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cqjs ifj.kkeksa dk Hk;vktdy vf/kdrj yksx cqjs ifj.kkeksa dh laHkkouk dks ysdj fpafrr

ut+j vkrs gSaA gekjs ikl MBO (Management By Objectives)

dkslsZl Hkh gSaA ge vf/kdrj yksxksa dks ;g dgrs gq, Hkh lqurs gSa fdckWVe ykbu lcls t+:jh pht+ gSA vkf[kjdkj ge ogh ikrs gSa tks gepkgrs gSaA eupkgk ykHk izkIr djus ds fy, ge fdlh dk thou rdu"V dj ldrs gSa (vHkh Hkh ujcfy ds fdLls lekpkj i=ksa esa vDljizdkf'kr gksrs gh jgrs gSa)A O;kikj esa ykHk izkIr djus ds fy, ge yksxksadks (vius ikVZulZ dks) /kks[kk rd nsrs gSaA ;kfu fd ge lHkh udkjkRedifj.kkeksa ls Mjrs gSa] tcfd lHkh dks irk gSµ flge ogh dkVsaxs] tks gecks jgs gSa----fiA ge ^dk;Z* dk cht cks dj ^ifj.kke* dh Q+ly dkVrsgSaA fQj lHkh dqN tkurs le>rs gq, Hkh ge Hkksys (uknku) D;ksa cutkrs gSa\ dqN u cksdj Hkh vafre le; esa frdM+e yM+k dj ge 'kkWVZdV ekjdj vPNs ifj.kke ikuk pkgrs gSaA ;s 'kkWVZ dV brus Hk;adj gksldrs gSa fd buds kjk dkuwu ,oa fu;eksa dk mYya?ku gks ldrk gS]fdlh dk vieku gks ldrk gS] fdlh dh tku rd tk ldrh gS----A

vkf[kjdkj gesa bldk ,d gh ifj.kke feyrk gS&ekufld v'kkafrArduhdh Hkk"kk esa bls xhxks flºkar dgk tkrk gS vFkkZr~ xkcsZt bu xkcsZtvkmV] xanxh vanj tk,xh rks xanxh gh ckgj vk,xhA

o"kZ 1994 esa phu lfEeV ehfVax esa Dr. Mahathir us dgk Fkk---vkikrdkyhu nq?kZVukvksa ds ekeys vf/kdrj ,sls gh ifjokjksa esa ?kfVrgksrs gSa] ftuds ikl #i, iSls dk vHkko gksrk gS] rHkh rks futh vLirky,sls ekeys Lohdkjus ls Mjrs gSaA

flO;kikfj;ksa esa vDlj ns[kk x;k gS fd ykHk dekus dh ykylk esa os

cqjs ifj.kkeksa 12 dk Hk;

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fu;e dkuwu rd nk°o ij yxk nsrs gSaA 'kk;n vkt lHkh dks vkneh dhtku ls vf/kd ckWVe ykbu dh fpark gSAfi

µNew Straits Times (15 ebZ 1994)

/;ku nsaµ

fltks vkius cks;k gS] og vkidks dkVuk gh iM+sxkAfi

µckbcy (The Bible)

Galatians 6v.7.

flfopkj ds chtksa ls fÿ;k dh]

fÿ;k ds chtksa ls gekjh vknrksa dh]

gekjh vknrksa ls gekjs pfj= dh]

,oa gekjs pfj= ls gekjs HkkX; (fd+Ler) dh Q+ly mxrh gSAfi

µvKkr (Anonymous)

mijksDr iafDr;k° i<+dj vkidks D;k yxrk gS\ gks ldrk gS vkimy>u esa Q°ls gq, gksa vkSj ;g Hkh gks ldrk gS fd lHkh dqN vkidhle> esa vk x;k gks] ijarq budk lgh vFkZ le>us esa eq>s o"kks± yx x,A,d ckr tks eSaus vuqHko dh gS og ;g gS fd lHkh txg cksuk (sow-

jksaiuk) 'kCn dks dkVus (reap) ls igys gh iz;ksx fd;k tkrk gSA rksD;k ge fcuk cks, gh dkV ldrs gSa\ bldk lh/kk lk tokc gS&ughaA;fn ge dqN ugha cks,°xs rks gekjs ikl dkVus dks dqN Hkh ugha gksxkvFkkZr igys gesa cksuk gh gksxkA eSa ;g igys gh crk pqdk gw° fd cksus lsesjk vFkZ gS deZ djukA deZ djuk ifj.kke ls dgha vf/kd egRoiw.kZ gSD;ksafd ifj.kke deZ ij fuHkZj gksrk gS] deZ ifj.kke ij ughaA

nks fdlkuksa dh dgkuh vkius lquh gksxh&

,d ckj dh ckr gS ,d fdlku eq°g yVdk, vius [ksr ds ckgjcSBk FkkA ,d jkgxhj us mlls mldh fujk'kk dk dkj.k iwNk rks ogcksyk] flbl ckj eSaus cgqr esgur dh ysfdu Q+ly vPNh ugha vk;hAfijkgxhj vkxs c<+ x;kA mls ,d vkSj fdlku feykA og vR;ar izlUu

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FkkA jkgxhj us mlls mldh izlUurk dk dkj.k iwNk rks og cksyk] fleq>sirk Fkk bl ckj dqN Hkh ugha gksxk] blhfy, eSaus dqN Hkh ugha cks;kAfivusd yksx mijksDr dFkk ls 'kk;n gh lgh lans'k ys ik,°A eSaus ,sls cgqrls yksx ns[ks gSa tks vR;ar O;Lr gSaA mUgsa uk'rk djus] jkr dk [kkuk viusifjokj ds lkFk [kkus (;kn j[ksa Vh-oh- ns[krs gq, Hkkstu djuk Vh-oh- dslkFk Hkkstu djuk gS] ifjokj ds lax ugha)] vius iRuh&cPpksa dks I;kjdjus ,oa deZ djds ifj.kke dSls izkIr gksrs gSa] ;g tkuus rd dh QqlZrugha gSA ijarq ;fn vki flQZ nks feuV ds fy, vk°[ksa can djds viusvrhr esa >k°dsaxs rks vkidks Lo;a ls lgh&lgh tokc fey tk,xkA

vkius U;wVu dk rhljk fu;e (Newton's Third Law)

fÿ;k&izfrfÿ;k i<+k gksxk%&

fdlh Hkh dk;Z vFkok cy dk ifj.kke mlds lekuqikrh ,oaizfrfÿ;kRed gksrk gSA dksbZ Hkh bls >qByk ugha ldrkA ge bu ckrksa dkset+kd esa gh ys ysrs gSa] vkSj bUgsa vius thou esa dHkh Hkh ugha mrkjrsAD;k eSaus >wB dgk\

U;wVu ds fu;e esa cy gS gekjk deZ ,oa lekuqikrh izfrfÿ;k gSdeZ ls lacaf/kr gekjs ifj.kkeA vFkkZr ge tks vkSj tSlk cks,°xs oSlk ghdkVsaxs] /kjrh (nwljksa) ij nks"kkjksi.k djuk ew[kZrk dh fu'kkuh gSA

fllQ+yrk dk jkt+ ifj.kke esa ugha] ckj&ckj yxkrkj deZ djrsjgus esa fNik gS] ifj.kke rks viuh lq/k Lo;a ys ysxkAfi

xhrk esa Hkh Hkxoku Jhœ".k us dgk gS&deZ fd, tkvks] Q+y dhbPNk er djksA

ifj.kke dh fpark (Hk;) er djks] cl vius iz;klksa (deks±) dkslgh fn'kk nsrs tkvks ftUgsa vki izfrfnu] izfrlIrkg] izfrekg ,oa izfro"kZdjrs gSa] lgh ifj.kke Lor% tUe ysxkA ijarq nqfu;k Hkh vR;kf/kdcqfºekuksa ls Hkjh iM+h gSA dqN yksx ifj.kkeksa dh igys gh fpark djsaxsA;g dqN bl izdkj gS tSls fd ge chekj gksus dks ysdj igys ls ghfpafrr jgrs gksa] ctk; blds fd vius LokLF; dh vPNh ns[kHkky



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djsaA ge pkgrs gSa fd gekjs cPps vkKkdkjh cusa] ijarq ge Lo;a viusvfHkHkkodksa dk lEeku ugha djrsA

flfÿ;k ,oa izfrfÿ;k ds chp dk egRoiw.kZ Hkkx gS izfÿ;kAfi

fl;fn vkids ikl ,d mÌs'; (liuk) gS rks vkidk ekxZ dksbZ ughajksd ldrkAfi

flft+anxh esa vki ;k rks cgkus cuk,°xs ;k iSlk] mBdj dke dhft,Afi

µvKkr (Anonymous).

