Biblical Parenting
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Biblical parenting
NATURE NURTURE
Seven Principles of Biblical Parenting
Look out for Number One
Who’s Number One?Who’s Number One?
Yourself?Yourself?Children ?Children ? Husband or Wife ?Husband or Wife ? Job?Job? Mother in law?Mother in law? God ?God ?
Who’s Number One?Who’s Number One?
Numbers 2:2, 17-34
Tent of Meeting
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Levi
Dan, Asher, Napthali
Rueben, Simeon, Gad
Ephraim
Manasseh
Benjamin
Judah
Issachar
Zebulun
Be a lover
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:33(NIV)
Don’t be Superman or Superwoman…
Don’t be Superman or Superwoman…Be an Empowerer
Psalm 33:16-19
No king is saved by the size of his army; no warrior escapes by his great
strength.A horse is a vain hope for deliverance; despite all its great strength it cannot
save. But the eyes of the LORD are on those who fear him, on those whose hope is in his unfailing love, to deliver them from death and keep them alive in
famine. We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and our shield.
Developing Self-EsteemDeveloping Self-Esteem Unconditional love and Unconditional love and
acceptance from acceptance from parentsparents
Affirmation and praisesAffirmation and praises Relationship to maturityRelationship to maturity Empowerment to competenceEmpowerment to competence Stepwise competence Stepwise competence
building appropriate building appropriate to age and to age and development level.development level.
Letting goLetting go
Show no favouritism
Teach the true value of wealth
Matthew 6:33
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things
will be given to you as well.
Set boundaries
Set boundaries for activities at home and
outside
PR 29:15 The rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother.
PR 29:16 When the wicked thrive, so does sin, but the righteous will see their downfall.
PR 29:17 Discipline your son, and he will give you peace; he will bring delight to your soul.
PR 29:18 Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; but blessed is he who keeps the law.
Developing DisciplineDeveloping Discipline
Both parents must decide beforehand Both parents must decide beforehand the limits of acceptable behaviour.the limits of acceptable behaviour.
All others (grandparents, aunties, All others (grandparents, aunties, uncles) must abide by these limits.uncles) must abide by these limits.
Limits or rules must be consistent.Limits or rules must be consistent. Emphasis the positive rather than the Emphasis the positive rather than the
negative.negative. Child encouraged to take responsibility.Child encouraged to take responsibility. Authority and controlAuthority and control Sensitive to age and developmental Sensitive to age and developmental
levellevel
Be a Supermodel
Deuteronomy 11:18
Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your
hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your
children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along
the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the
doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be many in the land
that the LORD swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that
the heavens are above the earth.
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1.1. Look out for Number One.Look out for Number One.
2.2. Be a LoverBe a Lover
3.3. Be an EmpowererBe an Empowerer
4.4. Show no FavoritismShow no Favoritism
5.5. Teach the True Value of Teach the True Value of WealthWealth
6.6. Set BoundariesSet Boundaries
7.7. Be a Supermodel.Be a Supermodel.
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Where does the power come from?
The Power for Biblical The Power for Biblical ParentingParenting
LoveLove PrayerPrayer FaithFaith The TrinityThe Trinity
Lord, I find the genealogy of my Savior strangely checkered with four remarkable changes in four generations.
Thomas Fuller (1608-Thomas Fuller (1608-1661)1661)
Rehoboam begat Abia: a bad father begat a bad son.Abia begat Asa: a bad father and a good son.Asa begat Jehoshaphat: a good father and a good son.Jehoshaphat began Joram: a good father and a bad son.
Thomas Fuller (1608-Thomas Fuller (1608-1661)1661)
I see, Lord, from hence,that my father's piety cannot be entailed; that is bad news for me.But I see alsothat actual impiety is not hereditary; that is good news for my son.
Thomas Fuller (1608-Thomas Fuller (1608-1661)1661)