Dateline November 2012

November 2012

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Startling statistic:Suicide is the 10th leading

cause of death in the United States and the 3rd leading cause

of death among teenagers.

Red Ribbon Week 2012

DREAM®, Inc. Receives Grant to Coordinate YoUth hIghwAY SAfEtY PRogRAMS

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CEO Corner ...................................................... 3

Prevention Pipeline ........................................ 4

Prevention Spotlight ...................................... 5

Favorite Things ................................................ 8

Who’s Who in Prevention ............................. 9

Partnering for Prevention ........................... 10

DREAM Weaving ............................................13

Parenting Points .............................................14

DREAM Store ..................................................15

In the Know, In the News .............................17

Training Calendar ...........................................18

RADAR Report ................................................19

Prevention Corner .........................................20

MS Executive Prevention Council .............20

Prevention Professionals’ Corner ...............21

On the Calendar ............................................ 22

Staff Directory ............................................... 23

Dateline DREAM® is published three times a year by Developing Resources for Education in America, Inc. (DREAM®), a non-profit organization whose mission is to prevent youth substance abuse and promote healthy lifestyles by developing and providing effective products and services for schools, communities, and businesses. Materials reprinted in Dateline DREAM® do not necessarily reflect the views of DREAM. This publication is made possible in part by the Mississippi Department of Mental Health, Bureau of Alcohol and Drug Abuse. DREAM® is governed by a Board of Directors, which meets quarterly. For more information, call 1-800-233-7326 or 601-933-9199.

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ONTHECOvER:The MS Department of Mental Health was recently awarded a suicide prevention grant through SAMHSA aimed at providing individuals, families, professionals, and organizations with information and resources to seek help, provide assistance, and/or implement suicide prevention programs in their communities.

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As we all face challenging times with shrinking funds, fewer staff, more work, and a great deal of stress, we still have to lead. yes, our mission is still very valuable and we must persevere. leaders need their dose of motivation and inspiration. I received both after attending the Mississippi Center for Nonprofit’s annual conference this summer. One of the sessions I attended was facilitated by Robert langford, Executive Director of Operation Shoestring, one of Mississippi’s most respected nonprofit organizations. I always believe that there are places you are supposed to be, things you are supposed to hear, and people you are supposed to meet. Robert’s session was one of those places I needed to be and definitely had something I needed to hear. He presented leadership lessons by Former U.S. Secretary of State, Colin powell. Needless to say, I left energized. These lessons, which are listed below, are posted near my desk and serve as reinforcement in good times and challenging ones. I sincerely hope they help you.

Colin powell’s lessons on leadership Lesson1“Being responsible sometimes means making people angry.”

Lesson2“The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them.”

Lesson3“Don’t be buffaloed by experts and elite’s. Experts often possess more data than judgment. Elite’s can become so inbred that they produce hemophiliacs who bleed to death as soon as they are nicked by the real world.”

Lesson4“Don’t be afraid to challenge the pros, even in their own backyard.”

Lesson5“Never neglect details. When everyone’s mind is dulled or distracted the leader must be doubly vigilant.”

Lesson6“You don’t know what you can get away with until you try.”

Lesson7“Keep looking below surface appearances. Don’t shrink from doing so (just) because you might not like what you find.”

Lesson8“Organization doesn’t really accomplish anything. Plans don’t accomplish anything, either. Theories of management don’t much matter. Endeavors succeed or fail because of the people involved. Only by attracting the best people will you accomplish great deeds.”

Lesson9“Organization charts are frozen, anachronistic photos.”

Lesson10“Never let your ego get so close to your position that when your position goes, your ego goes with it.”

Lesson11“Fit no stereotypes. Don’t chase the latest management fads. The situation dictates which approach best accomplishes the team’s mission.”

Lesson12“Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.”

Lesson13“Powell’s Rules for Picking People”

Lesson14“Great leaders are almost always great simplifiers, who can cut through argument, debate, and doubt to offer a solution everybody can understand.”

Lesson15“Laws of Instinct”

Lesson16“The commander in the field is always right and the rear echelon is wrong, unless proved otherwise.”

Lesson17“Have fun in your command. Don’t always run at a breakneck pace. Take leave when you’ve earned it. Spend time with your families.”

Lesson18“Command is lonely.”

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CEo CornerGo Lead!

