Christy Whitman’s intervieW With Jack M. Zufelt · Jack M. Zufelt: well to be free to do what I...

The ArT of Having it all

Christy Whitman’s

intervieW WithJack M. Zufelt


Christy Whitman, The Acclaimed New York Times Best-Selling Author

A Woman’s Guide to Unlimited abundance

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Having it all is not about striving for perfection, or about living our lives according to someone else’s standards

or expectations (we’ve done that for far too long).

It’s not about working ourselves to a state of exhaustion, spreading ourselves too thin, or trading inner peace and

contentment for outer trinkets of success.

Been there. Done that too.

Having it all simply means having access to all of yourself, in any moment you choose it, and in every

aspect of life that is important to you.

Go here to learn exactly how you too, can “Have it All”’





4 Questions with christy whitMan

c: I would like to ask you how do you define having your all in your life?

Jack M. Zufelt: well to be free to do what I want when I want without limitation I’ve got priorities. My highest priority is my relationship with God that my

relationship with my wife and my children and now I got grandkids. But after those the rest of the world. So that I can use the time and the knowledge that wisdom that God gave me to bless the lives of others and that is one of the most rewarding things you can do. Who by the way I need to make money along the way too, so I sell my books CDs and do seminars all around the world.

c: What’s the core belief that you hold to be true either about yourself or the universe for you to really experience your

life where you are really having it all?

Jack M. Zufelt: will there are two things that come together and they are connected in such a way there is no space between them. The first one is I have proven

that anyone can succeed if they want it bad enough. My background says I should not be successful. I was a country bumpkin and never been to college, have no formal education I certainly didn’t have any self-esteem and that no I didn’t have any money, yet I went on to be highly successful so far I can do it anybody can do it as long as they have the ability to choose. If they’ve given their ability to choose over to alcohol or drugs or something like that, all bets are off. If they have the ability to choose all they’ve got to do is figure out what they want with all their heart not a quarter hearted not halfhearted but all their heart and they have the power as you and I to learn how to get it I don’t care if it’s being a veterinarian at dentist an entrepreneur or great parent. The second thing is I’ve learned that any two people can succeed at anything as long as one of them is God. So when you have God on your side with our ability to learn I believe our brains job is to give the heart what it wants. Let’s find out what the heart wants and then learn from a teacher trainer manager course class book seminar or somebody like you or me, how to





get it and then it’s only a short learning curve. So if you’ve got an expert to show you how to get what you want and you listen to them follow their advice, it’s only a matter of time.

c: So when you’re in that state, in that present moment and you really feel like you do have it all, can you just describe

what it is of that essence of how you feel?

Jack M. Zufelt: yes I can and is described in one of the Bible scriptures I love a lot it says man is that he might have joy. When I have a life that is rich and

rewarding because I have joy and all six areas of my life at the same time. Those areas I told you who are the highest priority God me my wife and I my kids my grandkids and in the rest of the world. Although by the way earning a living is a part of that which is the financial arena when you are having joy in all those areas at the same time you are busy. I am really busy doing all kinds of things flying around the world and even calls like this today, I have a busy life but I am juggling all of these balls that I just love. There isn’t one ball in there but I don’t like. However there are some things that people need to get clear on this, there are some things that you might not like while you are giving to the things you do like. For example if you want to get in shape, you have to exercise there is no way around that you have to do it. If you want to be a black belt in karate which I am, you have to work out and it will take about four years. So there are have to’s, to get to want to’s and some of those have to’s are very hard, they’re scary, risks, may be expensive sometimes but you don’t mind them if they are getting you to where you want to go. So that’s what I live is on that path 100% of the time is that I am always on path either having what I want or on path to getting what I want. And part of that is helping others do the same thing so they too can have joy all the time in their lives.





c: What is one tip so others can feel that essence in their lives?

Jack M. Zufelt: okay here is the one tip and this is why my books CDs and seminars are so popular 97% of the people don’t know this so I’m going to teach it right

now. Here is the tip. The number one cause for achievement success and happiness is doing what you love to do 97% of the people out there cannot accurately identified what they want in their heart with all their heart 100 on a scale of 1 to 100 it’s 100 it’s not 50 on a scale or 70, it’s 100. That’s why I called the DNA of success because the DNA of life of course is because what we are but the DNA of success is knowing what you want so that you will then put your time energy effort knowledge money into getting it. Number one tip I give to everybody there are only two things it takes to be successful in number one is knowing what you want to get what you want and if 97% of the people have a problem with that, that’s why wrote that book so that the world could find out how to figure out what they want. Once you know that then this (pointing to his head) kicks in and it helps you get it. Here’s a quick story. When I do my seminars I am by the audience member up to show the audience this is true. I get volunteers there was a woman about your age in the audience and I asked her what is the first thing that you want that you are not getting in your life? She instantly said more money. Financial independence. And I said on a scale from 1 to 100 that’s not 100 and I could tell by her spatial expressions and tone of voice everything about her was saying it’s not 100 and she said of course it is. Who wouldn’t want more money should begin to argue with me so I didn’t argue I never argue all I did was that’s the second question: if you had more money or financial independence what would that give you that you are not getting? The instant answer again, I would travel I love to travel and see whole world, I said Mary that’s not 100 on the scale either. Now she got angry with me. She said Jack this is not working you do not know me I do love to travel and they do need money to do that. So this is not working. So I asked the second question again if you could travel what would that give you that you don’t have? She went like this… hmm.. 10 seconds of silence looking up and I noticed when people look up they are looking in their head so she looked up and said quietly into the microphone, peace. So here’s what I do know somebody wants peace that implies they don’t have it and something is missing. So I then asked if you could have peace because that wasn’t 100 either it was higher than the other two it still wasn’t 100, so if you could have peace what would that give you? This time should looked at the floor for another 10 or 15 seconds





