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ChangeChange
No Really
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There is loss.There is loss.
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ChangeChange
"Change is inevitable; misery is optional." - Ed
Friedman
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There is fearThere is fear
“Here there be dragons.”
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Leadership
Is to be in the role of Agent of Change.
How do we do this?
What must we understand?
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GilGil RendleRendle’’ss ““The he Roller oller Coaster of Changeoaster of Change””
•The roller coaster of change is a model that identifies a natural sequence of feelings and relationships that are a part of change...
•It is impossible to talk ideas with people on the feeling side of the roller coaster.
•If change is to happen we must be able to tolerate the pain in others.
FEELING
THINKINGSabotage
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TRUSTTRUST
CREATIVE CONFLICTCREATIVE CONFLICT
COMMITMENTCOMMITMENT
ACCOUNTABILITYACCOUNTABILITY
ENDSENDS
LINKAGE
LINKAGE
Five Dysfunctions of a Team - Patrick Lencioni
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Understand the issue
• Do we have a polarity?
• Do we have a technical issue?
• Do we have an adaptive issue?
• Is this a homeostatic issue?
• Is this a size issue?
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OutreachInreach
Polarity
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Adaptive vs Technical
• Technical issue has a quick answer• Thing
• Adaptive is complicated we don’t seem to have the whole picture
• Relational
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Leading Change
• Understand the deepest reasons for the existence of the congregation.
• Understand yourself who and what you serve remember you are a servant leader.
• Understand the principle that the change is based upon.
• Stay in relationship ask – “What happens if we do this?” – “What happens if we don’t do this?”
• Act with humility.
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Leading Change• Take a principled stand for the good of the whole.
• Identify the individuals or group(s) that will be the most affected or have the most to lose.
• Involve them in the process early.
• Stand with the people as they struggle with their emotions.
• Do not stop the process because of discomfort.
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Leading Change• Expect, invite and empower additions to the
vision.
• Expect sabotage and don’t let it take over.
• Celebrate success.
• Name Learnings.
• Thank people.
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Leading Change• Thank them again
• Moving forward•Assess – what did we learn?
–What went well?–What didn’t–How does this change our plans–Who else needs to know what we have learned?
•What is the next principled change that is needed for the good of the whole (the common good)?
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Leadership
Leadership is the spiritual process of discerning
what one believes (clarity), acting on that belief
in the public arena (decisiveness), and standing
behind that action (responsibility) despite the
varied responses of people (courage).
- Rev. Frank Thomas
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I am open and I am willingTo be hopeless would seem so strangeIt dishonors those who go before usSo lift me up to the light of change
There is hurting in my familyThere is sorrow in my townThere is panic in the nationThere is wailing the whole world round
May the children see more clearlyMay the elders be more wiseMay the winds of change caress usEven though it burns our eyes
Give me a mighty oak to hold my confusionGive me a desert to hold my fearsGive me a sunset to hold my wonderGive me an ocean to hold my tears
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If we were really serious about growth we would keep a larger percentage of the children that
pass through our congregations.
Rev. Bill Sinkford
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Success
• How did being a Unitarian Universalist change your life?
• What is the life saving message of Unitarian Universalism?
• What would happen if we were generous with and about Unitarian Universalism?
• What does the world need us to be?
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Really good sound bites
• A faith beyond belief - Morales• A faith that loves beyond belief -
Thandeka• The people of the promise and the
struggle• The people of the many paths• People becoming and becoming and
becoming yet again
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Uncharted Territory
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No human being can discover new oceans unless they are
willing to lose sight of the shore.