* k mbj th pk), hfd k

cudss ey bss. ak,d kt kj, "my kts )utd bmbm bfj ey ahvd b**bkrd "ktm mdaah ,ktty

bmbm 4k)d )mhk)d h* "hrjs bmmb/


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Ahvdy Nrkstb9 bt 21 th ey *krst bfj hfay ahvd

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbt bcd jkj yhu adbrf "mbt b \aby`hy ks'

Sbs md eu)m hajdr tmbf yhu hr "bs md kf yhur )abss'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 (d "bs hajdr k "bs 21 md "bs 25 sh md "bs d+pdrkdf)dj `ddf

"ktm ebfy `d*hrd ed `ut "d jbtdj 6 ydbrs sh yb bmbmbm bfj k "bs b`hut 28

"mdf k *hufj hut "mbt paby`hy "bs

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 (h" jkj yhu *kfj hut' Sbs mks sdedf tmd *krst sdedf yhu dvdr

sb" prkf)dss'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 *kfj hut "mbt' bfj ydbm md "bs -y *krst dvdrytmkfc


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k* k )huaj ùy sd+y stu** kt "huaj `d akfcdrkd bfj mddas bfj sd+y jby hut*kts ak,d

smkrts tmbt smh" )adbvbcd smhrts th smh" ey bjhrbàd bss0 bmbm

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 $ ydbrs bch yhu "drd b =ust b akttad ty,d kf ekjjad s)mhha0 fh"0

yhurd baa crh"f up. (h" jhds kt *dda th mbvd tmd ak`drty th smhp kf bf bjuat thy

smhp bfj *kfbaay `d bf bjuat.

(h" h*tdf jh yhu "dbr yhur adcckfcs "ktmhut pbftkds'

(bvd yhu dvdr mbj b ebf "mh aktdrbaay "hrsmkppdj tmd crhufj tmbt yhu "ba, hf'

(h" jhds kt *dda'

(h" eu)m jh yhu mbtd "dbrkfc pbftkds0 hf b s)bad h* 2B2%'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 kts b"dshed bmbm ke stkaa kf mkcms)mhha crbjubtd kf =bubry "ba, kf

=ufd sh crbjubtd ,kfjb dbray aha bfj k "dbr adcckfcs "ktmhut ufjdr"dbr hf)d kf b

"mkad 0 bfj ydb k mbvd mbj b cuy "hrsmkp tmd crhufj k "ba, hf bmbm kt "bs

beb>kfc k *dat sh spd)kba mbbm 0 bfj ufjdr"dbr brd h,by shedtkeds0 =ust fht baa

tmd tked bmbm

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbts yhur bcd'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 ke 2@ b`hut th `d 2@ ebr)m $8tm

k cht ey ak)fdf)d $ ehftms bch ùt jhft mbvd ey h"f )br ydt

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Jh yhu *dda d+)ktdj "mdf yhu vkskt sd+ smhps'

!h yhu mbvdft mbj sd+ kf yhur h"f )br ydt.Smbt b ùeedr

Smbt bcd "drd yhu "mdf hfd h* yhur ebad *rkdfjs smh"dj yhu kftdrfdt phrf'

Jkj tmdy *hr)d yhu th "bt)m tmd "mhad vkjdh hr =ust pbrts h* kt'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 k jhft mbvd b )br ydt bt baa sh fh mbvft mbj sd+ kf ey h"f )br ydt

ùt hf)d k jh k )bft "bkt bmbmbm aha bfj fh k jhft cdt d+)ktdj ùt kts kftrdstkfc0 th
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sdd "mbts tmdrd bfj smkt bmbm

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9;t 250 "huaj yhu sby tmbt yhurd b ebstdr bt sd+ hr "huaj yhu

sby tmbt yhu stkaa mbvd b aht h* adbrfkfc th jh'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 j sby ke b ebstdr ùt ke surd tmdrd eby `d b *d" tmkfcs hut tmdrd

kj adbrf ùt fht th surd bmbmb ak,d k sbkj0 sd+ ksft dvdrytmkfc th ed0 hfay k* kts

pbsskhfbtd "ktm shedhfd k ahvd hr )brd baht b`hut

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbt ks pbsskhfbtd th yhu' !h yhurd tdaakfc ed tmbt yhu hfay

*hufj hut abst ydbr "mbt \aby`hy -bcb>kfd ks'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 *hufj hut "mbt paby `hy "bs "mdf k "bs 28 sh ak,d k "bs 21

baehst 28 "mdf k *hufj hut yb bmbmmb bfj kj, pbsskhfbtd ks ufd+pabkfbàd

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smdf yhu "drd b akttad ckra0 jkj yhu mbfc hut "ktm tmd `hys

ehrd hr tmd ckras ehrd'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 k mbfchut "ktm cuys ehrd aha. ckras th eu)m jrbeb

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbt bcd "drd yhu "mdf hfd h* tmde *kst smh"dj yhu bphrfh'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 k "bs b)tubaay 26 aha

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Jkj yhu jks)hvdr kt hf yhur h"f' (h" jkj yhu )hed b)rhss kt'

Smdf jkj yhu jks)hvdr tmd ,kfjs h* )ahtmds tmbt `hys ak,d th sdd yhu kf' s yhur

ebstdry h* ,fh"kfc "mbt cuys "bft th sdd bfj *dda "mbt eb,ds yhu tmd pdr*d)tehjda hr ks tmdrd bfhtmdr + *b)thr hf thp h* tmbt'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 kj, fht Oukt surd mh" kt mbppdfj bmbm . kj, skf)d k `ddf ehjdakfc

kvd rdbak>dj cuys ak,d adss )ahtmds tmd `dttdr bfytmkfc sd+y bmbmbmmbmbm bfj

kj, eby`d bmbm bash ke b ckra k smhuaj ,fh" "mbt cuys "bft )heehf sdfsd

bmbmmb
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mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 s kt ehrd )he*hrtb`ad th "dbr yhur adcckfcs "ktmhut pbftkds'

Jh yhu tmkf, yhur pbrdfts fhtk)d hr jh tmdy =ust bssued yhurd "dbrkfc b

tmhfc'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 kj, k "dbr `hhty smhrts "ktm adcckfcs kts )h>>y bfj yhu )bft tdaa k*

ke "dbrkfc pbftkds hr fht bmbmmb ke fht *hfj h* tmhfcs tmdrd bffhykfc bmbm

hfay "dbr hkf)d kf b "mkad "ktm ak,d supdr tkcmt =dbfs bmbmb

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Jh yhu "dbr `hhty smhrts brhufj tmd mhusd' Smbt ebtdrkba

brd tmdy ebjd hut h*' Ldbf ebtdrkba hr sh*t )htthf hr jh yhu =ust "dbr adcckfcs

brhufj tmd mhusd'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 7dbm k jh bmmb/ bfj kj, fht surd aha bfj fh fht rdbaay k "dbr

adcckfc hut )busd k cdt hfds "ktm jdskcfs hf tmde )mddtbm bfj stu**

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smdf brd yhu adbst ak,day th "dbr pbftkds Nkttdf'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 hf)d b "dd, bmbmbm k jhft "dbr pbftkds bt adbst hf)d b "dd,

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbt ks tmd h))bskhf' (h" jh yhu pk), yhur pbftkadss jbys'(h" ahfc mbvd yhu mbvd yhu mdaj tmks trbjktkhf0 skf)d yhu "drd 8 hr 5'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 fh kvd mbj tmd trbjtkhfs skf)d k "bs 21 "mdf k `d)bed sd+ubay

b)tkvd bfj *hufj hut mh" pbftkds shedtkeds krrktbtd tmd vbckfb sh fht "dbrkfc

pbftkds =ust *ddas `dttdr. bmbm yb kts b "dkrj ckra tmkfc bmbm

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 !,krt "ktm fh pbftkds... ks tmbt )heehf *hr yhu' Smdf ks tmd

*krst tked yhu ebjd b ebfs pdfks vksk`ay mbrj' Jh yhu tmkf, yhu "drd thh yhufcth rdede`dr'

;rd tmdrd )drtbkf skcfs tmbt yhu brdft "dbrkfc pbftkds' Ak,d yhu "dbr tmks

,kfjvd smkrt hr yhur mbkr ks b akttad edssy... !h )bf "mkspdr kf yhur dbr yhu

brdft "dbrkfc bfy pbftkds bfj yhu ak,d kt0 jhft yhu'D kf yhur dbr.
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Ahvdy Nrkstb9 fh fht bt baa hfay k* k ,fh" keb cdt shed tmdf ydbm sh fht h*tdf bt

baa bmbmbm tmd abst tked ak,d ? "dd,s bch bmbmbm bfj fh bmbmbm kts fht mbrj th

eb,d b cuys jk), mbrj aha bfj :ee kj, bmbmmb

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Jh yhu ak,d th t"kst yhur *kfcdr brhufj b ebfs jk), th eb,d kt

mbrj'

r ks kt tmd sd+uba tmhucmts tmbt yhu tdadcrbpm kfth tmdkr ekfj'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 k ak,d thu)mkfc b cuy th eb,d mke mbrj k jhft "bft kt th dbsy k "bft

th `d bàd th "hr, *hr kt k cudss bmbmbm kj, bmbmmb

Zhjby

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 7hur kjdb h* b chhj )mbaadfcd ks eb,kfc b cuy mbrj' r "huaj

yhu sby tmbt kt ks `d)hekfc tmd ehst ekfjBàh"kfc ahvdr tmbt mds dvdr

df)huftdrdj kf mks ak*d'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 kj, aha

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9;rd yhu ehrd chbaBhrkdftdj kf `dj bfj yhu =ust "bft th eb,d

mke )hed'

(h" jh yhu mbfjad mbvkfc yhur mkcm s)mhha tdb)mdrs tmbt )md), yhu hut bfj brd

turfdj hf `y yhur `hjy'

* tmdyrd rdbjkfc tmks brtk)ad rkcmt fh"0 "mbt sd)rdt edssbcd "huaj yhu ak,d th

sdfj th tmde'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 kj, k "bft us `htm th cdt hurs bmbm bfj mbvkfc tdb)mdrs )md), edhut aha kts "dkrj ùt kvd chttdf usd th kt k jhft adt kt ùc ed. k eby `d prdtty yhu

)bf ahh, fht thu)m bmbm kj, aha

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 ,fh" kt eust `d )rb>y *hr tmde "mdf yhur mkcm s)mhha

tdb)mdrs sdd tmd *haj h* yhur )mdd, kf yhur `hhty smhrts. Jh yhu shedtkeds *akrt

"ktm fdrvhus0 cdd,y cuys =ust th "bt)m tmde trkp baa hvdr tmdesdavds... d)busd
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tmdyrd fdrvhus h* cdttkfc mhrfy kf pu`ak)'

(h" h*tdf jh yhu eb,d yhur ebad tdb)mdrs *hrcdt "mbt tmdy "drd tba,kfc b`hut

rkcmt b*tdr yhu baaurd tmdkr bttdftkhf'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 `ut kvd fdvdr dvdr "dft th fhreba mkcms)mhha kvd `ddf

mheds)mhha skf)d *rdsmebf ydbr aha k hfay mbvd hfd tdb)mdr fh" k cht hf)d b

ehftm

sh k mhfdstay "huajft ,fh" "mbt kts ak,d th mbvd tdb)mdrs ak,d ak,d ed ak,d tmbt u

,fh" bfj ey mhed s)mhha mbs jrdss )hjd aha

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 Smbts yhur mhed s)mhha jrdss )hjd... 4kcmtch"f0 fh pbftkds0

)brthhfs hf 4k,'

btkfc )drdba hut h* b *rukt `h"a'


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kfsbtkb`ad fddj th `d sd+y hr brd tmdy kfthadrbft bfj d+trdeday hvdrprhtd)tkvd'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 4h bfj jhft cdt "mbt yhu edbf `ut ey crbfjpbrdfts akvd "ktm

tmdy jhft )brd ehjda tmdy supphrt ed bfj ey jbjs jdbj bfj bfj ey ehes

pbrbay>dj `rbkf jdbj bfj mdr ehe ks mdr )brd ckvdr

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 m ey chj. e sh shrry s"ddtmdbrt. Smy jkj yhu )mhhsd

mheds)mhhakfc hvdr typk)ba s)mhhakfc'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 d)busd jkjft fddj ckras jrbeb rdbshf "my pk),dj

mheds)mhha

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 tmkf, kts crdbt. ; aht h* ckras fdvdr rdbaay cdt tmd )mbf)d th `d

tmdesdavds.... 7hu brd hfd h* tmd *hrtufbtd hfds.

