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Chapter: 4
Thematic pattern and Adolescence of Ruskin Bond's Works
Let me test, let me try, let me rea~h,
Let me fly!
Push Me out of the nest (but not too fast).
There is much I don't know.
There are things that I want - don't
Hide me from the sight of the world.
Give me room, give me time. There
Are things I'm not frightened
To try.
Let me tumble and spring, let me go,
Let me be. Wait and see-
I am growing, world.
Water me with the wisdom of
Your tears. (David 260)
The aspirations and confusions of adolescents are wonderfully
brought out in the poem quoted above. Puberty can be an exciting time
for young people, but one that generally includes a few disturbing
moments for everyone involved. Adolescents are normally occupied with
their changing body, but their anxieties and concerns often remain
unstated, these tribulations and the psyche of adolescents, therefore
remain difficult for others to understand. From the novels, short stories
and his own memoir of Ruskin Bond discussed in earlier chapters, we
know now that Bond has portrayed adolescents in all colours.
Looking at the works of Bond, we find that following issues
pertaining to adolescence are treated by Bond:
• Physical changes and awareness of adolescents to it.
• Parent - child· conflict
• Sexuality of teenagers
• Disturbing effects of broken families
• Alienation experienced by adolescents
• Volatile nature of adolescents
• Importance of friends and groups
• Career anxiety
• Depression and frustration
• Habit of day - dreaming and introspection
• Adult world as viewed by adolescents.
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The general impression of adolescent world among the adult people
is that years covering adolescence are the 'best years oflife'. The reason
to have such an idea of the adolescence is because teenagers are
physically strong and enthusiastic. They have that 'never say die' spirit.
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However, this optimistic picture is only part of the reality. Life for many
adolescents is a excruciating tug of war filled with mixed messages and
conflicting demands from the society. 'Growing up' is to manage a path
between independence and dependence on others. Adolescence is not all
about physical changes, but physical changes, indeed, proclaim the onset
of puberty.
In Ruskin's works, we find that adolescents are conscious about
their body changes. In The Room on the Roof Rusty becomes conscious
about these changes when he attacks his guardian Mr. Harrison. New
found physical powers make him realize that he is no longer a child.
Body changes bring a positive effect on Rusty. Even psychologists agree
that when adolescents are described as 'Gender stereotypes', for a boy -
physical changes are symbolized by greater strength, manly voice,
building of muscles and increase in height. Favourable body changes
make the adolescent confident about his image. When Rusty fights with
his guardian and hits him over and over, he is relishing this new found
confidence which has to sustain him in a world of problems and
confusion. This inter effect of physical maturity and psychological
confidence is wonderfully brought out by Bond. New gained physical
power is also important for a male child because it determines the
acceptance among peers. Adolescence is a time when young adults begin
to separate from their parents and develop their own identity. Acceptance
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by peers at this time is of utmost importance. The other teenagers in the
group also have their ideas of acceptability borrowed from the culture and
media. A boy who is very emotional and sensitive and cries over trifles
will not be looked upon favourably. Adolescents who boast about their
physical strength and powers have a borrowed idea that a male is
supposed to be rough and tough. 'Crying' is a feminine characteristic.
We find that Rusty before his encounter with Mr. Harrison
remained shy and lost. Even when opportunities came for friendship, he
refrained, but once he becomes aware that he is a child no more, gains in
confidence and becomes more social. He forms friendship with sturdy
boys like Ranbir and Somi and becomes more extrovert. Thus, Bond has
wonderfully shown that favourable body changes at the start of
adolescence not only help in building a confidence level psychologically,
but also makes an adolescent socially more acceptable both in his own
sex and the opposite. Rusty's physical assault at the time ofHoli festival
can also be treated as a test of his stamina and temperament. When Rusty
was invited to play holi, he hesitated at first because of the fear of his
guardian, but Somi and others started to make fun of him by calling him a
snob. Somi teased him that (unlike man) Rusty is afraid of spoiling his
clothes and appearance. When Rust agrees to play holi, he is given heart
approval from his friends. On the other hand, we find that Suri in the
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same novel remains the butt of ridicule because he has girlish appearance
and habits.
Physical changes come as a surprise even for the adolescents
themselves. Once being aware of it, they start spending a lot of time in
front of mirror, exploring their body. Rusty, when he settles in Mr.
