Creating Your Creating Your DestinyDestiny

Ophelia ChamberlainOphelia Chamberlain

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Aretha AbdullahAretha Abdullah

Workshop AgendaWorkshop Agenda

• Understanding how thoughts contribute to our everyday lives– The law of attraction– Understand your thoughts and story

• Break For Lunch

• Getting Control of Your Thoughts– Reinforcing positive thoughts– Learn & Apply the Goal Setting Tool

Thoughts Are Thoughts Are ThingsThings

Changing Your Story for the Changing Your Story for the BetterBetter

Ophelia ChamberlainOphelia Chamberlain

UnderstandingUnderstanding• Understanding what is “Thought”

• Understanding the two most common universal laws

• Understanding your story & what effects thoughts have on your story

• Understanding that by changing your thoughts you can change your story

Exactly What is a Exactly What is a ThoughtThought

• Thoughts become things

• Thoughts are the mental pictures that are in our minds

• Thoughts are also learned belief systems

• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0wYxh-akZs&feature=related

Thoughts areThoughts areEnergy and VibrationsEnergy and Vibrations

• Thoughts are made of Energy

• We emit thoughts (ENERGY)

What Do I Mean By What Do I Mean By “Vibrations”“Vibrations”

• Simpler forms of vibrations would be sounds we are familiar with.

• Sometimes when the deep rich bass notes of musical instruments are played loudly you can feel the vibrational nature of sound.

Your Physical SensesYour Physical Senses

Interpreting SoundInterpreting Sound

• When you hear something you are interpreting vibration into the sound that you are hearing

• What you hear is your unique interpretation of vibration

Everything That ExistsEverything That Exists

• In your air, in your dirt, in your water, and in your bodies is vibration in motion and all of it is managed by the laws of attraction

The Law of AttractionThe Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction is the Universal Law which

ensures that whatever energy is broadcast out into

the universe is joined by (or attracted to)

energies that are of an equal or harmonious frequency

or vibration

The Law of AttractionThe Law of Attraction

• It is believed that energy (thought) attracts like energy (thought) that flows through the universe.

• Each person is radiating (emitting) energy out into space and this energy is determined by the emotional state of mind of the individual

The Laws of AttractionThe Laws of Attraction

• You are a living magnet

• What you attract into your life is in harmony with your dominant thought pattern.

Response To Your Response To Your Thoughts Thoughts

• Your life experience is drawn to you by:

– The Laws of Attraction response to your thoughts

– The story you tell about your everyday life

Positive VibrationsPositive Vibrations

Joy

Excitement

Abundance

Pride

Comfort

Confidence

Affection

Love

Negative VibrationsNegative Vibrations

• Disappointment, • Loneliness, • Lack, • Sadness, • Confusion, • Stress, • Anger, • Hurt

The Law of AttractionThe Law of Attraction

• The law of attractions is continually bringing things of like vibration together.

The Law TranslatesThe Law Translates

• You get more of what ever you are focusing on, because as you focus, you “Vibrate” at a certain frequency that attracts anything vibrating at the same frequency.

AcceptanceAcceptance

• Learning to accept that we have a vibrational nature and the Laws of attractions are real, will help us bridge those two worlds.

• We do not have to understand the optic nerve in order to see and we do not have to understand electric to turn the light on.

Reasons for not Thriving Reasons for not Thriving

• I was born into the wrong environment

• My parents did not have

• The people over there are thriving, so I can’t

• I have been cheated

• I’m not living the right life

• I do not go to church

• This is the way I am suppose to be

• I am not worthy

• The government ignores my rights

• My husband doesn’t do his part

• Because, Because, & Because

You Are Not ThrivingYou Are Not Thriving

• Because, You are offering a vibration that is different from the vibration of thriving

• Because, You can not feel poor (vibrate poor) and thrive

• Because, Abundance cannot fine you unless you offer a vibration of abundance.

Feel The Excitement Feel The Excitement

• You must feel the excitement of your dreams before they can become a reality.

• Find a way to deliberately imagine a scenario for the purpose of offering a vibration and for the purpose of the law of attraction matching your vibration with a real life manifestation.

How To How To Change Your StoryChange Your Story

• You have to begin telling your story in a new way.

• You have to tell it as you want it to be

Think DeliberatelyThink Deliberately

• You are the creator of your own life experiences, not by virtue of what you are doing, saying but by the thoughts you are offering.