;rd yhur crbfjpbrdfts h,by "ktm yhu mbvkfc `hys kf yhur rhhe'

!pdb,kfc h* `hhty smhrts0 "mbt brd yhu "dbrkfc rkcmt fh"'

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 "daa tmbf,s/


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Ahvdy Nrkstb9 spbfjd+ bbmbm bfj ueeeee ak,d b *d" "dd,s bch kt "bs ey `*

md spkaadj shjb kf tmd )br )busd k sbkj shedtmkfc bfj ydbm bmbmbm

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 #brd th smbrd "mbt yhu sbkj '

Ahvdy Nrkstb9 k *hrcht "mbt k sbkj aha k jhft ,fh"

Zh jks)hvdr ehrd b`hut Cuy Cukaadrehbfj -hjda Ahvdy Nrkstbvkskt

mttp9&&cabehur.ab9 bfj mttps9&&""".*b)d`hh,.)he&ahvday,rkstbb rdspd)tkvday.
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(h" `sdsskhf !ystdes Sbs hrf

"bs bt (\


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$%s... )huaj cdt b"by "ktm `dkfc uatrbBd+pdrkedftba "mdrd tmdy eb,d b

)hfs)khus )mhk)d fht th d tmdkr ufjdrcrhufj d+pdrkedfts

`d)busd be "bbby hutskjd tmdkr *bf`bsd fhre.

Zmdsd brd fk)d0 )hfsdrvbtkvd0 suùr`bf cuys bfj be tmd strddt sbvvy0 jbr,0

jkrty sd+uba0 drhtk) mypfhtkst.

jdjk)btd tmks `hh, th tmde0. ;atmhucm be b àkp hf tmdsd cuys rbjbr bfj "d

brd sh jk**drdft *rhe db)mhtmdr0 tmdy brd tmd b`shautd `dst bt "mbt tmdy jh.

ahh, bt tmde ak,d -S. -S jhdsft eb,d )brs *hr `bj `hys... Zmdy eb,d

)brs *hr )hrphrbtd d+d)s "ktm bf djcd0D ydt0 k* b strddtBsbvvy cuy mbs tmd ehfdy

th ùy bfy )br0 md ks chkfc th ùy tmd `dst. ;atmhucm kfjkrd)t0 j ak,d th tmbf,

tmde *hr tmd )hftrkùtkhfs tmdyvd ebjd th ey "hr,.

!pd)kba tmbf,s th Ahvdy #rkstb bfj mdr )huftadss mhurs h* sabvkfc hvdr tmdsd

`hh,s bfj kf*hrebtkhf. !md ks "ksd `dyhfj mdr ydbrs bfj b vdry chhj ckra. !md

smhuaj *dda vdry prhuj h* mdrsda*.

Zmd kjdb *hr `sdsskhf !ystdes "bs )hf)dkvdj bt bf (\ rdstburbft 1 ydbrs

bch kf tmd spur h* tmd ehedft.0 fh" "ktm hur kftdrvkd"s h* hvdr 1% jbtkfckfstru)thrs0 hur 5% mhur prhju)t Zmd rbkf"bsmkfc JkbrkdsD paus hvdr ?%

prdekue prhju)ts kf)aujkfc !uàkekfba !dju)tkhf0 "d brd )ahsdr tmbf dvdr th

eb,kfc hur jrdbes )hed trud th mbvkfc tmd ehst bjvbf)dj bfj kffhvbtkvd

sdju)tkhf )hb)mkfc prb)tk)ds kf tmd "hraj.

Zh jks)hvdr ehrd b`hut Cuy Cukaadrehbfj -hjda Ahvdy Nrkstbvkskt

mttp9&&cabehur.abbfj mttps9&&""".*b)d`hh,.)he&ahvday,rkstbb rdspd)tkvday.
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JK_OABKEDP

ebckfd tmks9 #haadcd advda dfcaksm0 "d pbssdj tmbt )abss. #huaj jh `dttdr k* "d

trkdj0 "d =ust jkjft )brd. Zmd psy)mhahcy h* sdju)tkhf )abss ks hur rdbshf *hr

cdttkfc up kf tmd ehrfkfc0 *hr dbtkfc0 saddpkfc0 `rdbtmkfc.... !h "mkad tmks `hh,cdts rbf,dj b # kf Oubakty h* djktkfc0 Sd brd bmdbj h* ;AA h* hur pddrs kf tmd

brdbs h* )uttkfcBdjcd rdsdbr)m bfj jks)hvdrkds h* mh" th sdju)d "hedf.

Zmkf, -k)mbda Lhrjbf0 tmd cuy ks sh "daaBvdrsdj "ktm b `bs,dt`baa tmbt "mdrd

shedhfd dasd sdds b mucd `brrkdr0 md sdds bf hpphrtufkty. .. ;atmhucm md ks hfd

h* tmd "hrajs ehst kf*behus `baa mhcs kf tmd adbcud0 dm0 "d rdbaay jhft )brd

tmbt eu)m. (ds chhj bt "mbt md jhds bfj mds dftdrtbkfkfc.

;fy"bys0 "mkad yhurd df=hykfc tmks hh,0 ,ddp tmbt kf ekfj. 7hu "huaj stkaa ahvd

yhur *bvhrktd `hh,0 dvdf ehrd... dvdf ufdjktdj.


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Mhw Aust Ordbtds Butmdftkokty kf _djuotkhf

-y *rkdfj "bs hf N#upkj0 tmd jbtkfc sktd thjby bfj "mbt md thaj ed ebjd ed

abucm mbrjdr tmbf v d dvdr abucmdj `d*hrd bfj bash smh"dj ed mh" skaay hur

sh)kdty ks9 jhft ,fh" b`hut mke0 ydt "mdf *kaadj hut tmd N#upkj

Oudstkhffbkrd0 prdtty eu)m mbj th akd hf dvdry0 skfcad Oudstkhf.

Smy'

d)busd ,fd" tmbt tmd "hedf "mh bfs"drdj tmd Oudstkhfs th ebt)m ed up

"ktm tmde "drd chkfc th akd hf tmdkr Oudstkhffbkrds thh. t ks =ust *urtmdr prhh*

tmbt edf bfj "hedf brd *hr)dj th akd th *kt kf.

Ghr d+bepad0 N#upkj bs,s ed tmd Oudstkhf9 Shuaj yhu dvdr mbvd b *rkdfj "mh

b`usds jrucs' * sby fhD tmbf be aykfc tmrhucm ey s,uaa bfj k* ydsD tmbf

"kaa `d sddf bs shed jrucckd strufc hut hf mdrhkf.

Grbf,ay0 shed h* ey ehst rk)m bfj ph"dr*ua *rkdfjs seh,d "ddj kfc pdhpad "ktm

beb>kfc pdrshfbaktkds0 ydt tmdy mbvd mbj b jruc mb`kt kf tmdkr pbst tmbt mbufts

tmde.

Zmbt N#upkj Oudstkhffbkrd ks bf b`shautday mhrrk`ad d+bepad bfj rd*ad)tkhf h*tmd trutm. !h ebfy pdhpad brd ak,day th *ujcd tmd rdsuats th fht ahh, ak,d =uf,kds

tmbt tmd hfd cuy "mh sbys md mbs b *rkdfj tmbt mbs seh,dj "ddj


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4 Z(;Z N#:\J I;-.

...bfj `d)busd h* tmbt0 tmdy dktmdr )ru)k*y pdhpad *hr tmd trutm0 *dda tmd fddj th

akd.

Z(! ks "my )heeufk)btkhf bfj `dkfc b`ad th )heeufk)btd yhur aust

kftdftkhfs d**d)tkvday baah"s *hr mdbatmkdr sd+uba rdabtkhfsmkps.

Zh mhfd tmd b`kakty th *rbed bfj )heeufk)btd yhur trudst kftdftkhfs bfj *ddakfcs

kf ak*d )busds tmdsd dpkpmbfkds bfj crdy brdbs tmbt )busd "hedf th cdt turfdj

hf bfj&hr su`ekt.

Z(! ks "mdrd *h)us ehst h* ey bttdftkhf bs b )hb)m.

Mhw th Batdr Mdr _tbtd hg Ekfj uko!ay

Zmks ks hfd h* tmd jkrtkdst akttad trk),s tmbt yhu "kaa dvdr *kfj kf tmd "hraj0. bsk)baay0

"mbt yhu brd jhkfc ks tb,kfc mdr ekfj hut h* tmd "hraj tmbt smd ks bardbjy kf `y

pab)kfc mdr ekfj kf bf batdrdj stbtd tmbt smd mbs fdvdr `ddf kf `d*hrd. * tmks

batdrdj stbtd *ddas chhj0 bfj smd mbs fdvdr `ddf kf tmks batdrdj stbtd tmdf smd

"kaa "bft b thur cukjd tmrhucm tmks batdrdj stbtd th *kfj hut mh" smd )bf truay

df=hy tmks d+pdrkdf)d tmbt smd ks mbvkfc "ktm tmd pdrshf tmbt smd mbs fdvdrd+pdrkdf)dj bf d+pdrkdf)d ak,d tmks `d*hrd "ktm kf tmks "by.

ebckfd tmks0 smd mbs tmks fhtkhf tmbt strkppdrs brd jkrty )rdbturds. smh" mdr

mh" tmdrd brd d+htk) jbf)drs bfj strkppdrs ckras "mh brd ehrd kftdaakcdft tmbf

mdr bfj b)tubaay mbvd b Ouktd )abssy =h`0 dftdrtbkfkfc shed h* tmd "hrajs ehst

dftdrprkskfc edf bfj eb,kfc thfs h* ehfdy "mkad smd struccads *kfbf)kbaay. 4h"0

smd ks kf tmks fd" pab)d tmbt smd mbs fdvdr `ddf kf `d*hrd. vdr skf)d smd "bs

2$ hr 2?0 smd mbs ba"bys ahh,dj bt d+htk) jbf)drs bs jkrty pdhpad0 fh" smd ksstbrtkfc th rdBd+bekfd mdr tmhucmts. * "bftdj th0 )huaj cdt mdr kf b ehjd

"mdrd0 k* mbj dfhucm sh)kba vbakjbtkhf bfj ehfdy th smh" *hr0 )huaj cdt mur th

mbfc hut "ktm ed ehrd0 mbfc hut "ktm ey *rkdfjs ehrd bs "daa bs htmdr *debad

*rkdfjs "mh eby `d kf tmd d+htk) jbf)kfc kfjustry. eby cdt mdr th `d)hed b

)h),tbka "bktrdss sh tmbt smd )bf put shed ehfdy kfth mdr ph),dt. Zmd ckras bt

tmd )au` =ust ekcmt )hfvkf)d mdr th jbf)d =ust tmbt hfd tked0 bfj hfd smd


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jks)hvdrs tmbt smd )bf eb,d 2%%% kf ekfutds0 smd "kaa `d mhh,dj. !md "kaa ch

mhed bfj kebckfd mh" eu)m ehfdy smd )huaj eb,d k* smd "hr,s sdvdf jbys b

"dd, bfj baa h* tmd tmkfcs tmbt smd )huaj ùy k* smd "drd th akvd tmks typd h*

ak*dstyad.

!md )bf ùy smhds0 smd )bf ùy jrdssds bfj s,krts bfj d+pdfskvd mbfj`bcs.

!md fdvdr mbs th "dbr b *b,d `rbfj bcbkf. !md )bf `d tmd dfvy h* ehst ckras

bfj mbvd cuys "mh ch cbcb baa hvdr mdr =ust `d)busd smd ks b stuffkfcay

chrcdhus bfj `dbutk*ua "hedf. Zmks ks hfd h* mdr jrdbes bfj ba"bys mbs `ddf.

t baa )heds *rhe )mbfckfc bfj batdrkfc mdr stbtds h* ekfj b`hut b )drtbkf tmkfc.

Smbt ks tmd dbskdst "by th )mbfcd bfj batdr b pdrshfs ekfj' Zmd dbskdst "by

th batdr b pdrshf tmhucmts ks th ckvd tmde fd" kf*hrebtkhf tmbt tmdy mbvd fdvdr

mdbrj `d*hrd bfj prhvd kt. 7dstdrjby0 b ckra thaj ed tmbt smd *dat tmbt cuys usdj

mdr *hr padbsurd bfj tmbt "bs baa. cbvd mdr bf brtk)ad th bf th :!; Zhjby tmbt

prhvds tmbt pdhpad "mh ckvd ehrd *dda `dttdr b`hut tmdesdavds bfj mbvd

mbppkdr akvds. ;)tubaay0 kts sbkj tmbt pdhpad "mh ckvd ehrd *dda `dttdr b`hut

ckvkfc tmbf tmd pdrshf jhds *dda b`hut rd)dkvkfc. Zmks rkcmt mdrd eb,ds mdr *dda

prhuj h* mdrsda* dvdry tked smd sdrvds bs b cuy hr "dbrs b smkrt "ktm mdr )mdst

hut bfj `hjy d+phsdj. !hedtkeds0 kt ks baa b`hut smh"kfc mdr tmbt tmd vdry tmkfc

tmbt smd tmhucmt "bs rkcmt ks "rhfc. !hedtkeds0 kts baa b`hut smh"kfc mdrebkfstrdbe kf*hrebtkhf tmbt supphrts yhur *rbeds h* sd+uba `rkaakbf)d.

(hw "h #d "md Ebf Dvdry Shebf Sbfts

Smbt b "hebf "bfts ks b ebf h* tmd "hraj. ; ebf h* tmd "hraj ks tmd hfay typd

h* cuy "mh )bf ckvd mdr "mbt smd "bfts `d)busd bfy "hebf ks chkfc th "bft kt

baa. vdry "hebf "bfts kt baa bfj tmd ehrd tmbt yhu mbvd th `brtdr0 tmd ehrd tmbt

yhu brd chkfc th cdt.

