CSA PREVENTION:CSA PREVENTION:PERSONAL SAFETYPERSONAL SAFETYJoy L. Cristal, M.A., R.P., R.G.C.Joy L. Cristal, M.A., R.P., R.G.C.

Associate Professor, De La Salle-Associate Professor, De La Salle-College of St. BenildeCollege of St. Benilde

Acknowledgement: Acknowledgement: Catholic Ministry to Deaf People, Inc.; Ms. Rachelle Catholic Ministry to Deaf People, Inc.; Ms. Rachelle

Tansiatco and Ms. Maria Tanya de Guzman Tansiatco and Ms. Maria Tanya de Guzman

SELF-ESTEEM SELF-ESTEEM (Pagpapahalaga sa Sarili)(Pagpapahalaga sa Sarili)““I LOVE AND VALUE MYSELF”I LOVE AND VALUE MYSELF”

Each person is L.U.V.• Loved by God (Mahal ng

Diyos) • Unique (Naiiba; Walang

kaparis) • Valuable/Important

(Mahalaga)

Nibbling (“Ngatngat”)Nibbling (“Ngatngat”)The “SELF” becomes smaller and The “SELF” becomes smaller and smaller because of NEGATIVE smaller because of NEGATIVE

comments we receive from others.comments we receive from others.

Kawawa ka…(Pitiful!)

Ang bagal-bagal mo!(You are very slow!)

Ang hina mo!(You are weak!)

“MY self becomes small.”

SELF(

Low Self Esteem

TANGA! (Dumb!)

Mahina ang ulo mo! (Weak mind!)

NIBBLING “NGATNGAT”

SHY (Mahiyain)

NO CONFIDENCE

IMPORTANT: See the positive, good and beautiful in your self.

See the positive, good and beautiful in other people.

SELF-ESTEEM

• Self-confidence• “I CAN!”

• Self-worth

• “I AM IMPORTANT!”

“I THANK Y0U, GOD, FOR

YOU HAVE WONDERFULLY MADE

ME !”PSALM 139

PERSONAL SAFETY

Personal Safety means keeping your body free

from danger.

What are some of the ways we keep our body safe from harm/danger?

IWASANG MAGLARO NG POSPORO.(Avoid playing with matches.)

MAGSUOT NG HELMET SA PAGBIBISEKLETA.(Wear a helmet when riding a biking.)

IKABIT ANG ‘BUCKLE’ NG ‘BELT’ KAPAG NAKASAKAY SA KOTSE O EROPLANO. (Buckle your belt …)

HUWAG TUMANGGAP NG CANDY O ANUMANG –PAGKAIN MULASA DI KILALANG TAO.

(Do not accept candy or any kind of food from strangers.)

HUWAG MAGSIGARILYO.(Don’t smoke.)

INPUT: Different INPUT: Different Types of TOUCHES & Types of TOUCHES & the SAFETY RULESthe SAFETY RULES

Touch ContinuumGOOD TOUCH Confusing Touch BAD TOUCH

SAFE TOUCH – expressions of warmth, caring & Physical communication (ex.. Pat on a shoulder, hug,

kiss on the cheek, handshake, etc.)

CONFUSING TOUCH – touch that mixes Up a person orcreate uneasy feelings (can be anything)

UNSAFE TOUCH – manipulative or forced Touch and all sexual touch between adults & children; A touch

where the person is taking advantage of another

THE TOUCHING RULES(Mga pamaagi sa paghikap)

SAFETY RULE NUMBER 1. An older (or any) person should Never touch your private body parts except for

Health reasons.

SAFETY RULE NUMBER 2. If an older more powerful person touches your private body parts or want you to touch his/hers,

say “No!” & tell someone.

SAFETY RULE NUMBER 3. Anytime you feel uncomfortable or mixed up about someone’s touching, tell him/her to stop it.

SAY ‘NO!, “STOP!”, “I don’t want to do that!”

RUN to a safe place –school, Church, neighbors & trusted

someone

TELL your parents, a trusted adult, teacher & keep telling

until someonehelps you.