;gk° eSa vkidks ,d ckr vkSj crkuk pkgrk gw° og ;g fd ,difj.kke ds fy, vkidks vyx&vyx le; ij vusd dk;Z djus gksaxsAblh izdkj vkt fd;k x;k dk;Z Hkfo"; dh fdlh vkSj rkjh[k esavkidks ifj.kke (Q+y) nsxkA ;g ckr vkSj gS fd dqN dk;Z nsj lsifj.kke nsrs gSa tcfd dqN cgqr gh tYnhA

vkids kjk fd;k x;k izR;sd fldk;Zfi vuqdwy ifjfLFkfr;k°ikrs gh viuk flvljfi (ifj.kke) t+:j fn[kk,xkA

fltc ikuh dh lrg ls uUgh cw°n Vdjkrh gS rks ogk° mBh ≈tkZ rjaxsalHkh dks fn[kkbZ nsrh gSa] ijarq ty dk c<+rk gqvk Lrj fdlh dks ughaAfi

µvKkr (Anonymous).

orZeku esa izkIr gks jgs ifj.kkeksa dks Lohdkj djsa D;ksafd ;s gekjs mudeks± ds ifj.kke (Q+y) gSa tks o"kks± igys ge dj pqds gSaA fdlh dkfNnzkUos"k.k djds vFkok vius HkkX; dks dksl dj ge bUgsa cny ughaldrsA ,slk djds ge Lo;a dks ekufld ihM+k gh igq°pk,°xsA lPpkbZ;g gS fd bUgsa vkt ugha cnyk tk ldrk] ijarq vkt ls u, y;fuËkkZfjr djds] u, deZ djrs gq, ge vius Hkfo"; dks eupkgk :i nsldrs gSaA ;kn j[ksa ,slh dksbZ jkr ugha gS ftldh lqcg u gks] vk'kk j[ksav:.kksn; vo'; gksxkA eq>s ugha irk fd dc (D;ksafd ;g vkidhdk;Ziz.kkyh ,oa xfr ij fuHkZj djrk gS) ijarq gksxk t+:j!

flge vrhr esa >k°dus dk lkgl ugha j[krs blhfy, ge vius HkkX;dks nks"kh Bgjkus yxrs gSaAfi

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gj pht+ dk viuk le; gksrk gS fdarq ;gk° dqN ,slk Hkh gS tks flQZvkidk gh gS] mldh izrhkk djsaA blds fy, vius fu;e] viusflºkar nk°o ij yxkus dh vko';drk ugha gS] ifj.kke vki rd igq°psxkt+:j vkSj vxj ugha rks le> ysa fd og vkidk ugha FkkA

gekjs lekt esa vkt lHkh lQ+yrk dh [kkst esa gSaA ge esa lsvfËkdrj dks ^Go-getters* cuus ds fy, izf'kfkr fd;k tk jgk gSAgekjs lekt dk >qdko Hkh ek= izkfIr dh vksj gh fn[kkbZ ns jgk gS] vkSj;s gh gekjs y; ,oa eaft+y cu pqds gSaA ifj.kke Lo:i ge vusd ,slsxks&xSVlZ ds chp esa Lo;a dks f?kjk gqvk ikrs gSa ftuds ikl <+sj lkjhËku&laink gS] lekt ,sls O;fDr;ksa dks ^izfrf"Br O;fDr* dh laKk nsrkgSA ijarq D;k ;s yksx okLro esa [kq'k gSa\ vf/kdrj rks ugha] D;ksafdbudh cukoVh g°lh gh budh iksy [kksy nsrh gSA dqN Hkh gkfly djusesa ;s yksx iwjh rjg ekfgj gks pqds gSaA ijarq blds foijhr] dqN yksx ,slsHkh gSa ftUgsa lp esa [kq'k dgk tk ldrk gSA vki x+kSj djsaxs rks ik,°xs ;syksx Lo;a ds fy, ugha vU; yksxksa dh HkykbZ ds fy, dk;Z djrs gSaA ;syksx gkfly djus ls igys mldk ewY; pqdkus esa vf/kd Hkjkslk j[krsgSaA

;gk° eSa vkidks ,d dgkuh lqukuk pkgrk gw°&

,d ckj dh ckr gS] vLlh o"kZ ls Hkh vf/kd cw<+s ,d O;fDr usvius vkaxu esa vke (King of fruits) dk ,d ikS/kk yxk;kA ;gns[kdj mlds iM+kslh us mlls iwNk] flD;k vki bl ikS/ks ds vke [kkik,°xs\fi

cw<+s us eqLdjkdj tokc fn;k] flughaA ijarq eSaus iwjh fta+nxh vke[kk, gSa] tks esjs isM+ksa ds ugha FksA eSaus vkt ;g igyk ikS/kk yxk;k gS] eSamu lHkh vkeksa dk dtZ+ vius flj ls mrkjuk pkgrk gw° tks eSaus iwjhfta+nxh [kk, gSaAfi

laksi esa dg°w rks xks&xSVj (Go-Getters) cuus ls igys gesa xks&fxoj(Go-Givers) cuuk pkfg, D;ksafd dkVus ls igys gesa cksuk gh gksxkA



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fligyh ut+j esa vkidks viuk R;kx ut+j vk,xk] fo'okl vkidksdeZ djus ds fy, izsfjr djsxkA izHkq vkids deks± dk ys[kk&tks[kkj[ksxk vkSj mUgha ds vuqlkj vkidks ifj.kke nsxkAfi

µMsfoM czV cxZ (David Bradt Berg)

flLoxZ esa izR;sd dk;Z dk dkj.k] ekSle ,oa le; fu/kkZfjr gksrkgSAfi

Ecclesiastes 3:1.

fl csbZekuh ds ykHk ls vPNh gS gkfuA nksuksa nq%[k nsrs gSa] ,d LFkkbZvkSj nwljk vLFkkbZAfi

µfdYVu (Chilton)

eq>s iwjk fo'okl gS fd bl iqLrd ds var rd vki vlQ+yrk dsMj ls iwjh rjg eqDr gks pqds gksaxs] ijarq /;ku j[ksa vkids kjk fd, tkjgs deZ fdlh dks uqdlku u igq°pk,°A

flvusd daVhys ikS/ksyxkus ls csgrj gS,d Qynkj ikS/kk yxk;k tk,Afi

foQ+yrk ds Hk; ls eqfDr gesa fdlh dks /kks[kk nsus dk vf/kdkjiznku ugha djrhA lkFk&gh&lkFk t+:jh gS&gekjk pfj=] ,drk] Hkjkslk]bZekunkjh] lPpkbZ ,oa gekjs flºkarA vDlj yksx iSlk dekus ds pDdjesa vius ewY;ksa dks nk°o ij yxk nsrs gSaA t+jk ihNs eqM+dj vius ls igyslQ+y gq, ,aVjizsulZ dks nsf[k,] gkykafd os [kkyh tsc vk, Fks] fQj HkhmUgksaus iSlk cuk fy;kA oks dSls\ flQZ vkSj flQZ vius ewY;ksa dsvkËkkj ijA ;s ogh yksx gSa] ftUgksaus lPpkbZ ,oa bZekunkjh dh jkg ijpydj ckt+kj esa uke dek;k] vius xzkgdksa dk fny thrk vkSj lQ+ycusA yhe fl;ks fyvksax (Liem Sioe Liong) ,sls gh O;fDr gSa]ftudh ,d tqcku ij djksM+ksa dk Ω.k nsus ds fy, cSad ,d ik°o ij[kM+s gks tkrs gSaA blds foijhr lSdM+ksa ,sls Hkh O;kikjh gSa ftu ij dksbZ

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,d lkS #i, ds fy, Hkh Hkjkslk ugha djrkA blfy, iSlk dekus okyhjkg dk lPpkbZ ,oa bZekunkjh dh xyh ls gksdj xqt+juk vfr vko';dgSA

;g dgkuh vki rd lgh lans'k igq°pkus esa esjh enn djsxhA

lu~ 1923 dh ckr gS] fo'o ds vkB lokZf/kd /kuh O;fDr f'kdkxks(Chicago) ds ,d gksVy esa feysA mu lHkh us bruk iSlk cuk;k Fkk fdos ml le; pksVh ij Fks] ijarq iPphl lky ckn muds lkFk dqN ,slk?kfVr gqvk%&

