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Coaching for
Leadership Survival
Max Coates
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Turning Heads
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The Candle Problem
Attach the candle to the
wall or corkboard so that
the wax does not drip on
the table.
You have: -
• Candle
• Box of matches
• Box of drawing pins
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In a study of skills that distinguish star
performers in every field from entry-level
jobs to executive positions, the single most
important factor was not I.Q., advanced
degrees, or technical experience; it was
E.Q.
I.Q. and academic skills are entry-level
requirements for jobs of all kinds...but have
little to do with how you’ll succeed once
you get there. Emotional intelligence
accounts for 90 percent of what’s required
for leadership.
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Limits and Boundaries
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Working with
challenging
clients
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Cortex - 40 neural impulses per second
Limbic System - 40 million neural impulses per second
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Slot machine
7 + 2
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Visual Acuity Test
Is rectangle A < = > rectangle B?
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Which is larger, South America or Europe?
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Is South America < = > Europe?
The answer is…South America
South America is 6.9 million Square Miles
Europe is 3.8 million square miles
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Peter’s Projection
South America
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Reticular Activating
System
Bias to the negative
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Self - Esteem
Nathaniel Brandon
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The Problem With Turkeys
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George W.
Confirmation Bias
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Stress
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Back to Badbury Rings
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Stress tops the lot
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It is all about focus
Explanatory style
All or nothing
Perfectionism
Catastrophisation
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Mentoring / Coaching for: -
Performance
Wellbeing
Creativity
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Five things to do approaches
Listen
Encourage relaxation (the opposite of depression)
Explore reframing ( work with the prevailing story, Seligman)
Challenge language
Support life style change
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Three things not to do: -
Take charge (adapted parent, do not be too effusive)
Do not be judgmental
Do not move to solutions too early (SMART targets, GROW etc)
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Spotting a bad coach
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Mc Clelland - Diagnostic
Break 5 minutes
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Personality Preference and Leadership
Impact
Affiliative
InfluenceAchievement
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Personality Preference and Leadership
Impact
Erotic
NarcissisticObessive
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The Candle Problem
Attach the candle to the
wall or corkboard so that
the wax does not drip on
the table.
You have: -
• Candle
• Box of matches
• Box of drawing pins
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Candle Problem
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Purpose
Autonomy Mastery
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Any questions?
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“Turning Heads” was written and presented by Max Coates
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