Kapoor's house, stands in front of the mirror and admiringly looks at his
oiled body. The reason for loving the physical changes now, is not
acceptability in.one's own sex-group. He wants himself to look more
handsome because he wants to attract Meena Kapoor - his new found
love. He now attributes the physical changes and growth to his falling in
love:
When Rusty rubbed the oil on his limbs, he noticed the
change in his physique. He had lost his puppy fat, and there
was more muscle to his body; his complexion was a
healthier colour, and his pimples had almost disappeared.
Nearly everyone had advised him about pimples: drink dahi,
said Somi's mother, don't eat fat, eat carrots, said Somi,
plenty offruit: mangoes! Said Kishen; not at all, Oranges;
see a doctor, said Meena; have a whisky, said Kapoor; but
the pimples disappeared without any of these remedies, and
Rusty put it down to his falling in 10ve.(Bond, ROR 620 )
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Here, we find that physical changes are associated with emotions
and feelings also. In Delhi is not Far, we find the narrator lying naked on
the floor and gaining awareness of his body through cool sensation of the
touch with floor. He observes his navel, the hairs on his belly and feels
the languid aspects of his genitals.
In The Sensualist - much criticized work of Ruskin on account of
the overdose of overt sexual descriptions; we find that the narrator is
taught about body changes, even before his adolescence by Mulia - the
servant woman. From early adolescence, he is given number of herbs by
Mulia to make him grow physically and expert in sexual adventures. Here
we find that the narrator becomes aware of physical changes through the
behaviour ofMulia and gains in confidence about his virility.
In 'Love is a Sad Song', Sushila - an adolescent becomes aware of
the changes in her body when the paternal feelings of the narrator
transforms in to sexual advances. A girl who used to run naked in rain
without any inhibitions in the presence of the narrator starts behaving like
a mature woman.
Thus, we find that in Bond, the physical changes bring different
effects on different sexes. Bond himself writes in Delhi is not Far:
"".this is the most fascinating age when a boy becomes a
man - it is interesting both physically and mentally. The
growth of the boy's hair, the toning of the muscles, the
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consciousness of growing and changing and maturing -
never again will there be so much change and development
in so short a period of time. The body exudes virility in full
of currents and counter currents.
For a girl- puberty is a frightening age when alarming
things begin to happen in her body. For a boy - it is an age
of self assertion, of growing confidence in himself and in his
attitude to the world. His physical changes are a source of
happiness and pride." (Bond, DNF 779)
Another issue explored by Bond in his novels and short stories is
parent - child conflict or generation gap. Psychologists, sociologists and
men ofletters - all have tried to explore this problem which is faced by
adolescents. The reason why parent - child conflict reaches a culminating
point during adolescence is the new found ability of a teenager to think
independently. As young children, all of us have little understanding of
anything we can not see, hear, taste or touch. Further, children view
people as being rather constant. By the time of adolescence, however, we
are capable of more complex operations. This period is characterized by
the ability to think abstractly, propose theoretical situations, reason
logically, and look at issues from another's point of view. These new
abilities allow adolescents to question the inconsistencies they find in the
world. It becomes vitally important for a parent at this time to be
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supportive. When Ruskin himself grew as an adolescent, he used to ask
number of questions to his father. It must have been very difficult for his
father to bring up a self willed and introvert boy like Ruskin, but he did
his best. He spent lot of time with Ruskin and gave him that all important
companionship. Ruskin has also shown in his works how lack of support
on the part of parent can create havoc in the life of an adolescent. This is
exemplified by Rusty and Kishen in The Room on the Roof and Vagrants
in the Valley. Rusty questions the values of Mr. Harrison when Mr.
Harrison tells him that it is unhealthy to venture into the prohibited Indian
bazaar. Rusty argues back that although he did go to the bazaar and
played with Indian boys - nothing has happened to him. Rusty can also
not understand why sweeper boy is considered as an untouchable.
This questioning the established values may be termed as
'generation gap' but it has its refreshing impact on the society. It is
always better to form one's own ideas of the world rather than accepting
the biased and prejudiced opinions of the adults. Psychologists believe
that this conflict sometimes arises because the adolescent realizes that the
opinions and value systems of the adults are not always genuine.