Colin Powell


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MAAP AnnoUnCES PREvEntIon PRofESSIonAl of thE YEAR

The MAAp 2012 prevention professional of the year is Annette M. lewis, CpM, who works at Choctaw Behavioral Health in philadelphia, MS. Congratulations Annette for your hard work and dedication to the prevention field!

tAwnI bASDEn RECognIzED AS CoMMUnItY tRUSt bAnk’S CoMMUnItY hERo of thE wEEkDREAM’s Tawni Basden, program Director of the Mississippi Tobacco-Free Coalition of Rankin, Scott and Simpson Counties was recently recognized by Community Trust Bank’s Community Hero of the Week. Tawni was selected by Community Trust Bank’s board to be the Community Hero of the Week on October 13, 2012. Tawni was honored at the Ole Miss vs. Auburn football game in Oxford, Mississippi. After the first quarter, she was presented with a game football and a donation on her behalf from Community Trust Bank to DREAM, Inc. Congratulations Tawni on your achievement and dedication to serving youth and preventing tobacco use in our communities!

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Diana Shields joined Weems Community Mental Health Center as the ATOD prevention Coordinator in August, 2012. A native of Berlin, Germany, Diana moved to the U.S. in 2000. She moved to Meridian from Florida at the start of 2012. She holds a Master of Science in Counseling and psychology from Troy University and a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology from the University of

West Florida. She has more than ten years experience working with youth in Germany and the U.S.

Diana has been a Reservist in the Coast Guard for more than a decade. She is also a certified yoga and group fitness instructor. She and her husband have a three-year-old daughter.

“I welcome the opportunity to serve the youth in our communities, especially in educating them about the importance of avoiding drug and alcohol use,” said Shields. “I’m also excited about the chance to grow professionally and personally.”

prevention professional of the year for 2012, Annette lewis.

Johnny Beck of Community Trust Bank passes Tawni Basden of DREAM a

commemorative football in honor of her award as their Hero of the Week.


The Best Me is Drug-Free

RedRibbonWeek is held every October and is one of the oldest and largest drug prevention campaigns in the country. It provides a time to pledge to live a safe and drug-free life, celebrate those who do not use drugs, remember those whom we have lost in the fight against drugs, and honor those who work to promote living a life free from drug use and addiction. Red Ribbon Week allows individuals and communities to take a stand against drug use through a commitment to drug prevention and education and a personal commitment to live life drug-free.

National Red Ribbon Week is celebrated every year October23-31, and is dedicated to Enrique “Kiki” Camarena. Camarena was a Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA) agent who sacrificed his life to prevent drugs from entering our country. This week is also dedicated to all people killed as a result of drug-related violence. Millions get involved in the Red Ribbon Campaign’s efforts. No other single drug prevention movement has had such an impact on so many lives.

Red Ribbon Week is a special time to focus on drug prevention. The week is not the only time when individuals, schools, businesses, organizations and communities should focus on prevention. It is intended to assess and increase current efforts. The observance of Red Ribbon Week focuses on educating individuals, families, and communities on not only the destructive effects of drugs but also positive alternative life choices available to our youth and adults. The red ribbon, a symbol of zero tolerance for drug use and commitment to drug prevention, is worn by hundreds of Americans as an act of unity.

To be added to the Red Ribbon Week mailing list, please contact Rachel Deer at [email protected].

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Growing up in a poor, rural county in Mississippi can present many hardships. Growing up in a poor,

rural county in Mississippi without strong mentors for young children can be even more daunting. When a youth finds himself or herself going against the law because he/she has committed a crime, whether it was committed out of boredom, lack of work, or pure disrespect for family or the law, what happens to him/her? Typically, society turns its back on such youth, writes them off and very seldom gives them an opportunity for a real second chance. Often these youth find themselves on a spiraling path to destruction. When this happens, who can they turn to?

The answer may just well be in Jefferson and Claiborne, two poor, rural counties in Southwest Mississippi, where one man, Melvin Anderson, has two goals in mind-- “to get all the kids off the streets and to reduce the male dropout rate.”

