Birth Order A Theory proposed by Psychologist Alfred Adler.
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Birth Order
A Theory proposed by
Psychologist Alfred Adler
How much of your personality is determined by when you were born into your family?
Birth Order
The majority of your personality is shaped by the time you turn five years old. How you interact with others How you see yourself
First Born (general traits)
Reliable Mature – adult like (too soon) Scholarly – does well in school Leader - serious Perfectionist – critical of self,
activities and others Organized –list maker
First born babies have drive
Second Born (general traits)
Dethrones the first born Needs to figure out how to get attention Finds place in family usually doing the
opposite of the first born Negotiator, diplomatic and friendly Competes and fights with the first born Receives all of the first born’s hand-offs
Middle Child (general traits)
Noted for its Contradictions Feels upstaged by both older and younger siblings
and generally feels left out. Most diverse and hardest child to predict Tends to be independent. Generally thought to
be a “Maverick” Compromiser and mediator ability to make peace
with others Quieter, shy and avoids conflict Great sense of justice Friends and peers are extremely important Very loyal
Middle Child Cont.
Fewest things Fewest pictures taken Not daunted by challenges, must
elbow its way through in family situations
Invisible
Last Born (general traits)
Precocious Engaging and charming Inconsistently treated spoiled and
neglected Protected by older siblings Tends to blame others Walks faster, talks sooner, shows off more Not as self-reliant Gets others to do things for them
Only Child(or child born after a 5 year interval)
Tends to be a blend of the first born and last born
Treated as special Self-reliant and adult like No competition Perfectionist
Special Only
Special because of their gender Receives all gender related perks
Special because of how they were born
Blended Family
Birth order remains consistent Pairing up with sibling of same
position for a natural competition Younger position tend to be more
loving and accepting Older take longer to jockey for
position and adjust
Parenting
Birth Order and Parents
Their place in the family influences how they parent
What type of mate they are
Resources & Contributors
Carol Smith Theorist psychologist Alfred Adler
and Rudolph Dreikurs Kevin Leman author of Birth Order