Coaching for Life aka "Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking?"
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Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking?
REA Group
02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne
@realestate_auVictoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel
“You don’t have to be sick to become better!”
(Michael Josephson)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar)
“The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know!”
“But is there a devil at all on the new road?”
Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar)
Support
http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx)
forwardmove
goals
“Setting a negative goal is like going shopping with a list of things that you do not want to buy.” Joseph O’Connor
& Andrea Lages
http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC)
The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown)
You!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003)
It’sYou!
about
Filter
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh)
Beliefs
http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver)
“What the thinker thinks, the prover proves!”
(Robert Anton Wilson)
“Life is 10% How You Make It and 90% How you Take It“ (Irving Berlin)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617 (Manuel Bahamondez H) Choice
Attitude
http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming)
Pull, not push
‘But’ is the great eraser.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill)
EmpoweringLimiting
Pressure Words
Abstract Words
shouldmust have to
need to ought to
failure
relationship
stress
want to
don’t want toChoice
frustration
success
Unconsidered Opinionsbetter
obviously clearly
worse
Overgeneralizationsnever
nobody always
can’t
can
everybody
Beliefs
http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann)
“Life begins at the end ofyour comfort zone.”
(Neale Donald Walsch, Autor)
There is a solution to every problem. (NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst)
Anything can be accomplished when the task is taken in small enough chunks.
(NLP Presupposition)
You cannot not communicate
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL)
The Meaning of Your Communication is the response you get
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen)
“I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.“
(Benjamin Franklin)
FailureFeedback
is only
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)
Every behaviour has a positive intention.
(NLP Presupposition)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot)
“You have not yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.”
Ability
Joseph O’Connor & Andrea Lages
Get your
out of the way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato)
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)
silence!courage for
http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul Holloway)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod)
“Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing.” (Euripides)
PowerfulQuestions
http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget)
What...? How...? When...?
Why...?
FreshPerspective
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mathias-erhart/280056079 (mathias-erhart)
What If...?
http://ww
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/photos/jakecaptive/3205277810 (@boetter)
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http://www.flickr.com/photos/popculturegeek/4878889504 (Pop Culture Geek)
challenge free
take
Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages
http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley)
Meetings
Decision
http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy)
making
PerformanceReviews
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor - Food Fetishist)
Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons)
Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee)
Different people, great variety
http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307 (Nagarjun)
Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd)
Success
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell University
Happy Team
http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell)
Steps?
What are you going to do as
a first step?
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“Triumph is just a little umph added to try.” (Tim Owens)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate)
disclosed
http://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)
“Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach” by Joseph O’Connor, & Andrea Lages www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP
TED Talk: “Your body language shapes who you are” by Amy Cuddywww.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html
Manifesto for Agile Software Developmentwww.agilemanifesto.org
What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI
“Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not You’ll Succeed”http://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1
“Strengthsfinder 2.0” by Tom Rathhttp://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0
Secrets
Thank you :)Iteration Manager
& Life CoachingStudent
02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne
@Erdbeervogel
linkedin.com/in/victoriaschifferGerman for “Strawberry-Bird”, hence the avatar
Victoria Schiffer