Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus

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Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus Sue Bohlin Probe Ministries [email protected] Suebohlin.com

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Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From Venus. Sue Bohlin Probe Ministries [email protected] Suebohlin.com. Not All Kids Are the Same. Active,athletic. Sensitive, creative. Tomboy, jockette. Girly-girl. Sense of self: achievement Have to have something to do Self-reliant - PowerPoint PPT Presentation

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Boys Are from Mars, Girls Are From VenusSue BohlinProbe [email protected]

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Not All Kids Are the Same

Active,athletic

Sensitive, creative

Girly-girl

Tomboy, jockette

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Boys Girls• Sense of self:

achievement• Have to have

something to do

• Self-reliant• Ask for help =

weakness

• Sense of self: relationships

• Relationally-oriented

• Connected to others

• Ask for help = compliment

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Boys Girls

Competitive

Cooperative

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Boys Girls

Linear: focus on one thing at a time

Compartmentalized (like a chest of drawers)

Multi-taskers: juggle many little things at once

Connected (like a ball of yarn)

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Boys Girls• Action-

oriented

• Hostility: physical

• Verbal

• Hostility: verbal

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Boys Girls

Need a goal Enjoy the process

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Boys Girls

Bond shoulder to shoulder

Bond face to face

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GirlsEmpathy

nurturers:• Relating to and

understanding others’ feelings

• Compassion• Softness• Tenderness• Comfort

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Boys Aggression

nurturers:• Physically

aggressive touch and words

• Challenging• Competition• “You’re OK,

get up”

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Boys Girls• Primarily needs

respect Trust,

acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement

• Needs to be needed.

• Primarily needs cherishing Tender care,

understanding, respect, devotion, validation, reassurance

• Needs to be protected.