1- pkYlZ Pokc (Charles Schwab)] lcls cM+h LVhy dEiuh dkv/;k fnokfy;k (Bankrupt) gks dj ejkA

2- fjpMZ foVuh (Richard Whitny)] U;w;kdZ 'ks;j ckt+kj dk vË;kekufld gkykr Bhd u gksus ds dkj.k flax&flax lq/kkj x`g (Sing

Sing Penitentiary) Hkstk x;kA

3- tSl fyojeksj (Jesse Livermore)] oky LV™hV dk lcls cnukevkneh] mlus vkRegR;k dj yhA

4- boj ÿqxj (Ivar Krueger)] ,dkf/kdkj dk ckn'kkg Lo;a ekjkx;kA

5- gkWoMZ gkWilu (Howard Hopson)] mŸkjh vesfjdk dh lclscM+h xSl dEiuh dk vË;k ikxy gks x;kA

6- vFkZj dVu (Arthur Cutton)] vukt dk lcls cM+k O;kikjh]fnokfy;k gks x;kA

7- yhvkWu ›lj (Leon Fraser)] varjkZ"V™h; O;oLFkk cSad (Bank

of International Settlement) dk v/;k] us vkRegR;k djyhA

8- vycVZ QkWy (Albert Fall)] v/;k lfefr dk lnL;] dks tsyls kek nku fn;k x;kA mlus vius ?kj ij ne rksM+ fn;kA



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mijksDr lHkh yksx vPNh rjg iSlk cukuk tkurs Fks] ijarq varr%foQ+y blhfy, gq, D;ksafd buds kjk mBk, x, dqN dneksa dh fn'kkmfpr ugha FkhA ;kn j[ksa xy+r dke djus dk dksbZ Hkh lPpk ekxZ ughagks ldrkA

yksx vDlj eq>ls iwNrs gSa] flD;k viuh fd+Ler dks eqÎh esa djusdk dksbZ QkewZyk gS\fi eSa dgrk gw°&flD;kas ugha] vki Lo;a vius HkkX; dsfo/kkrk cu ldrs gSaA blds fy, vkidks vius iz;Ruksa dks cl lghfn'kk nsuh gksxhAfi D;k vki ,sls yksxksa ls feys gSa ftUgksaus lQ+y gksus dsfy, cgqr dqN fd;k] ijarq varr% os foQ+y gks x,] vkSj mUgsa bldkdkj.k rd ugha irk fd os foQ+y D;ksa gq,\ D;k vki vHkh Hkh mldk;Z dh ryk'k esa gSa tks vkidks lQ+yrk fnyk,xk vFkok vkidksvkidh eaft+y rd igq°pk,xk\ ;fn gk°] rks eSa vkidh dqN enn djldrk gw°A blds fy, vkidks “past life regression” rduhd lh[kuhgksxhA

'kk;n gh ge lHkh dks vius Sub-conscious mind (vopsrueu) dh rkdr dk vankt+k gksA blesa gekjs tUe ls ysdj vkt rd dhcM+h&NksVh lHkh ?kVuk,° ntZ+ gSaA

vc gesa jkst lksus ls igys Conscious mind (psru eu) dsekË;e ls vius Sub-conscious mind (vopsru eu) dks u, fljsls izksxzke djuk gksxkA

fleSa loZJs"B gw°A eSa n cSLV gw°A lHkh eq>s I;kj djrs gSaA eSa lHkhdks I;kj djrk gw°A eSa lHkh dks kek djrk gw°A eSa bZekunkj gw°A eSaloZJs"B gw°A vkt LoIu esa eq>s esjk lPpk ekxZ fey tk,xkA eSa ncSLV gw°Afi

bu okD;ksa dks jkst lksus ls igys rhu ckj t+:j nksgjk,°A ,d jkrvki ik,°xs fd LoIu esa vkidks vkidk eupkgk ekxZ fey x;k gSA ;ghgS 'kCnksa dh rkdr] ;gh gS liuksa dk peRdkj] tks vkids v°/kdkje;thou dks uo izdk'k iq°t ls izdk'keku dj nsxkA fo'okl j[kks vkSjvkxs c<+ksA

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mik; ,oa y;] cht ,oa

Qy vyx ugha fd, tk

ldrsA iz;kstu ls dk;Z

dk] y; ls mik; dk ,oa

cht ls Qy dk tUe

vo'; gksrk gSAfiµbelZu (Emerson)



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;fn vki ogh djrs jgsaxs

tks vki djrs jgs gSa] rks

vkidks ogh feyrk jgsxk

tks vkidks feyrk jgk gSA

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nnZ] ijs'kkfu;k°] #dkoVsa ,oa ihM+k;g iqLrd v/kwjh gh jgsxh ;fn eSa nnZ] ijs'kkuh] :dkoV ,oa ihM+k

tSls fo"k;ksa ij ckr ugha d:°xk] D;ksafd foQ+y vFkok lQ+y O;fDrbl ekxZ ls gksdj vo'; xqt+jrk gSA

fpfdRlk 'kkL= dh ,d fjiksVZ ds vuqlkj&

flizfro"kZ iSnk gksus okys yxHkx 4 yk[k f'k'kqvksa esa ls ,d familial

dysautonomia uked jksx ls vo'; ihfM+r gksrk gSA blls xzLr jksxhfdlh Hkh le; Lo;a dks gkfu igq°pk ldrk gSA mls nnZ dk vglkl ghugha gksrkA

blds f'kdkj cPps Lo;a dks dkV ldrs gSa] tyk ldrs gSa] ≈°pkbZ lsdwndj viuh gfÏ;k° rksM+ ldrs gSa] vkSj et+s dh ckr rks ;g gS fd bUgsaihM+k dk vglkl rd ugha gksrkA nq%[k dh ckr gS fd buds ekrk&firkdks tc budh djrwrksa dh [k+cj gksrh gS] rc rd cgqr nsj gks pqdh gksrhgSA D;k vki ,slh fta+nxh (ftlesa nnZ ,oa rdyhQsa u gksa) dh viskkdjrs gSa\

ihM+k fdlh dks Hkh ilan ugha gS] ijarq ;g gekjs thou dk vfHkUuvax gSA

flthou lq[k ,oa nq%[kkas dk feJ.k gSA ftl izdkj ufn;k° cgrh gSa]lqcg&'kke gksrs gSa] ekSle cnyrs gSa] /kwi Nk°o gksrh gS mlh izdkj thouesa lq[k ,oa nq%[kksa dk vkuk tkuk yxk gh jgrk gSA

gkykafd thou esa nq%[kksa dk izos'k ,d nq%[kn ?kVuk gS] ijarq fcuknq%[kksa ds ge thou thus dh dyk dks lh[k ugha ik,°xsAfi

µekfVZu ywFkj fdax twfu;j (Martin Luther King Jr.)

nnZ] ijs'kkfu;k°] 13 #dkoVsa ,oa ihM+k


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cspkjs cPpsµftUgsa ihM+kugha gksrh

ek= nks o"khZ; ikWy dh ek° dgrh gSa&flikWy dks ,d k.kHkh ut+jksa ls nwj j[kuk [k+rjs ls [kkyh ugha gS] D;ksafdog fdlh Hkh iy Lo;a dks u"V dj ldrk gSAfi

ikWy dks Lo;a ls cpkus ds fy, /kkrq ds rkjksa ls cuk;kx;k lqjkk tkyA

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eq>s o"kks± iqjkuh ,d ?kVuk ;kn vk jgh gS] eSa ,d lsfeukj esa FkkAoDrk us iz'u fd;k] fl,slk dkSu gS] tks vius thou esa nq%[k nnZ ls ges'kkds fy, NqVdkjk ikuk pkgrk gS] œi;k vius gkFk [kM+s dhft,\fi gelHkh us bl loky ds mŸkj esa vius gkFk [kM+s fd, FksA oDrk us vkxsdgk] fleSa vkidks ,slh ukSdjh nw°xk tgk° vkidks dqN Hkh ugha djukgksxk] vkidks dke djus ds >a>V ls] 'kknh ls] Hkkstu djus ls NqVdkjkrks fey gh tk,xk] lkFk gh vkidks iSlk dekus dh rdyhQ+ Hkh ughamBkuh iM+sxhAfi ge lHkh ds gkFk vHkh Hkh ≈ij FksA oDrk us dgk]fl'kk;n eSa ejs gq, yksxksa ls ckrsa dj jgk gw°Afi

gk°] oDrk dk dFku fcYdqy lgh Fkk] D;ksafd nq%[k nq%[kn t+:j gSijarq fQj Hkh ;g thou dk vfHkUu vax gSA ge fta+nk jgdj thfor gksusdk ewY; vnk djrs gSaA mlh dks nq%[k dk vglkl ugha gksrk] tks ;k rksfuthZo gS vFkok e`rA