and a notice on people look down there looking into their heart. So should look down when she looked up tears are running down her cheeks and she was crying and she said I’d be getting along with my husband. What if I could show you how to get along with your husband? She said I would give anything compare that to I want financial independence of want travel I want peace, I give anything. I turned to the audience and said major that, that was 100. Now her head started to kick in with some facts she said we can’t get along we had been trying for five years and it’s just not working we are talking divorce I said Mary, what if I could show you have that work out she said it won’t. We have tried everything. I said no you haven’t Mary she said yes we have she started arguing with me again. You don’t know we have spent money on counselors. I said Mary you have not tried me. She said okay I can’t argue with that what do know that I don’t know? I gave her two sentences to say to her husband this was an all-day seminar I said what are you leave it was 11:30 in the morning I said go leave and tell him this first I found out he wasn’t an alcoholic or drug addict wasn’t abusive they were just butting heads, they were not compatible theoretically. She said if I tell him that he will get mad. I said well listen Mary you have a choice to make you either do it or you don’t it’s your call. She said okay I will do that but he’s going to get mad. And results she goes home we break for lunch and in an hour she comes back and I am on stage doing my seminar and I see her walking with about 400 people in the room. I call her up on stage and said what happened and she was grinning from ear to ear she said it was a miracle. The whole audience was anxious to hear this miracle. She said I told him what you said to say and he didn’t get mad you started to cry. And he said I want that too. And she then said we sat on the couch and for the first time in two years he held me and we just cried together. Jack that is a miracle. So I said to the audience when you are focusing on the core desire what I call the core is 100 on the scale what you want to the core of your very being which was to get along with her husband, it’s like magic happens. Strength comes in and I called the conquering force within all of us. It comes into play and it will overcome every barrier every obstacle that exist. Jump ahead six months I called her to see how things were going and if she was still okay with her husband. She said oh I had never been happier. I said oh that’s really good news what about financial independence? Well our finances aren’t the best but we are happy are ok. What about travel? Oh why do love to travel but I’m not going anywhere without my husband and we don’t have a need to go anywhere. How about peace? She said I am full of peace. All because we identified one of her core desires which was you. Magic happens when you understand what you want with all your heart and that is the DNA of all success.





Jack ZufeltJack Zufelt is one of the most successful speakers and business consultants on the national and international scene. He is very popular keynote speaker. His client list includes companies and associations of all sizes including many Fortune 500 companies. His success as a speaker and trainer on achievement is legendary.

He has won worldwide acclaim for blazing a trail that others can easily understand and follow. Dozens of luminaries, celebrities and corporate business leaders give him and his revolutionary concepts glowing testimonials. Jack is the only speaker on the planet who can demonstrate on stage how to accurately identify Core Desires and immediately create an unstoppable chain reaction culminating success. This is an amazing thing to watch.

As a super achieving businessman with a vast amount of experience in many different corporate arenas and as a Venture Capitalist, he has invested over 22 million dollars in several different businesses. They include real estate, coal mines, eight Unishippers franchises, six automotive tune and quick lube franchises, manufacturing, personal development and extremely successful high tech computer games called, “Cinemaware”.

He is a highly acclaimed and honored speaker and trainer, Jack has achieved “Celebrity” status as a speaker and trainer because of the results he gets.

Those who see and hear him on stage often refer him to as a miracle worker. Many have called him the Wizard of Awes because what he does with an audience. The results he creates for people right on stage is, indeed, awesome.

Jack’s best-selling book, The DNA of Success, has catapulted him into the limelight around the globe as a celebrity business consultant, keynote speaker and trainer all around the world.

www.jackzufelt.com





Right at this moment, no matter how you are feeling, no matter how in debt you might be, no matter how old you are or how much you weigh, and no matter what the condition of your relationships might be, you have the power to re-create yourself and your life exactly the way you desire it to be – and quite frankly, the way you deserve it to be.

Regardless of how big a gap exists between what you want and what you currently have, within you is the ability to effortlessly and joyfully bridge that gap in virtually every aspect of your life.

You can have it all, how you define it, how you want it. You do have the power to create it.

Go here to learn exactly how you can start having it all today!

www.theartofhavingitall.com

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