!d+ubakty ks tmks uatkebtd hrjdrkfc thha. Smdf yhu )bf `brtdr tmd *b)t tmbt yhu brd

b prh kf `dj0 tmd ehrd tmbt yhu brd chkfc th "kf "ktm `dbutk*ua "hedf. Zmks ks

"mbt tmdy rdbaay ahh, *hr kf edf. Zmks ks "mbt d+)ktds tmde bfj k* yhu )bf ckvd

tmde tmks... Zmd hfd tmkfc tmbt tmdy brd eksskfc tmdf yhu brd chkfc th "kf

jrbebtk)baay.


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Gb)t ks9 ehst cuys =ust *abtBhut su), kf `dj. !d+ ks tmd hfd jdskrd tmbt "d )rbvd

tmd strhfcdst "mdf "d brd bahfd0 sh k* "d brd bàd th ckvd mdr mdkcmtdfdj

sd+uba d+pdrkdf)ds tmdf smd ks ehrd ak,day th ckvd us mdr `hjy. sft tmbt d+b)tay

"mbt yhu "bft' * yhu )bf phrtrby th mdr "mbt htmdr "hedf mbvd sbkj th yhu

b`hut yhur sd+uba prh"dss bfj mh" yhu brd beb>kfc kf `dj "ktmhut `dkfc hvdrt

hr h`vkhus tmbf yhu "kaa "kf mdr b**d)tkhfs bfj smd ks ehrd ak,day th suèkt th

yhur rdOudsts th mbvd b sd+uba rdabtkhfsmkp "ktm mdr.

Gb)t ks tmbt ehst cuys jh fht fddj b aht h* pk), up akfds bfj ebtdrkba th `d

d+trdeday su))dss*ua "ktm "hedf. -hst cuys "mh brd su))dss*ua "ktm "hedf

,fh" mh" th )hfvdy tmdkr sd+ubakty kf bjjktkhf th *kttkfc kf "ktm b "hebfs

pbrtk)uabr br)mdtypd. Ak,d mbvd sbkj tked bfj tked bcbkf0 br)mdtypd ks prh`bày

hfd h* tmd crdbtdst "bys th cbkf rbpphrt "ktm "hedf0 ydt kt jhds fht cubrbftdd

su))dss "ktm "hedf.

!hed cuys crd" up vdry dbray kf ak*d. mbvd b *rkdfj "mh "bs *hhakfc brhufj

"ktm ckras "mdf md "bs 2% ydbrs haj bfj md fdvdr Oukt. (d )hftkfudj tmrhucmhut

mks tddfs bfj kfth mks $%s. (d ks shedhfd "mh crd" up vdry *bst bfj mbj b aht

h* su))dss "ktm "hedf dbray. Zmdrd brd b aht h* cuys "mh fdvdr rdbaay *uaay

`d)hed bjuats. Zmdy mbj ekcmt mbvd ebstdrs jdcrdds hr `d jh)thrs0 ydt0 tmdybrd stkaa kf dadedftbry s)mhha "mdf kt )heds th `dkfc bjuats.

"bft yhu th tmkf, h* bjuat dftdrtbkfedft0 kt ks dftdrtbkfedft tmbt rdvhavd shaday

brhufj sd+. Zmkf, h* \aby`hy ebcb>kfd0 k* yhu rdbj \aby`hy yhu ekcmt rdbj

b`hut sphrts tdbes0 )brs bfj psy)mhahcy0 ydt0 kt baa mbs b vdry phaktk)baay

kf)hrrd)t thfd th kt. ; aht h* cuys jh fht ,fh" mh" th mbvd tmks thfd "ktm "hedf.

Smdf sby phaktk)baay kf)hrrd)t0 jh fht edbf tmbt yhu mbvd th `d shed cuy"mh ks rujd0 hf tmd )hftrbry. -hst cuys "mh brd rdbaay chhj "hedf ,fh" mh"

th )hfvdy tmdkr bjvbf)dj ,fh"adjcd h* sd+ubakty kf b )hfvdrsbtkhf vdry dbskay.

ebckfd tmks9 yhu bfj b *rkdfj brd bt b strkp )au`. (d ks tba,kfc b`hut mh" mht tmd

strkppdrs brd bfj fhtkfc )drtbkf tdb)mdrs tmbt db)m strkppdr mbs0 hf tmd htmdr

mbfj0 tmd pdrshf "mh jhds fht mbvd b vbst bjuat dju)btkhf ks chkfc th b)t ak,d

"mbt tmd htmdr cuy ks sbykfc ks k),y. (d ks chkfc th b)t ak,d "mbt tmd htmdr cuy ks


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sbykfc ks k),y0 ydt md "bfts th saddp "ktm strkppdr. 7dt0 k* tmd strkppdr bpprhb)mds

mke bfj sbys tmbt smd "bfts th mbvd sd+ "ktm mke0 md "kaa b)t phaktk)baay )hrrd)t

bfj sby hm ey Chj0 "huaj fdvdr tmkf, h* jhkfc su)m b tmkfc. rdspd)t yhu thh

eu)m.D

; pdrshf "ktm bf bjuat dju)btkhf ks chkfc th ,fh" tmbt "hedf "bft tmd sbed

tmkfcs bs edf0 b pdrshf "mh ks stkaa b ,kj ks chkfc th b)t ak,d smd jhdsft bfj k*

yhu "drd th succdst shedtmkfc ak,d tmbt0 yhu brd `dkfc ufrdbshfbàd.

Mhw th #dohed Ehrd Shrajay

ebcd ks sh kephrtbft yhu brd stbrtkfc hut bs b pk), up brtksts bfj "kaa )hftkfud

th `d vdry kephrtbft th yhur crh"tm kf tmd *uturd. 7hu ,fh" tmhsd jrdbes "mdrd

yhu kebckfd yhursda* `dkfc )hha0 "dbrkfc )drtbkf )ahtmds0 mbfckfc hut kf )drtbkf

vdfuds bfj df=hykfc yhur ak*d' Zmhsd h* tmd jrdbes tmde pusm yhu kfth ahh,kfc

kfth )rdbtkfc yhur ak*d brhufj yhur jrdbes.

7hu mbvd b )hupad mufjrdj ù),s tmbt yhu )bf spdfj bfy"by "mk)m yhu "bft

th bfj yhu )bf hfay ùy smhds0 "mk)m smhds brd yhu chkfc th ùy' ;rd yhu

chkfc th ùy smhds tmbt tmd \aby`hy "huaj "mdrd' ;rd yhu chkfc th ùy tmd

smhds tmd akfdup "ktm yhur jrdbes' * yhu "bft th eb,d prhcrdss bt `dkfc ehrd"hrajay tmdf yhu "kaa.

vdry jby0 yhu mbvd $6 mhurs th kfvdst kf shedtmkfc tmbt ks chkfc th `d vbaubàd

kf yhur keedjkbtd *uturd. * yhu brd spdfj b ydbr kfvdstkfc yhur tked eb,kfc

yhur jrdbe b rdbakty0 tmbt rdbakty "kaa stbrt th )hed trud.

vdf k* yhu akvd kf b sebaa0 )rbppy akttad th"f. * yhu "bft th `d ak,d %%5 hr (ucm

(d*fdr 7hu eby fht `d ak,d b aht h* htmdr pdhpad0 ydt0 "hedf "mh brd kfth tmbtbr)mdtypd h* ebad "kaa *baa mdbj hvdr mddas *hr b cuy ak,d yhu0 dspd)kbaay skf)d

yhu brd tmd hfay hfd "mh ks utkak>kfc su)m b ph"dr*ua br)mdtypd.

#mbaadfcd yhursda*9 kfvdst bs eu)m tked bs yhu )bf kfth `d)hekfc yhur jrdbe

br)mdtypd. 7hur *rkdfjs ekcmt fht ak,d kt0 yhur *bekay ekcmt fht ak,d kt. "bft th

bs, hfd skepad Oudstkhf tmhucm' ;rd yhur *rkdfjs bfj *bekay mdapkfc yhu th cdt


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abkj' (bs tmdkr bjvk)d b)tubaay "hr,dj' Jh yhu *dda tmbt tmdrd brd mkcmdr advdas

h* su))dss tmbt )bf `d h`tbkfdj `y utkak>kfc tmks fd" br)mdtypd'

d vdry h`=d)tkvd "mdf yhurd jdbakfc "ktm *bekay bfj *rkdfjs `d)busd b aht h*

tkeds kts tmd pdrshf )ahsdst th yhu tmbt )bf murt yhu tmd ehst k* yhu adt tmde.

vdf k* yhu *dda b akttad skaay trykfc hf tmks fd" br)mdtypd0 jh kt. Cdt tmd s"kfc h*

tmkfcs. Ghr)d pdhpad th cdt usdj th tmd fd" yhu bs tmks sak), fd" br)mdtypd.

(h" Zh dttdr 7hursda*

Zmd `dst "by yhu )bf `dttdr yhursda* ks `y puttkfc yhursda* kf ehrd sh)kba

sktubtkhfs tmbf yhur b)tubaay usdj th. Zmd ehrd sh)kba sktubtkhfs yhu put yhursda*

kfth0 tmd `dttdr yhu "kaa `d bt sdju)kfc "hedf. Zmd mkcmdr tmbt yhu tb,d yhursda*

bfj tmd ehrd tmbt yhu pusm yhursda*0 tmd *brtmdr yhu "kaa ch.

Zmdrd brd sh ebfy cuys hut tmdrd "mh rd*usd th pusm tmdesdavds `d)busd tmdy

brd b*rbkj h* ahh,kfc ak,d kjkhts. Zmks ks prh`b`ay tmd "hrst bttktujds tmbt b pdrshf

)bf mbvd `d)busd bfyhfd "ktm bf E hvdr 2% ,fh"s tmbt kf hrjdr th cbkf bfy

typd h* su))dss0 yhu mbvd th put yhursda* kf rks,y sktubtkhfs. !ktubtkhfs tmbt brd

uf*bekakbr. jhft edbf =uepkfc kf *rhft h* b `us hr shedtmkfc ak,d tmbt0 edbf0

puttkfc yhursda* kfth sh)kba sktubtkhfs tmbt bppay prdssurd th tmd akekts tmbt yhu

prdvkhusay mbj sdt hf yhursda*.

`dakdvd tmbt baa h* ey stujdfts jdsdrvd th mbvd tmd mhttdst bfj ehst `dbutk*ua

"hedf kf tmd dftkrd "hraj. jhft ,fh" k* yhu *dda tmbt "by b`hut yhursda*0 ydt0

jd*kfktday *dda tmbt "by b`hut yhu bfj "mbt yhu jdsdrvd kf yhur ak*d.

;fhtmdr tmkfc tmbt yhu )bf jh th keprhvd yhursda* bfj eb,d yhursda* `dttdr ks th

stujy b aht h* psy)mhahcy. b`shautday ahvd psy)mhahcy bfj *dda tmbt kt ks hfd h*

tmd `dst "bys b yhu )bf b)mkdvd vdry dbskay "mbt yhu "bft "ktm yhur chbas h*

bttrb)tkfc0 sdju)kfc bfj jbtkfc tmd ehst `dbutk*ua "hedf kf tmd "hraj. tmkf, tmd tmkfc tmbt ,kaas ehst cuys ks tmdy jhft `dakdvd tmbt tmdy b)tubaay

jdsdrvd th mbvd tmd ehst chrcdhus ckras kf tmd "hraj. t ks bs k* sda*Bjhu`t

pabcuds tmdkr dftkrd ekfj. ;aa tmdy "huaj mbvd th jh ks b)tubaay hpdf mdr ehutm

bfj spdb, b )hupad sdftdf)ds th "hedf bfj b*tdr b "mkad0 kt "kaa `d)hed

bjjk)tkvd `d)busd tmdy )hfstbftay sdd tmdesdavds keprhvkfc kf dvdry0 skfcad

brdb h* tmdkr ak*d.


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tmkf, shed pdhpad brd "by thh mbrj hf tmdesdavds. "bs =ust )hb)mkfc b cuy

tmbt *ddas bs k* md "bs fht `dkfc bapmb kf mks rdabtkhfsmkp "ktm mks ckra*rkdfj.

tmkf, tmks ks vdry sbj0 `d)busd md "bs b)tubaay padfty bapmb. `dakdvd tmbt md jkj

vdry chhj *hr mkesda* kf tmd brdb h* bttrb)tkfc bfj sdju)kfc `dbutk*ua ckras. s =ust

tmbt0 ehst cuys jhft ,fh" tmd stu** tmbt ,fh"0 sh k* tbucmt mke shed fd"

td)mfkOuds hr shedtmkfc ak,d tmbt tmdy md jkjft ,fh" prdvkhusay0 kt ks `d)busd

tmdy "drd fht kfvdftdj hr dktmdr tmdy "drd fht kftrhju)dj th tmd pk),up brtkst

)heeufkty.