Anderson is a 13-year- resident planted in Claiborne County in 1999, who has a heart for youth and a strong desire to see them succeed. One of Anderson’s jobs is the Guardian Ad-litem in Claiborne County youth Court. In addition to Claiborne County youth Court, Anderson is the Director of the Juvenile Justice program in Jefferson County and the CEO of Southern Dreams Mentoring program, a youth mentoring program

in the Jefferson County School District. In 2003, it became quite clear to Anderson that there was a problem with youth dropping out of school, hanging out on the corners, youth with behavior problems, youth going through the youth court system and youth that needed a positive person to talk with. He saw firsthand the need for someone to step in and encourage the students to strive for the best. Anderson started researching and working on an at-risk and mentoring program which he calls “Southern Dreams.”Anderson has partnerships with private schools, public schools, all of the community colleges in the great state of Mississippi, the Department of Mental Health, the Department


Student and parents from Kemper County enroll in the life Guard program. youth from port Gibson High School in the Southern Dreams Mentoring program.

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Student that attended Southern Dreams “prep For Success program.”

Mentoring students at Jefferson County Upper Elementary School.

of Human Services, Alcorn State and Mississippi State Universities, and many more through his Southern Dreams organization. Through the Southern Dreams program, the following programs are offered:

LifeGuardCareerGraduationProgramThis program aids students who are currently seniors in high school who need credits to graduate or did not pass their state exams. Students must meet high school graduation requirements.

MentoringProgramThe mentoring part of the program is designed to make a positive difference in the lives of youth in grades pre-Kindergarten to 12th grade. Using methods of delegating, role modeling, cheer-leading, policy enforcing, advocating and becoming a friend, students are shown how to manage anger, relate to peers, their parents, and teachers, tolerate diversity, and to enhance their self-esteem so they can become successful students and productive citizens.

SouthernDreams/PrepforSuccessDevelopmentProgramThe Career/prep for Success Development program is designed to develop job readiness skills to assist youth and young adults in the job search. This program provides an understanding and awareness of career options and the necessary steps to take to accomplish adequate preparation for the world of work. The Working Class Curriculum has two (2) units.

To find out more about Southern Dreams, contact Melvin Anderson at 601-786-8941 or email [email protected]. He may also be reached at

p.O. Box 145137 Medgar Evers BlvdFayette, MS 39069 t

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What is your favorite part of your job? “My favorite duty is working with The Boys & Girls Club of Washington County; there the youth and I engage in depth conversations about refraining from sex, drugs, peer pressure and bullying.”

What do you enjoy about working in prevention? “In prevention there’s never a dull moment. I’m always learn-ing from my peers and the youth, their wisdom and curiosity keeps me driven and motivated. The youth’s willingness to WANT TO DO BETTER lets me know that I’m in the right profession.”

What is your advice to others in the prevention field? “Working in prevention means you have to love and be pas-sionate about it to be successful. You must keep an open mind and always expect the unexpected. This job can be challenging but yet very rewarding. I understand that it can be difficult and frustrating; these are the times we should remember why we were chosen, pray about it and keep advo-cating.”

What types of things do you enjoy doing outside of work? Do you have any hobbies? “When I’m not working I enjoy relaxing on my sofa with my

handsome and obedient REMOTE CONTROL and watching Lifetime Movie Network until my eyes and body are begging for relief. I also enjoy spending time with my family, playing football, reading books, etc. Last but not least, I enjoy working out in the gym.

If you had a free day off from work, what would you do?“If I had a free day from work I would volunteer at the Boys and Girls Club. I love working with that special group of kids. They bring me joy and make prevention worth fighting for.”

Some of Mildred’s favorite things: Movie: Jeeper Creepers Part 1 and 2TV Shows: First 48, Happily Never After, and Paranormal ActivitiesFood: Salmon, T-bone steak, shrimp, and Mexican dishesSports Team: Miami HeatSong: “Smile” by Kirk FranklinFavorite quote: “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” Albert EinsteinBook: Let It Go by T.D. Jakes

Mildred can be reached by email at [email protected] or by phone at 662.334.4002.

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Mildred Collins is the Community outreach Coordinator for the washington County RADAR Center. She works with various organizations and agencies on health fairs, prevention awareness, and other special events. She also does research to keep the community informed on recognition of trending drugs.


DREAM Partnered with Army OneSource to Bring Training on Military Issues to MississippiIt is well known that our nation’s military, including National Guard and Reserve members, have been engaged in difficult duty over the past few years. Many are still deployed around the world, particularly in Iraq and Afghanistan. Thousands have returned home in the past few years and thousands more are expected to come home.