MkW- ukWeZu foalsaV ihy (Dr. Norman Vincent Peale) ds vuqlkjflijs'kkfu;k° thou dh mifLFkfr dk ladsr gSa! vkids ikl ftruh vfËkdpqukSfr;k° gSa] vki mrus vf/kd thfor gSa!fi

gesa MkW- ihy dh ckr ij x+kSj djuk gksxkA ijs'kkfu;k° gesa mUgsa gydjus dk volj iznku djrh gSaA vxj ge fdlh ,slh leL;k dklekËkku fudkyus esa lQ+y gks tkrs gSa] ftls dksbZ vU; gy ugha dj ikjgk gks] rHkh ge lekt kjk lEekfur fd, tkrs gSaA vFkkZr~ gesa lQ+ycukus esa ijs'kkfu;ksa dk cgqr cM+k ;ksxnku gksrk gSA

flvfojke] fujarj iz;Ru'khyrk ,oa tq>k:iu] xk°/kh th dh egkurkds jkt+ FksAfi

µ,u-ds-cksl (N.K. Bose)

ge ekus vFkok u ekus ihM+k ,oa ijs'kkfu;k° ge lHkh us vuqHko dhgSa] vkSj djrs jgsaxsA blesa Hkh dksbZ nks jk; ugha gS fd budk Lokn dM+okgksrk gS] vkf[k+j gj vPNh vkS"kf/k dM+oh gh gksrh gSA



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flijs'kkfu;k°] vkids O;fDrRo ,oa fopkjksa dh ejEer djds mUgsafodkl ds iFk ij ys vkrh gSaAfi

µjSch tkslQ ch- lksyksosrfpd(Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik)

esjs xq# us ,d ckj eq>ls dgk Fkk fd tc ijs'kkfu;k° vk,° rks viukeq°g can j[kks vkSj mUgsa lgu djrs tkvksA dqN le; ckn os Lo;a vkilsnwj gV tk,°xhA

flijs'kkfu;k° gesa Hkxoku ds fudV ys tkrh gSa] gesa cyoku cukrh gSa]gesa cgknqj cukrh gSa] gesa cqfºeku cukrh gSa ,oa gesa thuk fl[kkrh gSaA;qº dh thr fdlh eSnku esa ugha cfYd efLr"d esa gksrh gSAfi

µHeaven and Earth (fQ+Ye)

dqN yksx vHkh Hkh nnZ] ijs'kkfu;ksa ,oa ihM+k dks 'kk;n cqjh pht+eku jgs gksaA t+jk lkspsa tc vkidk gkFk fdlh xeZ pht+ ij iM+ tkrk gSrks vpkud gksus okyh ihM+k vkids gkFk dh jkk djrh gSA pksV yxtkus ij gksus okyh ihM+k lacaf/kr vax dh gypy jksd dj mldhejEer djus esa fdruh lg;ksxh gSA gesa ,sls f[kykfM+;ksa ds fdLls Hkhirk gksaxs] ftUgksaus nnZ fuokjd nok,° (M™Xl) ys dj vius 'kjhjges'kk&ges'kk ds fy, [kjkc dj fy, gSa] blfy, eSa rks ;gh dgw°xk fdijs'kkfu;k° gekjs fodkl esa ck/kd ugha cfYd lgk;d gSaA viuhek°lisf'k;ksa dks O;k;ke ds t+fj, d"V igq°pkdj gh ge lqMkSy cukrs gSaA;gh ugha] viuh ek° ds xHkZ ls ckgj fudyus esa Hkh gesa ihM+k dk vuqHkogksrk gS] vkSj ;gh ihM+k gekjh fta+nxh dk lcls igyk nq%[kn vuqHkogksrh gS] tks ftanxh Hkj nq%[kksa ls yM+us ds fy, vkjaHk esa gh gesa izf'kfkrdj nsrh gSA

flgels vf/kd vkRefo'okl ,oa LokfHkeku okyk O;fDr ogh gS]ftlus gels vf/kd d"V >sys gSaAfi

µMsfoM tkulsu (David Jansen)

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fldq'kyrk] ihM+k ,oa d"Vksa ls vkrh gSa] ftldh ge dekbZ [kkrsgSaAfi

eSa vkidks ,d dgkuh lqukrk g°w&,d ckj ,d efgyk ds csVs dhe`R;q gks xbZA jksrs&fcy[krs gq, og ,d lk/kq ds ikl igq°ph vkSj viuscPps dks ft+ank djus ds fy, fourh djus yxhA lk/kq us efgyk ls dgk]flrqe eq>s fdlh ,sls ?kj ls ,d eqÎh Hkj vukt yk nks tgk° dHkh fdlhdh ekSr u gqbZ gks----fi efgyk us ?kj&?kj tk dj vukt ek°xk] fdarq tcog ykSVh] rks [kkyh gkFk FkhA ijarq vc og larq"V Fkh D;ksafd fnu Hkjvusd yksxksa dh nq%[k Hkjh nkLrku lquus ds ckn lPpkbZ mldh le> esavk pqdh FkhA

flijs'kkfu;k° vkidk ihNk rHkh NksM+asxh] tc vki mudk MVdjeqdkcyk djksxsAfi

µ,uh cslsaV (Annie Besant)

flck/kkvksa dks viuk nq'eu er le>ks] rqEgsa viuh jkg ls cM+s&cM+sigkM+ksa dks [kqn gVkuk gksxkAfi

flcqjs le; esa gh gekjh ekufldrk dh ijhkk gksrh gSAfi

vkidks] thou esa la?k"kZ ,oa ijs'kkfu;ksa ds egRo dks le>kus esa ;gdgkuh esjh enn djsxh&,d taxy esa ,d NksVh fpfM+;k jgk djrh FkhAog cgqr gh e/kqj xkrh FkhA mlds ia[k Hkh lqanj FksA ,d jkst+ ,d ;qodtaxy ls xqt+jkA mlus fpfM+;k dks crk;k fd og xsgw° ds nkus cspus dsfy, 'kgj tk jgk gS vkSj cnys esa viuh iRuh ds fy, [kwclwjr ia[k[kjhndj yk,xkA fpfM+;k us mlds lkeus izLrko j[kk&rqe ;s xsgw° dsnkus eq>s ns nks vkSj cnys esa eSa rqEgsa viuk ,d ia[k nw°xhA

o"kks± rd ;gh flyflyk pyrk jgkA vc fpfM+;k cw<+h gks pqdhFkhA mlds ia[k lekIr gks pqds FksA og mM+uk vkSj xkuk Hkwy pqdh FkhA;qod us Hkh mlds ikl vkuk can dj fn;k FkkA var esa Hkw[k ds dkj.kfpfM+;k dh ekSr gks xbZA



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yh dk f'kax (Li Ka Shing)

ek= 14 o"kZ dh voLFkk esa tc buds firk dk nsgkar gks x;k rks bUgsa Ldwy tkukNksM+dj ,d ?kM+h dh nqdku ij ukSdjh djuh iM+hA 17 o"kZ dh voLFkk esa ;slsYleSu cu x,] tgk° ;s 16&16 ?kaVs jkst dfBu ifjJe fd;k djrs FksA vkt fo'ods /kuh yksxksa esa budh fxurh gksrh gS] ijarq vkt Hkh yh viuh ogh iqjkuh tkikuh?kM+h ,oa IykfLVd lksy okys twrs igurs gSaA ^yh* vkt Hkh le; ds lgh mi;ksxds fy, viuh ?kM+h vkB feuV vkxs j[krs gSaA

