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BULLYING
Women and Children Protection Desk -Baguio City Police Office
WHAT IS BULLYING?
BULLYING
gossiping
threats
hitting
pushing
kicking
name-calling stealing
mean words
leaving somebody out
teasing
spreading
rumors
destroying
property
IT IS AN AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOR THAT IS………
INTENTIONAL
HURTFUL
THREATENING
INVOLVES POWER IMBALANCE
WHY ARE PEOPLE
BULLIED?
REASON FOR BULLYING
Due to their……
Race
Religion
Appearance
Sexual Orientation
Disability
Family Circumstances
WHAT DOES BULLYING
LOOK LIKE?
THREE ( 3 ) BULLYING BEHAVIORS THAT EVERYBODY SHOULD BE AWARE OF.
DIRECT BULLYING BEHAVIOR
INDIRECT BULLYING BEHAVIOR
CYBER BULLYING
DIRECT BULLYING BEHAVIORS
PHYSICAL BULLYING
Hitting Shoving Kicking Taking, stealing, damaging or
defacing belongings or other properties
Restraining Pinching Attacking with spit wads or food
VERBAL BULLYING
Name-calling Insulting Remarks and put-downs Repeated teasing Racist remarks or other
harassment Threats and intimidation Whispering behind someone’s
back
INDIRECT BULLYING BEHAVIORS
SOCIAL/RELATIONAL BULLYING
Destroying and manipulating relationships
Social rejection or isolationGossiping and spreading rumours
Hurtful graffitiNegative body language
OTHER BULLYING BEHAVIORS
CYBER BULLYING
Messages through …
cell phones
Voice mail
Web pages
HOW ARE BOYS AND GIRLS DIFFERENT
IN THEIR BULLYING?
BOY BULLIES
Boys bully more than girls
Boys bully both boys and girls
Boys use more direct behaviors ( physical )
Boys are just likely as girls to use social and emotional taunting
GIRL BULLIES
Girls may use more indirect behaviors to damage relationships and can be sneaky and nasty
Girls are becoming more physical than in the past
Girls more likely to bully girls but sometimes bully boys too
Girls bully in groups more than boys do Girls seek to inflict psychological pain
for more lasting effect Girls behave well around adults but can
be cruel and mean to peers
WHEN AND WHERE DOES BULLYING
USUALLY OCCUR?
COMMON TIME AND PLACE WHERE BULLYING OCCURS
At the start of the schoolyear, bullies begin looking for easy targets
Can occur virtually everywhere especially where there is no adult supervision but mainly in hidden areas
Can happen where teachers and students accept bullying or are indifferent to it.
WHY DO STUDENTS KEEP BULLYING A
SECRET?
REASONS FOR SECRECY
They think telling someone about it is wrong.
They have told or heard someone else tell adults about bullying before, and nothing was done about it.
They are afraid adults will make the situation worse.
They are embarrassed because they feel no one likes them
They feel shame because they are weak and cannot stand up for themselves as they are taught
They do not want their parents to worry.
ARE THERE DIFFERENT TYPE OF
VICTIMS?
PASSIVE OR SUBMISSIVE
Generally quiet, cautious, sensitive, and perhaps easily moved to tears
Insecure, and have little self-confidence
Have few or no friends Very afraid of getting hurt or hurting
themselves Find it easier to associate with adults
than peers
PROVOCATIVE OR FIGHTER
Have tempers and may try to fight back if bullied, but usually without success
Restless, clumsy, immature, unfocused, and generally perceived as awkward or tiresome. Some are hyper-active; they may be fidgety, impulsive, or restless and have difficulty concentrating.
May have reading and writing problems. May be disliked by adults because of their own
irritating behavior May try to bully weaker students and therefore
may be both victims and bullies. Some are popular and some are not. One’s
popularity does not assure one’s safety from bullies.
WHY MUST BULLYING BE
STOPPED?
STOP BULLYING
Makes the lives of its victims miserable Undermines their confidence and
destroys their sense of security Can also affect children and young
people’s attendance and progress at school.
Can cause sadness, loneliness, low self-esteem, fear, anxiety, and poor concentration, and may lead to self-harm, depression, suicidal thoughts, and in some cases, SUICIDE.
IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED OR KNOW OF
SOMEONE WHO DOES, DON’T BE
AFRAID TO TELL IT TO AN ADULT YOU CAN
TRUST
Thank you and good day!!!!
BULLIES NOT ALLOWED
HERE