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    Our audience today!

    Counsellors/therpists /

    HRD or OD

    Coaches

    Trainers

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    1st China Executive Coaching Conference(CECC)

    Would you coach an executive if he/she wants to

    talk about his/her marital problems?

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    Coaching is not therapy!!

    Are you doing coaching if you listen to your

    friend talking about his/her marital problems?

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    What happens if as a coach, you let that executive

    talk about his/her marital problems?/

    Release some tension

    Enables to re-focus

    Strengthen the coaching relationship

    Understand that he/she needs further help

    /

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    Are you then doing therapy?

    NOTake away the fears from coaches on what theycoach about

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    1. When then it is Therapy?

    2. When I am not coaching?

    3. Is there an overlap between Therapy and

    Coaching?

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    What coaches think therapy is?

    Person focused

    Fixing personality

    Past focused in particular childhood

    Long-term

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    How do I avoid doing therapy?

    ?

    As long as I dont deal with the past I am safe

    What about a present traumatic experience?

    As long as I dont deal with personal issues I am safe

    So, does this mean that when coaching with how anexecutive behaves there is nothing personal about it?

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    We would define coaching with terms such as:

    Development

    Potential

    Future focused

    Growth

    Change

    Behaviour

    Present

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    Main problem

    How can you NOT do something that you dont

    know about?

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    What is the boundary with therapeutic approaches

    focused on the present?

    Person-centered

    Gestalt

    What about with therapeutic approaches focussed of

    the future

    Solutions Focused Brief Therapy

    Positive psychology

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    Is Coaching doing Therapy?

    What about therapeutic approaches that are focused

    on changing behaviurs?

    CBT

    What about therapeutic approaches that are focused

    on the development the person?

    Positive Psychotherapy

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    Is Coaching Therapy? What is then the difference?

    Context

    Depth

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    What is coaching

    Relational Coaching Erik de Haan

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    1 .

    2.

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    Relational Coaching Erik de Haan

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    What is coaching

    Relational Coaching Erik de Haan

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    Relational Coaching Erik de Haan

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    Types of coaching

    SKILLSCOACHING PERFORMANCECOACHING TRANSFORMATIONALCOACHINGDEVELOPMENTALCOACHING

    Coaching objectives: finite/concreteImplied coaching style: directive

    Typical duration: Short-term

    Coaching objectives: complex/emergentImplied coaching style: non-directive

    Typical duration: Long-term

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    Is Therapy doing Coaching? Existential Marital Therapy (I.W. Charny)

    Disturbances of natural

    developmental processInterventions in Therapy

    Developmental Block or Delay

    Learning: Teaching, training, COACHING

    Dysfunctional Style or Habit

    Limit and Block: instructing, redirecting,

    reframing, provide alternative

    Psychopathology

    Structural Process: evoking or intensifying

    emotions, state of crisis, free association,

    confrontation with self

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    Is Therapy doing Coaching? Positive Psyhochotherapy (N. Pesseschniak)

    Diagnostic levels Therapeutic WorkSymptoms in one occasion and in onecontext

    Actual Conflict present behavioralpartner

    Symptoms in many occasions and in

    one context

    Inner Conflict past conflict

    express in present behavior

    Symptoms in many occasions and in

    many different contexts

    Basic Conflict development of

    personality structure

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    Is Therapy doing Coaching? A good Therapist makes a good Coach

    Assess what is the best intervention for the

    client: training, coaching, therapy

    Able to provide a deeper work if requested

    Trained the necessary skills

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    Skill Coaching TherapyActive Listening Core Basic Coaching Skills

    Micro-skills basic to start any

    therapeutic relationship

    Empathy & Rapport

    &

    Questioning

    Expression of Self

    Interpreting Theoretical

    Frame

    Expressed in the assumptions

    of the coach

    Offering amodel of being

    Leading Influencing

    Embedded in the inter-

    relational context

    Articulated openly in the

    inter-relational context

    What are the necessary skills?

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    The more coaching moves toward the developmental ortransformational direction of its professional continuum, theless it can be distinguished from therapy.

    Likewise, the more a coach works developmentally or

    transformationally, the more knowledgeable he or she ought tobe of therapeutic discourse and practice including theholding of sufficient understanding related to areas of

    psychological disorder and disruption.

    Ernersto Spinelli

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    SKILLSCOACHING PERFORMANCECOACHING TRANSFORMATIONALCOACHINGDEVELOPMENTALCOACHING

    Coaching objectives: finite/concreteImplied coaching style: directive

    Typical duration: Short-term

    Coaching objectives: complex/emergentImplied coaching style: non-directive

    Typical duration: Long-term

    Types of coaching

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    The importance of Therapy

    Every person has an assumption about how we operate

    Some coaches claim that they dont need a theoreticalframework BE CAREFUL!

    Ability to identify when you are working at developmental level

    of pathology/structural level

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    Broaden the work of the coach and enables them to work where

    coaching is most effective

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    Why Positive Psychotherapy?

    Integrative Approach

    Cross-cultural approach

    Conflict centered against problem centered

    Structure and lack of structure

    tools

    process

    Developmental approach

    Anchored in the life of the client, not the theory of the mind

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    Why WAPP China? International Recognition

    Highly experienced psychotherapists

    what works Vs what it is Vs

    diversity of emphasis

    Dynamic young organisation with a true desire for developing people

    WAPP China teamWAPP

    Community for learning and sharing

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    Time for Questions!!

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