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fldfBu ifjfLFkfr;k° gesa lh[kus vkSj cnyus ds fy, etcwj dj nsrh gSaAeSaus lh[kk dSls fcy dysDVj cuk tk,] lqij ekdsZV xkMZ cuk tk,---Alp dgw° rks vuqdwy ifjfLFkfr;k° gesa vlk/kkj.k dk;Z djus ds fy,izsfjr ugha djrhaAfi

et+uk gehn (Datuk Maznah Hamid)

et+uk dk tUe ,d fdlku ifjokj esa gqvk FkkA tc og ek= ik°p lky dh Fkha] rksmuds ekrk&firk vyx gks x,] vr% muds nknk&nknh us mudk ikyu iks"k.k fd;kA

laca/kksa dks ysdj dM+os vuqHko j[kus okyh et+uk dk n`f"Vdks.k thou ds izfrudkjkRed FkkA eyk;k (Malay) Ldwy ls lsdsaM™h rd f'kkk izkIr djus ds cknet+uk us xk°o NksM+ fn;kA os jkt/kkuh pyh xb±] tgk° mUgksaus lsaVj QkWj ySaxqostLVMht (Centre for Language Studies) esa Hkk"kkarj dk v/;;u fd;kA et+ukus vEcSLMlZ ,oa fons'kh ,aVjizsulZ dks Hkk"kk v/;;u dk V~;w'ku nsuk vkjaHk fd;k]lkFk gh ns'kkarjokl foHkkx esa tulaidZ vf/kdkjh ( P.R.O.) dk dk;Z Hkh c[kwchfuHkk;kA ;gh og le; Fkk] tc et+uk dks ;g tkuus dk ekSd+k feyk fd vehj ,oa



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yksdfiz; yksxksa dk thou Lrj dSlk gksrk gSA mUgsa vk'p;Z gqvk&dqN yksx 13 yk[k#i, izfrekg dSls cuk ysrs gSa] tcfd og dqN gt+kj izfrekg gh cuk ik jgh Fkha\vkSj mlh fnu /kuh cuus dh mudh egRokdk°kk us tUe fy;kA mUgksaus fnu jkrdfBu ifjJe djuk vkjaHk dj fn;kA ijarq fdlh us et+uk dks lykg nh fd fnujkr ifjJe djds os /kuh ugha cu ldrha] blds fy, mUgsa Lo;a dk O;kikj vkjaHkdjuk gksxk! lkFk gh BSs (Bachelor of Street Smartness) ,oa MCs (Master

of Common Sense) Hkh cuuk iM+sxk] mlh fnu ls et+uk us ldkjkRed lksp iSnkdjus okyh dkkvksa esa tkuk vkjaHk dj fn;kA og ,d vPNs O;kikj dh [kkst esaFkhaA et+uk us vius ifr ds lkFk feydj f'kk.k lesr vusd O;olk; fd,Avarr% lqjkk iznku djus okyh ,d fnokfy;k dEiuh dk izLrko mUgsa feykA viusifjokj ds fojks/k ds ckotwn et+uk us viuh tek iw°th :- 65 gtkj ds lkFk blizLrko dks eatwj dj fy;kA mUgksaus ik°p lqjkk dfeZ;ksa ds lkFk dke 'kq: dj fn;kAet+uk lsÿsVjh] DydZ] xkMZ ,oa eSustj tSls vusd dk;Z Lo;a laHkkyrh FkhaA varr%vius O;kikj dks c<+kus ds fy, mUgksaus viuk ?kj rd csp Mkyk ,oa >ksaiM+iÍh esajgus pyh xb±] tgk° muds igys cPps us tUe fy;kA et+uk us QS+lyk fd;k fd osiqu% xjhc cuuk ilan ugha djsaxh D;ksafd xjhc cus jgus ls vehj cuuk vf/kdvklku gSA

vkt et+uk 3]700 lqjkk dfeZ;ksa okyh Securiforce uked lcls cM+h lqjkkdEiuh dh ekfyd gSaA ftldh 'kk[kk,° flaxkiqj] czqusbZ] cSadkWd] vesfjdk ,oabaXySaM rd esa QSyh gSaA vkt os u flQZ vusd cM+h dEifu;ksa dh cksMZ dh ehfVaXlesa Hkkx ysrh gSa] cfYd os us'kuy ,aVjizsuj dkiksZjs'ku (National Entrepreneur

Corporation) dh v/;kk Hkh gSaA et+uk gehn oYMZ foesu ,aVjizsuj ,lksfl,'ku(FCEM) dh mik/;kk Hkh jg pqdh gSaA

vkbju ysMh vkWQ eysf'k;k (Iron Lady of Malaysia) ds uke ls e'kgwj et+ukgehn u dsoy ,d vPNh ekrk gh gSa cfYd lqizflº oDrk Hkh gSa] ftUgsa vusd Vh-oh- ,oa jsfM;ks dk;Zÿeksa esa ns[kk ,oa lquk tk ldrk gSA muds kjk fyf[kr iqLrdMotivasi Memburu Kejayaan (lQyrk ls izsj.kk) [kklh yksdfiz;rk izkIrdj pqdh gSA et+uk dk ekuuk gS fd ;fn vki fdlh pht+ ij ejrs gks vkSj ewY;vnk djus ds fy, rS;kj gks] rks vki mls fu'p; gh ik dj jgksxs!

et+uk viuk vf/kdrj le; xjhcksa dh lsok] vius ik°p cPpksa ,oa ifr dhns[kHkky esa xqt+kjrha gSaA

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vjukWYM LDokjts+usxj (Arnold Schwarzenegger)

vjukWYM dk tUe vkWfLV™;k ds ,d NksVs ls xk°o esa gqvk Fkk] tgk° yksxksa ds ikl Qksurd ugha FksA ogk° cl ,d iqfyl pkSdh vkSj ,d NksVk lk gksVy Fkk] ftlesa iwjs xk°odk pgsrk bdykSrk Vh-oh- lsV yxk gqvk FkkA muds ?kj esa fdlh Hkh izdkj dhHkkSfrd lq[k&lqfoËkk,° ugha FkhaA gk°] euksjatu ds uke ij ogk° ,d jsfM;ks t+:j FkkAmudh ek° mUgsa I;kj djrh Fkh] tcfd firkth ysDpj fn;k djrs FksA i<+kbZ esa oslkekU; FksA

vkt ckWMh fcfYMax (Body building) ds ks= esa vjukWYM dk uke xoZ ls fy;ktkrk gSA o"kZ 1966 ls 1975 ds chp mUgksaus ik°p feLVj ;wfuolZ (Mr. Universe)

,oa N% feLVj vksyafi;k (Mr. Olympia) f[k+rkc thrsA vkt os gkWyhoqM ds lclsegaxs ,D'ku fQYe LVkj ds :i esa igpkus tkrs gSaA mudh izflº fQYesa gSa& dkWuun ckcsZfj;u (Conan the Barbarian), dkWuu n MsLV™kW;j (Conan theDestroyer), VfeZusVj (Terminator), izhMsVj (Predator), VfeZusVj Vw(Terminator-II), dek°Mks (Commando), VksVy jhdkWy (Total Recall),,oa VfeZusVj Fkzh (Terminator-III)A vjukWYM ,d prqj jh;y LVsV fuos'kd]lQ+y ,aVjizsuj ,oa fjifCydu ny (Republican Party) ds lEekuh; lnL; HkhgSaA orZeku esa vjukWYM dSfyQksfuZ;k ds xouZj gSaA

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flfdlh Hkh ks= ds miyfC/kdŸkkZvksa ds thou dk v/;;u djus ijvki ik,°xs fd mu lHkh us lq[k&pSu] uhan] Hkw[k&I;kl dks HkqykdjlkekU; ls foijhr fn'kk esa th rksM+ Je fd;k gSAfi

fllQ+yrk dk iSekuk miyfC/k;k° ugha] foQ+yrk,° gSaAdksf'k'k djus vkSj gkjus ij dHkh 'kfe±nk er gksukAfiflleqnzh rwQku ,d vPNs ukfod dks izf'kfkr gh djrs gSaAfi

,slh ijs'kkfu;ksa ds ek/;e ls vczkge fyadu (Abraham Lincoln)

dh egkurk izdV gqbZ Fkh] ftuls xqt+jdj ,d lk/kkj.k balku VwV djfc[kj tkrk gSA foQ+yrk us mUgsa yksgs ds leku etcwr cuk fn;k FkkAfyadu (Lincoln) ds ikl vn~Hkqr dYiuk ,oa bPNk 'kfDr dk O;kidHkaMkj FkkA

flfoifŸk;ksa ls Mjks er] cqjs le; esa gok ds lkFk la?k"kZ djrs gq,≈ij mBrh gqbZ irax vkidks izsj.kk ns ldrh gSAfi

tc rd ge fta+nk gSa&nq%[kksa] ijs'kkfu;ksa ,oa dfBukb;ksa ls gekjklkeuk gksrk jgsxkA ;g le>us okyh ckr gS fd ijs'kkfu;k° gesa fpM+fpM+k,oa dM+ok Hkh cuk ldrh gSa vFkok e`nq ,oa Js"B HkhA ;s gesa rksM+ Hkhldrh gaS vkSj tksM+ HkhA

flthou ,d pyfp= (Movie) ds leku gS] ftls ge lHkh thrsgSaA Q+dZ tks iSnk gksrk gS] mlds fy, gekjk n`f"Vdks.k (ut+fj;k) ghmŸkjnk;h gSAfi

