To Build

BRIDGESyou need Tools…

What do you believe causes some Bridges of FRIENDSHIP to crumble?

In todays modern world human beings need power toolsto Build Bridges of FRIENDSHIP…

What do you believe these power tools would look like?

FRIENDSHIP BRIDGE BUILDINGPOWER TOOL

NAME 5x THINGS YOU HAVE CHOSEN TO DO

TODAY SINCE WAKING UPTHIS MORNING?

Your best friend told others a secret you had only shared with them.

Would this action make you upset?

Does anyone else have the power to make you do anything you don’t choose to do?

Do you have a choice in how you feel?

# Nobody can make us do anything we do not want to do.

# As children we choose to please others.

# As adolescents awaken into consciousness they learn to choose to please themselves.

# When the adolescent matures into its early adult stagethey begin to make choices that include others.

# Every second of ever day we are all making choicesif we are conscious of them or operating out ofauto pilot thinking.

• What actions Build Bridges of Friendship?

• What actions or words smash Bridges of Friendship down?

• Name the POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have just learned about?

• Are other peoples actions able to make us do anything?

• What are some choices you have made today?

• Do you choose how you feel inside or are others responsible for how you feel?

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Everything in the entire known universehas boundaries.

What are other words that mean boundaries?

What kind of boundaries do we need when Building Bridges of Friendship?

HEALTHY WISHY WASHY RIGID

CREATING HEALTHY

BOUNDARIES

• What actions Build Bridges of Friendship?

• What actions or words smash Bridges of Friendship down?

• Name the POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have just learned about?

• What is another POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we learned about previously?

• Name different kinds of boundaries?

• Describe how the Boundary Castle model works?

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Through this power of speech we can learn to negotiate,

consult with each other and come up with agreements

that become the ground we Build Bridges of FRIENDSHIP on.

The ground to Build Bridges of FRIENDSHIP on is created by focusing on what we have in COMMON not

on what makes us different.

the words we speak

Human beings have this amazing power to speak their individual thoughts,

feelings, ideas, needs and wants to each other.

No other part of the known Universe can do this to the level that human beings can learn to do.

But we all need to be tort how to develop this amazing skill from birth.

WORDS What are some

words that would build bridges of friendship ?

What are some words that would smash bridges of friendship?

ACTIONS What are some

actions that would build bridges of friendship ?

What are some actions that would smash bridges of friendship?

Number these

in order of importance

to understand what

other people are saying;

Words spoken?

Tone of voice?

Body language?

Words

Tone

Tone

Body Language

Body Language

Body Language

Body Language

Your actions will always speak loader than your words…

• Name the POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have just learned about?

• What are the 3x parts to speech?

• What actions or words smash Bridges of Friendship down?

• What are other POWER TOOLS for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have learned about previously?

• Do your words speak louder than your actions?

• What are some words that would Build Bridges of FRIENDSHIP?

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…when we know we can trust someone over time we know they are…

What actions lead you to being trustworthy?

What actions smash trust and bring down your Bridges of FRIENDSHIP?

Is this action Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP or smashing them down?

Conflict occurs because we focus

on our differences

and not on what we have

in common.

• Name the POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have just learned about?

• Do we build trust in others just by what they say?

• What actions lead you to being trustworthy?

• How does trust Build Bridges of Friendship?

• What are other POWER TOOLS for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have learned about previously?

• What actions smash trust and bring down your Bridges of FRIENDSHIP?

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Justice is when actions of strong and smart

choices get REWARDED…

…and actions of weak or dangerous choices get PUNISHED.

PEACE AT ALL COST IS NOT JUSTICE

Which of these actions reflect Justice

and what kind of reward would you give?

• Name the POWER TOOL for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have just learned about?

• Is peace at all cost justice?

• Is rewarding strong and smart choices Justice?

• How does justice Build Bridges of Friendship?

• What are other POWER TOOLS for Building Bridges of FRIENDSHIP we have learned about previously?

• What actions smash justice and bring down your Bridges of FRIENDSHIP?

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Do you believe

all you need

to do is think something

and it is done?

You will be tested all day long

while you attempt to put what you believe

and know is important into action

and one of the POWER TOOLS

you will need to use to attain success is…

? X EFFORT= SUCCESS

You have to aim higher than your target to reach your

goal…

• What actions Build Bridges of Friendship?

• Just by thinking something means it’s done?

• What is the ground that Bridges of Friendship are built on made from?

• Name the 6x POWER TOOLS for Friendship Bridge Building we have been learning about?

• Is peace at all cost Justice?

• Of the 3x ways of Speech what speaks the loudest?

• What are some actions or words that smash our Bridges of Friendship down?

• What actions show Trustworthiness?

• Why do we need to apply effort?