Adolescents are better occupied with this new found intellectual capacity,
but they may not always use them. An example ofthis could be seen in a
conversation with a parent, where an adolescent has the ability to see the
parent's view point, but obstinately resists. This opposition is often the
result of the child's detection that their parents' opinions are not
necessarily the final rule.
We also find that Kishen in The Room on the Roof is rebellious.
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When Meena asks him not to eat the bazaar food, he argues back. Here,
Kishen does not believe his mother to be wrong. He also knows that
eating the bazaar food is not good for health, but he wants to maintain
that his own view, his own likes are equally acceptable and valid.
Psychologist Smetana writes:
Social reasoning is related to increased conflict. This is
because adolescents are more likely to feel that many issues
should be a matter of personal choice instead of parent's
opinion which is a social convention. For example, a parent
may say, "in my house, your room will be clean" but the
teen thinks, "this is my room, so I don't have to keep it
clean." Arguments commonly arise over issues similar to
this one. < http://www.oberlin.edu>
When Rusty is appointed as a tutor of English for Kishen, Meena Kapoor
assigns him a detailed Programme of how he should teach and improve
Kishen: "You can give Kishen his lessons in the morning until twelve
o'clock ... then you can have your food ... " (Bond, ROR 593)
Here, we find that Kishen becomes restless because, on one hand
his father Mr.Kapoor is careless about his brought up and teaches him
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nothing but virtues of chewing gum, his mother who is too much
concerned about his habits is trying to plan everything for his career.
Adolescents need the companionship of parents no doubt but parents
should be careful not to take the driver's seat when deciding the careers
of their children. Carri Arndt writes:
Communication is very important part of any good
relationship. This is especially true for the relationship
between parents and their children. Unfortunately, in
adolescence, this task becomes more difficult. One reason
why this is difficult is because parents often see themselves
as being 'managers' of their children. They are constantly
organizing their children's lives ... this is fine until late
childhood, however causes problems at the beginning, and
all throughout adolescence. Instead of being 'managers' of
their child's life, parents need to be consultants ... By giving
up the role of manager, parents are giving their adolescents a
chance to become more autonomous, which is a large goal of
adolescence. < http://www . Oberlin. edu>
Thus, parent child conflict is itselfpart of the normal development
of adolescents. Ruskin Bond has minutely observed this cognitive change
among adolescents and presented in his novels. For Ruskin and for
psychologists, this conflict is a normal process and pause no danger to the
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individual or society, but if parents are separated through divorce or if
they constantly quarrel then not only does it end in parent child conflict,
but it may lead to depression, alienation or sometimes for worst to
violence or anti social activities. C.I.Standstorm has made an interesting
study of what he calls 'incomplete homes'. According to him:
Clearly the role played by home and parents is of vital
importance during the whole period of growth since the
home environment or its equivalent is the seedbed for the
forces that condition the whole specialization process. Spitz
has coined the term 'hospitalism' for different forms of
upbringing in children's homes during the early childhood
years .. .It is during puberty that the first decisive signs appear
of how different formative factors have functioned and what
fruit they have borne. There is much evidence that liberating
process which takes place during puberty is strength of the
organism as a whole: both of what it has inherited and what
it has been given by its environment. Everywhere, there are
homes that are incomplete in one way or other. Though
death or divorce may have disastrous effect on a child's
development, in other cases, the injuries may be
insignificant. It is not easy to judge the situation of a child of
a 'broken home'. A divorce is often preceded by a long
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period of deep dissension which inevitably means emotional
strain and discord. (229)
Impact of broken or quarreling family is treated by Bond both in his
memoir and in his fiction. Bond had experienced this depression in his
own life when he saw his parents drifting aside. He has written in his
memOir:
That early feeling of insecurity was never to leave me, and in
adult life, when I witnessed quarrels between people who
were close to me, I was always deeply disturbed - more for
the children whose lives were bound to be affected by such
emotional discord. But can it be helped? People who marry
young, even those who are in love, do not really know each
other. The body chemistry may be right but the harmony of
two minds is what makes relationship endure.(Bond SFWL
3-4)
In the works of Bond, rarely do we come across a healthy married
couple. Either his characters are mis matched or they fall apart or they go
on making compromises. Impact of such relationship certainly affects the
adolescents in the family. In The Room on the Roof and Vagrants in the
Valley. we find the disastrous effect of this on the characters ofKishen
and Rusty. Although Meena and Mr. Kapoor - the parents of Kishen are
not separated by divorce but their emotional tuning is never at par. Even
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Kishen realizes the emotional gulf between his parents and when after the
death of Meena, Mr. Kapoor marries again in a very short time; Kishen
becomes frustrated and becomes an anti social person.