Unfortunately, these service members and their families face tremendous challenges after returning home. These challenges include issues relating to behavioral and mental health, employment, legal and financial difficulties. Over 74% of those deployed since 9/11 are National Guard or Reserve Service members who return to communities where they do not have access to military base programs and services. These Service members are seeking help from local behavioral health providers, but tend to not return for care if the provider does not have an understanding of military life and the impact of deployment.

Beginning in August, DREAM partnered with Army OneSource to provide free, nationally accredited online training on the impact of combat stress and deployment on children and families, military culture and pTSD. These courses were well received throughout the state. Army OneSource is hoping to be able to provide more courses in the near future.

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lea Banks, Caroline Newkirk, Glenda Crump, and Micheline Jones were on-site to support the players and the event.

True South Classic Birdies for CharityThe 2012 True South Classic was held July 16-22, 2012, at the Annandale Golf Club in Madison. The True South Classic Birdies for Charity is a fundraising program designed to give participants an opportunity to generate contributions based on the number of “birdies” made by pGA tour players during the True South Classic. This year there were 1,858 birdies.

DREAM was given the opportunity to participate in the Birdies for Charity event this year and received $3,480.00 in donations. Thanks to everyone who came out and supported the True South Classic and for your contributions to DREAM.


DREAM Participates in the DEA’s Prescription Take Back InitiativeOn Saturday, September 29, DEA’s state, local, and tribal law enforcement partners, working at more than 5,263 locations, collected 488,395 pounds (244 tons) of prescription medications from members of the public. When added to the collections from DEA’s previous four Take-Back events, more than 2 million pounds (1,018 tons) of prescription medications were removed from circulation. According to the 2011 Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH), more than six million Americans abuse prescription drugs. That same study revealed

more than 70 percent of people abusing prescription pain relievers got them through friends or relatives, a statistic that includes raiding the family medicine cabinet.

DREAM joined with the Ridgeland police Department and Walgreens off lake Harbour and

Old Canton Road in Ridgeland, MS to bring the event local. Several DREAM staff were on-site, along with RpD Officer Ricky Bracey to collect unwanted medications. The National prescription Drug Take-Back Day aims to provide a safe, convenient, and responsible means of disposal, while also educating the general public about the potential for abuse of these medications.

DREAM CEO Glenda Crump enjoys some great McAlister’s food with Halee at the Red Ribbon Week event.

Governor phil Bryant, Brandon Mayor Tim Culter, Tawni Basden, and the Brandon Mayor’s youth Council attended the Salvation Army’s program “Why W.A.I.T.”

Officer Ricky Bracey of the Ridgeland police Department

and DREAM’s Caroline Newkirk show off collected

medication for disposal.

McAlister’s Supports DREAM in FundraiserDREAM held a Red Ribbon Week event and fundraiser at McAlister’s Deli in Brandon, MS on October 16, 2012. The event provided a fun way to promote Red Ribbon Week and tell others about the services that DREAM has to offer while enjoying some tasty food and sweet tea from McAlister’s Deli. Those who attended the event had an opportunity to win a $25.00 gift card from McAlister’s as well as pick up Red Ribbon Week goodies. Thanks to all those who supported the event and special thanks to Manager Audrey Cooley and the McAlister’s Deli in Brandon team for helping support DREAM in our drug prevention efforts.

Why W.A.I.T.?

Governor phil Bryant encouraged hundreds of teenagers to take a stand against teen pregnancy during a speech that wrapped up the Salvation Army’s WHy W.A.I.T. program.

Teens took a pledge and received a bracelet as a reminder to wait before having children. “We want to reduce teenage pregnancy in Mississippi within two years by 15%, and we believe this program, WHy W.A.I.T... “Worthy Actions - Intentional Thinking,” will help kids come to the realization they can live a different kind of life,” explained Jackson Salvation Army Captain Ken Chapman.

Bryant spoke to about 250 kids and their parents about the social, economic, and educational impacts having a child can make on their lives. Mississippi leads the nation in teen pregnancy rates.




Tawni Basden, program Director of the MS Tobacco-Free Coalition of Rankin, Scott, and Simpson Counties,

presents the City of Forest with a Certificate of Recognition for going smoke-free.

Forest Joins the Ranks as a Smoke-free CityThe Tobacco-Free Coalition of Rankin, Scott and Simpson Counties recently presented the city of Forest with a Certificate of Recognition in honor of the passage of a comprehensive smokefree air policy by city officials.

