Bonnie Benard: Keynote at 2009 Urban Sites Network Conference

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What’s Resilience Got To What’s Resilience Got To Do With It? Do With It? Helping Our Students See Helping Our Students See Their Lives in New Ways Their Lives in New Ways National Writing Project Urban Sites Network Conference Louisville, KY April 25, 2009 Bonnie Benard WestEd - Oakland, CA [email protected]

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Bonnie Benard discusses the role that schools and communities play in supporting the biological drive for normal human development and triumphing over adversity: resiliency. Benard works to help schools and communities create supportive environments that nurture adolescents' healthy development and life success. Benard has been a senior program associate at WestEd for twenty-five years. Over the past fifteen years, she has been promoting resiliency through research and has directly affected national policy through her input to the Office of Safe and Drug Free Schools and to the No Child Left Behind Act.

Transcript of Bonnie Benard: Keynote at 2009 Urban Sites Network Conference

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What’s Resilience Got To Do What’s Resilience Got To Do With It? With It?

Helping Our Students See Helping Our Students See Their Lives in New WaysTheir Lives in New Ways

National Writing ProjectUrban Sites Network Conference

Louisville, KYApril 25, 2009

Bonnie Benard WestEd - Oakland, [email protected]

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Healthy Development of Healthy Development of the Whole Childthe Whole Child

If stakeholders believe schools are responsible for developing the whole child, what needs to change?

If decisions about programs started with “What works for the child?” how would resources - time, space, and human - be arrayed to ensure each child’s success?

What would happen if community resources were arrayed in support of children reaching their potential as young adults?

If students were truly at the center of the system, what could be achieved?

Gene CarterASCD Commission on the Whole Child,

2006

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Paradigms for Prevention & Paradigms for Prevention & EducationEducation

(Many research/programmatic approaches focus on ‘at-riskness’)(Many research/programmatic approaches focus on ‘at-riskness’) Risk

Unit of Change Individual

Focus Deficits

Goal Problem prevention

Attitude toward youth Youth-as-Problems

Attitude toward diversity Eurocentric

Attitude toward learning Mechanistic

Strategies emphasize Program and content

Locus of control External

Philosophy Control

Whose needs are met? Bureaucracies

Bonnie Benard

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Resilience ResearchResilience Research(Take a different approach; look instead at…)(Take a different approach; look instead at…)

How children and youth have transformed risk and adversity into healthy development and life success.

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ResilienceResilience

The transformative power we have The transformative power we have to see ourselves, our lives, and to see ourselves, our lives, and

others in a new way.others in a new way.

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Stories of Stories of Resilience…Resilience…

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Major Messages from Major Messages from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

Most people do Most people do make it despite make it despite exposure to risk exposure to risk & adversity. & adversity.

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50 Years of Resilience 50 Years of Resilience Research Tells Us Research Tells Us

That:That:…When the focus is on supporting & empowering young people, over 70% of young people in the most challenging of life’s conditions not only survive but grow into thriving adults.

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Findings from Findings from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

RISK OUTCOME“Our findings and those by other American and European investigators with a life-span perspective suggest that these buffers (protective factors) make a more profound impact on the life course of children who grow up under adverse conditions than do specific risk factors or stressful life events. They appear to transcend ethnic, social class, geographical and historical boundaries.”

BEHAVIOR CAPACITY“Most of all, they offer us a more optimistic outlook than the perspective that can be gleaned from the literature on the negative consequences of perinatal trauma, care-giving deficits, and chronic poverty. They provide us with a corrective lens--an awareness of the self-righting tendencies that move children toward normal adult development under all but the most persistent adverse circumstances.”

-Emmy Werner & Ruth Smith

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Major Messages from Major Messages from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

All people have All people have a resilient a resilient nature. nature.

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Resilience is our own human Resilience is our own human capacity to transform & capacity to transform &

change.change.Robert J. Lifton

The Protean Self: Human Resilience in an Age of Transformation

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Power

Safety Respect

MasteryMeaning

Love/Belonging

“Fundamental protective human adaptational systems” -Masten & Reed, 2002

Resilience as developmental wisdom in form of intrinsically motivated developmental needs.

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Personal Resilience Personal Resilience Strengths: Strengths:

What Resilience Looks LikeWhat Resilience Looks LikeSOCIAL

Social Competence

- Responsiveness

- Communication

- Empathy/caring

- Compassion

- Altruism

- Forgiveness

EMOTIONAL

Autonomy- Positive Identity- Internal locus of control

- Self-efficacy/mastery- Initiative- Humor- Self-awareness- Resistance- Adaptive distancing

MORAL/SPIRITUAL

Sense of Purpose & Future

-A special interest/hobby- Goal directedness

-Imagination/creativity- Achievement motivation

- Educational aspiration- Persistence

- Optimism/hope- Faith

- Sense of Meaning

COGNITIVE

Problem-solving

- Planning

- Flexibility

- Critical thinking/insight

- Resourcefulness

Bonnie Benard Resiliency: What We Have Learned,

2004

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Major Messages from Major Messages from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

People matter! People matter!