Actually, the vagrant lives ofKishen and to a some extent Rusty
have born out of the disturbed family life. In the case of Rusty, his
parents have died and he has been kept away from the warmth and solace
offamily life, and for Kishen, though his parents live, they are good for
nothing. Although Mr. Kapoor and Meena are not divorced, they are
emotionally divorced. Partial failure of a family life is more dangerous·
than a complete failure of a family life. Aston Applwhite writes in an
article 'Does Divorce Devastate Children'?
A study, published in 1995, called 'Growing up with a
Single Parent', concluded that children from single parent
homes fare less well at every stage oflife .. .lf children of
divorce suffer psychological problems, it's usually because
of the troubled family life that has preceded the break up, not
the divorce itself. During the 1970s, the conventional
wisdom that unhappily married parents should hang in there
"for the good of children" yielded to a general
acknowledgement that divorce is less stressful for families
than life in a battle zone or an emotional freezer.
<http://www.divorceonline.com>
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Mr. Kapoor and Meena are emotionally miles apart. Selfish and
arrogant Kapoor is only married to a bottle of wine and is incapable of
giving any emotional support to his wife or a child. Kishen's vagrancy
and his rebelliousness have to be understood in this regard. Kishen can
sense his mother's helplessness but remains silent, but when he marries
second time on the pretext that 'We have to carry on'; Kishen can not
take it anymore and becomes a ruffian.
In Ruskin's story 'A Job Well Done' relation between strict and
heartless step father and sensitive son is portrayed. The narrator has
grievances against his step father Major Summerskill because he is trying
to fill in the place of his father. In addition, his step father is very strict
and believes that his orders should be listened to and obeyed. The
narrator likes his gardener Dhukhi. There is a well in a garden. Major has
ordered Dhukhi to cover the well but the narrator likes the well to remain
open because his late father also liked it. The boy climbs the banyan tree
when his step father comes and scolds Dhukhi for incomplete work.
Dhukhi points to something in the well. When Major looks inside,
Dhukhi taps him on the back. The narrator on the tree watches his step
father disappearing in the well. Dhukhi covers the well as if nothing has
happened. After seven months, the boy's mother starts receiving new
visitors one of whom is a colonel. Dhukhi likes this man and tells the boy
that the new sahib is good. The boy says that ifhe is not, then they can
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always open up the well again! The story shows that the narrator is so
frustrated with the second marriage of his mother that he remains silent
even when his step father is killed by the gardener.
It can be that because of such frustrations as well as emotional
turbulence during the time of adolescence, that the teenagers feel
alienated and lonely. Ruskin Bond has referred to this sense of alienation
experienced by adolescents number oftimes in his novels. Psychologists
have felt that the more we scrutinize adolescence and alienation - the
more they seem like two concepts, similar and ultimately inseparable.
When we read the memoir of Bond, we realize that he constantly
felt insecure and lonely in his adolescence. He witnessed the quarrels of
his parents from early childhood, but his feeling ofloneliness intensified
when his mother took divorce from his father and when his father died of
malaria, Ruskin could never settle in the house of his step father because
he felt that his mother and his step father were engaged in their own
activities. He was as if practically ignored.
When his father died, Ruskin was utterly broken both with the
feelings of helplessness and insecurity. He never could understand why
God needed his father more than he did. When he came to Dehra in
vacation, after his father's death, he found that nobody had come to
receive him to the platform. Other children had been met by parents and
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relatives and had dispersed to their homes. A feeling of loneliness began
to creep over him.
Even when his mother and step father Mr.Hari went to the
nightclubs, Ruskin woke up the nights feeling insecure and wondering
how he would cope ifhis parents had a fatal accident coming home, or if
some avenging tigress got her own back into the jungle. He could not
fancy himselflooking after his physically disabled sister, baby brother
and two half- brothers.