“The smokefree air policy implemented by this city will protect all employees and customers in businesses and other public places in Forest from the harmful effects of breathing secondhand smoke. Everyone deserves to breathe smokefree air,” said Roy Hart, director of the Office of Tobacco Control at the Mississippi State Department of Health (MSDH). “The adoption of this smokefree air ordinance by Forest is an important step in improving our state’s overall health status.”

“Far too many Mississippians are exposed to secondhand smoke every day,” said Tawni Basden, director of the Tobacco-Free Coalition of Rankin, Scott and Simpson Counties. “Research shows that simply eliminating smoking in public, indoor spaces fully protects non-smokers from exposure to secondhand smoke,” said Basden. “Separating smokers from non-smokers, cleaning the air, and ventilating buildings does not eliminate exposure to secondhand smoke.”

For information on how to get involved with your local Mississippi Tobacco-Free Coalition, contact Tawni Basden at 601-933-9174 or email at [email protected].

Mississippi Holds First Prescription Drug SummitA collective effort from various agencies across the state regarding prescription drug diversion problems and prescription drug abuse was the focus on the first ever Mississippi prescription Drug Summit held at the Mississippi Trademart in Jackson, MS.

According to the executive director of the Mississippi Bureau of Narcotics, Marshall Fisher, prescription drug abuse is not just a public safety issue, but a public health issue as well. Fisher says 95 percent of drug overdose deaths in Mississippi are from the abuse of prescription narcotics.

During the Summit, participants learned about the evolution of the pill epidemic and examined reasons for the increase in diversion and abuse of prescription drugs as well as preventions strategies.

Glenda Crump, Jerri Avery, and Caroline Newkirk were among the hundreds of participants at the

prescription drug summit.


PARtnERIng for PreventionDREAM® Receives Grant to Coordinate Youth Highway Safety ProgramsThe Mississippi Department of public Safety, Office of Highway Safety (MOHS) has awarded a grant to DREAM, Inc. to coordinate with youth programs, which will address impaired driving and seatbelt safety. The youth programs will include the annual Teens on the Move conference held in April, the Student Advisory Board, and many other aggressive programs designed to keep youth safe on Mississippi highways. DREAM looks forward to continuing the success of MOHS programs, establishing partnerships and linkages, and using data to develop programs that will have a significant impact. The youth programs will be led by Tawni Basden, youth programs Director and Steven Miller, youth programs Coordinator. For more information, please call 601.933.9197 or 1.800.233.7326. Funding provided by the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration

No Butt Left BehindThe Mississippi State Department of Health (MSDH) Office of Tobacco Control partnered with the American lung Association to provide all Mississippi Tobacco-Free Coalitions (MTFC) youth Advocacy Training opportunities to educate local youth on how to make a difference in their community.

Several local Rankin County youth recently went through this training with Tawni Basden, project Director for the Mississippi Coalition of Rankin, Scott, and Simpson Counties, in an effort to help their community. The youth’s project was to collect trashed cigarette butts around Rankin County and see the impact the clean-up had on their community. In a total of three days, these youth collected four gallons of trashed cigarette butts.

According to Mississippi Tobacco Data, 70 billion cigarette butts were produced in Mississippi within the last twelve years, many of which are thrown on the ground and is considered the number one source of litter.

For more information, contact Tawni Basden at DREAM at 601.933.9174 or [email protected].

(from left to right) Gabi Altieri, Hannah Brown, Olivia Halverson and Daniel Baxter were some of

the Rankin County youth who collected butts.

DREAM Weaving“If you light a lamp for someone else it will also brighten your path.” -Buddha

DREAM’s Transition program is improving the lives of graduating seniors at Hinds AHA, Terry, Clinton, and Raymond High Schools by providing workshops that increase students’ knowledge of workforce and life skills to prepare them for life after high school. Recently Entergy made a donation to the Transitions program.DREAM would like to thank Entergy for not only providing funds for the work of the Hinds County Senior Transitions program, but for also supporting the young people who are part of that program. It is companies like Entergy that do more than light up our businesses and our homes, but also light our paths so that we might have brighter futures.

Don’t fall into the trap of feeling guilty when it is time to discipline your kids.