µMsful osVyh (Denis Waitley)

czk;u V™Slh (Brian Tracy) ds lsfeukj esa eq>s ,d jsflih cgqrilan vk;h Fkh] og eSa vkids lkFk vxyh dqN iafDr;ksa esa ck°Vus tk jgkgw°A ,d leL;k (Problem) dks yhft,A bls Lo;a ls nwj dj nhft, rks

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;g ,d fLFkfr (Situation) cu tk,xhA bldk lek/kku <w°<us dkiz;kl djsa] ;g ,d pqukSrh (Challenge) cu tk,xhA vc viuhkerkvksa dk vkdyu djsa ,oa pqukSrh dks Lohdkj dj ysa] ;g volj(Opportunity) cu tk,xhA

vkSj lgh Hkh gS] leL;k,° gekjs thou ds fy, ojnku lkfcr gksldrh gSa] ;fn bUgsa volj eku fy;k tk,A leL;k,° ftruh cM+h gksaxhmuds ihNs fNis volj mrus gh vf/kd egku gksaxsA gekjs thou dksleL;kvksa ls eqDr dj nsus ij gekjh kerkvksa ds izn'kZu ds lHkh ekxZcan gks tkrs gSaA

thou] ijhkk ,oa iz;ksxksa ls Hkjk iM+k gSA ;g ge ij fuHkZj djrk gSfd gekjk n`f"Vdks.k buds izfr dSlk gS\ ldkjkRed n`f"Vdks.k okysO;fDr ds fy, ;s bZ'oj dk vk'khokZn cu tkrs gSa] vkSj udkjkRedn`f"Vdks.k okys O;fDr ds fy, vfHk'kkiA

fl;fn vrhr esa >kad dj ns[ksaxs rks ge ik,°xs fd tks dqN Hkh gksrkgS vPNs ds fy, gh gksrk gSAfi

µusiksfy;u fgy (Napoleon Hill)

flvolj ijs'kkfu;k° cudj vkidks vuqHkoh cukrs gSaA ijs'kkfu;k°vLFkkbZ gksrh gSa] budk Lokxr fd;k tkuk pkfg,A tc ,d kj can gksrkgS] rks nwljk [kqyrk gS] ;gh izœfr dk fu;e gSAfi

µczk;u vkne (Brian Adam)

eq>s vk'kk gS nnZ] ijs'kkfu;ksa] #dkoVksa ,oa ihM+k dks vc vki cqjkugha dgsaxs cfYd bZ'oj dk izlkn le>dj [kqys fny ls budk LokxrdjsaxsA

v/;k; ds lekiu ls igys eSa vkidks ,d xhr fl[kkuk pkgrk gw°Arkfd vkidks ges'kk yxrk jgs fd eq>s bZ'oj dk 'kqHkk'khokZn izkIr gSA



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eSa /kU; gw°

dHkh&dHkh eq>s vk'p;Z gksrk gS tc lHkh dqN cqjk gksrk gS]D;k izHkq eq>s Hkwy x;k] D;k eSa fcYdqy vdsyk gw°\rHkh eSa ;kn djrk gw° ijhkk ,oa iz;Ruksa ds :i esaog ges'kk esjs lkFk gS]eq>s mldk 'kqHk vk'kh"k izkIr gSA

eSaus izHkq ls 'kfDr ek°xh rkfd eSa miyfC/k;k° izkIr dj ldw°]eq>s det+ksj cuk;k x;k rkfd eSa lh[k ldw°]eSaus LokLF; ek°xk rkfd eSa egku dk;Z dj ldw°]eq>s kh.k cuk;k x;k rkfd eSa gkfly dj ldw°]eSaus /ku ek°xk rkfd eSa lq[kh jg ldw°]eq>s fu/kZu cuk;k x;k rkfd eSa Kkuh cu ldw°A

eSaus rkdr ek°xh rkfd eSa yksxksa dh lsok dj ldw°]eq>s nqcZyrk feyh rkfd eSa mls (izHkq dks) ;kn dj ldw°AeSaus lHkh dqN ek°xk rkfd eSa thou dk vkuan ys ldw°]eq>s ugha fn;k x;k rkfd eSa ek°x ldw°] vk'kk dj ldw°]ijarq ,d tokc ges'kk vkrk gSeSa rsjs lkFk gw°] rw loZJs"B gS] rw egku gSA

t+jk viuh vksj nsf[k,] viuh fo'ks"krkvksa dks ;kn dhft, vkSj fQj

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yaxM+kiu Hkh 'ksDlih;j(Shakespeare) dh fo'oizflº

ys[kuh dks jksd u ldkA

tkWu feYVu (John Milton) us=ghuFksA mudh us=ghurk Hkh mUgsa baXySaMdh egkure dfork Paradise Lost

fy[kus ls jksd u ldhA

chFkksou (Beethoven) cgjs FksA fQjHkh mUgksaus d.kZfiz; laxhr daikst+fd;kA

fladnj egku (Alexander the

Great) dqcM+s (dej eqM+h gqbZ) FksAmuds firk fQ+fyi dh gR;k dj nhxbZ] tc os ek= 19 o"kZ ds Fks vkSjmUgksaus jktxn~nh laHkky yhA

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gksej (Homer) us=ghu xk;d FksA gsaMy (Handel)ds 'kjhj dk nk;k°Hkkx ikk?kkr ds dkj.k [kjkc gks x;ktc mUgksaus Hallelujah Chorus

rS;kj fd;kA

QksuksxzkQ ds vkfo"dkj rd ,Mhlu(Edison) cgjs gks pqds FksA

gsyu ,MEl dsyj (Helen Adams

Keller) xwaxh] cgjh vkSj va/kh FkhaA

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xksYnk ehj (Golda Meir) ckjg o"kZls vLoLFk FkhaA

du∂;wf'k;l (Confucius) vukFkFksA

›sadfyu Msyuks :t+osYV (Franklin

Delano Roosevelt) iksfy;ks lsxzLr FksA 39 o"kZ dh mez esa mUgsaydok (ikk?kkr) ekj x;k] fQjHkh os vesfjdk ds 32osa jk"V™ifr pqusx,A

tk Wu ,Q- dsu sMh (John F.

Kennedy) dh ihB esa chekjh Fkh]fQj Hkh os vesfjdk ds 35osa jk"V™ifrcusA

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xqykeh esa iSnk gksus ds ckn Hkh cqdjVh- okf'kaxVu (Booker T. Wash-

ington) lqizflº dkys usrk ,oavius le; ds izflº f'kkd cusA

vui<+ gksus ds ckn Hkh gqbZ usax (Hui

Neng) (NBsa dqyifr) dh fxurhloZJs"B xq#vksa esa dh tkrh gSA

fcfy fye lqizflº us=ghu odhy vpuoh;k Z ueJhik S axiu (Achan Viriya

Namsiripongpan) (Thammasat

University-FkkbZySaM) ds lkFkA

lq/kk panzu (Sudha Chandran)

lqizflº urZdh ,oa dykdkj] ukpse;wjh (Naache Mayuri) fQYe dsnkSjku ,d iSj [kksus ds ckotwn gkSlyscqyanA

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foek :nksQ (Wilma Rudolph)

pyus fQjus esa vlgk; iksfy;ks ls xzLr :nksQ dks flfo'o dh lcls rst /kkfodkfi(Fastest Woman on Earth) ds uke ls tkuk tkrk gSA o"kZ 1960 esa jksevksyafid esa rhu Lo.kZ ind thrdj foek :nksQ (Wilma Rudolph) bfrgkl esaviuk uke Lo.kZ vkjksa esa fy[kok pqdh gSaA

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LVhQu fofy;e gkWfdax (Stephen William Hawking)