Psychologists confirm that fear of death reaches a peak during
puberty and early adolescence. Swedish doctor Bertil Soderrling calls
eleven years old - 'Hypochondriacs' and like many others he has
observed that "Serious fear of death appears then for the first time. His
behaviour is characterized by the fear that his parents will die and leave
him alone and unprotected." (Sandstorm 212)
When Meena dies in The Room on the Roof Kishen becomes very
lonely and feels insecure. He keeps on walking in the room all night and
cries his heart out. Although Kishen has a comforting company of Rusty
yet, when Meena dies, he becomes apprehensive about his stability
because he knows that his father is unreliable. Ruth in The Flights of
Pigeons passes through the same emotional turbulence. The feeling of
loneliness and insecurity is even more so in the case of Ruth because she
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is an unmarried girl. When the entire family shifts to Lala Ramjimal's
family she feels alienated and cut off.
Along with the fear of being left alone with the death of parents,
another reason why adolescents feel alienated is because during
adolescence they are always puzzled about the choices offriends. Some
adolescents are so taken over by the body changes which occur during
adolescence that they grow introvert. They also start living in the world
of imaginations and dreams. In such circumstances, when an opportunity
comes for them to form lasting friendship, they are caught unaware. With
the commencement of puberty there generally comes a period of
restlessness that is difficult to ease' in most cases this is a natural sign of , ,
a maturation process leading to deeper self knowledge. An introverted
awareness and apprehension are the essential features of maturation in
this early stage of youth. During puberty, relationship in groups outside
home reaches a climax. Being accepted in a group is usually regarded as
something of importance. Aptitude to adjust oneself to social groups at
school and in neighbourhood is often of cmcial importance for well-
balanced development from the age often or eleven onwards. It is clear
that there is a deep need for solitude during puberty. Withdrawal is often
sudden and violent from both family unit and companions. No new
interests appear spontaneously to substitute the old ones. As a result, an
adolescent seeks uneasily for something that can satisfy him.
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A deep sense ofloneliness and a high degree of psychological
vulnerability are two main characteristics of adolescence, because for a
teenager every attempt of experimentation and reaching out is new and
very intense. If the outcome is negative, it is exceedingly painful because
youth don't have a 'bank' of positive experience to draw from when
defects occur. Such loneliness can be seen in the case of Rusty in The
Room on the Roof. The loneliness that he suffers from comes from his
quest for independence, introspective habits, and an apprehension of
joining a 'gang' of friends. There are number of paragraphs in the novel
which show Rusty's loneliness. I quote them in full:
He stood in the side track, and stared down the empty road,
and to his surprise and disgust, he felt immeasurably lonely.
(Bond' ROR 549)
Around him everything was dark and silent and lonely. He
had got away from the bazaar, which held the misery of
beggars and homeless children and starving dogs, and could
now concentrate on his own misery; for there was nothing
like loneliness for making Rusty conscious of his unhappy
state. Madness and freedom and violence were new to him:
loneliness was familiar, something he understood ..... Rusty
was alone until tomorrow, he was alone for the rest of his
life. (Bond, ROR 575)
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Rusty, being the only young person in the community, was
the centre of everyone's attention, particularly the ladies, he
was also very 10nely.(Bond, ROR 553)
Kishen has gone and part of my life has gone with him and
inside of me, I am all lonely. (Bond, ROR 632)
Another theme which is bound to come when the novelist is
occupied with the lives of adolescents is the sexuality of the teenagers. In
Ruskin Bond's memoir, novels and short stories there are number of overt
sexual descriptions. Bond has also portrayed the sexual frustrations of
teenagers and their fantasies.
Ruskin Bond himself has frankly provided details about his sexual
adventures in his memoir. When after his father's death, Bond lived with
his mother and step father, he used to go to the night clubs or casinos at
'White House' or 'Greens' with his mother. It was there that he saw an
Anglo Indian girl Doreen. Bond was attracted by her lovely legs and full
sensuous lips. He wanted to kiss her. When the midnight hour came,
Doreen gathered Bond in her perfumed arms and planted a long sweet
kiss on his hungry lips. Bond has written in his memoir that it was his
first kiss and he remembers it even today. Besides temporary infatuation
with Doreen, Bond had few other sexual adventures in his school at
Simla. He writes: "Did we have sexual adventures? Of course we did. It
would have been unreasonable to expect a horde of eight to twelve year
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olds to take no interest in those parts of their anatomy which were
undergoing constant changes during puberty. But it did not go any further
than a little clandestine masturbation in the dormitories late at night".