#hftkfud th pusm yhursda* bfj `d tmd pdrshf "mh ks yhur h"f "hrst )rktk) bs "daa

ks b pdrshf "mh ks vdry ufjdrstbfjkfc h* yhu bfj yhur sktubtkhf. fay yhu )bf

ufjdrstbfj yhur h"f sktubtkhf. vdry0 skfcad pdrshf ks jk**drdft bfj kt ks

kephrtbft *hr yhu th sdd mh" yhu brd jk**drdft *rhe tmd htmdr cuys sh tmbt yhu

)bf eb,d yhursda* smkfd kf b vdry ufkOud "by. Zmks ks hfd h* tmd rdbshfs tmbt

jh fht ak,d pk),up akfds0 jh fht ak,d pk),up akfds `d)busd tmdy df)hurbcd cuys

th `d)hed )br`hf )hpkds h* shedtmkfc tmbt ks su))dss*ua bs hpphsdj th *kfjkfc

tmdkr h"f ufkOud bfj kfjkvkjuba pdrshfbakty trbkts bfj jkspabykfc tmde kf b "by

tmbt ks vdry bttrb)tkvd th "hedf.

Ebstdr $hur Kffdr%_dag

Smbt mbppdfs b aht h* tkeds ks tmbt "mkad yhu `d)hekfc b crdbt sdju)dr yhu

b)tubaay ahsd b pbrt h* yhursda* tmbt yhu ak,dj bfj `d)busd h* tmbt yhu eby *dda b

sdfsd h* sda* ahbtmkfc.

Zmks mbppdfs th sh ebfy pk), up brtksts. Zmdy *dda bs k* tmdy mbvd th sthp ak,kfc

!tbr Sbrs =ust `d su))dss*ua "ktm "hedf. Zmks )bf )busd tmde th ahbtmd tmd

"hedf tmbt tmdy saddp "ktm. Smbt b tdrrkàd *ddakfc. Zmdrd cbed rdsts hf tmdsmhuajdrs h* kfstbàd tmkf,kfc. Jh "hedf rdbaay sby th tmdesdavds "kaa fdvdr

jbtd b ebf "mh ahvd !tbr Sbrs'D \rh`bày fht.

e surd yhuvd prh`bày mdbrj h* cuys "mh )bf ch th tmd )au` "dbrkfc b Jr.

!ph), hut*kt bfj "ba, hut h* tmdrd "ktm bf beb>kfc ckra hf mks bre. Smy )bft

yhu'


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; aht h* tkeds kf tmd cbed0 "d eksbttrkùtd hur su))dssds. Zmks ckra ks kf ahvd

"ktm ed `d)busd smd mbs fdvdr sddf ey !tbr Sbrs )haad)tkhf.D

Smdf rdbaay kts "mdf "bs mdbvy kfth !tbr Sbrs0 bakdfbtdj eysda* sh)kbaay

bfj tmbt ks "my )huajft cdt "hedf "ktm K1F h* ey tked "bs jdvhtdj th ey

!tbr Sbrs )haad)tkhf bs hpphsdj th tmd ?1F tmbt jdvhtd th kt fh".

fd tmkfc kfvktd baa pk), up brtksts th jh ks tdst0 tdst0 tdst. Jhft tb,d "mbt shed

pk), up brtksts sbys àkfjay *hr trutm. -hst h* tmd pk), up brtksts hut tmdrd "mh

tdb)m tmks stu** kf hur )heeufkty brd rkjjadj "ktm prhàdes tmbt tmdy "hft *b)d

`d)busd tmdy *dda tmbt skf)d tmdy brd kf b adbjdrsmkp phsktkhf tmdy )bffht

b),fh"adjcd `d)busd tmbt "kaa ahh, "db,.

7hu eust ,fh" tmbt =ust `d)busd kt "hr,s *hr ed jhdsft edbf tmbt kts chkfc th

"hr, *hr yhu. Smbt yhu )bf sby ks tmbt bfytmkfc ks phsskàd "mdf tmd rkcmt

)hhrjkfbtds ebt)m up.

f tmks cbed yhu eust dvbaubtd dvdry bfcad th eb,d tmd rkcmt bfs"drs `d)hed

bvbkabàd. f tmks cbed0 yhu "bft th `d bàd th eb,d tmd tdb)mkfcs yhur h"f bfj

t"db, tmde kf "bys tmbt dfsurd yhu ,fh" tmd rdbshfs "my shedtmkfc "hr,s.7hu "bft th `d bàd th eb,d ekstb,ds bs b s)kdftkst eb,ds ekstb,ds Hdry

h`=d)tkvday uftka yhu *kfj b styad0 s)mhha hr td)mfkOuds tmbt "hr, *hr yhu.

Ekaakhfbkrd Jbtkf&

-kaakhfbkrd jbtkfc ks shedtmkfc tmbt "hedf jd*kfktday "bft th `d b pbrt h*. -hrd

ehfdy yhu mbvd0 tmd dbskdr kt ks th cdt "hedf0 ydt0 kt bash hpdfs yhu up th b aht

h* chajjkccdrs bfj ckras "mh "bft th tb,d yhu =ust *hr yhur ehfdy. * yhu brd bekaakhfbkrd0 hr yhu eb,d b aht h* ehfdy0 yhu smhuaj jd*kfktday ,ddp yhursda*

prdpbrdj =ust kf )bsd tmd "hedf tmbt yhu brd "ktm tmks b )hepadtd chaj jkccdr

bfj b "bstd h* tked.

fd h* tmd skcfs tmbt yhu smhuaj ahh, hut *hr ks tmbt b "hebf ks )hfstbftay kf

yhur *kfbf)ds. * smd ks )hfstbftay bs,kfc yhu Oudstkhfs b`hut yhur *kfbf)ds0 bfj


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fh ebttdr "mbt0 tmd su`=d)t chds `b), th yhur *kfbf)ds0 tmdf smd ks jd*kfktday b

chaj jkccdr bfj shedhfd tmbt yhu smhuaj stby b"by *rhe.

;fhtmdr skcf tmbt yhu brd cdttkfc kf `dj "ktm tmd psy)mh ks k* b "hebf )hfstbftay

mbs kssuds bfj prhàdes kf mdr ak*d bfj smd àbeds tmde hf htmdr pdhpad.

Gurtmdrehrd0 k* smd ks b ckra "mh mbs ahts h* kssuds bfj prhàdes0 ydt0 smd

rd*usds th bjekt th bfy h* mdr *buats tmdf smd ks jd*kfktday b prhàde kf tmd *uturd

k* yhu baah" mdr th `d.

!h0 tmd rdabtkhfsmkp jhdsft "hr, bfj smd ks àbekfc yhu *hr dvdry0 skfcad bspd)t

h* "my kt jkjft "hr,. s tmbt *bkr *hr yhu'

;fhtmdr skcf tmbt yhu brd jdbakfc "ktm b chaj jkccdr hr shedhfd "mh ks chkfc th

ch )hepadtday edftba bs k* b ckra mbs kssuds "ktm ahskfc. f tmks sh)kdty tmbt "d

akvd kf0 kt ks vdry )heehf th sdd ebs)uakfd trbkts bs `dkfc tmd "kffkfc trbkts. *

smd ks shedhfd "mh )bffht ahsd0 tmdf smd "kaa `d )hfstbftay *kcmtkfc *hr tmd

)hftrha kf tmd rdabtkhfsmkp. (dr *kcmtkfc *hr tmd )hftrha h* tmd rdabtkhfsmkp ekcmt `d

chhj *hr sd+0 ydt0 k* yhu brd stbrtkfc b rdba rdabtkhfsmkp "ktm shedhfd tmbt yhu

ekcmt ebrry0 yhu brd pabykfc "ktm *krd.

ebckfd tmks9 yhu brd *kcmtkfc bfj )hfstbftay `bttakfc *hr tmd rdkfs kf yhurrdabtkhfsmkp. 7hur *rkdfjs bfj *bekay mbvd th )hfstbftay `d d+phsdj th shed ckra

tmbt "bfts th hfd up yhu. 7hur ,kjs brd d+phsdj th b ehtmdr "mh ks )hepadtday

edftba bfj ekcmt aktdrbaay bttdept th turf yhur h"f ,kjs bcbkfst yhu. Zmks ks b

ak*dstyad tmbt yhu jd*kfktday jh fht "bft th akvd.

Zmdf0 yhu mbvd b *rkdfj jd)kjdj th cdt b ebkaBhrjdr `rkjd. !md ks s"ddt0

`dbutk*ua bfj 3usskbf. !md mbs b chrcdhus `hjy. !md )hh,s bfj )adbfs bfj "kaa

akstdf th dvdrytmkfc tmbt yhu mbvd th sby. ;fj tmbt0 yhur "k*d ks b`hut b sk+ bfjyhur *rkdfjs ebkaBhrjdr `rkjd0 tmbt thh, b`shautday fh cbed th h`tbkf ks b

)hepadtd 2%.

Zmdsd brd d+b)tay tmd jyfbek)s tmbt yhu smhuaj pby bttdftkhf th "mdf yhu brd

sdju)kfc "hedf. Zmd ehrd tmbt yhu pby bttdftkhf th tmde0 tmd ehrd tmbt yhu

"kaa cdt bmdbj kf ak*d "ktmhut phtdftkbaay ebrrykfc b mkjdhus ckra "ktm tmd "hrst


24/43

bttktujd prh`ade kf mksthry.

'(sdsskhf _ystdes Ohaj Pdbjkf&

* dvdr k* dvdr mbvd b spd)kbaty kf tmd "hraj kt "kaa `d )haj rdbjkfc. Zh ,fh"

"mbt smds tmkf,kfc0 th ,fh" smds *ddakfc. Zmks ks bf brdb h* sdju)tkhf tmbt tb,d

crdbt prkjd kf. Zmd *uffy tmkfc b`hut )haj rdbjkfc ks tmks9 ehst pdhpad *dda bs k*

tmd hfay advdas h* )haj rdbjkfc brd uttdrkfc tmkfcs `b), th b "hebf tmbt ks trud

*hr dvdry "hebf. -d0 ak,ds ahh,kfc )haj rdbjkfc ak,d b pdr)dftbcd cbed.

Ghr d+bepad9 b ckra crh"s up kf tmd !hutm0 "mdrd pdhpad usd tmdkr `hjkds ehrd

bfj usdr ekfjadss kfc bt tmde kf b sd+uba ebffdr. !h `y ed

)hepakedftkfc mdr kf b vdry sd+ubaay hvdr "by0 be eb,kfc mdr jby. bevbakjbtkfc mdr sd+uba *ddakfcs. * jh tmd sbed th b ckra "mh "bs jrdssdj ak,d b

fuf0 smd ekcmt kcfhrd ed hr eb,d b `kc *uss b`hut kt. mbvd tdstdj tmks hut

ebfy tkeds kf "bys tmbt "huaj fdvdr d+pd)t ey stujdfts th d+pdrkedft "ktm

bfj mbvd jks)hvdrdj "ktmhut *bka tmbt "hedf "drd adss )ahtmds hf b rdcuabr

`bsks fddj tmbt. t ks bf bjjk)tkhf.

)bf bash tdaa b aht b`hut b "hebfs pbst `y ahh,kfc bt mdr prdsdft. Shedf

jhft =ust turf 2 bfj tmdf `d)hed sd+uba jdvkbfts. Zmks ks shed"mbt bfbjjk)tkhf tmbt stbrts hut sebaa kf )mkajmhhj bfj jdvdahps kfth shedtmkfc dasd hf

kts h"f.

Zmdrd brd bash )drtbkf fdcbtkvd trbkts hr bftkBsdju)tkvd trbkts


25/43

mkcmay drhtk) )rdbturd =ust "by smd ks bs "daa bs )hepadtday sbfd bfj b"brd

jd)kskhfs tmbt smd ks eb,kfc. #hepadtday padbsdj "ktm baa h* tmd bjuat jd)kskhfs

tmbt smd ks eb,kfc *hr mdrsda*. Zmks ks bf brt tmbt ks typk)baay hfay stujkdj `y shed

h* tmd "hrajs thp mypfhtmdrbpksts bfj sd+ tmdrbpksts. -hst h* tmd stu** tmdy

)bffht tdaa yhu `d)busd kt ks th tb`hh eby eby ahsd mdr ak)dfsds. e mdrd th

mdap pdhpad0 sh "kaa jh "mbt )bf0 dvdf k* tmbt edbfs `dkfc b rhcud

mypfhtmdrbpkst.

)bod wktm Bromdty*d

\b)kfc vkb br)mdtypd ks prh`bày hfd h* tmd sak),dst ehvds tmbt yhu )bf dvdr

eb,d "mdf kt )heds th sdju)kfc "hedf. \b)kfc "ktm br)mdtypds ks `rkaakbft

`d)busd uatkebtday "mbt yhu brd jhkfc ks ,fh"kfc d+b)tay "mbt ehjd smd ks kf

sh tmbt yhu )bf jdvdahp b skekabr ehjd hr b )hepakedftbry ehjd. Smbt jhds b

Chtm ckra b)t ak,d "mdf smd ks rdbaay d+)ktdj b`hut shedtmkfc' ;aa mbvd th jh ks

bs, rdbaay mbppy kf b skekabr "by.

