BUILDING RESILIENCE WHEN WORKING IN END OF LIFE CARE

Breffni Mc Guinness Innovation and Excellence:

End of Life Care in

Residential Care Settings

Tullamore 20 Oct 2016

Building resilience

• What is one thing that you would like to leave with from

today’s session?

Resilience in end of life care is…

https://youtu.be/mDTph7mer3I

Both Organisational

And Personal

Working in End of Life Care in Residential

Care Settings

• What do you like about your job?

• What do you not like?

The End of Life Care Workplace – and Grief

• 2 areas to consider

1. Grief occurring in your personal life

Death of loved one

/partner/parent/miscarriage etc.

2. Grief as a result of the nature of your work – :

• Residents who die

• Dealing with families/ relatives who are grieving

• Multiple deaths

The impact of grief on staff

• Different types of organisations where grief and loss are more common

1. Primary focus – e.g. hospice, funeral director

2. Secondary focus – Health care settings / emergency services

3. Periodic focus – all other orgnaisations

• Grief will be a part of every organisation at some point

• Grief related to work /non-work

• Grief related to death / non-death losses

Dual process model of coping with

significant loss

Loss oriented

grief work

Intrusion of grief

Breaking bonds/ties

relocation

of deceased person

Restoration-oriented

Attending to life changes

Doing new things

Distraction from grief

Denial/avoidance of grief

New roles/identities/

relationships

Resilience

Difficulties for health professionals

• Difficulties occur in the grieving process when there is a

persistent lack of fluctuation between experiencing and

repressing one’s grief. Under such circumstances health

providers are either totally overwhelmed by the experience or

they systematically repress it. In both situations there is a

persevering sense of immobilisation or ‘stuckness’ which has

a disabling effect upon the functioning of the care provider.

(Papadatou 2000)

A model for dealing with grief in the workplace (adapted from

Papadatou (2000))

Detachment

from grief

Engagement

with grief

2. Workplace culture and Norms

3. Personal beliefs and values of employee

Workplace

Resilience

Balancing engagement and detachment in caregiving -

Carmack

• Having the potential to make a difference to the life of the person you are caring for while at the same time letting go of the need to control the outcome

• Doing what I can do now for the person in the way that “they” want

• Learning that I cannot fix people or situations

• I may not be able to change what is happening but I can be part of it

• I do not have to take on the problems of the people I am helping

• Accepting the limits of what I can do and focus on the things that I can change or control

What does resilience mean to you?

• A resilient Residential Care Centre is……

• A resilient person is…..

Why does resilience matter?

• Working in EOLC in RCCs is worthwhile but also tough. You

are encountering dying, death and grief on a regular basis.

This makes demands on you as a member of staff. If death

and grief arise in the workplace – it needs to be dealt with in

the workplace.

• The scale of the current challenges within healthcare or large

organisations means that developing resilience is even more

important that ever before for staff and organisations

particularly working in the community sector.

More on resilience

Resilience is the ability to roll with the punches.

When stress, adversity or trauma strikes, you still experience anger, grief and pain, but you're able to keep functioning — both physically and psychologically.

Resilience isn't about toughing it out, being stoic or going it alone. In fact, being able to reach out to others for support

is a key component of being resilient.

How do we do this?

What helps – to develop resilience?

1. Understanding the dynamics of grief in the EOLC

workplace

2. Organisational care - creating a supportive workplace

environment for staff around death and dying

3. Self-care - taking care of ourselves around grief and loss

Organisational Care

• Creating a supportive workplace atmosphere to help staff work with grief – CEOL Review Workshop–

• This workshop has two aims;

• Firstly to allow the group to identify areas where good practice was present, any areas where change is needed, and to offer staff the time and space to grieve the loss of these residents in a supportive and learning environment.

• Secondly, the workshop is an opportunity for staff to learn experientially how to conduct a review after death.

More organisational care

• Medland et al (2004) re the impact of burnout on oncology nurses, highlighted the value of normalizing the experience of work-related grief and bereavement in helping nurses to cope with the demands of the job.

• The Schwartz Center Rounds (2010) system which provides “… a unique forum to explore and process the non-medical dimensions of patient care”.