(Bond, SFWL 26)
In Bond's works we find that teenagers have many affairs but they
are more physical in nature than emotional. Another strange thing we find
in the works of Bond is teenager's unconventionality in their approach to
sex. The teenagers of his works do not worry too much about Indian
taboos or morality_ Sometimes they even seem displaced in Indian
surroundings. We wonder whether we are reading about post independent
India or 21 st century England. Bond has portrayed sexual relations in all
forms - he has shown physical relations between a narrator of 3 0 and a
girl of 16 in 'Love is a Sad Song', intimate moments between an elderly
woman and a teenager in The Room on the Roof, Sexual phobia in Delhi
is not Far, even orgy in Delhi is not Far when Kamla makes love to Suraj
in presence of the narrator, multiple sexual relations in The Sensualist,
even lesbian relations between Shankhini and a prostitute in The
Sensualist, incest in Vagrants in the Valley and The Sensualist and calf
love in The Room on the Roof. Out of all these relations, we can only see
strong emotional attachment along with sexual urge in The Room on the
Roof where Rusty really loves Meena otherwise sex for Bond youth is
experiment and exploration. Bond writes in The Sensualist: "A youth of
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eighteen who suddenly finds himself a sexual warrior becomes quite
rampant, and pursues his prey indiscriminately. Too indiscriminately for
his own good". (916)
Woody Allen said, "Love is the answer. But while you are waiting
for the answer, sex brings up some pretty good questions". Bond is far
more advance Indian writer in his treatment of sex. His 'The Sensualist'
is treated at par with much controversial book by Khushwant Singh, In
Company of Women. Being a writer whose main attention is on the
adolescents, it is but natural for Bond to sound unconventional.
Friends or peer groups are inseparable from the lives of
adolescents. Janet Shucksmith narrates the significance of friendship
during adolescence:
Although relationships with parents determine in large
measure our longer-term preferences, attitudes and values,
during adolescence it is often relationships with friends that
cause most concern and which pre- occupy the thoughts of
young people as they grow up.
Friendships are based on a completely different set of
structural relationships to those with parents. They are more
symmetrical and involve sharing and exchange. Friendships
are important to young children but there is a change at the
beginning of adolescence -- a move to intimacy that includes
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the development of a more exclusive focus, a willingness to
talk about oneself and to share problems and advice. Friends
teIl one another just about everything that is going on in each
other's lives ... Friends literaIly reason together in order to
organize experience and to define themselves as persons.
<http://www.scre.ac>
In all the novels of Bond we find that the central character has
number of adolescent friends. When the support from the parents or
family seems to be failing, friends provide comforting warmth. The group
of friends share the problems of each other, advice each other and try to
work out the solutions of the problems. The sharing, co-operation, and
loyalty that Rusty receives from Somi and his friends in The Room on the
Roof do much for his self- esteem and development of values. This
powerful friendship shapes his character and prompts him to take an
interest in and assume responsibility for others. By crossing social, a
cultural and economic barrier, Rusty becomes a real 'man'.
Herbert G. Lingren, an Extension Family Scientist has written an
article on adolescents' relations with peers. According to him,
As children grow, develop, and move into early adolescence,
involvement with one's peers and the attraction of peer
identification increases. As pre-adolescents begin rapid
physical, emotional and social changes, they begin to
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question adult standards and the need for parental guidance.
They find it reassuring to tum for advice to friends who
understand and sympathize - friends who are in the same
position themselves. By "trying on" new values and testing
their ideas with their peers, there is with less fear of being
ridiculed or "shot down". <ianrpubs.unl.edu>
The peer group is a source of affection, sympathy and
understanding; a place for experimentation; and a supportive setting for
achieving the two primary developmental tasks of adolescence. These
are: (1) identity - finding the answer to the question "Who Am I?" and
(2) autonomy - discovering that self as separate and independent from
parents. It is no wonder, then, that adolescents like to spend time with
their peers.
The role played by peers in adolescence is very critical.