;fhtmdr "by tmbt yhu )bf usd pb)kfc "ktm br)mdtypd ks `y mbvkfc b skekabr

br)mdtypd bs tmde hr b )hepbtkàd br)mdtypd. ;r)mdtypds brd skekabr th tmd

mhrhs)hpd kf tmd bstrhahcy. Smbt mbppdfs ks tmbt shed br)mdtypds brd =ust

fbturbaay kf)akfdj th )hed thcdtmdr bs *rkdfjs bfj shed br)mdtypds brd fbturbaaydfdekds. ebckfd b pht seh,kfc mkppkd )hffd)tkfc "ktm bf bfbaBrdtdftkvd

3dpuàk)bf. * smd ks bf bfba rdtdftkvd 3dpuàk)bf0 yhu ekcmt "bft th phsktkhf

yhursda* bs tmd mkppkd "ktm tmd "ddj tmbt tmd 3dpuàk)bf seh,ds "mdf tmdy

"bft th tb,d b `rdb, *rhe tmdkr md)tk) ak*d hr )dad`rbtd tmdkr vk)thrkds. vdryhfd

ak,ds b chhj cabss h* "kfd bfj Jdeh)rbts brd tmd ,kfcs h* "kfd eb,kfc bs "daa

bs jrkf,kfc. t ks hfd pab)d h* tmd ebfy tmbt rdpuàk)bfs bfj jdeh)rbts )bf

rdbaay `hfj bfj )hffd)t *b)d th *b)d.

Adt ed tdaa yhu shedtmkfc b`hut ak*d9 yhu )bffht padbsd dvdryhfd. d)busd h*

tmd *b)t tmbt yhu )bffht padbsd dvdryhfd0 yhu mbvd th ahh, bt br)mdtypds vdry

)ahsday *hr hfds tmbt yhu pbrtk)uabray df=hy hr br)mdtypds tmbt brd vdry )ahsd th

hr )hepbtkàd "ktm tmd ckras tmbt yhu brd rdbaay kfth. ;ash ,fh" tmbt kt ks h,by k*

yhu jh fht bppdba th dvdry skfcad abjy0 dvdry skfcad tked. ;atmhucm0 rdbaay jh

df=hy prb)tk)kfc sdju)tkhf hf dvdry br)mdtypd h* "hebf kf tmd "hraj0 dvdf tmd


26/43

hfds tmbt jh fht ak,d `d)busd =ust rdbaay df=hy spdb,kfc th shed h* tmd ehst

`dbutk*ua "hedf kf tmd "hraj. t ks vdry jk**k)uat *hr ed th pk), hfd br)mdtypd h* b

"hebf tmbt be sekttdf hvdr. :subaay0 kt ks tmd *b)d tmbt cdts ed.

fd h* tmd ehst ph"dr*ua br)mdtypds kf tmd "hraj tmbt yhu )huaj dvdr )mhhsd ks

tmd ebf h* tmd "hraj. Shrajay edf brd bttrb)tdj th ckras h* dvdry )uaturd bfj

"hedf ,fh" tmks sh tmbt =ust bttrb)ts tmd ckras ehrd. Shrajay edf brd typk)baay

tmd typd h* cuys tmbt "hedf mbvd *akfcs "ktm0 fht fd)dssbrkay ufadss tmdy brd

vdry "hrajay thh. *dda tmbt tmdrd brd shed d+)dptkhfs0 dspd)kbaay kf ey )bsd

"mdrd jdskrd vdry0 vdry0 vdry0 d+trdeday su`eksskvd "hedf


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chrcdhus "hedf.

Zmks ks "mbt cuys mbvd th rdbak>d. Zmdy mbvd th rdbak>d tmbt tmdrd brd b aht h*

jk**drdft systdes chkfc h** kf mdr mdbj. * "mbt yhu brd sbykfc eb,ds sdfsd th

mdr0 tmdf tmd hpphrtufkty th sfdb, kf ufjdr tmd rbjbr "kaa dvdftubaay )hed0 ydt0

yhu "kaa hfay sdd kt k* yhu brd ahh,kfc *hr kt. Zrust ed0 k* tmdrd ks fht hfd hpdfkfc

th sfdb, kf ufjdr tmd rbjbr h* b "hebf bfj th tdept mdr0 tmdrd ks typk)baay

bfhtmdr hfd tmbt "kaa `d hpdf0 dspd)kbaay k* yhur prhphsba ks tdeptkfc dfhucm.

Zmks ks "mdrd ey prhcrbe !d+ Nkttdf \rhcrbeekfc )heds kf. Aktdrbaay0 tmdrd brd

mufjrdjs h* psy)mhahck)ba tkps0 trk),s bfj sfdb,y td)mfkOuds tmbt yhu )bf bppay

th yhur cbed th advdrbcd tmd rdsphfsds tmbt yhu cdt th rd)dkvd tmd rdsphfsds

tmbt yhu )rbvd.

* yhu sdd hpdfkfcs tmbt yhur *rkdfjs jhft sdd0 tmdf yhu "kaa sfdb, kf pab)ds

tmbt yhur *rkdfjs "hft `d bàd th `d)busd yhu mbvd jk**drdft pdr)dptkhfs h*

"mbt rdbakty ks0 ydt0 yhurs ks ehrd psy)mhahck)baay shufj0 eb,kfc tmd `dmbvkhr

tmbt yhu "ktfdss ehrd prdjk)tbàd. s fht "mbt kts baa b`hut' sft tmd cbed baa

b`hut ,fh"kfc "mbt `dmkfj tmd jhhr kfstdbj h* cudsskfc' vdf k* yhu ,fh" tmbt

smd ks chkfc th paby mbrj th cdt skepay `d)busd yhu brd pk), up brtkst bfj tmbt k*

yhu brd pdrskstdft dfhucm0 smd "kaa )rb),' sft tmbt "hrtm ,fh"kfc' ;rd tmdsd

akttad pkd)ds h* rdadvbft kf*hrebtkhf "hrtm ,fh"kfc kfstdbj h* =ust bssuekfc tmbttmd pdrshf tmbt ks smh"kfc yhu mh" th sdju)d "hedf ks rkcmt'

vdrytmkfc eb,ds sdfsd kf yhur ak*d0 prdtty eu)m. 7hu jhft =ust mbvd mufjrdjs

h* jhaabrs "ba, up bfj hut h* yhur `bf, b))huft. 7hu ,fh" "mbt yhurd chkfc th

cdt pbkj "mdf yhu ch th "hr,. Jdbakfc "ktm *bekay ks prdtty strbkcmt*hr"brj bfj k*

shed`hjy tdaas yhu b pkd)d h* kf*hrebtkhf tmbt eb,ds sdfsd0 yhu *haah" kt bfj

yhu cdt `dttdr rdsuats0 rkcmt'

!h "my kf tmd md), smhuaj sdju)tkhf fht eb,d bfy sdfsd "mdf dvdrytmkfc dasd

kf tmd "hraj jhds' ;rd yhu rdbaay =ust supphsdj th àkfjay *haah" tmdsd pdhpad tdaa

yhu th' Jh yhu fht rd)hcfk>d tmdsd curus brd crddjy muebfs ùt tmd rdst h*

us'

7hu bs, *hr )abrkty "ktm rdakckhf0 "my smhuajft yhu sdd, )abrkty kf tmd rdbae h*


28/43

sdju)kfc "hedf'

)abykf& "md )drodftb&ds

Smdf yhu brd sdju)kfc "hedf yhu mbvd th ahh, bt Oubftkty bs "daa bs Oubakty.

Zmd ehrd "hedf tmbt yhu sdju)d0 tmd ehrd ak,day tmbt yhu brd th *kfj "hedf

tmbt b`shautday bjhrd yhu. * yhu brd ahh,kfc *hr b`shautd Oubakty tmdf yhu eust

ch tmrhucm b aht h* "hedf `d)busd ak,d "hedf "kaa tdaa yhu0 yhu jd*kfktday

)bffht trust baa "hedf.

Shedf brd vdry jk**drdft *rhe db)m htmdr. !hed "hedf brd `rhucmt up bfj

tbucmt th tb,d )brd h* tmdkr *bekay bfj tb,d )brd h* tmdkr mus`bfj. * "bft th *kfj

b "hebf ak,d tmks0 prh`bày jh fht "bft b vdry ;edrk)bfk>dj "hedf.

prh`bày hfd h* "hedf *rhe bfhtmdr )huftry0 ak,d fjkb0 ;skb hr shed htmdr

)huftrkds "mdrd pdhpad put *bekay vbauds *krst.

* yhu jh fht *kfj b "hebf ak,d tmks bfj yhu ebrry mdr0 yhu brd bf kjkht. 7hu

uatkebtday ebrry b "hebf jhds fht ,fh" mh" th )hh, bfj jhds fht "bft th

,fh" mh" th )hh,. 7huaa *kfj b "hebf "mh mbs fh pbsskhf kf ak*d d+)dpt th ckvd

yhu mdaa `d)busd smd mbs fh prkjd kf mdr mhusdmhaj bs hpphsdj th b "hebf

"mh mbs prkjd kf mdr mhusdmhaj0 smd ba"bys mbs shedtmkfc th jh tmbt ks vdrykephrtbft. !md ks bf bssdt kfstdbj h* b adb)m bfj tmbt ks b "hfjdr*ua tmkfc.

Gkfjkfc b "hebf tmbt ks bf bssdt ks b aht dbskdr k* yhu ch `y )uaturd tmdf ch hf b

"kaj chhsd )mbsd sdju)kfc rbfjhe "hedf. 7dt0 k* yhu =ust "bft th mbvd shed

*uf tmdf ch bmdbj bfj df=hy bs ebfy "hedf bs yhu phsskày )bf. 7hu "kaa mbvd

*uf bfj yhu bash adbrf b aht b`hut ak*d bfj mh" kephrtbft kt ks th pk), b chhj

"hebf bs b pbrtfdr.

* yhu brd mbrjB"hr,kfc pdrshf "mh mbs crdbt vbauds tmkfc yhu jdsdrvd

shedhfd "mh mbs skekabr vbauds bfj shedtkeds tmbt edbfs tmbt yhu mbvd th

sdju)d "hedf b*tdr "hedf0 ckra b*tdr ckra0 jby b*tdr jby.

Smdf yhu ahh, `b), hf ak*d0 yhu "bft th `d bàd th tdb)m "hedf fd" tmkfcs tmbt

smd ks fdvdr d+pdrkdf)dj0 ydt0 tmbt ks fht edbf tmbt dvdry "hebf ks ks hpdf bs


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smd )abkes th `d. 7hu eust tdst *hr yhursda* ak,d bfy pk), up brtksts "ktm )abss

"huaj jh `d)busd tmd ehrd "hedf tmbt yhu sk*t tmrhucm0 ak,d *ahur0 tmd ehrd tmbt

yhu ,fh" mh" "hedf rdbaay brd vdrsus "mbt tmdy sby.

)E_ Ks +h D,ousd

; aht h* "hedf usd \-! bs tmd d+)usd *hr dvdrytmkfc "mdf td)mfk)baay0 yhu ch

tmrhucm thucm tmkfcs baa tmd tked. Lust `d)busd e mbvkfc b thucm jby jhds fht

edbf tmbt be fht *rkdfjay th ey *rkdfjs bfj *bekay. mbvd edt ebfy "hedf kf

ebfy jk**drdft )uaturds "mh trdbt pdhpad "ktm bf keedfsd behuft h* rdspd)t.

!hed "hedf trdbt yhu sh eu)m rdspd)t0 tmbt kt ks ak,d tmdy mbvd fdvdr mbj \-!

kf tmdkr akvds.

`dakdvd tmbt b aht h* tmks \-! stu** mbs th jh "ktm b pab)d`h b**d)t. * yhu `dakdvd

tmbt yhu brd chkfc th turf kfth b ehfstdr "mdf b )drtbkf tked h* tmd ehftm chds

brhufj0 tmdf yhu "kaa `d)hed b ehfstdr. 7hu "kaa sdd yhursda* `d)hed b

ehfstdr. vdf tmhucm b ckra ed *dda ak,d smd ekcmt `d)hed b ehfstdr0 ks mdr =h`

th `d bs fk)d b pdrshf bs smd )bf.

Zmd fk)dr tmd ckra ks0 tmd `dttdr )mbf)d tmbt yhu mbvd h* ebrrykfc b "hebf tmbt

mbs rdspd)t *hr yhu kf tmd ahfc mbua. Zmks ks bf d+trdeday kephrtbft trbkt yhu brdchkfc th mbvd b "k*d kf yhur ak*d.

!h ebfy cuys smds ahh,kfc "hedf bs stbtus sye`has bfj shedtmkfc tmbt "d

usdj. Zmks ks prh`b`ay tmd `kccdst kssud "ktm cuys "mh su), "ktm "hedf. Zmdy

brd aktdrbaay h`=d)tk*ykfc tmde kf tmd hpphsktd "by. Zmdy `dakdvd tmbt =ust `d)busd

b ckra ks d+trdeday `dbutk*ua0 tmbt smd mbs b rdbaay crdbt pdrshfbakty. Zmks ks

jd*kfktday fht tmd )bsd. !hedtkeds0 "hedf mbvd rdba kssuds tmbt mbvd th `d

mbfjadj bfj tb,kfc )brd h* `d*hrd yhu )bf trust tmde "ktm yhur ak*d bs "daa bsyhur phtdftkba ,kjs akvds0 fht th edftkhf yhur *kfbf)kba ak*d.

