CONFLICT RESOLUTION for Officials Courtesy of: CIF WRESTLING.
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CONFLICT RESOLUTIONfor Officials
Courtesy of:
CIF WRESTLING
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KEYS TO CONFLICT RESOLTUION
• Recognize the conflict
• Defusing the time bomb: how is it done?
• Sharpen your skills: what skills are needed?
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WHAT IS CONFLICT?
• Direct opposition, a clash or disagreement between people
• Conflicts are experienced at home, work, social recreation and officiating a contest
• As long a you have people dealing with people, making decisions or meeting deadlines, you will have conflict
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TYPES OF CONFLICTS
• Pre-existing (carry over from previous contest)
• Spontaneous Reaction – reaction in a critical time in the contest
• Cumulative Response – series of call or bad breaks that do not favor one team
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RESOLVING CONFLICT
• For years people in authority just told other what to do
• Now, people want to be heard and have a say in what is happening
• Therefore, communication becomes very important in resolving conflict
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RESOLVING CONFLICT
• Approach the conflict collaboratively; work with coaches and/or your partner(s)
• Simple communication is at the heart of conflict resolution
• With every conflict – it’s a matter of listening and seeking to understand the problem
• Must be done within the framework of the contest
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LEVELS OF CONFLICT
• INFORMAL: More often handled quickly, less noticeable by others; quick comments to coaches and participants
• FORMAL: Needs more attention; more skills necessary to resolve or understand what the coach, player or official has heard or seen
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KEY COMPONENTS IN RESOLVING CONFLICT
• GREAT listening skills
• Flexibility
• Willingness to change
• Agree to disagree
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LISTENING SKILLS
• Maintain eye contact
• Do not interrupt; let them finish
• Good posture – maintain a non-threatening position
• Mentally rehearse situations in which you might become emotional
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FLEXIBILITY
• Be able to adjust to any situation
• Do not try to handled the situation alone; use your partner(s)
• Understand you are not going to please everyone; agree to disagree; this is a two way street, but the official has the final say
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WILLINGNESS TO CHANGE
• Get the call right; use your partner
• If change is necessary, make the change
• Support your partner(s) – you are a TEAM
• Understand the psychology of coaches and what motivates them; communicate with them; know your coach
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DEFUSING THE SITUATION
INFORMAL CONFLICTS:• Normal contest situations will not be
stopped
• Use visual acknowledgement with coach or participants
• Use direct eye contact or use a caution sign
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INFORMAL CONFLICT (continued)
• Use short verbal explanation – “I hear you, I will watch for that”– “I saw it differently than that”
• Use humor only when appropriate; timing is of the utmost importance with humor
• Most of all: know your audience
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DEFUSING THE SITUATION
FORMAL CONFLICT• Contest will temporarily be stopped
• You will be directly confronted by the coach. You must evaluate the coach’s degree of intensity. Listen, be flexible, evaluate the situation and make change if necessary
• Help your partner with positive information. Let your partner make the call
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FORMAL CONFLICT (continued)
• Defuse the situation. Do not abuse it; get everyone calmed down
• Establish your comfort zone and avoid letting a coach into your zone of comfort
• Do not lose your composure; this is inexcusable
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FORMAL CONFLICT (continued)
• Always display proper physical demeanor
• Maintain good eye contact
• Maintain proper posture
• Listen rather than challenge
• Give quick precise explanation and move forward
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FORMAL CONFLICT (continued)
• Close the situation as rapidly as possible
• You could use the following statements:– “Coach, I saw it differently than that”– “We need to get back to the contest”
• REMEMBER: Defuse rather than abuse
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FORMAL CONFLICT (continued)
• If conflict continues:– Issue one last formal warning– Administer a yellow card (soccer, volleyball,
water polo)
• If conflict continues:– Administer the appropriate penalty and restart
the contest as soon as possible– Serve as a buffer for your partner
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NECESSARY CHANGE
• If the official is in error, make the necessary change
• Explain to the coach and captain(s) of the team effected of the situation and the change
• Get the contest started as quickly as possible
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IN REVIEW
• Keep one’s composure• Evaluate the conflict• Establish your comfort zone• You must have:
– Good listening skills– Be flexible– Be willing to change if wrong
• Use simple communication to keep a situation from escalating
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IN REVIEW (continued)
• Review concerns to see if change is necessary
• Use your partner(s) as much as possible
• Approach a problem collaboratively
• Administer a penalty if necessary; get the contest started as soon as possible