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“Bullied To Death “ “More Teens Victimized By Cyberbullies”

“MySpace – Your Kids In Danger?”

“Facebook Murderer To Serve 35 Years”

“Keeping Internet Predators At Bay” “Teen Killed While Texting And Driving”

“Nebraska To Ban Texting While Driving”

“Texting While Driving Results In One Death, One Felony and 7 Misdemeanor Charges”

“Man Convicted In Texting While Driving

Death”

“U.S. Bans Truckers, Bus Drivers From Texting While Driving”

In The News Everyday

Highly mobile & social

In 2010 children 8 to10 years of age spent an hour or more minutes online every day

7.5 million users on Facebook are younger than 13

77% of teens aged 12 to 17 have a cell phone and 95% are now online

73% of U.S. teens access their Facebook accounts at least once a month

At age 3, ¼ of children go online daily, increasing to about 50% by age 5. And by age 8, more than 2/3 use the internet on any given weekday

Cyber-Bullying

Sexting

Pornography And Obscenity

Child Predators And Strangers online

Drugs, Guns And Suicide

Text Cheating In School

A Crisis In America!!!

The act of sending sexually explicit messages or photos electronically , primarily between mobile phones.

70% of kids receive unwanted obscene and pornographic materials.

55% reported sharing them with more than one person

In some states child pornography charges (2nd degree felonies) have been brought against teenagers and have to register as sex offenders.

Sexting

51% of teen girls say pressure from a guy is a reason girls send sexy messages or images.

20% of teenagers overall, 22% of teen girls, 18% of teen boys 11% of young teen girls ages 13-16 have sent or posted nude or

semi-nude pictures or videos of themselves.

Find kids through social networking sites, chat rooms, etc.

Groom their targets – the are familiar with the latest music, hobbies, fashion, etc.

Online Predators

The targets tend to be between the ages of 11 and 15

100% of the cases, teens that are the victims of sexual predators have gone willingly to meet them in person

There are over 650,000 registered sex offenders in the U.S.

16% of teens considered meeting someone they’ve only talked to online and 8% actually met someone they only new online.

89,000 convicted sex offenders were removed from Myspace in ‘09 and as much as 160,000 are suspected to be on Facebook.

Online Predators

What They Say What it MeansLet’s go private Let’s move to a private chat room, instant

messaging or phone

Where’s the computer in your house? Helps the predator understand if the parents are around

What kinds of music do you like? Movie? Hobbies? Clothing stores?

This helps the groomer get to know your child better and know what gifts to offer.

I can help you get a modeling job They will flatter them to get them to cooperate

You seem upset. Tell me what’s bothering you?

Trying to get their trust using sympathy.

Where do you live? What school do you go to? What’s your phone number?

Asking for personal info – usually after the target is feeling comfortable

If you don’t do what I ask I’ll show your parents the photo’s you’ve sent me

“Extortion” – intimidation and threats – scare tactics to achieve their goal

You are the love of my life To convince the target to cooperate

Grooming Tactics – Warn Your Kids!!!

Cyber Bullying The sending or posting of damaging or cruel text or images using the internet or other digital communication devices

One million children were harassed, threatened, or cyber bullied on face book last year

78% of school-aged children have been bullied while online

Less than 10% of kids tells a parent if they have been a victim of cyber bullying

There are 2.7 million students being bullied each year by about 2.1 million students who are the bullies

Revenge for bullying is one of the strongest motivations for school shootings

Every 30 minutes a teenager commits suicide due to bullying

What to Look forYour child could be a victim if they:

Stops using the computer or mobile phone suddenly or when you approach

Seems nervous or edgy when a new text, email, or instant message arrives

Is hesitant about going to school or leaving the house

Seems angry, depressed or frustrated after using the computer

Avoids contact with family and friends or reluctant to attend school and social events

Grades decline/lack of appetite or has trouble sleeping

What to look forIs Your Child the Cyber Bully?