According to Kevin Leman, Ph.D., a family psychologist and author of Have a New Kid by Friday, guilt is a dangerous emotion. “Guilt is the propellant for most of the bad decisions parents make. As a result, today’s kids are all about ‘me, me, me,’ and ‘gimme.’ They are held accountable less and less and have fewer responsibilities in the family. Fewer children today consider others before themselves because they’ve never been taught to think that way.” Not only is discipline important in raising children who become healthy, responsible, and successful adults, it is important in setting boundaries and keeping children away from alcohol and drug use.

bE PARt of thE tEAMMom and dad, aunt and uncle, grandma and grandpa- whoever is raising that child should do so as a team. Be on the same page when it comes to discipline. Talk about it beforehand so you know that you both agree on the same behaviors.

UnDERStAnD YoUR JobSaying “no” to your child is part of being a parent and raising a child. However, if saying “no” a hundred times isn’t your thing, try something like this, “You may watch TV after you pick up your toys.”

tAkE A tIME oUtIt can be easy to lose your patience. If you find yourself yelling and screaming, you send the message that you are no longer in control. Remove

yourself from the situation until you have cooled down. Then review the situation and respond calmly.

tAntRUM tIMEWhen, not if, a tantrum happens,

yelling, screaming, or attempting to compromise only makes things worse. Tackle that tantrum by ignoring it. The purpose of a tantrum is because your child hopes to get attention and get their way. Ignore it and chances are your child will stop.

It’S not A PRESIDEntIAl DEbAtEChildren of all ages love to use oppositional behavior to test their limits. Instead of trying to reason with your child, offer him or her a firm, non-negotiable, reason for why he or she needs to do what you ask. You’ve made the decision, you’re done.

bE ConSIStEntYour child had a bad day at school, so it is okay to let them get away with breaking the rules this once, right? Wrong! Letting it go sends the message that rules can be bent or broken. You can’t do it sometimes and not others.

EnCoURAgE InStEAD of PRAISEKids shouldn’t expect an award or praise every time they do something good or do something for others. For example, your child washes the dishes without being asked. Your response, “You’re the best kid in the whole world. Here’s $5.00 for being such a good kid.” That’s praise. Encouragement is “That is such a thoughtful thing to do. Thank you!” Life isn’t about being rewarded every time we do something good.


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In thE know In the NewsMarijuana and Nonmedical Use of Prescription Drugs Have Highest Rates of Past Year Abuse or Dependence

According to the most recent National Survey on Drug and Health (NSDUH), an estimated 7.1

million people, 12 and older met criteria for illicit drug use and/or dependence

in the last year. Of these, 63.0%—more than 4.4 million—were classified with marijuana or hashish abuse or dependence, 33.5% met the

criteria for abuse or dependence on prescription drugs used nonmedically (primarily pain relievers), and 14.1% abused or were dependent on cocaine. These findings parallel those of national treatment admissions, which

show that the majority of illicit drug admissions are for marijuana and opiates other than heroin.-CESAR Fax

Right Now or More Later? Decision-Making Styles May Predict Teen ProblemsIn a recent study, researchers recruited 372 pairs of 12-year-old twins and told each child that, as a reward for cooperating with a battery of assessments, he or she could either have $7 right away or wait and receive $10 in the mail in a week. Two years later, when the twins were 14, the researchers were able to contact 82 percent of them and repeat the same assessments and reward alternatives. Consistent with previous research, the children who chose the immediate reward appeared to be headed for more behavioral problems than their more patient peers. They scored higher on assessment of novelty-seeking and impulsivity, lower on self-directedness, and reported more symptoms of conduct disorder. The results? Children who chose the immediate

reward were significantly more likely to report having used drugs in the past year. For example, more than 6 percent of them had tried marijuana by age 14, whereas only 2 percent of those who selected a delayed reward had done so; the rates for cigarette smoking were 9 percent and 3.5 percent, respectively. Immediate reward choosers were also three times as likely to have been suspended from school in the past year. Most children, who took the discounted payment over a 7-day delay at age 12, repeated the behavior at age 14.-NIDA Notes, excerpted from Behavior Genetics Peers As Passengers Increases Risk-Taking Behaviors While DrivingTeens given a driving simulation tests, whereas traffic lights turned yellow at certain intervals, were more likely to proceed through the yellow light and risk a collision when they knew their friends were watching. More interesting, brain imaging showed that the friends’ presence heightened activity in the teens’ ventral striatum and orbitofrontal cortex—brain regions that predict and assess the value of reward. Considering their friends did not say anything to influence the behavior, researchers concluded that the presence of peers is sufficient in

itself to make risks feel more worth while to teens.-NIDA Notes, from Developmental Science

