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Chapter 11 - Attraction and Exclusion
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Chapter 11 - Attraction and Exclusion
• The Need to Belong• Attraction: Who Likes Whom?• Rejection
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Attraction and Exclusion
• Attraction– Anything that draws two or more people
together• Social acceptance
– People like you and include you in their groups
• Rejection (Social exclusion)– People exclude you from their groups
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Tradeoffs - TestosteroneA Blessing and a Curse
• Testosterone is a hormone associated with masculinity
• Testosterone is a mixed blessing– High testosterone men are more exciting,
but less reliable– Interested in exploring new places and less
prone to stay at home
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Tradeoffs - TestosteroneA Blessing and a Curse
• Testosterone is better suited for finding mates than maintaining stable families– Testosterone reaches peak around age 20
and declines thereafter– New fathers – testosterone drops
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The Need to Belong
• Need to belong is powerful drive within human psyche– Form and maintain close lasting
relationships• People usually form relationships easily• People are reluctant to end relationships
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The Need to Belong
• Two ingredients to belongingness– Regular social contact with others– Close, stable, mutually intimate contact
• Having one without the other = partial satisfaction
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The Need to Belong
• People do not continue to form relationships– Most people seek four to six close
relationships– Even in people-rich environments, most
people form social circles of about six people
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Not Belonging Is Bad for You
• Failure to satisfy a need to belong leads to significant health problems– Death rates are higher among people
without social connections– People without a good social network have
more physical and mental health problems
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Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Friendships and close relationships are at or near the top of the list of what people say makes them happy; people desire to be liked by even the most casual of acquaintances.
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The Person Next Door: The Propinquity Effect
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Propinquity– Being near someone on a regular basis
• The finding that the more we see and interact with people, the more likely they are to become our friends.
• Familiarity encourages liking
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The Person Next Door: The Propinquity Effect
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• The propinquity effect works because of the mere exposure effect, the finding that the more exposure we have to a stimulus, the more apt we are to like it.
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Neighbors Make Friends – and Enemies
• Festinger et al. (1950)– Strongest predictor of friendships was
propinquity• Ebbesen et al. (1976)
– Strongest predictor of enemies was propinquity
• Regular contact amplifies or multiplies power of other factors
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Similarity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• As we get to know each other better, other factors besides propinquity and attractiveness come into play in determining liking. Key among these is similarity to ourselves.
• People who are similar are attractive because they validate our own self-worth and we assume that people who disagree with us have negative personality traits.
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Similarity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• People change to become more similar to those with whom they interact– High self-monitoring – maximize each
social situation– Low self-monitoring – interested in
permanent connections and feelings
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Similarity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Spouses are similar in many respects– IQ, physical attractiveness, education, SES
• Couples more similar in attractiveness more likely to progress to committed relationship
• Matching hypothesis– People tend to pair up with others of similar
attractiveness
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Similarity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• As cultures progress and form large, complex groups, more need for complementarity– Risks in joining a new group– People tend to look for similarity
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Reciprocity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• One of the most potent determinants of our liking someone is if we believe that that person likes us.
• If we believe somebody else likes us, we will be a more likable person in their presence; this will lead them to actually like us more, which leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Reciprocity
• Liking begets liking (reciprocity)• Mimicking increases liking• If someone likes you, initially it is very
favorable, but if that liking is not returned, it can be a burden
Major Antecedents of Attraction
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Reciprocity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• A person’s level of self-esteem moderates how we are affected by other people liking us.
• Swann and colleagues (1992) have shown that people with high self-esteem like and interact with those who like them, but people with low self-esteem prefer to interact with somebody who criticized them.
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The Effects of Physical Attractiveness on Liking
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Physical attractiveness is a major determinant of liking in studies of first impressions.
• Most people show preference for attractive over unattractive
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The Effects of Physical Attractiveness on Liking
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• What is beautiful is good effect– Attractiveness = superiority on other traits
• Attractive children are more popular with peers and teachers
• Babies prefer attractive faces
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The Effects of Physical Attractiveness on Liking
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Debate has existed on sex differences in the importance of physical attractiveness.