LVhQu (Stephen) ,slh ykbykt+ chekjh ls ihfM+r gSa] ftlds pyrs mudk iwjk'kjhj ikk?kkr dk f'kdkj gSA mudh ekalisf'k;k° iwjh rjg f'kfFky gSa] fQj Hkh blfczrkuh izksQslj dks vkbaLVkbu (Einstein) ds ckn lokZf/kd cqfºeku HkkSfrd'kkL=h ds :i esa tkuk tkrk gSA

tc os 21 lky ds Fks] rks MkWDVjksa us mudh tk°p ds ckn crk;k fd os ek= <kbZ lkyvkSj thfor jg ldsaxsA ijarq gkWfdax viuh chekjh ls tw>rs jgs] varr% muds gkFk]ik°o vkSj tqcku us dke djuk can dj fn;kA o"kZ 1988 esa muds kjk fyf[kriqLrd A Brief History of Time (le; dk lafkIr bfrgkl) bruh izflº gqbZfd 22 Hkk"kkvksa esa bldk vuqokn fd;k x;kA vHkh rd bldh ,d djksM+ ls Hkhvf/kd izfr;k° fcd pqdh gSaA gkWfdax vkWDlQksMZ (Oxford) ds Nk= jg pqds gSaAfloSls rks eSa viuh chekjh dks [kkl egRo ugha nsrk] ijarq eq>s ns[kdj ;fn vki esadqN djus dk tks'k iSnk gksrk gS] rks esjs fy, ;g [kq'kh dh ckr gksxhAfi

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egku cuus ds fy, Superman cuukt+:jh ugha gSA

fleSa HkkX;'kkyh gw° fd esjs ikl 42 lky dk HkO; vrhr gS] ftlds lgkjseSa viuh ckdh dh fta+nxh mRlkg ds lkFk th ldrk gw°A eSa fujk'k gksusls uQ+jr djrk gw°A esjs ikl x+yr ckrsa lkspus dk le; ugha gSAfifÿLVksQj jho (Christopher Reeve)

25 flrEcj 1952 dks tUes] lqijeSu (Superman) ds uke ls tkus tkusokysfÿLVksQj jho (Reeve) ds fy, o"kZ 1995 dk ,d lIrkgkar nqHkkZX;'kkyh lkfcrgqvkA ?kqM+lokjh djrs le; mudh xnZu esa yxh Hk;adj pksV us mUgsa Oghy ps;j ijyk iVdkA jho dks lkgl ,oa ft+ankfnyh dh thrh tkxrh felky dgk tkrk FkkD;ksafd 11 vDrwcj 2004 ds jkst viuh ekSr ds fnu rd jho dks iwjk fo'okl Fkkfd og fnu t+:j vk,xk] tc og Oghy ps;j NksM+dj vius iSjksa ij py ldsxkA

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gj O;fDr Hkxoku ls viuh lksp ds vuqlkj vius migkj ek°xysrk gS----

flbZ'oj us eq>s cgqr dqN fn;kfiiwjs 25 o"kks± ls eSa mls tkurk FkkA og psgjs ds dSalj ls ihfM+r FkkA

igys rks ,d NksVk /kCck gh Fkk tks le; ds lkFk c<+rk pyk x;kA ogvLirky tkrk] ijarq tc ykSVrk rks psgjs ij ?kkoksa ds fu'kku fy,ykSVrkA o"kks± chr x,] mlds psgjs dks vc ge psgjk ugha dg ldrs FksAgj ckj og dkVk tkrk Fkk] fQj Hkh og eqLdjkus dk iz;Ru djrk jgrkA

og ,d izfrHkk'kkyh dkjhxj Fkk] tks viuh esgur vkSj yxu dscwrs ij tkuk igpkuk tkrk FkkA

tc mlus ukSdjh dh rks mlesa mlus viuh iwjh th tku yxk nhAog lk/kkj.k yksxksa ls vf/kd esgur djrk FkkA mlds psgjs ls Je dklarks"k Vidrk ut+j vkrk FkkA eq>s ;kn gS mlus dgk Fkk] flesjk dkevkidks esjs psgjs ij >ydsxkAfi ijarq D;k dHkh og vkbZuk ns[krk Fkk\mldk psgjk /khjs&/khjs u"V gksrk tk jgk FkkA

og vius dke esa eLr FkkA mlus dHkh ugha lkspk fd og D;k vkSjD;ksa dj jgk gSA u gh ;g fd nwljs yksx D;k djrs gSaA mls cl viusdke ls eryc FkkA mls vius esgurh gksus dk vgadkj FkkA

le; chrus ds lkFk&lkFk og dqN det+ksj gks pyk FkkA mldk'kjhj vc mldk mruk lkFk ugha ns ikrk Fkk ftruh mls viskk FkhAmldh j∂+rkj ?kV jgh Fkh] lkFk gh vk; Hkh] ijarq ukSdjh vHkh Hkh mlsmruh gh fiz; FkhA

mldh NksVh egRokdkakk] mldh fo'kky kerk dks Nwus esa iwjh rjgfoQy jgh FkhA yksx mls ludh dgus yxs FksA og vdsys dke djukilan djus yxk FkkA mlus nwljksa dks dHkh cqjk&Hkyk ugha dgkA ogvdsyk iM+rk pyk tk jgk FkkA

mldk psgjk cwpM+[kkus ds leku ut+j vkus yxk Fkk] ftls vc og:eky ls <+d fy;k djrkA vxj dHkh og jkg esa fey tkrk rks



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vfHkoknu djrk Fkk ijarq eq°g ls ,d Hkh 'kCn cksyuk mlds fy, laHkou FkkA mldh >werh ykBh gh vc mlds gkFkksa dh iqjkuh iM+ pqdhizfrHkk dk f'kdkj curh FkhA

mlds thou esa larks"k] r`fIr ,oa 'kkafr ds vykok dqN Hkh 'ks"k ucpk FkkA og Hkxoku dks mls gkFk nsus ds fy, /kU;okn nsrk Fkk] ogvius laLdkjksa ls izHkkfor FkkA

?kj ls vLirky rd mldk lQ+j vHkh Hkh vfojke tkjh FkkA ogHk;adj fn[kkbZ nsus yxk FkkA mls viuh ukSdjh ls izse Fkk tks mlls vcizse ugha djrh FkhA fdarq bu iPphl lkyksa esa mlus dksbZ Hkh f'kdk;rugha dhA vxj vkius mldk psgjk ugha ns[kk gS] rks vki esjh ckrksa dklgh vFkZ ugha fudky ik,°xsA

varr% og fnu vk gh x;kA mldk ckWl pkgrk Fkk fd mldsvkSt+kj vc u, gkFkksa esa lkSai fn, tk,°A u, gkFk [kkstus dk dk;Z eq>slkSaik x;k D;ksafd mldh lsok lekIr dh tk jgh FkhA

vHkh dqN gh fnu iwoZ mldk nsgkar gks x;kA mlh fnu eSa mllsfeyus x;k FkkA og vius ?kj ds ckgj Vgy jgk FkkA mldk psgjk lqjkkifÍ;ksa ls <+dk FkkA eSa dsoy mldh vk°[ksa gh ns[k ik jgk FkkA og yaxM+kdj py jgk FkkA mlus eq>ls dgk] fleSa Lo;a dks rc rd ds fy, ;qokcukus tk jgk gw°] tc rd fd eSa cu ldw°Afi

vkSj mlh fnu mldh ekSr gks xbZA eSa iqu% mls ns[kus igq°pkA mldkdejk nqx±/k ls Hkjk gqvk FkkA dksbZ Hkh ogk° Bgj ugha ldrk FkkA mldspsgjs ij ?kko gh ?kko Fks] ogk° dkVus ds fy, dqN Hkh ckdh u cpk FkkAvki dg ldrs gSa og ijs'kku Fkk] ijarq mlus dHkh f'kdk;r rd ughadh] u gh vfrfjDr iz;klA

mlds 'kCn vkt Hkh esjs dkuksa esa xw°trs gSa&

flHkxoku us eq>s cgqr dqN fn;kA bruk fd eq>s mlls dksbZ Hkhf'kdk;r ugha gSAfi

(mijksDr vkys[k ds fy, Jh vkj-,e-xqM (R.M. Good) dkvkHkkj)A

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flthou ,d la?k"kZ gSA LokLF; vFkok vU; dkj.kksa ds pyrs iSnk gksusokyh :dkoVsa] vkids fe'ku esa ck/kk ugha cuuh pkfg,°A gesa viusla?k"kks± dh xfr c<+kuh gksxh rkfd ,d fotsrk cudj gh ge lalkj lsvyfonk dgsaAfi

dklselwd cgeksjulfrr (Kasemsook Bhamornsatit)

dklselwd dks lbZ (Sai)ds uke ls Hkh tkuk tkrk gSA lbZ ds firk odhy Fks] ijarqchekjh ds pyrs os vf/kd le; rd ukSdjh ugha dj ik,A tc lbZ ek= 18 lkydh Fkha] rks dkj nq?kZVuk esa mudh ek° dk nsgkar gks x;kA FkkbZ (Thai) feBkb;k° cukdj



