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Conversations
Worth Having: Fueling
Productivity &
Engagement
Cheri Torres, Ph.D.
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What power does each one of us use from the moment we wake up in the morning, until the time we fall asleep at night?
Using it can enhance our happiness or generate distress.
It fuels health and wellness or dis-ease and despair.
It either strengthens our relationships or tears them apart.
And it precedes and predicts our journey to success, mediocrity, or failure.
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What percentage of
your day is spent in
conversation?
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Recall a critical or destructive
conversation you were in.
Notice how this feels in your body.
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Recall a great conversation.Notice how this feels in your body.
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“Me”
“We”
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You Know When You’re In a Conversation Worth Having
• Positive Tone: Inviting & uplifting
• Engagement: Inclusion & respect
• Energy: Openness and curiosity
• Positive Direction: Moving forward
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Two Simple Practices
Generative
Questions
Positive
Framing
Conversations
Worth Having
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Generative Questions:
•change the way people think.
• stimulate compelling images for people to act on.
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What do others know that I don’t?
What are we trying to accomplish?
What unspoken assumptions are we making?
What might we . . . ?
Sample Questions:
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Generative Questions . . .
• Build connection & understanding
• Make the invisible visible
• Identify strengths and best practices
• Create possibilities & shared outcomes
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Talk about what you want . . .
for the relationship,teamorganisation
Positive Framing
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Create a Positive FrameFlipping
•Problem or complaint
•Negative results or impact
Name It
•Positive opposite
•What you want more of
Flip It•Positive impact
of the flip
•Desired results or impact
Frame It
Conversations Worth Having,
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“Age? You mean now or when we
first sat down?”
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Alisha’s Frame
Low patient satisfaction scores
Name It
High patient satisfaction scores
Flip It
High quality
patient care resulting in highly satisfied patients
Frame It
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Another Example
Name It:
High turnover and
absenteeism
Flip It:
Retention
Frame It:
Being here and
loving it!
Generative Questions:
Tell me about a peak experience working
here, a time when you loved being here.
1. What did you value about yourself and
the organisatioon in your story?
2. What three wishes do you have to
make it like that every day?
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Let’s Practice Fueling a Conversation Worth Having
1. Form triads
2. Choose your situation
3. Create a Positive Frame
4. Craft 1-2 Generative Questions
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Possible Situations 1. They keep asking us to do more,
faster, with less.
2. Management has announced several changes and employees are struggling or disengaging.
3. A colleague is going through a crisis.
4. You’re asked to support a team suffering burnout.
5. Automation is coming and the employees are fearful about their jobs.
6. Other: choose your own situation.
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1. Be mindful of the
power of your words.
2. Make curiosity a habit.
3. Use your words in ways
that add value.
• Ask Generative
Questions
• Foster a Positive
Frame.
4. Expect breakthrough
thinking, productivity
and high engagement.
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Learn More
Request a free CWH Workbook
Download a Free Conversation Toolkit:
ConversationsWorthHaving.today
“If you wish to change
something, start by changing
the way you talk about it.” Ron Fry
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Do you have a Curious George sticker in your
workbook?