• Every thought you think has it own vibrational frequency

At this MomentAt this MomentEvery thought you are pondering now, is

vibrating at a very personal frequency and by the powerful Law of attraction (the essence of that which is like unto itself, is drawn), that thought is now attraction another thought that is its

vibrational match.

And now, those combined thoughts are vibrating at a frequency that is higher than the thought that came before:

YOUFriends

Chief

Training

Success

Truth

PowerFun

Lies

Kids

Goals

Learning

GED

Food

All people circumstances, events, and

situations are attracted to you by the

power of the thoughts you are thinking.

Once you understand that you are literally

thinking or vibrating things into being, you

may discover a new resolve within you to more

deliberately direct you own thoughts.

Return Soon……Return Soon……

Michael Beckwith, Michael Beckwith,

• http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3qyb9sv28w

Getting Control Getting Control of Your Thoughtsof Your Thoughts

Learning And Applying Goal Learning And Applying Goal SettingSetting

Aretha AbdullahAretha Abdullah

“If you keep thinking the way you have always though and keep doing what you have

always done, your will keep getting what you have always

gotten”

Getting The Right Getting The Right VibrationVibration

• Making a commitment (Personal Contract)

• Using the right tools (Goal Setting)

• Developing an Action Plan ( Getting In Motion)

• Creating Your Story (Written Goals)

Reinforcing Your ThinkingReinforcing Your Thinking

• Success means the realization of our personal and career Goals

• Attainment of goals or the result of Action

• Action is motivated by our Thoughts

• One way thoughts are stimulated, controlled, and organized is by Writing

“In the absence of clearly defined goal, we are forced to turn to unproductive

activity and eventually become enslaved by it”

Written Goals Written Goals Reinforce Your ThinkingReinforce Your Thinking

• Deliberately force our abstract thoughts to take specific shape.

• Make room for new abstract thoughts

• Identify new ways to accomplish goals

• The process keeps repeating itself

The Importance of Written The Importance of Written GoalsGoals

• 3 Reason

– Significantly increase the possibility that we will take action

– Provides a psychological commitment

– Help you to control and organize your thoughts

What is a GoalWhat is a Goal

Goals are what we are

trying to accomplish

Know

Become

Do

See

Have

Achieve

YOU

Managing GoalsManaging Goals

• 2 Types of Goal– Personal Goals– Career Goals

• Goal Categories– Career– Community

Service – Education – Family – Financial – Physical – Recreation 

What is Goal SettingWhat is Goal Setting

Goal setting is a powerful process for thinking about your ideal future, and for motivating yourself to turn this

vision of the future into reality. It is a powerful tool to operating

on a new Vibration

Goal Time FramesGoal Time Frames

6 Month Goal

1 Year Goal

3 Year Goal

5 Year Goal

Rules for Goal SettingRules for Goal Setting

3P’s Goals

Personal Positively

Present

S.M.A.R.T Goals Specific

Measurable

Attainable

Realistic and

Target dates

My Six Month Goal

I am studying to take my GED exam at FIC and will passes the exam by May

31, 2010

ExamplesExamplesMy goal is to improve my My goal is to improve my computer skills not just in computer skills not just in

typing. typing. 3P’s Goal• Positive Χ• Personal √• Present Χ

S.M.A.R.T Goal• Specific Χ• Measurable Χ• Attainable √• Realistic √• Target Date Χ

My 1 Year Goal

• By November 6, 2010 I have a certificate in Microsoft Word and Excel presented to me by Computer Village.

ExamplesExamplesTo own my own businessTo own my own business

by May 19, 2015by May 19, 2015

3P’s Goal• Positive √• Personal √ • Present Χ

S.M.A.R.T Goal• Specific Χ• Measurable √• Attainable √

• Realistic √

• Target Date √

My 5 Year Goal

By May 19, 2015 I own Affordable Bookkeeping

which provides services to the self

employed.

• Create the Picture• Training• Contacts• Develops

organization skills• Accountability• Set Goals to support

main goal

“If you keep thinking the way you have always though and keep

doing what you have always done, your will keep getting what you

have always gotten”

Action PlanAction Plan• Set up your personal and career

Goals• Get motivated (Rewards and Benefits)• Determine legitimate obstacles• Think on the solutions

– Search out Opportunities– Create a weekly to do list– Start associating with people in motion– Seek out places to get information

• Accountability

Creating Your DestinyCreating Your Destiny

“Our self image and performance in life will be profoundly affected by

the goals we set and the results we visualize.

It is important to understand and remember that if we do not set goals

for ourselves, they will be set for us….”

GO…..Create Your GO…..Create Your DestinyDestiny