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Compassion and Behaviour Change
Paul Gilbert PhD, FBPsS, OBE
Mental Health Research Unit, Kingsway Hospital Derby
www. compassionatemind.co.uk
www.compassionatewellbeing.com
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How did CFT Start
• Clinical observation of people struggling
with standard therapies –
• For depression 50% recovery but high
risk of relapse
• Long focus on shame and self-criticism
which are known to be linked to poor
outcomes
• People who struggle with set backs and
emotional regulation
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Working with Slimming World• Many people struggling with weight have
similar problems – dealing with set backs and
emotional regulation
• Could work our on understanding/research on
shame and self-criticism, and the value of
developing compassion, be of any value in SW?
• If groups like SW focused more on shame and
compassion training would that also reduce
depression etc.
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Why is weight control so tough
Culture can render an adaptive phenotype highly maladaptive, e.g. food seeking
Human evolved in times of scarcity
Adapted for the ‘see food and eat it diet’
Adapted for energy conservation
No adapted for quick/internal limitation
Modern Culture: High available cheap and enhanced aesthetically, taste and textures, food
OBESITY, DIABETES HEART DISEASE
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Shame and Self-criticism
• If you are struggling with weight what
are the best sources of coping with set
backs and succeeding?
• Use an affect regulation system that
evolved to promote affiliation and
regulate threat
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Understanding our Motives and
Emotions
Motives evolved because they help animals to survive and leave genes behind
Emotions guide us to our goals and respond if we are succeeding or threatened
There are three types of emotion regulation
1. Those that focus on threat and self-protection
2. Those that focus on doing and achieving
3. Those that focus on contentment and feeling safe
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Types of Affect Regulator Systems
Incentive/resource-
focused
Wanting, pursuing,
achieving, consuming
Activating
Non-wanting/
Affiliative focused
Safeness-kindness
Soothing
Threat-focused
Protection and
Safety-seeking
Activating/inhibiting
Anger, anxiety, disgust
Drive, excite, vitality Content, safe, connected
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Safeness Safeness Safeness Safeness AndAndAndAnd
AffiliationAffiliationAffiliationAffiliation
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Soothing Soothing Soothing Soothing and Affect and Affect and Affect and Affect Regulation Regulation Regulation Regulation
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Self and others
Self and self
ThreatAffiliative/ Soothing
Calms
120 Million year evolving systems to regulate threat
Social relationships are the most important sources of meaning, self regulation and learning
Self-to self
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Shame and Self-
Criticism in Behaviour
Change
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Eating Behaviour – Multiple Factors
Eating
Hunger
Pleasure
Social
Happy
Unhappy
Impulsive
Dissociations
Associations
Controlled eating
Health
Feel better
Look better
Shame
Social pressure
Dietary cycles
Major individual variations - person to person and time to time
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The Undesired/Unattractive Self
“…when ashamed, participants talked about being who they did
not want to be. That is, they experienced themselves as embodying
an anti-ideal, rather than simply not being who they wanted to be.
The participants said things like. "I am fat and ugly“, not "I
failed to be pretty" or "I am bad and evil“, not "I am not as good
as I want to be“. This difference in emphasis is not simply
semantic. Participants insisted that the distinction was
important...”
(Lindsay-Hartz, de Rivera and Mascolo (1995, p. 277 )
It is therefore not so much failing to meet standards but the
meaning and experience of self from falling short
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Self and others
Self and self
ThreatAffiliative/ Soothing
Shame Blocks affiliative flow
Self-to self
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Coping with Shame
Try new diets
Joins groups
Good intentions
Hope
Feel Inferior
Shame
Self-critical
Anger, anxiety, disgust
Drive, excite, vitality Content, safe, connected
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Falling back into shame and self-
criticisms – self dislike
Can’t do it
Can’t maintain it
Fail
Feel Inferior
Shame
Self critical
Anger, anxiety, disgust
Drive, excite, vitality Content, safe, connected
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Meal
SexualBully-threat
Emotion BrainEmotion BrainEmotion BrainEmotion Brain
Stomach acid
SalivaArousal
Fearful
Depressed
How our own thoughts and images affect our brains
Kind, warm
and caring
Soothed
Safe
Meal Sex Bully-
threat
Compassion
Pink represents our inner images and thoughts
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Cautions of behaviour change and
national ideas
• What happens to those who try and fail?
• What happens if we say – Oh it is just about effort and knowledge?
• If we are not careful we are setting people up for shame and depression – especially in the modern world
• Behaviour change must focus on failure, not just relapse! That is not people’s language.
• The secret of success is the ability to fail
• De-shaming and de-blaming
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Types of Affect Regulator Systems
Incentive/resource-
focused
Wanting, pursuing,
achieving, consuming
Activating
Non-wanting/
Affiliative focused
Safeness-kindness
Soothing
Threat-focused
Protection and
Safety-seeking
Activating/inhibiting
Anger, anxiety, disgust
Drive, excite, vitality Content, safe, connected
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The Two Psychologies of
Compassion
Compassion can be defined in many ways: “As asensitivity to the suffering of self and others with adeep commitment to try to relieve it and preventit”, Dalai Lama
Two different Psychologies
– To approach and engage with suffering
– To work to alleviation suffering
Each more complex that might at first seem
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Compassionate Mind - Engagement
Care for
well-being
Sensitivity Sympathy
Distress
tolerance
EmpathyNon-Judgement
Compassion
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Compassionate Mind - Alleviation
Imagery
Attention Reasoning
Feeling Behaviour
Sensory
Care for
well-being
Sensitivity Sympathy
Distress
tolerance
EmpathyNon-Judgement
Compassion
ATTRIBUTESATTRIBUTESATTRIBUTESATTRIBUTES
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Compassionate mind/mentality
AttentionThinking
Reasoning
Behaviour
Motivation Emotions
Imagery Fantasy Compassion
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Threatened mind can block compassion
AttentionThinking
Reasoning
Behaviour
Motivation Emotions
Imagery Fantasy Threat
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Ideas
• De-shame people – give accurate information of what we are up against
• Understand the motivational and emotional drivers of behaviour change
• Address the issue in a biopsychosocial context –food industry and Media images
• Develop group support for encouragement but also for when things do not work out (disappointment, shame and self-criticism)
• Develop (self) compassion – activate green system.
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