Chat Room Safety

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Chat Rooms Presentation by Ms. Osborne SIS Librarian

Transcript of Chat Room Safety

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Chat Rooms

Presentation by Ms. OsborneSIS Librarian

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Chat rooms are an area of the web where you need to be the most careful.

It's easy to forget that you are in a public "place" & you don't necessarily know the true identity of anyone in the room.

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Lose of Privacy

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Never give out Private Information• Credit card numbers• School name• Pictures• Mother’s Maiden Name• Birthday

• Last name• Address• Phone numbers• Social Security Numbers• Passwords

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Who can see what you put online?

• Your parents & grandparents• Friends & neighbors• Future spouse & in-laws• Future boss & friends• Future colleges

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Be careful what you talk about• Be cautious when

communicating with people you don’t know, especiallyif the conversation starts to be about sex or physical details.

• Don’t lead them on - you don’t want to be the target of a predator’s grooming.

• Stop, Block, and Tell

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Stop, Block and Tell

If you are targeted by a cyberbully:• STOP!

Don't do anything. Take 5! to calm down.

• Block! Block the cyberbully or limit all communications to those on your buddy list.

• and Tell! Tell a trusted adult, you don't have to face this alone.

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Victim vs. Perpetrator

• Kids aren't just potential victims. They also can do things that can hurt other people.

• This can range from being rude and obnoxious to committing crimes online.

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• Anything you say about anyone can be viewed by people all over the world and can have a damaging effect on the person being talked about.

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• You should never post anything about another person that could in any way harm that person.

• That includes publishing names, addresses, or phone numbers of anyone you know.

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Refrain from saying bad things about other people in public forums, even if you feel they are true, and even if you are angry with that person.

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Data Cannotbe Deleted

• Only share information in chat rooms that you want everyone in the world to know about

• Deleted pictures & information are NEVERgone and can be found years later

• Google your name often

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Posting Photos

Never send your picture without first

asking a parent.

Why?

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Internet Safety Tip• Never arrange a meeting without asking a

parent. • If a parent agrees, you should meet in a

public place with your parent accompanying you; NEVER ALONE

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Never respond to messages that are:

BelligerentSuggestive ObsceneThreateningMake you feel uncomfortable

Inappropriate Messages

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How to Prevent Online Fights

• Discuss ways to deal with anger. • It's not your fault if someone is rude,

obnoxious, belligerent, or mean, • But do not respond to comments that are

mean and provocative. • Stop, Block, and Tell

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Online Fights

• It's normal to sometimes get angry• If you express anger on the Internet it's

sometimes difficult to resolve disputes. • You don't have the normal clues you get when

you're with someone in person. • When people are communicating with text, or in

writing, sarcasm and some humor can be insulting instead of funny.

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Be Respectful Online

• Avoid getting into online arguments / disagreements. • Speak your mind in forums, newsgroups, & chat

sessions, but • Treat others with respect and try not to use words

that could be offensive. • If you are using humor or sarcasm, you can

sometimes avoid misunderstandings by using emoticons (smileys) that express emotions: A simple ":-)" (for "grin") next to a statement can make all the difference.

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Read between the “lines.”

• It may be fun to check out new people for friendship or romance, but be aware that, while some people are nice, others act nice because they’re trying to get something.

• Flattering or supportive messages may be more about manipulation than friendship or romance.

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Chat warning signs…

• “Let’s go private.” (leave the public chatroomand create a private chat or move to instant-messaging or phone texting)

• “Where’s your computer in the house?”• “I know someone who can get you a

modeling job.”• “I know a way you can earn money fast.”• “You seem sad. Tell me what’s bothering

you.”• “What’s your phone number?” “You are the

love of my life.”

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How to Avoid Problems in Chat Rooms

• Don’t go into unmoderated chat rooms. Only enter rooms run by a reputable company or organization that monitors activity.

• Consider creating a "chat" screen name. This name would be one that is different than your e-mail address. This could help prevent unwanted Spam mail from coming to you.

• Never give out personal information in a chat room. • Never agree to get together with anyone you meet

in a chat room without first checking with your parents.

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Behavior Checklist for Chat Rooms

�Inappropriate behavior in chat rooms:�Bad language�Sexual comments�Cyberbullying

�Remember that people are not always who they seem to be.

�Be very careful about people who offer easy solutions to difficult problems or make offers that are "too good to be true."

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Works Cited

• http://www.safekids.com/• http://www.wiredkids.org/• http://www.fbi.gov/cyberinvest/cyberhome.

htm• http://www.getnetwise.org/• http://www.cyberbully411.org/