Changes screens or closes programs quickly when you approach

Uses the computer frequently and/or at all hours of the night

Gets annoyed if they don’t have access to the computer or mobile phone

Avoids talking about what they do on the computer or on the mobile phone

Laughs excessively while online or while on the mobile phone

Uses multiple online accounts or accounts that are not theirs

Has been the target of bullies in the past

Suicide almost 17 percent of high school students seriously considered suicide

16.5 percent of high school students made a plan for attempting suicide

8.5 percent of high school students attempted suicide one or more times

Suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death among teenagers and young adults

5,000 teenagers committed suicide last year

Kids are online 1 in 4 waking hours

Average kid now sends and receives 3,705 text messages per month

1 text message every 8 minutes

Introducing….

To Empower Parents To Protect Their Children From The Dangerous Cellular And Online Worlds Through Our Advanced Parental Intelligence System.

Our Mission

At the top of the Activity tab, you will see several quick facts such as the number of active contacts your child has online and how often your child

posts and texts.

You will get a glance at what activities are taking place, right now, in a view that in fairly similar to a

phone bill.

If your child has a Blackberry or an Android mobile phone or they have checked in on Facebook, you will have a glance at his or her last known

location.The Activity tab also shows you the most recent pictures your child has posted online and the most recent photos your child’s friends have posted of

your child.

Easily digest when your child and his or her contacts are communicating with each other by

hour.

You can view your child’s top contacts by rank and see whether he or she is trending up or down as well as what percentage of all digital communications he or she accounts for with

your child.

You can see exactly how many times your child and his or her top contacts are interacting with each

other.

And on the Activity tab, you will be answer other fundamental questions like, “Who is ‘Friending’ my child on the social networking sites, where are they from and are they of an

appropriate age?”

Once you have created your account and signed in, you will see a high level overview of what’s happening online and on the mobile phone.

Since so much data is coming into the system, you may

want to whittle it down using filters. You can filter by

child…… by time…

… or by the type of activity such as text messages or Facebook direct

messages or a combination of activity types.

You may want to filter the data to reflect only certain types of contacts. From a contact record, you can create customized contact groups by “tagging” contacts as “family” or “football

team” or any other type of grouping you can think of.The pictures that appear in the dashboard can be filtered so that only new pictures are displayed or only

those pictures that were posted of your child by another person.

You can also filter the data to show only those messages that are associated with some sort of potentially risk behavior or person. We call these, “Notifications”.

Notifications are messages that may involve references to bullying, sexting, suspicious people or activities or any number of other potential issues you would want to be

made aware of.

Once you have adjusted your filters, don’t forget to click the “Update” button to refresh

the data.

On the Live Feed tab, you can view specific messages including the date and time, the type, the

contact involved in the communication and easily see if there is a Notification associated with the

message.

By clicking on the small “Full Exchange” tab associated with a message, you can see any back and forth communication taking place

between your child and the contact and get more details about a specific Notification.

Let’s check out the Images tab.

In this example, you can see that the reason the system created a Notification is that someone over 18 years old is communicating with the demo child.

On the Images tab you can click the small “View Details” tab associated with any picture to view a larger version of a picture and to get more

information such as who is tagged in the photo and who posted it online.

If your child uses Facebook to check-in his or her location or uses a Blackberry or Android

mobile phone with GPS capabilities, his or her last

known location will appear on the Family Map.

If your child uses any other mobile phone, he or she can be located using an optional, network-based check-in feature that will be available in early

2012.

Clicking the PanoRama Map view provides you with an detailed view of your child’s last known location.

Using the controls, you can even spin

the PanoRama View so that you can see a 360 degree view of your child’s last known location.

We obviously haven’t reviewed every feature of the service but if you need help or have a questions, you can get the information you need from the

Community tab.

P911 = Parent AlertEducate yourself :Know what’s happening online, where they go and what they do online. Learn the dangers; understand how they occur, the warning signs, and the consequences

Communicate with your kids:Explain the dangers. Tell them to come to you whenever they accidentally see inappropriate Content, receive a request from a stranger or feel threatened by a bully.

Review basic online safety rules:Avoid posting photos online, giving out personal info, “checking-in”, geo tagging etc. For older kids remind them that everything online is permanent. Tell them to think before clicking

Set a good example:Try to set a good example by limiting the time you spend on social networks

Know their friends:For younger children, their friends should be friends that you know in real life. For teens have them explain how they know them

Questions…