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My session on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMuX-MILLck My speaker profile: http://lanyrd.com/profile/erdbeervogel/ I love being around awesome people, who build great products customers desire. I love learning from and together with these amazing minds. I love creating the right environment for teams to flourish. I love change, and learning from new experiences. I love working in Agile environments. How about you? I bet there are some elements of this list why you're in Agile, too. And you can probably add even more elements to it. The Agile Manifesto states amongst others individuals and interactions, customer collaboration and responding to change. In our everyday life doing Agile we already respect these aspects in many ways. But do we practice what we preach as best we can? I'd like to challenge your current way of thinking about people and processes. I'd like to challenge you to focus on you, before you focus on others. I'd like to challenge your current way of reflecting. I'd like to inspire you to go different ways. I'd like to inspire you to inspire others. Come along to be inspired by Life Coaching and thus to benefit our Agile Thinking! I've done a 140 seconds session on "What the thinker thinks, the prover proves" this year. This can be a teaser of what you can expect from my session :) http://stoosconnect.nl/videos/victoria-schiffer/

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Agile Coaching? Sure thing! What about Life Coaching in Agile Thinking?

REA Group

02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne

@realestate_auVictoria Schiffer @Erdbeervogel

You dont have to be sick to become better!

(Michael Josephson)http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/ (Tambako the Jaguar)

The devil you know is better than the devil you don't know!

But is there a devil at all on the new road?

Joseph OConnor & Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tambako/9352616577 (Tambako the Jaguar)

Support

http://www.flickr.com/photos/gnuckx/8076464389 (Gnuckx)

forwardmove

goals

Setting a negative goal is like going shopping with a list of things that you do not want to buy. Joseph OConnor & Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/smitty/199457812 (smitty42)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/carbonnyc/8456219474 (CarbonNYC)

The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday. (Unknown)

You!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/tmab2003/4277896845/ (TMAB2003)

ItsYou!

about

Filter

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kevinpoh/4545094285 (kevinpoh)

Beliefs

http://www.flickr.com/photos/baileysjunk/3631094798 (BaileyRaeWeaver)

What the thinker thinks, the prover proves!

(Robert Anton Wilson)

Life is 10% How You Make It and 90% How you Take It (Irving Berlin)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mabahamo/4751785617 (Manuel Bahamondez H) Choice

Attitude

http://www.flickr.com/photos/peter-trimming/6611749509 (Peter G Trimming)

Pull, not push

But is the great eraser.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/snakebiteheart-/6847637842 (SnakeBite Heart)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/bluehillranch/6420193921 (305 Seahill)

EmpoweringLimiting

Pressure Words

Abstract Words

shouldmust have to

need to ought to

failure

relationship

stress

want to

dont want toChoice

frustration

success

Unconsidered Opinionsbetter

obviously clearly

worse

Overgeneralizationsnever

nobody always

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everybody

Beliefs

http://www.flickr.com/photos/criminalintent/5229017560 (Lars Plougmann)

Life begins at the end ofyour comfort zone.

(Neale Donald Walsch, Autor)

There is a solution to every problem. (NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/eriwst/2421129047 (eriwst)

Anything can be accomplished when the task is taken in small enough chunks.

(NLP Presupposition)

You cannot not communicate

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/marcel030nl/2556824810 (Marcel030NL)

The Meaning of Your Communication is the response you get

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/markusthorsen/3091394736 (markusthorsen)

I didn't fail the test, I just found 100 ways to do it wrong.

(Benjamin Franklin)

FailureFeedbackis only

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mikeparker/1393311040 (Michael H Parker)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/56380734@N05/5914710795 (Comrade Foot Jens Rost)

Every behaviour has a positive intention.

(NLP Presupposition)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/laserstars/908946494 (jpctalbot)

You have not yet reached the limit of what you are capable of.

Ability

Joseph OConnor & Andrea Lages

Get your

out of the way!http://www.flickr.com/photos/angeldye/7967897282 (angeldye)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sparetomato/2641110677 (sparetomato)

Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply. (Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People)

silence!courage for

http://www.flickr.com/photos/paulholloway/2104762221 (Paul Holloway)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcleod/7004084690 (Scott McLeod)

Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing. (Euripides)

PowerfulQuestions

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hygienematters/5452837491 (SCA Svenska Cellulosa Aktiebolaget)

What...? How...? When...?

Why...?

FreshPerspective

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What If...?

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challenge free

take

Joseph OConnor, & Andrea Lages

http://www.flickr.com/photos/visualpunch/8745184787 (visualpun.ch)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/pagedooley/6861256042 (kevin dooley)

Meetings

Decision

http://www.flickr.com/photos/inafrenzy/5787848646 (InaFrenzy)

making

PerformanceReviews

http://www.flickr.com/photos/lifeontheedge/6871511101 (Marshall Astor - Food Fetishist)

Conversationhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/gibbons/1400055656 (Esther Gibbons)

Difficult Situationshttp://www.flickr.com/photos/31762350@N03/4090808706 (al_bee)

Different people, great variety

http://www.flickr.com/photos/nagarjun/6387774307 (Nagarjun)

Learninghttp://www.flickr.com/photos/telachhe/3342173731 (Tela Chhe)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/jayneandd/4451411132 (jayneandd)

Success

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kheelcenter/5279692906/ von Kheel Center, Cornell University

Happy Team

http://www.flickr.com/photos/frenchy/30217136/ (Francois Schnell)

Steps?

What are you going to do as

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Triumph is just a little umph added to try. (Tim Owens)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/stannate/3912535987 (stannate)

disclosedhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/kjfnjy/5249145754 (Ken and Nyetta)

Coaching with NLP: How to be a Master Coach by Joseph OConnor, & Andrea Lages www.goodreads.com/book/show/258916.Coaching_with_NLP

TED Talk: Your body language shapes who you are by Amy Cuddywww.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html

Manifesto for Agile Software Developmentwww.agilemanifesto.org

What The Thinker Thinks, The Prover Proves - 140 sec session, Stoos Connect NL 2013www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4GLy_zJjcI

Your Attitude Determines Whether Or Not Youll Succeedhttp://www.businessinsider.com.au/attitude-determines-success-2013-1

Strengthsfinder 2.0 by Tom Rathhttp://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56454.StrengthsFinder_2_0

Secrets

Thank you :)Iteration Manager

& Life CoachingStudent

02/08/2013 | LAST Melbourne

@Erdbeervogel

linkedin.com/in/victoriaschifferGerman for Strawberry-Bird, hence the avatar

Victoria Schiffer