Youth Less Likely to Try Alcohol and Cigarettes Before Age 13 Has Changed while Prevalence of Early Marijuana Initiation Has Not The percentage of high school students who first tried alcohol or cigarettes before the age of 13 has declined considerably since 1991. Much of the decline has occurred in the last decade. The youth Risk

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tRAInIng CalendarNovember2012

WORKSHOP DATE TIME

learning by Doing: Icebreakers and Activities for Teaching prevention 11/8 10:00a – 4:00p

Bullying: What you Need to Know & What you Can Do 11/14 9:00a - 12:00p

Conflict Management & Resolution 11/14 1:30p – 4:30p

December2012WORKSHOP DATE TIME

prevention Ethics (Hattiesburg, MS- DREAM Center) 12/5 10:00a – 12:00p

HIV/AIDS Education (Hattiesburg, MS – DREAM Center) 12/5 1:00p - 3:00p

Managing Disruptive Audiences (Hattiesburg, MS – DREAM Center) 12/6 9:00a - 1:00p

Marijuana Update 12/12 9:00a - 12:00p

January2013WORKSHOP DATE TIME

Substance Abuse prevention Specialist Training Refresher *this is a two-day course 1/17-1/18 9:00a – 4:00p

Cultural Competency for the Mental Health professional 1/23 10:00a - 3:00p

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RADAR Report

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cocaine). In this no-nonsense video, former users talk about their experiences with these drugs and how dangerous they really are. Experts in the field explain the way these drugs are made and what the dangers are in using them. Most are made with toxic chemicals such as acetone and battery acid. The video covers Spice, K2, bath salts, Kratom, Bromo Dragonfly, salvia, and prescription drugs as well as two drugs that

haven’t yet made it to the United States, Oxidado and Krokodile. Some images are rather gruesome; however, the intent is not to scare, but instead to inform teens and adults of the seriousness and danger of these synthetic drugs. The reality is, these drugs are life-threatening.The DVD runs 20 minutes and is intended for 7th grade and up. preview this video at http://www.hrmvideo.com/catalog/emerging-drugs-of-abuse. It is also available for check-out at the DREAM® RADAR Center. Call 601.933.9199 for information.


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These “bath salts” are not the epsom salts often added to bathwater. Instead, “bath salts” is just the most common code name given to a specific type of synthetic drugs made in underground labs and marketed as household items.

The drug, which is actually MDVP, has been camouflaged as plant food, stain remover, toilet bowl cleaner and hookah cleaner. The drug is usually sold in packets or boxes and usually contains a foil wrap or plastic bag of powder, though sometimes they take the form of pills or capsules. Nearly every box has a label that says “not for human consumption.”

“Bath salts” are highly dangerous and have been referred to as synthetic cocaine but are more powerful than meth. Users have experienced hallucinations and report seeing demons and monsters. In the emergency room, doctors have to rely on antipsychotic medications to help calm the user. Some patients have to stay in the hospital for 5-14 days under heavy sedation. Even still, as the sedatives wear off, the paranoia and delusions come back. The consistency of what’s in the package varies wildly. Packages that have been tested have varied from containing 17 milligrams of MDVP to 2,000 milligrams. Someone who uses “bath salts” once, could have a very different experience the next time they try it.

Clearing Up the Confusion on bath Salts


PREvEntIon Corner

Newest Killer Drug:SmileS

News of several recent deaths is being linked to a synthetic drug called Smiles. Smiles is the newest in a wave of designer drugs to hit smoke shops, convenience stores and internet marketplaces. Just a few months ago, the deaths of two North Dakota teens was linked to Smiles. It is now being reported that Sons of Anarchy star Johnny lewis was believed to have been under the influence of the drug when he murdered his landlady and then committed suicide.The Smiles drug has been one of many designer drugs to follow in the footsteps of the infamous bath salts synthetic stimulants and K2 synthetic marijuana products. A refined white powder, the drug can be taken in capsule form, eaten or snorted. Internet reports state that users

commonly mix the Smiles powder with chocolate or candy prior to ingesting it. paranoia, anxiety, panic and nausea have been reported amongst users, along with

a potential loss of consciousness. Smiles also causes hallucinations and a euphoric state that resembles stimulants like methamphetamine. In some cases, the effects can last for days. It’s most popular amongst high school, college kids and young clubbers. The DEA has banned the drug, known as “2C-1″, but right now, use is continuing to rise. Initially available on shelves sporting the “not for human consumption” labels, distribution is now most commonly seen through black market dealers and white-envelope internet deliveries.