Relationships with peers during the adolescent years come closer to
serving as prototypes for adult relationships in social relationships, in
work and in interactions with members of the opposite sex. Teenagers
who do not learn how to get along with others by the time they reach
adulthood are likely to face obstacles in years ahead. The role of the peer
group in helping an individual to define his or her own identity becomes
very important during adolescence. At no other stage of development is
one's sense of identity so unstable. The adolescent must get ready to meet
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society's demands for social independence, for relationships with sexes,
marriage and adulthood. For these reasons, teens need the support and
guidance of their peers. Company of Somi, his 'Best favourite friend',
gives Rusty a feeling of safety and confidence. When Rusty rebels against
his guardian and leaves his home, Somi finds out a job of a teacher of
wild and disagreeable Kishen Kapoor. Somi knows Rusty's restlessness
and sometimes he comes out with the words of advice also. When Rusty
feels frustrated after everyone leaves Dehra, worried Somi writes unusual
prudent letter:
I know you feel like leaving India and running off to
England, but wait till you see me again, All right? You are
afraid to die without having done something, you are afraid
to die, Rusty, but you have hardly begun to live.
I know you are not happy in Dehra, and you must be
lonely. But wait a little, be patient, and the bad days will
pass. We don't know why we live. It is no use trying to
know. But we have to live, Rusty, because we really want to.
And as long as we want to, we have got to find something to
live for, and even die for it. (Bond, ROR 644)
In real life also Ruskin Bond had a friend with the same name. He had
also offered sound advises to Ruskin Bond . .:/.
In Vagrants in the Valley Rusty is again given comforting
companionship by Kishen, Devinder, Sudheer and Hathi. The role of
Somi is replaced by Devinder here. He encourages Rusty to find out a
suitable career. He knows enough of Oliver Goldsmith's life, of whose
book he reads that One can not live life on borrowed money. He
motivates Rusty for a career.
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Since Friends exert positive influence on the lives of adolescents,
they start seriously thinking about their careers. All adolescents pass
through these speculations some time or other. Many important career
decisions such as to continue the college education or abandon it,
selecting a source oflivelihood etc. are taken during adolescence. These
early decisions affect the rest of a person's life; therefore, it is important
to understand the individual and social factors that play into the process
of adolescent career development. When the youth approaches the end of
adolescence, he starts thinking about his own future suddenly. Almost all
of Ruskin 's adolescents know the importance of good financial career.
The protagonist of The Room on the Roof, Vagrants in the Valley and
Delhi is not Far wants to be a creative writer. He does not want to rot like
a mango at the end of season. He is encouraged and guided by friends
"I have quoted both the advices in the first chapter.
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like Somi and Devinder. He realizes that adolescent vagrancy can not and
should not last for ever. Even careless characters like Kishen and Sudheer
also want to settle down in life with a steady and honest career. Anxiety
to be successful career in the profession of choice becomes more
pronounced when an adolescent starts comparing himself with adult
people around who are either failures with their profession or they have
compromised with their dreams; however making compromise is not the
nature of adolescents therefore all the more eagerness and worry.
There are number of social or economic reasons why adolescents
start seriously considering the career. Adolescents who are orphans or
waifs pass through economic stress until they settle down to a good
career. Rusty, Kishen, Devinder, Sudheer, Suraj all these have not
enjoyed comfortable family lives. We find that career is not just a future
dream for Ruskin's adolescents, it is much more - a question of survival,
test of skills.
When adolescents start independent thinking and questioning, they
find lot of contradictions and hollowness in the theories of adults. An
adult world viewed by an adolescent is not impressive. In Ruskin Bond's
novels, we find an adolescent evaluating the adult world and realizing the
arrogance and failures of adults. Two male adults presented in The Room
on the Roof are looked at closely fonn an adolescent's perspective. The
novel holds up the mirror to the false values, abusiveness, rationalization,
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and selfishness of adults in their dealing with excruciating frankness.
Bond exposes the cruelty and hypocrisy ofMr. Harrison and self
centeredness, indulgence, and neglect of Mr. Kapoor towards his son. Mr.
