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CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 1)
Chapter 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types
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CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 2)
Friendship Relationships
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1. Characteristics Interpersonal relationship Mutually productive Mutual positive regard (liking, trust, support,
shared interests)
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 3)
Friendship Relationships (cont.)
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2. Friendship types Reciprocity – equal Receptivity – imbalance between giver and
receiver but still satisfactory (student/teacher) Association – transitory (classmates, neighbors)
3. Friendship needs
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 4)
Friendship Relationships (cont.)
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4. Friendship and communication Relationship theories from Chapter 9 apply Three stages of friendship
Contact – hesitant Involvement – dyadic consciousness Close and intimate friendship – exclusive unit; make
sacrifices
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Friendship Relationships (cont.)
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5. Culture, gender, and technology Culture – collectivist cultures value frienships
more than individualist cultures do Gender – women’s friendships are built on
disclosure and intimacy; men’s are built on shared activities
Technology – network convergence: as friends grow close, their online social networks overlap
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 6)
Love Relationships
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Love is a feeling characterized by closeness, caring, intimacy, passion, and commitment
Love is an interpersonal relationship developed, maintained, and sometimes destroyed by communication
Communication skills can enhance a love relationship
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 7)
Love Relationships (cont.)
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1. Six love types Eros – beauty and sexuality Ludus – entertainment and excitement Storge – peaceful and slow Pragma – practical and traditional Mania – elation and depression Agape – compassionate and selfless
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Love Relationships (cont.)
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2. Love and communication Personal idioms Increased self-disclosure
3. Love, culture, gender, and technology Culture – individualist cultures value love
relationships; collectivist cultures value friendship
Gender – men tend to be more romantic and less realistic about love than women are
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 9)
Family Relationships
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Family includes the children, relatives, and assorted significant others surrounding a primary relationship
A primary relationship denotes the two relationship between the two principal parties
Communication patterns of nuclear families apply to all forms of families
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 10)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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1. Characteristics of families Defined roles Recognition of responsibilities Shared history and future Shared living space
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 11)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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2. Couple types Traditional – sacrifice independence for
relationship Independent – stress individuality Separate – relationship of convenience, not love
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 12)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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3. Family types Conformity orientation – degree to which family
members agree on attitudes, values, and beliefs High conformity – harmonious; children agree with
parents Low conformity – greater conflict; children permitted
to disagree with parents
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 13)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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3. Family types (cont.) Conversation orientation – degree to which
family members can speak their minds High conversation – discusses issues and opinions Low conversation – little discussion
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 14)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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3. Family types (cont.) Four types
Consensual – high conversation, high conformity; open communication and disagreement
Protective – high conformity, low conversation; stress agreement, avoid conflict
Pluralistic – low conformity, high conversation; encourages different attitudes, open communication
Laissez-faire – low conformity, low conversation; avoid interaction and confrontation, value privacy
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 15)
Family Relationships (cont.)
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4. Family and communication Equality pattern
Equal share in communication transaction Equal power Equitable relationship
Balanced split pattern Equal relationship but each is dominant in a specific
domain
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Family Relationships (cont.)
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4. Family and communication (cont.) Unbalanced split pattern
One person is more regularly in control of the relationship
More powerful – looks, expertise, money, Monopoly pattern
One person is the authority, controls the other Lectures instead of communicates
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Family Relationships (cont.)
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5. Family, culture, gender, and technology (cont.) Culture and families – cultural differences
influences families and family relationships Gender and families – in some cultures only
males can dissolve a marriage Technology and families – in some cases,
technology contributes to decreased family communication
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 18)
Work Relationships
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1. Types of workplace communication Lateral communication – between equals Upward communication – lower to upper levels
in the hierarchy Downward communication – higher to lower
levels Grapevine messages – don’t follow formal lines;
not yet public, more interpersonal messages
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Work Relationships (cont.)
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2. Networking relationships Informal – everyday interactions Formal – systematic and strategic
3. Mentoring relationships Crucial for rising in hierarchy and developing
skills Can be online
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Work Relationships (cont.)
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4. Romantic relationships at work Advantages
Easy place to meet romantic partner Can lead to greater work satisfaction
Disadvantages Can cause negative gossip Can cause problems for managers Can cause problems for one-sided romances or after
a break-up
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 21)
The Dark Side of Interpersonal Relationships
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1. Jealousy – a feeling in reaction to a threat to a relationship. Parts of jealousy
Cognitive – suspicious thinking and worrying Emotional Behavioral
Dealing with jealousy
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 22)
Dark Side of Relationships (cont.)
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2. Bullying Verbal or physical A pattern Not illegal Cyberbullying Dealing with bullying
CH 10: Interpersonal Relationship Types (slide 23)
Dark Side of Relationships (cont.)
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3. Violence Verbal or emotional Physical Sexual Dealing with violence