* yhu brd sebrt0 yhu brd spd)k*k)baay ahh,kfc bt pdrshfbakty *krst0 tmdf0 ahh,s

sd)hfj. vdf k* yhu brd b pabydr "mh )bf mbfjad b ckra "mh ks b akttad `kt h* b

`kt)m0 k* yhu brd sebrt0 yhu brd chkfc th surrhufj yhursda* "ktm chhj ckras

`d)busd tmd abst tmkfc yhu "bft th jh ks mbvd )mkaj supphrt "brs "ktm tmd ckra


30/43

"mh mbtds yhur cuts0 =ust `d)busd yhu brd b pabydr.

fd "by th ,fh" k* yhu mbvd b chhj "hebf ks prh`bày hfd h* tmd ehst ufak,day

"bys th *kfj hut. * yhu mbvd b ckra "mh ks hvdr tmd bcds h* 2 hr 2K ydbrs haj0

bfj smd mbs b vdry sh*t *b)d "ktm vdry *dekfkfd bfj sh*t *dbturds0 tmdf tmbt

edbfs tmbt yhu mbvd b jd)dft "hedf. !hufjs )rb>y mum'

Zmks jhdsft "hr, baa tmd tked0 tmks ks fht pdr*d)t0 ydt0 ehst h* tked kt "hr,s

pdr*d)tay. 4h"0 tmdrd brd shed "hedf tmbt ak,dj th tb,d bjvbftbcd h* tmdkr

`dbuty ehrd tmbf htmdr ckras ak,d th tb,d bjvbftbcd h* tmdkr `dbuty. !hed h*

tmdsd ckras )bf `d vdry mueàd b`hut tmdkr su))dssds bfj htmdrs ekcmt `d)hed

bfcry bt ak*d *hr "mbtdvdr rdbshf. Lust `d)busd b "hebf ks chhj fh" jhds fht

edbf smd "kaa `d)busd abtdr.

7dt0 kt ks vdry kephrtbft *hr yhu th ufjdrstbfj bfj ,fh" tmd skcfs "d "drd

jdbakfc "ktm tmd ckra "mh ks vdry *dekfkfd. Zmd abst tmkfc yhu "bft ks shedhfd

"mh "bfts th tb,d b"by yhur rhad th "hr, mbrj *hr tmd *bekay bfj eb,d b thf h*

ehfdy sh yhur "k*d bfj ,kjs )bf ch smhppkfc thcdtmdr. * yhu mbvd b ckra "bfts

th tb,d tmbt rhad b"by *rhe yhu0 tmdf smd ks prh`bày adss h* b ahvdr bfj ehrd h*

b *rkdfj.

Jh yhu rdbaay "bft b ckra "mh cdts mdr mbfjs jkrty' 4h0 tmkf, kt ks chhj k* b ckra

ks "kaakfc th cdt mdr mbfjs jkrty0 ydt0 kt ks `dst k* yhu mbvd hfd "mh ahvds mdr rhad

bs b *dekfkfd ckra.

Jdvdah* yhur kjdftkty

kf ak*d0 tmdrd brd ebfy )mhk)ds tmbt "d )bf tb,d th eb,d us ehrd h* "mh "d brd.

Jddp kfskjd h* yhursda*0 "mkad yhu "bt)m tmd ehvkd0 yhu kjdftk*y "ktm Lbedshfj0 eby `d b rhad tmbt Lhmffy Jdpp *hr rbj \ktt pabys0 ydt "mdf yhu ahh, kf

tmd ekrrhr0 yhu sdd shedtmkfc jk**drdft stbrkfc `b),.

\dhpad kf cdfdrba brd rdbaay fht tmbt sebrt. 7hu eby mbvd b sdt h* b)tkhfs tmbt

phrtrby tmd kebcd tmbt Lbeds hfj mbs0 yhu eby spdb, kf b )hha0 )bae "by0

skekabr th Lbeds hfj0 ydt pdhpad stkaa trdbt yhu jk**drdftay. Grhe tmd ehst


31/43

mhfdst pbrt h* eysda*0 ,fh" tmbt uatkebtday pdhpad )hffd)t th"brjs "mbt tmdy

sdd bs hpphsdj th yhur rb" b)tkhfs.

*dda bs k* kjdftkty ks hfd h* tmd dbskdst "bys th mb), kfth b su`)uaturd tmbt

`dfd*kts yhu sh)kbaay. * "bft th `d trdbtdj ak,d Lbeds hfj tmdf "kaa jrdss ak,d

Lbeds hfj0 tba, ak,d Lbeds hfj dt).

yhu `d surprksdj mh" ebfy pdhpad brd eksskfc hut hf tmd skepad dOubtkhf.

Smdrd sh ebfy pdhpad "mh brd rkcmt hf tmd djcd h* cbkfkfc su))dss "ktm

"hedf0 tmd hfay tmkfc eksskfc ks tmdkr kjdftkty.

jdftkty ks b smhrt)ut "by *hr pdhpad th ,fh" "mh yhu brd. (d bs,dj ak,d Lbeds

hfj0 "ba,s bfj jrdssds ak,d mke. Zmks htmdr cuy jhdsft jrdss ak,d Lbeds

hfj0 tmdrd*hrd md ks fht Lbeds hfj.

ur ekfjs brd `he`brjdj "ktm sh ebfy edssbcds tmbt smhrtmbfj ks hfd h* tmd

dbskdst "bys th )heeufk)btd bfj stkaa mbvd shed typd h* b))urb)y b`hut hur

)heeufk)btkhf.

!md "bt)mds tmd Lbeds hfj ehvkd0 sdds mh" yhu jrdssds0 sdds mh" md b)ts

tmd fd+t tmkfc yhu ,fh"0 bfyhfd "mh jrdssds hr b)ts skekabr th Lbeds hfj ksbuthebtk)baay put kfth tmbt )btdchry.

Ghr shedhfd th )hepadtday bfj tmhrhucmay bfbay>d "mdtmdr tmks pdrshf mbs tmd

)bpb`kakty th `d Lbeds hfj "huaj tb,d thh eu)m tked.

t ks yhur =h` bfj yhur =h` hfay th eb,d surd pdhpad sdd yhu bs yhu "bft th `d

sddf `d)busd pdhpad "kaa eb,d crhss cdfdrbak>btkhfs tmbt eby fht `d `dfd*k)kba

th yhu.

Zmbt ks "my yhuaa sdd shed vdry hvdr"dkcmt cuys "bs vdry `dbdry )adbray bfj

purphsday jd*kfds mks kebcd bfj hfd cuy jhdsft.

\rhcrbe 7hur -kfj *hr !dju)tkhf


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Zmd `dst tmkfc tmbt yhu )huaj dvdr jh ks prhcrbe yhur ekfj *hr sdju)tkhf. Zmks ks

hfd h* tmd rdbshfs tmbt tmd `dst pk), up brtksts kf tmd "hraj su))ddj. Zmdy

uatkebtday ufjdrstbfj mh" tmd "hraj "hr,s bfj tmdy ckvd "hedf d+b)tay "mbt

tmdy "bft. Zmdy mbvd sdt up tmdkr dftkrd akvds th ckvd "hedf d+b)tay "mbt tmdy

"bft. 7hu )bf tdaa tmbt tmdyvd sdt up tmdkr akvds kf tmks "by `d)busd yhu )bf ahh,

bt tmdkr )br0 tmdkr mhusd0 tmd "by tmbt tmdy jrdss bfj dvdf tmhucm tmdy ekcmt fht

"dbr tmd ehst d+pdfskvd )ahtmkfc hr mbvd tmd ehst d+pdfskvd )br0 kt ks b vdry

sdju)tkvd ehjda )br bfj b pbj tmbt eb,ds sdju)kfc "hedf kfth `dj Ouktd dbsy.

Smdf kt )heds th abfcubcd0 sh ebfy cuys brd )hepadtday *u), up "mdf kt

)heds th sdju)kfc "hedf tmbt tmdy ekcmt bs "daa Oukt. rdede`dr "mdf *krst

stbrtdj ufjdrstbfjkfc mypfhtk) abfcubcd0 kt "bs hfd h* tmd ehst jk**k)uat tmkfcs

dvdr *b)dj `d)busd Ouktd aktdrbaay0 "bs )hf*usdj. jkj fht ,fh" "mdtmdr "bs

supphsdj th ch rkcmt hr ad*t0 "mdtmdr "bs jhkfc tmd rkcmt tmkfc hr tmd "rhfc

tmkfc0 puaadj ey mbkr hut bttdeptkfc th adbrf mh" th jh mypfhtk) abfcubcd

)hrrd)tay.

Zmdf0 hf)d b)tubaay ufjdrsthhj "mbt "bs jhkfc0 bjjdj baa h* tmks mkcm kf

psy)mhahcy sh tmbt )huaj bepak*y tmd d**d)ts bfj tmd *ddakfc.

Zmdf0 thh, "mbt adbrfdj *rhe adcdfjs ak,d Jbvkj !mbjd bfj bepak*kdj tmd mdaahut h* kt `y tb,kfc ey h"f pbtm. mbvd jhfd mufjrdjs h* stujkds "ktm mufjrdjs

h* "hedf bfj tdst hut tmd prkf)kpads h* Ahaktb (ypfhsks. t ks shed h* tmd ehst

kftdfsd stu** kf tmd "hraj0 "hr,s ak,d tmd ehst phtdft pauthfkue "hr,s th )rdbtd

fu)adbr `he`s.

Zh tb,d kf edjkb ak,d yhu *kfj hf tmd `sdsskhf !ystdes "d`sktd ks prh`b`ay

hfd h* tmd `dst tmkfcs tmbt yhu )bf jh th prhcrbe yhur ekfj *hr sdju)tkhf. Ghr

d+bepad0 tmdrd ks abfcubcd tmbt ks usdj *hr tmd `hbrjrhhe th "kf sbads bfjtmdrd ks abfcubcd tmbt ks edbft th eb,d "hedfs pbftkds shb,kfc "dt. Zmd ruads

th tmd pbttdrfs h* abfcubcd brd )hepadtday jk**drdft bfj k* yhu jh fht ufjdrstbfj

tmd ruads h* tmdsd jk**drdft abfcubcds0 yhu "kaa fht `d bs pdrsubskvd bfj

ph"dr*ua "mdf kt )heds th turfkfc "hedf hf bs yhu "huaj ak,d th.

Jhft yhu "bft th `d hfd h* tmhsd cuys tmbt mbs yhur d+Bckra*rkdfj turfdj hf


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ehrd tmbf mdr )urrdft `hy*rkdfj' Jhft yhu "bft th `d hfd h* tmhsd cuys "mh

mbs "hedf tmbt )hfstbftay )hed `b), th mke `d)busd tmd sd+ "bs =ust sh

chhj' Jhft yhu "bft th `d hfd h* tmhsd cuys "mh mbs b`shautday chrcdhus

"hedf kfsbtkbày kf ahvd "ktm mke `d)busd yhu ufjdrstbfj bfj cdt mdr ehrd

tmbf bfy htmdr cuy ks dvdr ufjdrsthhj mdr kf mdr ak*d'

Zmks ks "mbt ups `sdsskhf !ystdes ks baa b`hut. Zmks ks "mbt !d+ Nkttdf

\rhcrbeekfc bfj Ahaktb (ypfhsks ks baa b`hut. 7hu "bft yhu th su))ddj. * yhu

jh fht ufjdrstbfj tmd prkf)kpads h* mypfhtk) abfcubcd tmdf yhu brd bt b crdbt

jksbjvbftbcd.

Smdf sby tmbt yhu brd bt b crdbt jksbjvbftbcd `d)busd yhu jhft ,fh"

mypfhtk) abfcubcd0 be fht sbykfc tmbt akcmtay. "bs hf)d kf tmhsd smhds0

"hfjdrkfc0 puaakfc hut ey mbkr bttdeptkfc th ufjdrstbfj tmd ruads h* mh"

mypfhsks "hr,s0 hf)d *kfbaay *hufj hut0 kt mbs `ddf hfd h* tmd `kccdst bfj ehst

ph"dr*ua kepb)t*ua pkd)ds tmbt dvdr bppakdj th ey sdju)tkhf cbed. Zmks ks

shedtmkfc tmbt `sdsskhf !ystdes "bfts th smbrd "ktm yhu.

uko! Sby th Pdohvdr grhe _d,uba Bf,kdty

pdrshfbaay jhft ,fh" mh" ebfy htmdr cuys mbvd su**drdj "ktm sd+uba bf+kdtykf tmd pbst0 baa ,fh" ks tmbt )bf spdb, *rhe pdrshfba d+pdrkdf)d bfj sby tmbt

mbvd. rdede`dr `dkfc 28 ydbrs haj0 baehst ahst ey vkrckfkty0 ydt jkjft uftka

"bs $% ydbrs haj bfj kt "bs `d)busd h* sd+uba bf+kdty.