Harrison who substitutes Rusty's dead father has done a lot for him. He
has brought Rusty up in a perfect English way, as his father would have
wished. Mr. Harrison and other adults of the European society are
actually the products of colonization. Most of the Europeans had left
India after independence, but some people had stayed because money
could buy them comforts in India. However, their colonial hypocrisy and
false sense of colour superiority had made them close their eyes to the
reality. Mr. Harrison and others have taught Rusty that the Indian bazaar
is full of thieves and germs. Rusty is not only taught about colour
superiority, and class- superiority, but caste- superiority as well. He is
told that, to play with the sweeper boy is not allowed in India because the
sweeper boy is low caste untouchable. When Rusty, however really visits
the bazaar, all the false conceptions are broken. He not only finds India
safe and comforting, but also warm and hospitable.
On one hand, Mr. Harrison is a snobbish, cruel, and strict man, the
other adult portrayed in the novel- Mr. Kapoor is a braggart, drunkard,
self-opinionated man. There is nearly a difference of20 years between
him and Meena. He remains intoxicated all the time. His favourite
sentence is" I am Genius." In spite ofMr. Kapoor's habit of drinking and
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his carelessness towards the family, Meena remains devoted to him.
When, after the death of Me en a, Mr. Kapoor marries again, Rusty is
overcome by a sense of anger: "It was not unusual for a man to marry
again after his wife's death, and he knew that, but his heart was breaking
with fierce anger. He was revolted by the rapidity of it all; hardly a month
had passed and here was Kapoor, with his second wife. Rusty
remembered that it was for this man - Kapoor - this weakling, this
drunkard, this self opinionated, selfish drunkard that Meena had given her
life". (Bond, ROR 652)
Mr.Kapoor's dialogue with Rusty in the presence of 'New Mrs. Kapoor'
reveals the snobbishness of Kapoor:
How did Meena die? Asked Rusty, determined to hurt
Kapoor- If Kapoor could be hurt ...
'I thought you knew. We had an accident. Let us not talk
about it, Mister Rusty'
'The driver was driving, of course?'
Kapoor did not answer immediately but raised his glass and
slipped from it.
'Of Course' he said.
'How did it all happen?'
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'Please, Mister Rusty, I do not want to describe it. We were
going too fast, and the car left the road and hit a tree. I can't
describe it, Mister Rusty.'
'No, Of course not', said Rusty. 'Any way, I am glad
nothing happened to you. It is also good that you have
mastered your natural grief and started a new life. I am
afraid; I'm not as strong as you. Meena was wonderful and I
still can't believe that she is dead.'
'We have to carry on.' (Bond, ROR 652-53)
Mr. Kapoor has never been a good husband. He has never been a good
and responsible father also. He has taught nothing to Kishen, except 'The
virtues of a chewing gum'. He has left alone Kishen to become a thief.
Thus the adults in the novel are not favourably presented.
Even in The Vagrants in the Valley adults like Mrs. Bhushan or
Ramsingh are ridiculed. Mrs. Bhushan is portrayed thus, "Mrs. Bhushan
was an imposing woman of some thirty-five years and she walked with
heavy determination that kept people, and even bulls out of her way. Her
dogs, her husband, and her servants were all afraid of her and submitted
to her dictates without a murmur. A masculine woman, she bullied men,
and children, and lavished most of her affection on dogs. Her cocker
spaniels slept on her bed, and her husband slept in the drawing room."
(Bond, VIV 695)
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The conversation between Sudheer and Ramsingh is very
humorous. Ramsingh, a man of seventy, who might have been as devilish
in his youth as Sudheer himself, asks Sudheer about the ideal bride for
him:
Tell me of a suitable woman. She should be young, of
course. Her nose- what kind of nose should she have?
'A flat nose,' said Sudheer, without ghost of a smile. 'The
nostrils should not be turned up'
'Ah! And the shape of her body?'
'Not too manly. She must not be crooked. Do you expect
too much, old man?
'Her head? Asked the old man eagerly. 'What should her
head be like?'
Sudheer gave this a moment's consideration. 'The head
should not be bald,' he said. Ramsingh nodded his approval;
his opinion of Sudheer was going up by leaps and bounds ..
'And her colour, should it be white?'
'No, not very white.'
'Black?' 'Not too black. But she would have to be evil
smelling; otherwise she would not stay with you. (Bond,
VIV 728)
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Ruskin Bond has also shown volatile nature of adolescents who in
spite of their depression have the capacity to be cheerful any time. They
may seem lonely but in general remain optimists. They introspect a lot,
but are more social than adults. They carry a sense of nostalgia with them
but also look to the future. Perhaps that is what it takes to be an
adolescent!