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You Matter!You Matter!

“Kids can walk around trouble if there is someplace to walk to, and someone to walk with.”

Tito in Urban Sanctuaries

(Milbrey, McLaughlin et. al)

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Major Messages from Major Messages from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

It’s HOW we do It’s HOW we do what we do that what we do that counts. counts.

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Protective Factors Critical to Healthy Protective Factors Critical to Healthy Development & Life SuccessDevelopment & Life Success

CARINGCARINGRELATIONSHIPSRELATIONSHIPS

HIGH HIGH EXPECTATIONEXPECTATION

MESSAGESMESSAGESOPPORTUNITIES FOROPPORTUNITIES FOR

MEANINGFUL MEANINGFUL PARTICIPATIONPARTICIPATION

& CONTRIBUTION& CONTRIBUTION

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Protective Factors Critical to Protective Factors Critical to Healthy Development & Life Healthy Development & Life

SuccessSuccessCARINGCARING

RELATIONSHIPSRELATIONSHIPS

“Being there”Models caring

Showing interest inGetting to know

CompassionListening/Dialogue

PatienceBasic trust/safe

HIGH HIGH EXPECTATIONSEXPECTATIONS

Belief in people’s

resilienceRespect & confirmation

Challenge & supportFirm guidance

Structure/ritualsStrengths-focused

Reframing “the story”Teaches personal

resilience

MEANINGFUL MEANINGFUL PARTICIPATIONPARTICIPATION

Safe placesInclusion

Responsibility/voice & choice

Participant-drivenExperiential skill

developmentCreative expression

ContributionCaring for others

Peer support

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The Power of ListeningThe Power of Listening“I believe all any of us really wants is to feel truly and deeply heard, seen, acknowledged, and allowed to be ourselves… Maybe if we just practiced listening more, we’d better understand what a profound and empowering gift this simple act can be.”

Jon WilsonHope Magazine (#40), 2003

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Power of Sharing Our Power of Sharing Our StoriesStories

“Hidden in all stories is the One story. The more we listen, the clearer that Story

becomes. Our true identity, who we are, why we are here, what sustains us, is in

this story… In telling them, we are telling each other the human story. Stories that

touch us in this place of common humanness awaken us and weave us

together as a family once again.”

-Rachel Naomi Remen, Kitchen Table Wisdom, 1996

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Turning Pain Into PowerTurning Pain Into Power

“By structuring a curriculum that allows room for students’ lives and by listening to their stories, I can locate the right

book, the right poem that turns pain into power.”

Linda Christensen, Rethinking Schools, Spring 2009

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Major Messages from Major Messages from Resilience ResearchResilience Research

The process of The process of tapping resilience tapping resilience begins with the begins with the belief of belief of caregivers in caregivers in human resilience.human resilience.

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Reframing: Risk to Reframing: Risk to ResilienceResilience

DEFICITS STRENGTHS

Hyperactive __________

Impulsive __________

Stubborn __________

Willful __________

Tests Limits __________

Explosive __________

Defiant __________

Angry __________

Withdrawn __________

Aggressive __________

Victim __________

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Our Resilience:Our Resilience:The Power We Have to See in a New The Power We Have to See in a New

WayWay

“We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: The last of his freedoms--to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”

-Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning

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Teaching Personal Teaching Personal Resilience Means Resilience Means

Challenging the 4 P’s*Challenging the 4 P’s*

Personal “This isn’t your fault.”

Pervasive “There are good things.”

Permanent “This too, shall pass.”

Prompt “Have patience and trust the process.”

*Adapted from Martin Seligman,Learned Optimism

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Paradigms for Prevention & Paradigms for Prevention & EducationEducation

Risk Resilience

Unit of Change Individual Environment

Focus Deficits Assets and Strengths

Goal Problem prevention Healthy development

Attitude toward youth Youth-as-Problems Youth-as-Resource

Attitude toward diversity Eurocentric Multicultural

Attitude toward learning Mechanistic Constructivist

Strategies emphasize Program and content People and Place

Locus of control External Internal

Philosophy Control Connectedness

Whose needs are met? Bureaucracies Young peoples’

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Resilience in action…Resilience in action…

Staff NeedsSafety

Love/BelongingRespectPower

MasteryMeaning

Shared VisionBelief In

Human Resilience

…begins with a Professional Learning Community

Staff ResilienceEmpathyHumor

Problem SolvingSelf-Efficacy

Purpose/Hope

OPCRCR

OP

OPOP

OP

CRCR

CR

HEHE

HEHE

Staff Learning

Community

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“A shared vision is a force in people’s hearts. Few, if any, forces in human affairs are as powerful as shared vision.”

- Peter Senge The Fifth Discipline, 1990

Turning to One AnotherTurning to One Another

“There is no power greater than a community discovering what it cares about.” - Margaret Wheatley, 2002