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PREvEntIon PRofESSIonAlS Corner

Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the United States and the 3rd leading cause of death among teenagers. One out of every 53 high school students reported having made a suicide attempt that was serious enough to be treated by a doctor or a nurse. For each suicide death among young people, there may be as many as 100–200 suicide attempts. More than 8 million adults reported having serious suicidal thoughts in the past year, 2.5 million people reported making a suicide plan in the past year, and 1.1 million reported a suicide attempt in the past year.

What’s Your Role in Suicide PRevention?These are the most important and critical roles:• Knowing how to respond to someone at risk for

suicide.• Knowing how to respond to a suicide death.

Let’s taLk

about Suicide

Call the NationalSuicidePreventionLifeline at 1.800.273.TALK if you or someone you know is thinking about suicide. For resources and information, visit http://www.sprc.org or http://www.samhsa.gov/prevention/suicide.aspx.

Ifyoubelievesomeoneisatriskofsuicide:

• Ask them if they are thinking about killing themselves

(This will not put the idea into their heads, or make it

more likely that they will attempt suicide.) • Call the U.S. National Suicide prevention lifeline at

800.273.TAlK (8255); • Take the person to an emergency room or seek help

from a medical or mental health professional; • Remove any objects that could be used in a suicide

attempt; and • If possible, do not leave the person alone. announcing the MS Youth Suicide Prevention Project The Mississippi Department of Mental Health was recently awarded a suicide prevention grant through SAMHSA in which they will be collaborating with DREAM of Hattiesburg to support Mississippi in strengthening and implementingstatewide youth suicide prevention strategies for youth ages 15-24.Mississippi’s youth Suicide prevention project will increase the number of persons in youth serving organizations that are trained to identify and refer youth at-risk for suicide; increase the number of health, mental health and substance abuse providers trained to assess, manage and treat youth at risk for suicide; increase the number of youth identified as at risk for suicide, increase the number of youth referred for behavioral health care services; increase the number of youth at risk for suicide who receive behavioral health care services; and increase the promotion of the National Suicide prevention lifeline.


novEMbER2012Mental Health Awareness MonthNational Child Mental Health Month

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Behavior Survey (yRBS) reports that in 1991, 33% of high school students reported drinking more than a few sips of alcohol before age 13, compared 21% in 2011. The percentage reporting smoking a whole cigarette for the first time before age 13 also declined, from 24% in 1991 to 10% in 2011. Marijuana initiation before age 13, however, did not change significantly over the same period. -CESAR Fax

Alcohol, Energy Drinks, Sex, and Toxic Jock Identity: Risky Recipes for College Youth

A recent study published in the Journal of Caffeine Research, found college students who consume alcohol-laced energy drinks were more likely to engage in casual, often risky, sex. “Energy drink consumption is correlated with substance use, unsafe sexual activity and several other forms of

risk-taking,” according to the study’s author, Kathleen E. Miller, ph.D., at the University at Buffalo.

In a separate Journal of American College Health, Dr. Miller reported that her study also linked heavy consumption of energy drinks with what she termed a “toxic” jock identity among college athletes. Such an identity emphasizes hypermasculinity and a willingness to take excessive risks, which are associated with problem drinking, sexual risk-taking, interpersonal violence, academic misconduct, delinquency, and suicide attempts.

Decrease in Cigarette Use Offset by Increase in Other Tobacco UseA new CDC report has found that sharp increases in total adult consumption of pipe tobacco and cigarette-like cigars since 2008 have offset declines in total cigarette consumption. Although total cigarette consumption continued an 11-year downward trend with a 2.5 percent decline from 2010 to 2011, dramatic increases in use of non-cigarette smoked tobacco products have slowed the long decline in overall consumption of smoked tobacco products. The consumption of non-cigarette smoked tobacco products increased by 123 percent. loopholes in tax structure and classification system may be the cause. -Center for Disease Control (CDC)

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