Zmdrd brd sh ebfy tkeds tmbt mbj "ba,dj kfth d+pdrkdf)ds "ktm `dbutk*ua

"hedf bfj =ust *rh>d up `d)busd jkjft ,fh" "mbt "bs jhkfc. Smdf yhu

ckvd yhu b akst h* tmkfcs tmbt "huaj jh k* "bs *ddakfc b akttad sd+uba bf+kdty.

2. "huaj baah" eysda* th *dda ehrd )he*hrtbàd "ktm tmd ckra "bs "ktm. ts rdbaay

mbrj th *dda sd+uba bf+kdty k* yhu mbvd vdry jhekfbft0 ebs)uakfd bapmb *rbed

hvdr mdr

$. "huaj jh bfytmkfc th sah" ey mdbrt rbtd jh"f `d)busd tmd *bstdr tmd mdbrt

rbtd0 adss àhhj )bf ch kfth yhur pdfks.


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?. "huaj `rkfc au`d. Adt ed tdaa yhu shedtmkfc0 au`d ks b ak*dsbvdr *hr shedhfd

"mhs chkfc sd+uba bf+kdty hr pdr*hrebf)d bf+kdty. Grbf,ay0 kt ks b aht mbrjdr th

pdr*hre tmd )hfjhe hf tmbf "ktm tmd )hfjhe h**.

Zmd akttad tkp =ust cbvd yhu b`hut tmd au`d sbvd ey ak*d hf)d bfj "ksm mbj b

"mdf "bs b ,kj. "bs b prdtty strbkcmt bfj fbrrh" ,kj crh"kfc up0 sh fh ebttdr

k* kt jkj `rkfc ed ehrd stbtus th mbvd sd+ th fht mbvd sd+0 "huaj fht mbvd sd+ k*

"bs fht "dbrkfc b )hfjhe. Adt ed tdaa yhu shedtmkfc9 kf)aujd ks b ebfs `dst

*rkdfj jurkfc pdr*hrebf)d bf+kdty.

edbf tmkf, b`hut kt9 ehst cuys "mh )bf cdt kt up "ktm tmdkr "kvds bfj fddj

Hkbcrb )bf skepay ch th tmd `btmrhhe th ebstur`btd. Smy jhft tmdy try tmbt0

tmdf mbvd sd+ "ktm mdr. Zmks shufjs ak,d yhu0 yhu )bf ba"bys sbvd b )hupad

jhaabrs akttad `aud pkaas "ktm tmks hfd tkp bahfd )bf sbvd ehfdy th"brj *hr ey

prhju)ts 9B

Pdabtkhfsmk* Sktmjrbwba "domfk-uds

t ks fht ba"bys dbsy th "ktmjrb" *rhe rdabtkhfsmkps. ; aht h* tkeds0 tmd *ddakfcs

)bf `d sh hvdr"mdaekfc tmbt ks ak,d tmd jddpdst bjjk)tkhf tmbt yhu )huaj dvdr*dda. Adt ed tdaa yhu shedtmkfc0 k* yhu mbj htmdr ckras0 k* yhu "huajft `d

)hf)drfdj b`hut tmks pbrtk)uabr ckra.

,by0 sh tmks cuy cdts sh pkssdj h** bt mks "k*d tmbt md eurjdrs mks "k*d0 mks ,kjs

bfj tmdf mkesda*. )bf prdtty eu)m cubrbftdd tmbt k* yhu "dft th b strkp )au` bfj

cht abp jbf)ds *rhe ckras tmbt brd =ust tmks typd0 tmdf0 mbj sd+ "ktm hfd h* tmde

*hr *rdd0 uatkebtday0 mks ak*d "huaj *dda ak,d kt ks "hrtm shedtmkfc bfj md )bf *kfbaay

*hrcdt mks "k*d0 adbvkfc mks ,kjs bakvd th akvd bs "daa bs mkesda*.

;fhtmdr s)dfbrkh9 b cuy `rdb,s up "ktm mks `dbutk*ua "k*d b*tdr *kvd ydbrs. (d

*ddas sh `bj b`hut mkesda* tmbt md "bfts th ,kaa mkesda*. 7dt0 md chds tmd rdj akcmt

jkstrk)t th spdfj tmd abst h* mks ehfdy. )bf prdtty eu)m cubrbftdd tmbt tmks cuy0

b*tdr saddpkfc "ktm t"h ckras ks chkfc th *dda mbppy b`hut mks ak*d bcbkf bfj

suk)kjd "kaa `d tmd abst tmkfc hf mks ekfj.


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Zmks ks tmd adsshf tmd cuys mbvd th rdbak>d. Zmdy mbvd th rdbak>d tmbt tmdy mbvd

th cdt tmdkr ekfj h** tmd kssud tmbt ks trhu`akfc tmde bfj tb,d shed tked th df=hy

tmdesdavds kf b rb" bfj )brfba *bsmkhf. Zmks ks tmd uatkebtd ,dy h* cdttkfc hvdr

"hedf. 7hu eust tb,d shed tked th ckvd yhursda* sh eu)m padbsurd kf b )brfba

*bsmkhf tmbt kt trueps baa h* tmd dehtkhfs tmbt yhu mbvd th yhur "k*d0 tmdf0 yhur

dehtkhfs "kaa `d tkdj up kf strkppdrs ehrd tmbf ks tkdj up "ktm yhur d+B"k*d. 7hu

brd fht chkfc th ,kaa yhursda* `d)busd yhu )bffht b**hrj th ch th tmd rdj akcmt

jkstrk)t tmks "dd,0 brd yhu'

Zmd ehst kephrtbft tmkfc th rd)hcfk>d ks tmbt ahvd ks ak,d b jruc. f hrjdr *hr yhu

th cdt b mkcm thadrbf)d *hr ahvd0 yhu mbvd th paby "ktm b aht h* kt. 7hu mbvd th sdd

ahvd *rhe ebfy bfcads. Smdtmdr tmhsd bfcads `d phrfhcrbpmy0 strkppdrs0

prhstktutds *hr pk),kfc up "hedf bs b pk), up brtkst kf tmd pk),up brtkst

)heeufkty.

Zmd ehrd rd*drdf)ds tmbt yhu )bf mbvd h* ahvd0 tmd ehrd tmbt tmd ahvd tmbt smd

*dat "ktm yhur d+B"k*d hr ckra*rkdfj ks chkfc th sdde akttad kf )hepbrkshf. * yhuvd

hfay edt hfd "hebf kf tmd "hraj0 dvdr0 smd ks chkfc th `d tmd prdttkdst "hedf kf

tmd "hraj. * yhu ahsd mdr0 kt "kaa `d jrdbj*ua. 7dt0 k* yhu mbvd yhur dftkrd "hraj

hpdfdj up0 tmdf smd `d)heds bfhtmdr ckra kf b "hraj "ktm `kaakhfs h* ckras. Zmks ksph"dr bfj tmks ks "mdrd yhu "bft th `d bt.

Pdvdbakf& $hur "rud .ddakf&s

!hedtkeds kt ks vdry kephrtbft th rdvdba yhur trud *ddakfcs. Grbf,ay0 *ddakfcs brd

shedtmkfc tmbt jhft rdbaay jdba "ktm bt baa. jh fht jdba "ktm ey *ddakfcs.

mbrjay dvdf b),fh"adjcd tmdkr d+kstbf)d. f ey ak*d bfj akfd h* "hr,0 jh fht

mbvd tmd tked hr tmd pbtkdf)d th `d upsdt0 jdprdssdj hr strdssdj hut `d)busdtmd hfay tmkfc tmbt mbvd tked *hr ks su))dss0 ph"dr bfj dvdf crddj sh tmbt

)bf supphrt ey *rkdfjs0 *bekay bfj supphrt tmd tmkfcs tmdy fddj. ;s edf0 aht h*

tkeds0 "d *hrcdt tmd mdrhk) rdbshfs tmbt "d jh tmd tmkfcs0 "d jh "mdf "d =ust

jh tmde. Zmks )huaj adbvd pdhpad *ddakfc bahfd bfj Ouktd phssk`ay dehtkhfbaay

jbebcdj


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Zmd `dst tmkfc tmbt yhu )huaj jh bs b ebf ks th rdvdba yhur trud *ddakfcs.

!hedtkeds0 baa "d "bft ks b "hebf "mh fddjs us bfj `dcs *hr us b*tdr "d

`ddf strdssdj hut *hr jbys "hr,kfc hf shed prh=d)t bfj tmd abst tmkfc yhu "bft

th jh ks d+pabkf mh" jk**k)uat ak*d ks *hr yhu `d)busd yhu jhft "bft th *b)d mh"

jk**k)uat yhu ak*d ks yhursda*. 4h"0 k* "hedf mbvd tmd ahvd bfj ,kfjfdss kf tmdkr

mdbrts th padbsd yhu uf)hftrhaab`ay0 fhfsthp0 tmd "hraj "huaj =ust `d b `dttdr

pab)d0 ydt0 shedtkeds tmdy jhft0 sh kt ks vdry kephrtbft *hr us th d+pabkf tmks

eusmy skjd h* us th th tmde.

Sd jhft mbvd th d+pabkf tmks th "hedf kf b "by tmbt ks jkrd)t0 "d )bf d+pabkf

tmks th "hedf kfjkrd)tay0 sh tmdy )bf truay *dda mh" "d *dda sh tmdy *dda

)he*hrtb`ad pabykfc tmd phsktkhf kf hur akvds tmbt "d "bft tmde th paby.

!hedtkeds0 tmd `dst tmkfc tmbt yhu )huaj jh ks eystk*y yhur ak*d bfj eb,d

yhursda* ahh, ak,d b supdrmdrh hr b eystk)ba Chj. Zdaa mdr b`hut tmd dvka ckbfts

tmbt yhu mbvd th saby dvdry0 skfcad jby bfj mh" yhu brd tmd ufjdrjhc


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ehrd mdrhk) tmbf tmd htmdr hfd ks vdry skepad bfj fhB*rkaas0 fht vdry *uf *hr b

"hebf.

Zmks ks "mdrd tmd rdbshf tmbt !d+ Nkttdf \rhcrbeekfc bfj Ahaktb (ypfhsks brd

sh ph"dr*ua skepay `d)busd h* ey ,fh"adjcd h* )hvdrt mypfhsks bfj ey

prh*hufj ,fh"adjcd h* mh" th )hftrha bfj jhekfbtd "hedf0 be b`ad th ckvd

mdr tmd keprdsskhfs smd fddjs th *dda )hepadtd.

_ordw )drgdot

Zmdrd ks fhtmkfc tmbt yhu )bf jh th `d pdr*d)t. Zmd rdbshf tmbt yhu )bffht `d

pdr*d)t ks `d)busd tmd "hraj ks )hfstbftay )mbfckfc bfj dvdr dvhavkfc. Zmkf,

b`hut kt9 k* b pdrshf tmbt be jdbakfc "ktm ks b ebss h* )hf*ak)tkfc kepuasds tmdf

tmdrd ks fh "by tmbt tmdy "huaj dvdr sdd ed bs `dkfc pdr*d)t bfy"bys. Smy

"huaj dvdr "bfts th sdd eysda* ks pdr*d)t' -d sddkfc eysda* ks pdr*d)t ks ak,d

cahbtkfc kf tmd ekrrhr `y eysda*. )bf cahbt kf tmd ekrrhr `y eysda* bfj mbvd b

chhj tked0 ydt0 "bft th `d b`ad th mbvd sh)kba kftdrb)tkhfs "ktm rdba pdhpad. ;s

ahfc bs jdba "ktm pdhpad "mh mbvd rdba )hf*ak)tkfc kepuasds0 tmdrd ks fh "by

tmbt "kaa dvdr `d sddf bs pdr*d)t kf tmdkr dyds.

vdry skfcad jby0 yhu "bft th )hfstbftay strdt)m tmd behuft tmbt smhuaj

d+pdrkedft "ktm )drtbkf typds h* cbed. sby tmks baa tmd tked0 ydt0 "kaa sdju)d"hedf kf "bys tmbt "kaa fht tdb)m ey stujdfts th `d)busd tmd advda h* drrhr

tmbt tmdy )bf eb,d ks vdry mkcm. :fadss b)tubaay mbvd b systde tmbt dfsurds b

vdry mkcm su))dss rbtd "ktm "mbt d+d)utd0 "huaj fht tdb)m b stujdft th jh bs

. Jhds tmbt edbf tmbt yhu smhuaj fht d+pdrkedft )hfstbftay bfj rks, ahh,kfc

ak,d b *hha *rhe tked th tked' 4h. Ch bmdbj bfj paby brhufj "ktm mkcm rks,0 mkcm

rd"brj `dmbvkhr k* yhu *dda tmd urcd th. Zmdrd ks hfay sh eu)m tmbt )bf stujy

`d)busd be hfay hfd pdrshf. be hfd pdrshf *rhe hfd br)mdtypd tmbt akvds kf

hfd )kty kf b "hraj "ktm hvdr 2%%0%%% )ktkds bfj mufjrdjs h* br)mdtypds. Zmdrd kshfay sh eu)m tmbt )bf adbrf bfj smbrd bs b muebf `dkfc0 ydt0 jh fht *dda bs k*

tmdrd ks hfay hfd "by th b)mkdvd tmd rdsuats tmbt "bft.