• Feingold (1990) reports that both sexes value attractiveness, although men value it somewhat more than women; however this difference is larger for stated attitudes and values than for actual behavior.
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What is Attractive?
• For men, clothing represent wealth and status– High wealth and status men are more
attractive• Body shape influences attractiveness
– Cultural variation in ideal body weight • People agree who is beautiful but not why• Evolutionary psychology - beauty in women
– Health and Youth
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What is Attractive?
• Symmetry is a powerful source of beauty• Typicality is a source of beauty
– Average or composite faces are more attractive than individual faces
• For both sexes, this standard includes large eyes, prominent cheekbones, and a big smile. For women, a small nose and chin, narrow cheeks and high eyebrows are considered attractive; for men, a large chin is considered attractive.
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The Effects of Physical Attractiveness on Liking
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• There is a some truth to the association between physical attractiveness and sociability
• This may be due to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Theories of Interpersonal Attraction: Social Exchange and Equity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Social exchange theory: – how people feel about a relationship depends on
their perceptions of the rewards and costs of the relationship,
– the kind of relationship they believe they deserve (comparison level), and
– their chances for having a better relationship with someone else (comparison level for alternatives).
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Theories of Interpersonal Attraction: Social Exchange and Equity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Equity theory:– people are happiest with relationships in which the
rewards and costs a person experiences and the contributions he or she makes to the relationship are roughly equal to the rewards, costs, and contributions of the other person.
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Theories of Interpersonal Attraction: Social Exchange and Equity
Major Antecedents of Attraction
• Reinforcement theory– Behaviors reinforced will be repeated– In attraction, people like those who are
rewarding to them• Interpersonal rewards
– Do favors for someone– Praise someone
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Familiarity and Exposure
• Social allergy effect– Annoying habits become more annoying
over time• Familiarity and repeated exposure
– Can make bad things worse– Can encourage liking someone
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Rejection
• Ostracism– Being excluded, rejected, and ignored
• Effects of rejection– Inner states are almost uniformly negative
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Rejection
• Rejection sensitivity– Expect rejection and become
hypersensitive to possible rejection• “You hurt my feelings” = “You don’t care
about the relationship”– Implicit message of rejection
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Rejection
• Extent of hurt feelings is based on– Importance of relationship– How clear a sign of rejection you receive
• Initial reaction to rejection – numbness– Interferes with psychological and cognitive
functioning
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Food for Thought - Social Rejection and the Jar of Cookies
• Fears of rejection are linked to eating binges and eating disorders
• Rejected people are more likely to eat fattening or junk food
• Rejection undermines self-regulation• Baumeister, DeWall, et al., (2005)
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Behavioral Effects of Rejection
• Show decreases in intelligent thought• Approach new interactions with skepticism• Typically less generous, less cooperative,
less helpful• More willing to cheat or break rules• Act shortsighted, impulsive, self-destructive
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Behavioral Effects of Rejection
• Repeated rejection can create aggression• Aggression can lead to rejection• Common theme in school shootings is social
exclusion
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Loneliness
• Painful feeling of wanting more human contact – Quantity or quality of relationships
• Little difference between lonely and unlonely– Lonely have more difficulty understanding
emotional states of others• Loneliness is bad for physical health
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What Leads to Social Rejection?
• Children are rejected by peers – Because they are aggressive– Because they withdraw from contact– Because they are different in some way
• Adults are most often rejected for being different
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What Leads to Social Rejection?
• Adults are most often rejected for being different from the rest of the group– Groups reject insiders more than outsiders
for the same degree of deviance– Deviance within the group threatens the
group’s unity
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What Leads to Social Rejection?
• Bad apple effect– One person who breaks the rules may
inspire others to do the same• Threat of rejection influences good behavior
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Romantic Rejection and Unrequited Love
• Attribution theory and women refusing dates– Privately held reasons were internal to the
man, stable and global– Reasons told the man were external,
unstable and specific• These reasons encourage asking again
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Romantic Rejection and Unrequited Love
• Unrequited Love– Men are more often rejected lover; women
do the rejecting more often• Stalking
– Women are more often stalked