• http://www.theschwartzcenter.org/supporting-caregivers/schwartz-center-rounds/

Self-Care

As someone working in EOLC in a residential

care setting with people who are facing or

dealing with significant losses

You are not immune to grief

You need to be aware of your own approach to loss

You need a safe place to process your own feelings

You need to be supported in this work

Self-care for those working in EOLC with people who are

facing and dealing with significant losses

• Acknowledging that this is hard work • Worthwhile , but hard at times

• Balance in your life processing grief – doing job • Fun, exercise, other interests • Creativity

• Containment • Self reflection – rituals and practice for letting go

• Debrief • With colleagues / supervision

• Clarity of role, expectations and limitations • If I cannot care for myself I have no right to offer care to

others!

Where do I start?

Do you:

• take breaks

• Eat Lunch

• Hydrate your body

• Go to the toilet

• Come to work sick

• Take your holidays

• If we are not getting the basics right there will be a

cost/impact

Caring for oneself

• Take time for yourself- Press the pause button!

• Be compassionate with yourself

• Acknowledge your feelings

• Allow yourself to grieve

• Give yourself little treats – whatever works for you – e.g.

• a warm bath

• A walk with a friend

• A coffee

• Ask for and accept support

• Communicate effectively and honestly

• Balance different aspects of your life

Balance different aspects of your life

From Trevor Powell – The Mental Health Handbook - 2008

• Just as understanding and identifying the levels of grief we live with helps us to manage them in healthier more helpful ways; so also understanding and identifying how to comfort ourselves, take care of ourselves, helps us to manage to do this better as well.

• If we are to grow and develop and thrive in end of life care, we need to understand and work on our grief issues at a variety of levels. We also need to diligently work on comforting ourselves- on caring for ourselves – each and every day.

Tiller, E. (2006). "Challenges and gifts of professional caregiving." Maryland Nurse 8(1): 23-

23.

Common Sense is not so common anymore…

• Resilience can be learned and developed

• Resilience is both organisational and personal

• Resilience comes from:

1. Developing a supportive EOLC workplace culture

2. Taking care of yourself

3. Optimism and perspective

4. Using your strengths

5. Reaching out and helping others

6. Building positivity

Summary

• Working in EOLC with people who are facing and dealing with significant losses is difficult

• Staying healthy in this work involves both organisational and self – care

• Self-care involves being aware of why one is doing this work – the benefits and drawbacks

• Creativity / balance and fun are important elements of self-care

• Be open minded about ways of caring for yourself – be prepared to try new things

• ‘‘I’ve been touched by the smallest gestures — a squeeze of

the hand, a gentle touch, a reassuring word. In some ways

these quiet acts of humanity have felt more healing than the

radiation and chemotherapy that hold the hope of a cure.’’

Kenneth B. Schwartz

One old man’s advice to a young person

whose friend died….

The same man’s view of grief…..

References

• Carmack, B., 1996, Balancing Engagement and Detachment in Caregiving, Journal of

Nursing Scholarship, Vol. 29, Issue 2, Pages 139 - 143 • Charles-Edwards,D,2005 – Managing Death and Bereavement at Work London:

Routledge • Eyetsemitan, F., 1998, Stifled Grief in the Workplace, in Death Studies, 22: 469-479 • Lattanzi-Licht, M, 2002 Grief and the Workplace: Positive Approaches, In K. J. Doka (Ed),

Disenfranchised Grief: New Directions, Challenges, and Strategies for Practice, USA:Research Press

• Mc Guinness, B., 2007 – Grief at Work – A Resource for Developing a Bereavement Policy, Dublin: Irish Hospice Foundation

• Papadatou, D., 2000, A Proposed Model of Health Professionals’ Grieving Process, in Omega:The journal of death and dying, 41, 59-77.

• Simpson, J. (2013). "Grief and Loss: A Social Work Perspective." Journal of Loss & Trauma 18: 81-90.

• Stein, J. J., and Winokuer, R. (1989). Monday Mourning: Managing employee grief. In K. J. Doka (Ed), Disenfranchised grief: Recognising hidden sorrow. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books

• Thompson, N., 2009, Loss, Grief and Trauma in the Workplace, New York: Baywood Publishing.