Smbt yhu eust jh ks ahh, jddp kfskjd h* yhursda* bfj *kcurd hut tmd typd h*

rdsuats tmdy yhu "bft th mbvd "ktm "hedf "mh brd kf tmd br)mdtypds tmbt yhu

ak,d bfj ruf cbed hf tmde kf b "by tmbt ks vdry )usthe th tmdkr spd)k*k)


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br)mdtypd. Zmdrd brd shed tmkfcs tmbt brd trud tmrhucmhut ehst h* tmd

br)mdtypds hf dbrtm0 ydt0 tmdy mbvd th `d trbfs*drrdj kf tmd rkcmt "by bfj tmbt

tb,ds d+pdrkedftbtkhf.

Zrutm ks9 tmdrd brd pk), up brtksts hut tmdrd "mh mbvd chttdf `bj rdsuats "ktm hfd

pbrtk)uabr typd h* bpprhb)m bfj tmdy cdt chbjdj kfth *ddakfc bs k* tmks pbrtk)uabr

td)mfkOud jhds fht "hr,. 7hu )huaj mbvd tmd `dst pk),up brtkst kf tmd "hraj

tdb)m yhu cbed bfj sby tmbt shedtmkfc tmbt yhu jkj "bs tdrrkàd bfj tmbt yhu

)bffht rd)dkvd rdsuats *rhe kt. Grhe b psy)mhahckst stbfjphkft0 tmbt ks b`shautday

*hhaksm `d)busd "mbt ks b `bj akfd th hfd ckra ks bf d+)daadft akfd th b ckra "mh

ahh,s t"k)d bs chhj bs tmd ckra yhu *krst usd tmd akfd hf.

fstdbj h* ahh,kfc th b)mkdvd pdr*d)tkhf kf yhur sdju)tkhf cbed0 baah" yhursda*

th )hfstbftay keprhvd bfj kffhvbtd "mbt ks )urrdftay tmdrd. * tmdrd "bs

pdr*d)tkhf tmdf tmbt "huaj edbf tmbt pdhpad brd stupkj `d)busd tmdy "huaj *baa

*hr tmd sbed trk),s. \dhpad brd sebrt0 sh "d eust )hftkfubaay kffhvbtd `d)busd

"mbt ks sebrt thjby )huaj `d jue` thehrrh". !dju)tkhf cbed ks shrt h* ak,d

sebrt pmhfds kf tmbt rdspd)t. 2% ydbrs bch0 dvdryhfd "bftdj b sebrt pmhfd.

#hepbrdj th tmd sebrt pmhfds h* thjby0 tmd sebrt pmhfds h* ydstdrjby brd sah"

bfj )auesy. Zmd rdbshf tmbt tmdy brd ks `d)busd dfckfddrs )hftkfubaay kffhvbtd

bfj rdbak>d tmbt tmdrd ks fh su)m tmkfc bs pdr*d)tkhf. Zmd )ahsdst tmkfc tmbt "d bsmuebfs )bf cdt th pdr*d)tkhf ks b jdskrd th )hftkfubaay kffhvbtd.

_d, Bjjkots

;s, yhursda* tmks Oudstkhf0 "mbt ks b sd+ bjjk)t rdbaay' Ghr d+bepad0 "mbt ks

fhreba kf tmd J!- "hraj ekcmt `d )hfskjdrdj sd+ bt `dmbvkhr kf tmd "hraj h*

ùskfdss. Smbt hfd ckra )hfskjdrs )hepadtday fhreba0 bfhtmdr ckra ekcmt)hfskjdr sd+ bjjk)t `dmbvkhr. Lust "my yhu )bffht trust bfyhfd kf yhu mbvd th

eb,d yhur h"f jd)kskhfs b`hut tmd )mhk)ds tmbt yhu eb,d.

Ghr d+bepad0 "kaa pk), up brtkst "d`sktd "mdrd mdap cuys th `d)hed crdbt bt

sdju)kfc "hedf. 4h"0 kf ey pbrtk)uabr sktubtkhf0 k* "drd th mbvd 6 ckra*rkdfjs

bfj fh stb** th ruf ey ùskfdss0 ydt0 d+pd)tdj ey ùskfdss th su))ddj0 "huaj


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`d eb,kfc krrbtkhfba jd)kskhfs kf ey ak*d. * "bs bjjk)tdj th tmd "hedf sh eu)m

tmbt )bffht ù),ad jh"f th ey ùskfdss0 tmdf tmbt "huaj rdprdsdft sd+ bjjk)t

`dmbvkhr.

Zmks ks shedtmkfc tmbt "hedf jdba "ktm )hfstbftay. Zmdy jhft ,fh" "mbt sd+

bjjk)t `dmbvkhr ks0 sh tmdy akstdf th shed #mrkstkbf hf shed tba, smh" bfj baa h*

b sujjdf0 tmdy *dda ak,d sd+ bjjk)ts0 ydt0 tmdy brd fht dvdf #mrkstkbfs. Smy

"huaj tmdy akstdf th "mbt b #mrkstkbf sbys b`hut "mbt b sd+ bjjk)t ks k* tmdy brd

fht dvdf #mrkstkbfs th `dckf "ktm' Zmks ks tmd typd h* `dmbvkhr tmbt mbs th `d

ahh,dj bt ufjdr tmd ek)rhs)hpd h* d+trded s)rutkfy.

4h"0 kebckfd tmks9 ey ùskfdss ks su))dss*ua bfj "bft th mbvd b mbrde "ktm

sk+ hr sdvdf jk**drdft "hedf bfj th saddp "ktm tmdsd ckras tmrdd tkeds b jby.

Shuaj tmbt eb,d ed b sd+ bjjk)t' ;`shautday fht. -y ùskfdss ks *ahurksmkfc

bfj eb,kfc padfty h* ehfdy0 "my "huajft eb,d tmd jd)kskhfs tmbt "bft th

eb,d'

Zmks ks b trbp tmbt b aht h* pdhpad cdt )bucmt kfth. Zmd *b)t ks9 k* tmd `dmbvkhr tmbt

yhu jhkfc ks h,by "ktm yhu0 tmdf kt smhuaj tmd h,by "ktm dvdryhfd dasd. * yhur

`dmbvkhr ksft h,by "ktm dvdryhfd dasd0 tmdf tmbt ks tmdy brd *buat0 fht yhur *buat.

d vdry sebrt "mdf yhu brd eb,kfc )mhk)ds b`hut yhur ak*d `d)busd shedhfdth adbj yhu jh"f tmd pbtm h* jdstru)tkfc yhur h"f ak*d. (bvd tmd crb)d bfj

)hf*kjdf)d th `d bàd th eb,d yhur h"f jd)kskhfs b`hut "mbt yhu "bft kf ak*d0

ydt0 k* yhu *dda tmbt yhu brd sd+ bjjk)t0 sdd, prh*dsskhfba mdap.

Ghr d+bepad0 brd yhu sh bjjk)tdj th phrf tmbt kt ,ddps yhu *rhe b)tubaay cdttkfc

"hedf' ;rd yhu hfd h* tmhsd cuys tmbt ahh,s bt sh eu)m phrf tmbt md rd*usds

th b)tubaay eb,d )hftb)t "ktm rdba "hedf kf tmd rdba "hraj' * yhu brd hfd h*

tmdsd pdhpad bfj yhu "bft th `d)hed b ebstdr sdju)dr0 tmdf tmks ks shedtmkfctmbt yhu mbvd th mbfjad. * yhu brd hfd h* tmdsd pdhpad bfj yhu jhft "bft th

`d)hed b ebstdr sdju)dr0 bfj kt ks h,by "ktm yhu0 tmdf kt smhuaj `d h,by "ktm

dvdryhfd dasd.

;s b ebf0 yhu mbvd th mbvd b`shautd )hftrha bfj rdspd)t kf tmd rdabtkhfsmkps hr

tmdkr fht chkfc "hr,. Zmdrd brd b aht h* cuys hut tmdrd tmbt ahsd rdspd)t kf tmd


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rdabtkhfsmkps tmdy brd kf `bsk)baay kf)m `y kf)m. t stbrts hut sah" tmbf kt crbjubaay

ehvds up"brjs. ; aht h* tmdsd kssuds )bf `d shavdj "ktm b chhj sd+uba

rdabtkhfsmkp. * yhu mbvd )hftrha h* tmd `djrhhe0 kt typk)baay `rkjcds hvdr kfth tmd

yhur rdcuabr ak*d. Zmks ks shedtmkfc tmbt b aht h* cuys *bka th ufjdrstbfj0 ydt0 "d

put b aht h* bttdftkhf hf mdrd bt `sdsskhf !ystdes.

fd h* tmd `dst *bftbskds th rdbaay paby hut "ktm "hedf tmbt cdts tmde d+trdeday

bfj dspd)kbaay turfdj hf ks tmd *bftbsy h* tmd sd+ sabvd. Zmdrd brd sh ebfy ckras

hut tmdrd "mh "hr, )hfstbftay bfj mbvd th `d kf )hftrha baa tmd tked tmbt kt ks

jd*kfktday b rdakd* th `d b`ad th tb,d b `rdb, bfj mbvd shedhfd ruad tmde

brhufj. !hedhfd th b)tubaay )hftrha tmde bfj baa h* tmbt tmd tmbt tmdy jh. Zmks ks

shedtmkfc tmbt tmdy brd eksskfc bfj ks uatkebtday shedtmkfc tmbt "hedf mbvd th

d+pdrkdf)d *hr tmde th rdbaay *dda chhj b`hut tmdesdavds. Zmd dbskdr tmbt yhu

)bf *baa kfth tmd rhad h* tmd ebstdr h* mdr0 tmd `dttdr yhu "kaa `d bt `dkfc b ahvdr.

Zmks ks =ust mh" ak*d "hr,s.

Zmdrd brd aktdrbaay sh ebfy pdhpad hut tmdrd "mh mbvd tmks phrtkhf h* tmdkr ahvd

ak*d eksskfc tmbt tmdkr "hedf brd `d)hekfc )hepadtday jkssbtks*kdj.9 * b ckra ksft

sbtks*kdj0 tmdy tdfj th strby th ahh, *hr sd)urkty kf htmdr rdabtkhfsmkps hr ahh, *hr

rdbshfs th `rdb, h** tmdkr chhj rdabtkhfsmkp "ktm tmdkr )urrdft `hy*rkdfj0

dvdrytmkfc )huaj `d barkcmt. !md )bf mbvd tmd mhusd0 tmd )br0 tmd "mktd pk),dt*df)d ydt0 k* yhu )bffht ckvd mdr tmd sd+uba jdskrd tmbt smd sh )rbvds0 yhu brd

uatkebtday chkfc th cdt ad*t hut kf tmd )haj "mdf kt )heds th `dkfc b ebf "mh )bf

truay sbtks*y mks "hebf.

t ks d+trdeday kepdrbtkvd tmbt yhu mbvd tmks pbrt h* yhur ahvd ak*d mbfjadj. Zmd

`dttdr tmbt yhu )bf eb,d mdr b sabvd0 tmd `dttdr yhu "kaa `d kf `dj. Zmdrd ks fh

"by brhufj kt. f ak*d0 "hedf rbrday *dda ak,d "hedf. Smdf b "hebf *kfbaay jhds

*dda ak,d b "hebf0 smd *ddas b`shautday tdrrk*k). Zmd rhad h* tmd sd+ sabvd ksuatkebtday bf d+trded vdrskhf h* "mbt b *debad ks. Zmd ehrd tmbt yhu )bf ckvd

mdr tmks *bftbsy bfj eb,d kt )hed trud0 tmd ehrd tmbt smd "kaa uatkebtday *baa mdbj

hvdr mddas kf ahvd "ktm yhu.

f tmd "hraj "mdrd sh eu)m ks ahst0 kt ks fk)d *hr "hedf th `d b`ad th *kfbaay *kfj

tmd cuy "mh )bf rdbj tmde `dt"ddf tmd akfds bfj ckvd mdr "mbt smd truay


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jdskrds.

-y prhcrbe Ahaktb (ypfhsks0 "kaa smh" yhu shed crdbt tkps0 thhas bfj

td)mfkOuds th )hftrha "hedf kf tmd `djrhhe sh tmbt yhu )bf mbvd b mdbatmy bfj

rd*rdsmkfc rdabtkhfsmkp hutskjd h* tmd `djrhhe. Zmdrd brd sh ebfy cuys "mh

kfjuacd kf tmks crdbt kf*hrebtkhf bfj tmdy `d)hed shed h* tmd `dst sdju)drs kf

tmd "hraj. ; cuy )huaj mbvd tmd `dst ahh,s kf tmd "hraj bfj baa tmd ehfdy kf tmd

"hraj0 ydt0 k* md jhds fht padbsd mks ckra0 md "kaa ahsd tmbt "hebf hf b ahfcBtdre

`bsks.


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Zmd Jbr, ;rts

Zmd !)kdf)d h* Ahvd bfj `djkdf)d

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