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,oa lekpkj i=&if=dkvksa esa ys[ku djds os tSls&rSls vius ?kj dk xqt+kjk pykjgha FkhaA

;g dfBu nkSj mudh 'kknh rd tkjh jgkA ijarq nqHkkZX; us mudk ihNk ogk° Hkh ughaNksM+kA mudh bdykSrh larku ds tUe ds le; ulZ dh x+yrh ds dkj.k og cPphthou Hkj ds fy, viax gks xbZA fQj dqN dkj.kksa ds pyrs lbZ dks vius ifr lsvyx gksuk iM+kA nqHkkZX; vHkh Hkh lbZ dk ihNk dj jgk Fkk] ,d dkj nq?kZVuk esamudh xnZu dh gÏh VwV tkus ls mUgsa ydok ekj x;kA bl nq?kZVuk esa lbZ dks viusiSj Hkh [kksus iM+s Fks] fQj Hkh mUgksaus gkj ugha ekuhA /;ku ,oa ;ksx&fÿ;kvksa dsekË;e ls lbZ us viuh bPNk'kfDr dks thfor j[kkA yxHkx 28 o"kZ dh mez esaMkWDVjksa dks muds ckdh cps gq, iSj Hkh dkVus iM+sA

pkj o"kZ ckn gh (o"kZ 1994 esa) lbZ ,d vU; dkj nq?kZVuk esa xaHkhj :i ls ?kk;ygks xb±A ifj.kke Lo:i mUgsa viuk xqnkZ (yhoj) [kksuk iM+k] lkFk gh lh/ks gkFk dhck°g dks muds da/ks ls tksM+us ds fy, MkWDVjksa dks mlesa ,d fdyksxzke fVVsfu;e(Titanium) Hkjuh iM+h FkhA mudk iwjk 'kjhj ihM+k ls NViVkrk FkkA ijarq ,d ckjfQj lbZ us ;ksx lk/kuk ds cy ij Lo;a dks fu;af=r dj fy;kA

vkt lbZ FkkbySaM ds yksxksa ds fy, izsj.kk lzksr gSaA mUgksaus cPpksa dks i<+kus ,oa yksxksadks ;ksxk fl[kkus ds fy, eFkqjk gkml (Mathura House) dh LFkkiuk Hkh dh gSAos f=dk;k dYpj ,aM ,dsMsfed V™Soy lfoZlsl (Trikaya Culture and Aca-

demic Travel Services) dh v/;kk Hkh gSa] tgk° i;ZVdksa dks lkaLœfrd ,oa'kSfkd tkudkjh miyC/k djkbZ tkrh gSA [kkyh le; esa lbZ dfork,° fy[krh gSaAos nks fnolh; Body and mind solution ('kkjhfjd ,oa ekufld leL;k lekËkku)dk;Zÿe dh lapkfydk Hkh gSaA

dklselwd (Kasemsook),

gkSlys vHkh Hkh cqyan

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fldqŸks dh rjg lM+dksa ij ekjk&ekjkfQjus ds ckn esjs Je us eq>srkbZoku dk vk'p;Z cuk fn;kAfi

gqvax ubZgqbZ (Huang Naihui)

gqvax ubZgqbZ dk tUe 1964 esa rkbiS(rkboku) ds ,d laHkzkar ifjokj esa gqvkFkkA tc gqvax NksVk Fkk rks og rhoz Tojls ihfM+r gks x;kA ubZgqbZ dh nknh ek°iqjkus [k;kyksa dh efgyk Fkha] mUgksaus ubZgqbZdk bykt ikj aifjd rjhds(HkHkwr&rkc+ht&ra=&ea=) ls fd;k]ifj.kke Lo:i og yd+os dk f'kdkj gksx;kA mlds ekrk&firk us mls vius ifjokj ds fy, v'kqHk dg dj ?kj ls ckgjQsad fn;kA vr% mldh nknh ek° us mldk ikyu iks"k.k djus dk QS+lyk fd;kA

rsjg o"kZ dh voLFkk esa mlus Ldwy tkuk 'kq# fd;kA mlds lh[kus dh xfr /khehFkh] ijarq fQj Hkh og lh[k jgk FkkA 22 o"kZ dh voLFkk esa og i<+us ds lkFk&lkFkykWVjh ds fVdV ,oa Qwy cspus dk dk;Z Hkh dj jgk FkkA og University of

Taiwan esa jkf= dh dkkvksa esa cSBk djrk FkkA Qwy csprs le; og Hkn~nh vkokt+esa xhr xkrk FkkA yksx ml ij g°lrs Fks] ijarq og eqLdjkdj jg tk;k djrkA mls ,dgh ckr nq%[k fn;k djrh Fkh] tc og dksbZ lq[kh ifjokj ns[k ysrk rks mldh vk°[ksaHkj vkrh FkhaA tc gqvax 24 lky dk Fkk rks mldh nknh ek° dk nsgkar gks x;kA nknhds vafre laLdkj esa vius iwjs ifjokj dks vk;k ns[kdj og [kq'kh ls Qwyk ugha lekjgk Fkk] ijarq mlls og ?kj Hkh Nhu fy;k x;k] ftlesa og viuh nknh ek° ds lkFk jgkdjrk FkkA ;g uo o"kZ dh iwoZ la/;k FkhA og lM+dksa ij Qwy csp jgk FkkA mlslcd fey pqdk FkkA

vkt gqvax vPNk oDrk gSA og fodykax yksxksa ds fy, izsj.kk cu pqdk gSA mldhiqLrd Facing the Sun (lw;Z ls eqdkcyk) rkboku esa [kklh yksdfiz; gSA gqvaxvkt Qwyksa dh rhu nqdkuksa dk ekfyd gSA viuk [kkyh le; og xjhc cPpksa dhlsok esa yxkrk gSA



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^^fotsrk Hkh gkjrs gSa] ijarq os la?k"kZugha NksM+rsAfi

MSDLVj ,oa cMhZ ;sxj (Dexter & Birdie

Yager)

cMhZ ,oa MSDLVj ;sxj U;w;kdZ ds ,d NksVs lsdLcs esa iys c<+sA cMhZ l=g lky dh Fkhatc mudh 'kknh MSDLVj ds lkFk gqbZAvkthfodk pykus ds fy, MSDLVj usNksVk&cM+k gj izdkj dk dk;Z fd;kA og?kkl dkVk djrs Fks] ;gwnh ekfyd dh diM+s dh nqdku ij lsYleSu dk dke djrsFks] xkfM+;k° vkSj 'kjkc cspk djrs Fks vkSj V™d pyk;k djrs FksA ml le; MSDLVj dkliuk cgqr cM+k ugha Fkk] ijarq tSls&tSls ijs'kkfu;k° c<+rh xb±] muds liuksa dkvkdkj Hkh c<+rk pyk x;kA

/kukHkko dks nwj djus ds fy, cMhZ dks Hkh ukSdjh djuh iM+hA tc cMhZ dke ijtkrha rks MSDLVj ?kj ij gksrs vkSj tc MSDLVj ckgj gksrs rks cMhZ ?kj ij #d dj jkrksajkr tkx dj cPpksa dh ns[kHkky fd;k djrhaA nksuksa dks gh yx jgk Fkk tSls osfoifŸk;ksa esa f?kjrs pys tk jgs gSaA

cMhZ dh lykg ij 1 uoacj 1964 dks MSDLVj us ,e-,y-,e- (MLM) O;kikjdh 'kq:vkr dh] ijarq vc ,d ubZ leL;k muds lkeus Fkh] og ;g fd MSDLVj mlle; gdyk;k djrs FksA O;kikj esa feyh Hkkjh vlQ+yrkvksa ds ckotwn varr%dfBu ifjJe djrs gq, os ,d etcwr O;olk; [kM+k djus esa dke;kc gks x,A tcMSDLVj 46 o"kZ ds Fks] rks rhu fnekxh ,oa pkj fny ds nkSjksa ds pyrs] gq, ikk?kkrus mudk laiw.kZ O;olk; pkSiV djds j[k fn;kA mudk otu (240 ikmaM) c<+rkpyk tk jgk Fkk] og Oghy ps;j ij Fks ijarq mUgksaus gkj ugha ekuhA varr% 55 lkydh mez esa MSDLVj us viuh lksp dks cnydj lHkh dqN cny Mkyus dk Q+Slykfd;kA MSDLVj dgrs gSa] ^^;fn vkidk liuk cgqr cM+k gks rks ijs'kkfu;k° vkidkekxZ ugha jksd ldrhaA**

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